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Virgin Island Season 1 Episode 6

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00:00At this radical retreat, intimacy experts are offering a very hands-on solution.
00:06She's a miracle worker.
00:08Woo-hoo!
00:09Like that? I like that.
00:11To help Britain's virgins...
00:14..lose the one thing...
00:16Don't make me nervous.
00:17..they feel is holding them back.
00:19I want to lose my virginity.
00:21It's now or never.
00:23But when the moment arrives...
00:26Would you like to move to bed?
00:28..who will be ready...
00:31I just don't want anyone to touch me.
00:33..to go all...
00:35..the way.
00:37Yes.
00:48The last few days on Virgin Island have brought firsts for many.
00:52I think I managed to achieve my first orgasm ever.
00:57While Charlotte bared all...
00:59How does it feel?
01:00It's refreshing.
01:01..Ben has been held back by his fear of nudity.
01:04I'm basically, like, pretty dressable in all of you put together.
01:07I like clothes.
01:08Clothes are a work of civilisation.
01:10Zak's impatience led to a rift...
01:13There's nothing I desire from you.
01:16OK, that's enough for today.
01:18..but reconciliation led him to opening up like never before.
01:22I want to be more vulnerable.
01:24I want to share that with you.
01:27Dave continued to progress...
01:31I had a little orgasm.
01:33..and his aim is clear.
01:35I would like to be in virginity.
01:37Yay!
01:39As the final phase begins...
01:41Watch at me.
01:42..time is running out for the group to get the most out of the course.
01:46We invited 12 virgins onto this island
01:48to help them explore the concept of virginity.
01:51They found out who they are, what they want.
01:54Don't be intimidated, even though there's a bed.
01:57Uh...
01:58Now it's an opportunity to self-reflect
02:01about what they want to do sexually at the retreat.
02:14Good morning. Another beautiful day at virgin camp.
02:19It's a penultimate day on Virgin Island.
02:22Are you going to miss me? Are you going to sob?
02:24Jason, I miss you.
02:26I will miss your jokes.
02:29Obviously, this is the last two days,
02:31so we're going to be getting into the really big stuff, aren't we?
02:35I can't even guess what they're going to do. Oh, God.
02:38This final phase, it's a way for them to kind of celebrate
02:43their sexual power and all the learning they have done so far.
02:47For each member of the group to achieve their individual goals,
02:51Celeste and Danielle want to keep up the intensity.
02:55Escalation. What does that mean?
02:57It means taking it to the next level.
03:00Scary? Yeah.
03:03Let's go.
03:05It's all those escalate things.
03:07The final group workshop...
03:09Welcome. Hi, everybody.
03:12..will test exactly how far the virgins have come
03:16and how far they're willing to go.
03:21This is it, our final workshop.
03:24And this phase is all about escalation.
03:28And you're just like, what? Didn't we escalate enough?
03:32So, on the first day that we came in,
03:36Andre demonstrated on Danielle
03:38an exercise called Up Against the Wall.
03:42In the first workshop, they were terrified.
03:49We were actually worried that we overwhelmed them so much
03:52that they won't be able to continue.
03:57Now, Celeste and Danielle want them to finally conquer their fears.
04:02It's your turn to bring all of these tools together.
04:06Who wants to try it?
04:09Oh, I saw that.
04:14I'm quite scared around...
04:17..sex and what it really is.
04:20I want to be more comfortable in my skin
04:22so that I can live my life to the fullest, you know?
04:25Just when you're ready, nod and I'll come to you.
04:28He arrived as one of the quietest in the group,
04:31but now it's time for Daniel to take on the challenge.
04:35Ready? Yeah.
04:45Oh, yes.
04:47Oh, not, like, between my legs.
04:52Oh.
04:55Oh.
04:58Oh.
05:01Oh.
05:03Oh.
05:06It's so good.
05:08CHEERING
05:12Inspired by Dave...
05:15We're doing it together.
05:17..some of the others show off their sexy skills.
