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00:0012 virgins have travelled to a paradise island to take part in a unique experiment.
00:13The word virgin, people see it as a joke. It's quite obsessing.
00:20I'm 23, still a virgin. I feel like there's something wrong with me.
00:25In a world where sex is everywhere.
00:28My God.
00:28Terrified.
00:29Absolutely terrified.
00:31The truth is surprising. There are more adult virgins than ever.
00:36Being a young adult in this day and age, it's difficult.
00:39Social media.
00:40Dating apps.
00:41Influencers.
00:41TV shows.
00:42Porn.
00:43Porn.
00:43Porn.
00:43Porn.
00:44Porn is everywhere.
00:45Are you self-conscious about our genitals touching each other?
00:48Now?
00:49Yeah.
00:51This radical retreat is offering a very hands-on solution.
00:56Oh, hell.
00:57She's a miracle worker.
00:59Oh, God, yes.
01:00Overseen by a group of experts.
01:02Yeah.
01:03Like that?
01:04I like that.
01:05Ready to do anything to help Britain's virgins.
01:09There's the clitoris. Do you have any questions?
01:13Lose the one thing.
01:16Does that make you nervous?
01:17They feel is holding them back.
01:19I would love to have sex with you.
01:21I do feel like there's a barrier between me and sex.
01:23I want to lose my virginity. It's now or never.
01:28But when the moment arrives.
01:30Would you like to move to the bed?
01:32Who will be ready?
01:35I just don't want anyone to touch me.
01:37To go all the way.
01:41You're so sexy.
01:50The last few days on Virgin Island.
01:53Saw a focus on intimate touch.
01:56Was I watching a porno?
01:58We can explore the things that you came here to explore.
02:01It made Taylor, who identifies as bisexual.
02:04I'm scared.
02:05Confused about her feelings.
02:07Sorry, can I just have one minute?
02:11And when Ben.
02:13What's it feel like to you?
02:14Bewitching.
02:15Fell under Charlotte's spell.
02:17Yeah, I'll do it over.
02:18He was rejected.
02:20This is my friend, but I'm not interested.
02:24Now, as they enter the next phase.
02:26Things are hotting up.
02:27That felt good.
02:29Confidence is really key to this group of people.
02:32And I am ready to make them be able to look in someone's eyes.
02:36And just go after what they want.
02:39Feels nice.
02:51Good morning.
02:51Morning.
02:52It's another day on Virgin Island.
02:55Oh, here we go.
02:56And the start of a new two-day phase of the course.
03:02The next phase of the course is all about confidence.
03:10Everything here is making me nervous.
03:12So, yeah, just another one in a long line of...
03:14Wow, what does this mean?
03:16She's got confidence.
03:18What does this mean?
03:21God.
03:23I'm confident in my intelligence.
03:24I'm confident as a person.
03:26But I'm not confident about believing that people want me in that way.
03:30Especially after what happened with Charlotte.
03:32And then just feel like I'm not good enough.
03:34So I think this is going to be tough for me.
03:38Confidence.
03:40I think I'm confident when I'm someone else, most of the time.
03:42That's why I do drama and all that.
03:44There are times where I just don't want to chat to anyone
03:46because I just hate myself so much.
03:47But I wouldn't even get on the bus
03:49because I didn't want to talk to the bus driver.
03:51So I just walk everywhere.
03:52So I need confidence.
03:54And hopefully this place will give it to me.
04:01Oh, they're all down there already.
04:01Look at that.
04:03Bunch of hippies.
04:04Good morning.
04:07Celeste and Danielle's first group workshop
04:10will test how ready the group are to banish embarrassment.
04:13We are moving into the next phase.
04:17Confidence.
04:19If you're walking in the world and you're feeling kind of shut down,
04:21you're not going to be attractive.
04:23But really accepting yourself for who you are,
04:26you're going to be more attractive.
04:32They've all prepared a dating or rejection story from their past,
04:36which has destroyed their confidence.
04:38So, you're going to take turns to share your rejection story.
04:43Who wants to come first?
04:50I'll go.