05:25Oh, yeah.
05:27But Ben needs a little warm-up.
05:33Yeah, nice and hard.
05:35Yeah.
05:36A bit harder.
05:38Mm. Great.
05:46APPLAUSE
05:48Last up...
05:49Are you pushing or being pushed?
05:51I'll push. Sweet.
05:5323-year-old dog groomer Holly.
06:00A lot of different experiences in my life
06:02have knocked me down a little bit.
06:07I pretty much got bullied throughout most of high school
06:11because I was the quiet kid, so I became quite withdrawn.
06:15I wish I could just leave the house
06:17and not care what other people think and just be the real me.
06:22It feels good.
06:24It feels so good.
06:26APPLAUSE
06:31Can you take a moment? Could you believe yourselves?
06:35Talking about before and after.
06:38What is happening here?
06:44Being, like, doing the pushing, it's fun.
06:47Can I push you, Ben?
06:49After the final workshop, some of the students...
06:52Ben, I'm going to walk to you.
06:54You put your hand on him, push him up.
06:56That's it, yeah.
06:57Pull him close, pull him close with that hand.
06:59..have become the teachers.
07:01Do you want to do an advanced wall push?
07:03Go on.
07:05LAUGHTER
07:09Hey, Dave.
07:10Hi, Ben.
07:11How are you?
07:12I'm good.
07:13How are you?
07:14I'm good.
07:15Hey, Dave.
07:16Hi, Ben.
07:17How was yours?
07:18I think it was good, yeah.
07:19The neck bit, that was great.
07:21But it's Dave who's probably transformed the most within the group.
07:25I'm more confident.
07:26Like, I'm not going to approach random people
07:28and start pushing up against walls,
07:30but, like, I'm going to try and speak to them a little bit.
07:33Dave, when I think about how he arrived,
07:36just totally inside of himself, you know?
07:39For him to come out to the level that he has is just, like...
07:43Meteoric, yeah.
07:44We've been escalating quite a bit,
07:46and so we're going to do oral today,
07:48but also practising, like, staying connected,
07:51because I think that's something he still struggles with a little bit.
08:03Hi.
08:04How are you?
08:05I'm good.
08:06All righty.
08:08Right this way.
08:10To test Dave's ability to connect...
08:13OK.
08:14..Kat is escalating to the bedroom for the first time.
08:18Don't be intimidated, even though there's a bed.
08:23Er...
08:26It's OK. I'm...
08:29OK.
08:30I'm losing my virginity.
08:33I want to be ready for it, you know?
08:36I've just got to go in and just see what happens.
08:40I just want to return to all my friends and family
08:43and just be a completely different person.
08:47Throughout the course, Dave has shown an interest in oral sex.
08:52You know, I pick her up, take her down on the bed,
08:56and I'd probably do something with oral sex.
08:59I don't know what I'm doing.
09:03OK.
09:05I want to work on staying in connection through transitions
09:09and then practising oral.
09:12How are you feeling about that?
09:15I feel... I feel excited about it.
09:18But I'm overthinking it.
09:20Yeah.
09:21Yeah.
09:22You just trust yourself?
09:24Surrogate partner therapy is working really well for Dave.
09:29Practise moving when you want to.
09:32Come closer.
09:34Practise staying in connection.
09:37It's nice.
09:40Yeah.
09:44But he still worries too much about getting it wrong
09:47and can get really in his head.
09:52One of the biggest things to do
09:54is normalising the experience of sex.
09:58When you feel your body being loved
10:00and then you feel pleasure from that,
10:02it makes all of the external things just not matter as much.
10:10OK.
10:16Is it OK for you to give and receive oral?
10:20Yeah.
10:21Just lie down.
10:26Be gentle at first.
10:32Yeah, that's good.
10:40Yeah.
10:50Are you able to go faster?
11:04It feels so good.
11:10How are you feeling?
11:11I feel good.
11:13Thank you for all this.
11:15You're welcome.
11:18Yeah, it's the first time I've been involved in a proper sexual act.
11:22It feels good.
11:23It's like a weight off my shoulders.
11:26See you tomorrow.
11:27But I feel like there's still further for me to go.
11:32I do think I'm ready now to lose my virginity.
11:35DOORBELL RINGS
11:40Give her a squeeze.
11:41Act like it's my cock.
11:46What's the worst possible option?
11:48Continuing the theme of escalation...
11:51I think licked bum is pretty good.
11:53Licked bum's pretty good.
11:55..the group are playing a game of sexy dice.
11:58It's a game where you have to choose
12:01The group are playing a game of sexy dice.
12:04Kiss her.
12:05Kiss the victim.
12:10Beautiful.
12:14As the virgins get touchy-feely with each other...
12:17Licked bum!
12:19..even Holly, one of the quieter members of the group,
12:22is throwing herself in.
12:24We've been working two weeks for this. Come on.
12:27OK, go.
12:29One, two, three, four, five.
12:33Yay! Well done.
12:36There's something about Holly that has a lot of potential,
12:40but she's still kind of, yeah, hiding.
12:43We need to really understand what's holding her back
12:46in order to help her, like, move forward.
12:50I'm so happy.
12:52I'm going to spend some time with you.
12:55It can feel lonely, just...
12:57When you see, like, all your friends are getting in relationships,
13:00then, like, a big worry of mine is, like, I'm always going to be alone.
13:04Like, I'll never have a family and have that perfect life
13:07that I guess I'm, like, dreaming of.
13:11Let's shake it.
13:13Before Holly leaves the island...
13:15Just soak it in.
13:17Just enjoy the sun.
13:19..Danielle wants to encourage her to feel more confident
13:22and finally come to terms with her true self.
13:28How are you doing? Do you like the activities?
13:31I think they've been tough.
13:33It's bringing up a lot of feelings I didn't know I had.
13:36So it's kind of tough learning that side of myself.
13:39Do you want to share with me a little bit more, like...
13:42I'm not sure I fully understand it myself yet.
13:45And it's just lots of big emotions.
13:47Yeah, in your chest? In your belly?
13:49Kind of both.
13:52After her talk with Danielle...
13:55I'm going to be sad going home, opening my curtains
13:58and seeing the local pub.
14:00Is that what it is when you open your curtains?
14:03Holly seems ready to share her innermost feelings with Viraj.
14:07I don't know.
14:09It's just been intense.
14:11Are you not grateful for it?
14:14Yeah.
14:16A whole lot of things going on in my head.
14:20What do you feel like you've learned from this?
14:24That I might like girls. I do.
14:27Yeah? That's a really big thing, though.
14:30That's a big change, like...
14:32Is that how you feel?
14:34Sometimes I don't know if it's just I connect to people
14:37just on a friendship thing or if it's anything more.
14:40Mm.
14:42I feel like I find it hard to distinguish between the two.
14:46Yeah.
14:48I'm unsure.
14:50Why is it so difficult?
14:54Why can't it just be simple?
14:56Mm.
14:58Feeling a bit overwhelmed.
15:00All these feelings are emerging that I'm unfamiliar with,
15:04so I think I just try to deal with them,
15:07and it's, yeah, a lot to process.
15:10Do you want to do some yoga?
15:12Yeah, but what kind of yoga?
15:14Strip yoga.
15:16I'm already wearing a bikini. I don't know how much more I could strip.
15:24While Holly ponders...
15:26I want you to practise reading my body.
15:29..across the island...
15:32You can touch my ass. It feels really good to me.
15:35You can touch my ass.
15:37..Zach is learning how to stay attuned to Kat.
15:40Maybe I think you might like more.
15:44Kissing? Yeah.
15:46And he's finally getting the results he craves.
16:04Zach has learned a lot about how to show up in relationships,
16:08how to attune to people.
16:10I feel like that's really important for him.
16:15So I feel really confident for Zach going out into the real world.