04:51All right.
04:54First up, drama graduate, Tom.
04:59Being a virgin's definitely affected my confidence.
05:03In school, I felt like I was the only person
05:06in school.
05:07I felt like socially, I wasn't developing as well as all my other classmates.
05:12They were all going out, drinking in the park,
05:16having fun and all those sort of things.
05:18I was a bit of a goody two-shoes
05:20and I felt like I was trailing behind everyone else in the end.
05:24I always have a voice on my shoulder,
05:26always telling me that I'm not good enough.
05:30So, my story takes place third year uni.
05:33I'd just received a message from a former friend
05:37and we started chatting more and more
05:39and it felt like it was getting a little bit flirty.
05:42So, I invited her down to my place for my housemate's birthday,
05:45got to the club.
05:47I thought I was going to make my move there.
05:49I introduced her to my housemate.
05:51So, I went to the bar and when I turned around,
05:54bringing drinks for making out with each other.
05:59Revealing their most vulnerable moments to the group
06:02is only half of the process.
06:04So, each person is going to say their biggest rejection
06:08and then immediately getting feedback that you are lovable,
06:12that you are attractive.
06:14There's something that shifts in your brain
06:16when you do all of that at the same time.
06:20Standing up for Tom is Taylor.
06:23I think in that story,
06:24she was in the wrong for playing with your emotions like that.
06:26You're a really lovely person, you need to remember that
06:29and she sucks.
06:31She sucks.
06:39As well as rejection.
06:42I stayed over at her house
06:43and there was almost this unspoken expectation
06:46that there would be sex.
06:48Not being ready for sex.
06:49I was so nervous about doing something wrong
06:52that I just shut down.
06:54I just wasn't ready.
06:56And running away.
06:58He says to me,
06:59so, are we going to go all the way?
07:01And I just, yeah, I think I just got the fear.
07:06We're in bed.
07:07He started saying he didn't believe that I was a virgin.
07:11He was quite persistent, like I was lying.
07:14I haven't seen anyone since that
07:15just because now I feel like
07:16I don't want to put myself in that position.
07:20But...
07:22Then you should be proud of yourself
07:23that you didn't feel like you had to go all the way
07:26and the right person will come to you
07:28when it's right for you.
07:31Celeste and Danielle believe that together.
07:34You just start smiling,
07:35you make everybody else smile
07:37and also he's a dick as well.
07:41They can change.
07:44Being able to get the antidote,
07:46like get the medicine,
07:47is so crucial
07:49and it builds so much confidence.
07:52Each story also gives the experts
07:54clues on individual needs
07:56to resolve their issue with intimacy.
08:01Last is Taylor,
08:02who, since coming out as bisexual at university,
08:06has never had a positive encounter with women or men.
08:09I was dancing with some friends
08:10and one of my friends was like,
08:11that boy's making eyes at you.
08:13And pointed out a quite good-looking lad on the dance floor
08:16and I was like, OK.
08:18And then one of them went, he's coming over
08:19and I hid behind her
08:21and said, dance me to the stairs so I can get out.
08:24And I just remembered I was almost at the stairs
08:26and I'm crouched over
08:28and the crowds parted
08:30and the lights flashed for a second
08:31and I looked straight into this guy's eyes,
08:35and my heart just dropped
08:36and I saw his face, like...
08:38So it was one of those moments
08:40where I was always expecting to be rejected.
08:45You're really nice, fantastic, pretty
08:48and it's really nice seeing how you're coming out of your shell.
08:51You were always out of your shell, but out more.
08:53Yeah, you were amazing.
08:59I just really want to applaud your bravery
09:01and your vulnerability
09:03to every one of you here.
09:13I felt really awkward.
09:14I didn't mind sharing my story.
09:15I didn't like being told I was nice.
09:17Yeah, I know.
09:18Suffered from quite a lot of self-doubt and paranoia.
09:22I think self-confidence is different for everyone
09:24and for me, I usually just try and fake it till I make it.
09:34You OK?
09:36I just feel a bit like...
09:41I still feel like they're trying to get to grips with me.