16:19He's going to enjoy this.
16:21That felt really good, could you tell, in my body?
16:24Yeah. Definitely.
16:26It's been the time of my life being here.
16:29Kat, she has helped me a lot,
16:31and, you know, I'll forever be grateful for that.
16:34It was nice.
16:36I feel close.
16:38I just feel far more prepared for it,
16:40and I feel ready to hopefully...
16:45..be the confident player when I get back, with any luck.
16:53I can't even see what's around. I don't know where everyone is.
16:56Where's Tom? Is he at the water?
16:58Is he still there?
17:00He's still there, look.
17:02He's like a fish.
17:05Whilst at the retreat, Ben has learned to let his guard down,
17:09but there is one fundamental obstacle
17:11standing in the way of losing his virginity.
17:14Oh, God, being naked in front of someone absolutely terrifies me.
17:18I've never been in showers where everyone's naked,
17:21and that would just... Absolutely not.
17:23Even when it's just me in the house, I will not be naked at all.
17:26I'm just that kind of person.
17:28The experts believe that Ben must overcome his fear of nudity
17:31for relationships to flourish back home.
17:34Hello. Hey. Do you want to take your shoes off? Yeah, sure.
17:37Ben needs to relax into his body, into the moment,
17:41and, yeah, come out of his head.
17:44Society makes it very difficult.
17:47He has some ideas about how he should look,
17:50and I think that scares him.
17:53Let's first start, I just want you to put your hands on my hips.
17:56Mm-hm. And I'm going to just move your body a little bit.
17:59Mm-hm.
18:00Joy gets him in the mood to loosen up.
18:03That's really good. Do you feel how connected we are in that?
18:07Quite fluid and less stiff.
18:10Before escalating...
18:12Why don't you take your shirt off?
18:14This shirt or the T-shirt as well?
18:17What do you feel comfortable with?
18:22I would love to feel more confident in myself and how I look.
18:25I don't smile in pictures a lot of the time,
18:27and I think, actually, that's a leftover from school,
18:30cos I got, you know, teased about having chubby cheeks or something.
18:33But ultimately, yeah, it would be nice just to be more confident in myself and how I look.
18:37But unfortunately, that's hard to change.
18:40What I'm going to be doing is touching in a way that feels connecting.
18:46MUSIC PLAYS
18:58Do you want to try it with me? Yeah, sure.
19:04Where would you like to be touched?
19:06I kind of want you to just explore.
19:10But exploring is leading to overthinking.
19:15I don't know what position to go in.
19:17Yeah, it's hard, right?
19:19I don't want to crush you. OK, you won't crush me.
19:22Ben's becoming increasingly awkward.
19:29Can I move you? Yeah.
19:34I'll switch over again, sorry.
19:36And it's stalling his progress.
19:43How do you feel?
19:45I don't know, I just wish I had eight arms, it would be easier.
19:49But joy wants to challenge Ben before time on the island runs out.
19:53So, next time, think about whether you feel comfortable being naked together.
19:59I think, you know, nakedness is, to me, it's a private thing. Yeah.
20:09I mean, obviously, I know the experts,
20:11that they're not sort of judging in that same sort of way anyway,
20:14but it really makes me uncomfortable.
20:17I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it and not be so afraid.
20:22I don't think I'll ever be able to go through with it and not be so afraid.
20:44How do you feel about being the last day?
20:46I'm quite emotional, to be honest. Are you? Yeah, I actually am, yeah.
20:49I'm going to miss everyone.
20:52It may be the final morning on Virgin Island,
20:55but for some, there's unfinished business.
20:58I think I would like to maybe get naked in front of Joy,
21:02because if I can break that barrier,
21:04then it'll be easier when I'm with somebody.
21:06I just want to see where it goes.
21:10I feel like if I do lose my virginity today, it will be a huge step forward.
21:14But I think everyone's nervous about it at the first time.
21:18Morning. Hello. Yeah, I'm grand. How are you? I'm all right, thanks.
21:22Will all good things come to an end? I'll look every single day.
21:25It's been, like, a big process.
21:27It's hard to kind of share, like,
21:30your deepest secrets and struggles with people.
21:38Oh, this might be the last time.
21:41The last day. Let's take the last day.
21:44Overnight, Holly has been doing some thinking.
21:48Hi!
21:50Before coming here, I'd always just say, like, oh, I'm straight.
21:54But, like, coming here, I feel like it's been more clear
21:58that I am bisexual.
22:02And, yeah, I'm proud.
22:04And she's asked Celeste to help her open up to the rest of the group.
22:08I'm going to miss everyone.
22:10Holly has something that she wants to share with all of you.
22:15Something I've struggled with a lot in coming here,
22:18I've kind of had time to think about it
22:20and have the confidence to speak out, is my sexuality.
22:26And I'm bisexual.
22:29CHEERING
22:32Welcome to the club.
22:34CHEERING
22:36Well done, Queen. Smashed it.
22:38Proud of you.
22:39Thank you, guys. That was terrifying.
22:43I definitely would have suppressed it for longer
22:46if I hadn't come here.
22:48So proud of you.
22:52Having all the support in the group, it's...
22:55It's amazing.
22:57Having all the support in the group,
22:59it's given me that confidence to tell it to the world
23:02and I couldn't have done it without them.
23:10I always thought I'd be a great dominatrix.
23:12I feel that for you. Thank you.
23:14You're the whipping one. Yeah.
23:16I'm about to whip people.
23:19As she's progressed through the course...
23:22Hi-hi. Hi-hi.
23:24..Charlotte has overcome her body issues.
23:27What would feel comfortable for you?
23:29Maybe some body caress?
23:31And now she knows exactly what she wants.
23:35I have an idea.
23:36I want to take my top off and I want to straddle you.
23:39OK, you want me laying down? Yes.
23:42Knees down.
23:44Yes, ma'am. Arms further.
23:46OK.
23:48OK, grip my hips.
23:52Oh, that's nice.
23:54Wash it, mate.
23:56You...
23:58are so beautiful.
24:00Having you straddle me is almost overwhelming for my body.
24:04I love you.
24:06I love you.
24:08I love you.
24:10I love you for my body.
24:12You are a fucking goddess.
24:30I want to grip your chest.
24:32You have full permission. Yay.
24:35You are firm.
24:43I love feeling your body on mine.
24:47Feeling your touch feels really good on me, goddess.
24:59Thank you for this gift.
25:05I want to say how proud I am.
25:07That was a big leap
25:09to ask for what you needed.
25:14I adore Andre. I adore him completely.
25:17It was through him that I was really able to be like,
25:20OK, this is what I want.
25:24I went into this with the mindset of he is a tool,
25:28a very enjoyable tool for me to kind of
25:31get what I want out of it.
25:33Oh, I just had so much fun.
25:36I feel so ready for everything now.
25:44While many are finding their body confidence...
25:47I like being naked by myself. I don't.
25:49..Ben still has work to do.
25:51Me and my ex, I don't know, even though we were together,
25:54I've got to change in the bathroom, it's weird.
25:57It's just a big step for me.
26:00..in a final bid to overcome his fear of nudity...
26:05Hey. Hello.
26:07..Joy has a new plan.
26:10I know it's a stretch, but I would love to practise
26:13the animal game with you...
26:15Hmm. ..in our underwear.
26:19In an early group workshop,
26:21Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animals play.
26:24It was a bit of a stretch.
26:26In an early group workshop,
26:28Ben couldn't bear to even watch the animal game.
26:32So can we stay connected while we undress?
26:39With most clothes removed...
26:41Even as we get down, we can keep that connection.
26:49Ben tries to let animal instinct take over.
26:57How does that feel to you?
26:59Yeah, it's a good connection.
27:04He's kissing on your... Yeah.
27:11Losing himself in the moment,
27:14Ben seems to have let go of his inhibitions.