09:46I thought with Taylor, it was such like a running away story.
09:49You kind of picture her hiding behind someone else.
09:51She's backing away and it was like,
09:52what is happening here?
09:53It's happening.
09:54Yeah.
09:55It seemed like she was so afraid of connection
09:57that she just couldn't even bear the thought of it.
09:59Yeah.
10:02I do feel like there's a barrier between me and sex.
10:05Like, I've been on nights out where you're like,
10:07I'm going to do it.
10:08I'm going to have that one night stand
10:09and you meet someone,
10:10they want to take you back to their place
10:12and then you hit this wall and you just think,
10:15I can't.
10:16When you see like people in love,
10:18it is a lot that you're missing out on.
10:21And I can't have what everyone else gets to have.
10:26After a string of failed encounters with men
10:29and an unsuccessful session with male surrogate Andre,
10:33could a different approach help?
10:37So I just want to say I'm kind of taking over for Andre.
10:40OK.
10:40How does it feel?
10:41A lot calmer, weirdly,
10:43because when Andre, really lovely,
10:45want to be his best friend,
10:46but like just didn't want to like
10:48have any kind of sexual contact.
10:51Do you want to move into some bodywork?
10:54Yeah.
10:55Yep.
10:58So I just want you to bring awareness into your feet.
11:03Noticing any tension that you feel.
11:08Kat wants Taylor to concentrate
11:11on how it feels to be touched by a woman.
11:14And we'll move to the ankles and the lower legs.
11:21I'm sorry.
11:24No, no.
11:24Don't apologize.
11:25It's OK.
11:28Is it like, does it feel like a release?
11:30Does it feel?
11:31Yeah. OK.
11:34It's just such a relief to not feel scared at all.
11:38That's amazing.
11:47It feels so silly.
11:51No, why?
11:52Just more like wasting my own time
11:55and everyone else's for so long.
11:58No.
11:59By feeling uncertain?
12:02Yeah.
12:16Yeah.
12:21I think that's enough for today.
12:26After years of confusion,
12:27it's the breakthrough Taylor's been looking for.
12:30I always thought I was bi,
12:32but being here and having to like kind of confront it.
12:35Yeah.
12:35I think I might not like men like at all.
12:40OK.
12:40And how does it feel to like sit with it and own it?
12:43It feels good to own it, but it's also really scary.
12:46It is really scary.
12:47Yeah.
12:53Oh, God, finally.
12:56Yay.
12:57I'm so excited.
12:58This feels so good.
13:00It feels so good.
13:01Good cry.
13:02Yeah.
13:04Thank you so much.
13:05I really appreciate it.
13:09I'm just gay.
13:10And I think I've been deluding myself into like,
13:13no, I like men as well because that's normal and good.
13:16But like, I didn't feel scared.
13:20That felt really good.
13:25Hello.
13:26So how was your one-on-one session you did?
13:28I went to my one-to-one session.
13:30Was it good?
13:31It was with Kat and it was the best one I've had.
13:34Oh, really?
13:34And I'm definitely gay.
13:37I know.
13:40What a breakthrough.
13:42Missed it all fucking week.
13:45We love you, Taylor.
13:48I feel like now I can get more out of the retreat
13:50because I know kind of what I want
13:52and I'm not pretending that I want other things just to fit in.
14:08Would you sell your virginity?
14:10I would.
14:10I've considered it before.
14:13What would you sell your virginity for?
14:14I'd say a couple hundred plus.
14:17I'd do it for a tenner and a packet of donuts.
14:19Different for boys.
14:20What about your anal virginity?
14:22No.
14:24No.
14:25That's his boundary.
14:26Yeah, that's my boundary.
14:27At least one million pounds.
14:31It's the first afternoon of the confidence phase at the retreat.
14:35What language do lesbians speak?
14:37What?
14:38Gaelic.
14:41What do you call a lesbian dinosaur?
14:43Don't know.
14:44Like a lot of puss.
14:49After helping Taylor find her true self,
14:51Celeste and Danielle have left something for the boys
14:54to see if any of them have the confidence to explore their identities too.