27:18Would you like to move to bed?
27:21Yeah.
27:23But will it be enough to finally bear all?
27:31That was fun.
27:33Do you think we should just roll?
27:37Yeah, let's do it.
27:39I have to break this barrier.
27:41Let me put up this.
27:43Joy puts up a screen so Ben's body is for hair eyes only.
27:47Are you ready? Yeah, let's go.
27:49OK.
27:54Is my body normal?
27:56Your body looks beautiful, yeah.
27:59I'm normal down there.
28:01I look better than with clothes on.
28:03Really? Yes.
28:05I've broken the barrier.
28:08I'm proud of you. Thank you.
28:14Do you feel complete?
28:16Yeah, I think that's a good way to end it.
28:18Yeah, great.
28:21I'm so incredibly proud of him.
28:23He's opened in ways that I can't even believe,
28:26and I feel honoured he allowed me
28:29to be the one to accompany him on that journey.
28:35Hello. Hello.
28:37Are you all right?
28:39So, I just saw Joy.
28:41Ooh la la.
28:43My journey is complete.
28:45I didn't lose my virginity, but...
28:48Joy is the only person left to see me naked.
28:50So, did you see her fully naked?
28:54It's nice to break that barrier and hopefully,
28:56when I'm in the real world and I get to that stage again,
28:59it will be a lot easier and I won't be in my head all the time.
29:02I have changed, and that's all I needed, really.
29:04It's just that confidence.
29:06I haven't had a fully naked one-to-one. He did more than me.
29:09Yeah, but you climaxed. I didn't.
29:12Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye.
29:15Bye, sexual.
29:17I'm off, aren't we?
29:19I'm not the only gay in the village.
29:23This evening, there'll be a graduation ceremony to end the course.
29:27What are you wearing tonight?
29:29I've got, like, a full-on suit.
29:31Really? Yeah.
29:33Does anyone want to swap outfits?
29:35No.
29:37No?
29:39Does anyone want to swap outfits?
29:41I'll wear your dress.
29:43And the group has been set a final exercise,
29:45to write a letter to a future lover.
29:48I don't like writing letters.
29:50Can I write a text instead?
29:52Would shagging by the Tesco bins be a bit too graphic?
29:55Yeah.
29:57I know how to start mine.
29:59Dear Emma.
30:01Oh, my God.
30:03Me and Viraj are very good friends.
30:06A friendship with a good connection.
30:08So I think, get back to the UK,
30:10and if it works, then it works.
30:13I don't think I will close myself off any more.
30:20For Dave, a lover could be more imminent.
30:23After two weeks of intense treatment and years of longing,
30:27he could be on the verge of achieving what he came here for.
30:32Go on, big doll. Enjoy. Have fun.
30:38Being a virgin at 24, I hate it.
30:41My biggest fear is that I'll find someone that I genuinely care about
30:45and I won't be ready to have a proper relationship with.
30:48You know, it could be the love of my life
30:50and I could just be too awkward and I could blow it.
30:59Hello. Hey.
31:01How are you doing?
31:08Are you still feeling good about intercourse?
31:11Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Cool.
31:16Lie down.
31:20So we'll just start in a way that we've been starting,
31:23just letting it be organic, staying in connection and kissing.
31:27Yeah, that sounds good.
31:29OK.
31:38OK.
31:54OK, close.
32:05Do you know how?
32:08Yeah, you just pinch the top and you want to roll it all the way.
32:14OK. Just start slow.
32:27I'll be honest, I'm struggling a little bit.
32:30So just relax.
32:33I think I'm putting a bit too much pressure on myself.
32:46Has everyone written their letters?
32:48No. Got writer's block.
32:50While most of the group are preparing letters
32:53for tonight's graduation ceremony...
32:55Just go with the flow, write what comes to mind.
32:58..in the Zen den...
33:00So just relax.
33:02..Dave is trying to get back on track with Kat.
33:06Do you think it might be easier for you if I'm on top?
33:09Yeah. Yeah, so let's switch.
33:13Just breathe.
33:20How does that feel?
33:23OK. Yeah.
33:25Just move the way that feels good for you.
33:31HE BREATHES HEAVILY
33:50You're so good.
33:52It feels so good.
34:00HE BREATHES HEAVILY
34:10Did you run? Yeah.
34:15How are you feeling?
34:17Good. Yeah.
34:22After 12 days...
34:25..Dave has completed his course of therapy on Virgin Island.
34:30Thank you for this.
34:32And how does it feel now?
34:34Not a virgin.
34:39I feel really good.
34:41How do you feel?
34:44I feel good about being the person with him in that important moment.
34:50And I think he has changed so much.
34:53He knows a lot more about what he wants
34:56and it's a lot easier if you've done it once.
34:59So I think that will help.
35:01Yeah.
35:03Yeah, I think you've done a really good job.
35:06THEY LAUGH
35:10I'm proud that I can finally say I'm not a virgin any more.
35:14I've still got a lot of catching up to do.
35:16But I feel like I'm on the board now.
35:20Take care.
35:22Yeah, see you later.
35:25Now I can go and actually properly progress
35:27with some sort of idea of what I'm doing.
35:30The fact that I'm no longer a virgin is great.
35:32It's just... It's relief.
35:38Do you have a session?
35:40Yeah. How did it go?
35:42I think it went well, yeah.
35:44You cool?
35:46Yeah, I'm just really tired.
35:48Oh, OK. Exhausting day.
35:50You know what? It's the last one, mate.
35:54I'm going to miss it.
35:57Let's go.
35:59End of an era.
36:01The end of a chapter.
36:04As the sun starts to set for the final time on Virgin Island...
36:09..the group are getting ready for graduation.
36:14It's really sad.
36:16Yeah, I'm going to miss everyone so much, so...
36:18I am going to miss the island,
36:20and the routine, I think, I'll miss a lot as well.
36:24Very lovely.
36:28You look gorgeous, darling.
36:31It'd be funny if we're in there and they're all naked.
36:33Yeah.
36:35Do you think we get a certificate?
36:37Look at them all down there.
36:39Oh, my God!
36:41CHEERING
36:45Wow!
36:51Graduation is a time for you to gather up
36:54all of your newfound confidence and skills
36:57and get ready to take them out into the world.
37:00So we're going to invite you up one by one
37:03because we did ask you to write a letter to a future lover.
37:11The retreat was emotional for Taylor,
37:14but she discovered her true sexuality.
37:17Dear future lover, I've spent so long being scared
37:21of who I was, what people thought,
37:23who I was supposed to be and what I wanted.
37:25You hear this, I'm not scared any more, I'm terrified.
37:28Being terrified means I've found something that I don't want to lose.
37:34If I'm terrified of losing you,
37:36then maybe you'll be terrified of losing me.
37:39If it all gets too real, remember, sing loudly, not well,
37:43laugh at everything that you can and lick bum.
37:46LAUGHTER AND APPLAUSE
37:51Taylor wasn't the only one to find their true identity.
37:55Dear future lover, we haven't met yet,
37:58but I have been on one hell of a self-discovery journey.
38:01I feel like I am able to be my true, full self and show you all of me.
38:05I used to think hiding my feelings was my superpower.
38:08It really is my biggest weakness.
38:10It took me a long time to be happy with who I am as a person
38:13and there's no way I can go back to hiding.
38:16APPLAUSE
38:19Look at you. Exactly!
38:22The Tom that you are is just gorgeous.
38:30For Ben, the island has meant overcoming rejection head-on.
38:35Dear lover, this man you see before you is not the man I once was.
38:40I thought I was repulsive, undesirable and that I can never be loved.
38:45I now know that I was wrong.
38:48I went to an intimacy retreat.
38:50It was a bold step, but one that changed my life forever.
38:54It was here that I learned of my sexual self
38:57and it was here that I learned how to be wanted.
39:00This journey has been tough, but I wouldn't change a thing
39:04because it ultimately led me to you.
39:06Thank you for loving me and showing me that I could love myself.
39:10APPLAUSE
39:18For many, discovering self-confidence has been key.
39:23Dear future lover, I want to thank you for taking my hand
39:27and coming with me on an amazing adventure.
39:30Thank you for having all the love for me
39:32that I once struggled to have for myself.
39:34Being my true self is when I can exhale.
39:37You are a woman now.
39:39Thank you. Thank you so much.
39:41Frigging proud of you.
39:45Dear future lover slash lovers,
39:48I want you to be patient with me while I continue to learn,
39:51grow and inevitably make mistakes.
39:54I want us to worship one another.
39:57I want everyone to see our love.
39:59I wasn't sure if I would ever get to a point in my life
40:02where I truly believed that I was worthy of being loved.
40:06I don't expect anything from you,
40:08except you must ride the elephant with me on our wedding day.
40:16Sorry for only lasting 20 seconds.
40:19I was overwhelmed by your beauty.
40:22I promise tomorrow will be better
40:24because I'm going to use the skills I learned from the intimacy retreat.
40:34Dave.
40:38He arrived on the island as one of the quietest in the group,
40:41but slowly he's found his voice.
40:45Dear my future lover,
40:47despite all my continued flaws,
40:49like my constant awkwardness,
40:51you've always loved me.
40:53I can't put into words how much I appreciate that.
40:56You're everything I've ever wanted,
40:58and you complete me.
41:00I know that you're going to go out there and break many hearts.
41:09Erm, sorry.
41:12After weeks of being surprised by the experts,
41:15the group now have a surprise for them.
41:18We've all been through so much with you,
41:21and we all want to give our thanks.
41:23I personally want to thank you for your patience and understanding.
41:27You help me feel confident and see who I am
41:30and see myself in a place beyond here.
41:33And I really, really appreciate everything that you've done for me.
41:37And thank you all.
41:43This group are some of the bravest,
41:46wisest,
41:48most engaged and loving people
41:50that I have ever worked with.
41:52And seeing their transformation,
41:54yeah, I can't even.
41:56I can't even.
41:59I want to thank you for the most unforgettable experience
42:02of my entire life.
42:04I've never come close to this, and it's been incredible.
42:08Thank you so much to my lovely Andre
42:11for creating that beautiful space
42:14for me to feel vulnerable
42:17and, like, if I was going to fall, you would catch me.
42:22Wrong way to wear make-up.
42:24I can say confidently you've changed my life.
42:28You've changed all these people's lives,
42:30and I'll always remember that.
42:32Before I came here,
42:34I was at the lowest point in my life.
42:37I had no idea how to love myself
42:39or how to love others.
42:41And each and every one of you has inspired me.
42:45And I don't know how I'd ever be able to repay what you've given us.
42:48Congratulations!
43:00From the people who came off of that boat
43:02to the people who I'm looking at now,
43:05it's unrecognizable.
43:07And I have only hope for them
43:09to have the most amazing sex and relationship lives
43:12going out into the world.
43:15So we want to invite you to closing but beginning circle.
43:19Join us.
43:22Even though I didn't lose my virginity on the island,
43:24I've learned so much more about myself.
43:26And I feel like now when I go into the outside world,
43:28I'll be so ready for my new intimate journey.
43:31Your courage is going to inspire so many people out there.
43:36You're going to take the world by storm.
43:38I can feel it.
43:41It's all about kind of reaching out and being like,
43:43hey, maybe I would like some help.
43:46Congratulations!
43:53They're beautiful human beings that just didn't know it.
43:56Cheers!
43:58I'm so honoured and proud to be a part of this project.
44:02This place, I'd recommend it to anyone.
44:06My intimacy journey from here,
44:08then I go back to Rochdale,
44:10take it by storm.
44:12Yeah, mark up your songs.
44:15We've graduated from Sex Can!