14:58Do you want a pamper, Tom?
15:00I would love a pamper, to be fair.
15:01What do you want first, Miss?
15:03I'd be up for any of it.
15:04Mascara, lipstick.
15:11This is an exercise that helps people lower their inhibitions.
15:15Welcome to Emma's salon.
15:17Society can give young men such a narrow view of masculinity,
15:20so we really wanted to help them start to get past some of those myths.
15:25How do you feel now?
15:26Relaxed?
15:27Like I'm being operated on.
15:30Although Ben isn't made up with the makeup.
15:33I wanted it to look like good and natural, not drag queen.
15:36That's what I'm gonna be, drag queen.
15:38Tom is in the pink.
15:41He looks like a nice young German boy.
15:46I've never had a girlfriend in my life, no.
15:48Sometimes I come across quite camp.
15:51I'll go out to the club and I'll start slut dropping.
15:54I'll start singing along to Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Bit Abba.
16:00But a lot of people didn't quite know how to differentiate between camp and being gay,
16:04so they kind of saw them as one as the same.
16:06You trust me, yeah?
16:08Why are you holding it like that?
16:10Oh, my God.
16:12I want to lose from my virginity,
16:14but people just aren't interested in someone who doesn't have confidence in themselves.
16:20That ain't bad.
16:21That's not bad.
16:22Come on.
16:22It feels so wrong yet so right.
16:27Made up, the boys have engaged with their soft side.
16:30But now the experts want them to reinforce their strength too
16:34and try to get good with wood.
16:38Has anyone felt an emotion and they were afraid to show it
16:41because of what someone else might think?
16:45Yeah.
16:48But today we're going to get to let those emotions out.
16:52So we're letting go of the emotion as the ox splits the wood, you know?
16:57Just tune into some primal emotion in your body.
17:01All right.
17:01It feels like they'd like to go first.
17:04Go Dave.
17:05Dave.
17:08All right.
17:14Yes.
17:15Good job, Dave.
17:29Not only are they letting out some raw emotion.
17:33Yeah.
17:34Good job, bro.
17:34That was bad.
17:40For 25-year-old Viraj, it's a lesson in resilience.
17:45Oh my god.
17:46Go on, you got this.
17:50Yeah.
17:59Hey, how was the chopping?
18:01Oh, I sucked.
18:02That was the worst.
18:03Man chopped wood.
18:04Man chopped wood.
18:05Man used axe.
18:07Getting manly has left many of the boys on a high.
18:10Man talk to girls.
18:12Man break wind.
18:16Are you desperately trying to get your nail varnish off?
18:17Yes.
18:19Have you taken yours off?
18:20No.
18:21I might just stick it out.
18:22I think it's about trying to be in touch with your emotions
18:25rather than letting it all boil up inside of you.
18:27Do you think it worked?
18:30I'm still a virgin, so not yet.
18:35To try and change that.
18:38So I'll just be touching all over your body but not your genitals.
18:43The experts believe Dave's ready to start
18:45the island's most advanced treatment, surrogate partner therapy.
18:50How are you feeling?
18:52Good.
18:56It was really nice.
18:59Felt natural and enjoyable.
19:02It's given me a massive confidence boost.
19:05Meanwhile...
19:06I'd like to just go into an experience of connecting with your body.
19:13Okay, I'll try that.
19:14Yeah.
19:15Jason's lessons on how to hug are moving up a step.
19:19You can touch me in a way that feels good to you.
19:22So amazing.
19:25I'm going to see what you notice.
19:27Yeah.
19:30Isn't it enjoyable?
19:31It is.
19:35Across the island, the make-up session has raised more questions than answers for Tom.
19:40Doing the wood shopping, doing the whole make-up thing, really enjoyed that, but...
19:44I don't know, it just felt like a lot of things about gender ended up coming into it.
19:50I just feel a bit weird, I think.
19:57The experts have noticed a change in Tom too.
20:00So they're sending him for a session with Kat
20:03to see if she can find out what's really going on.
20:07Because so many people over the years have called me gay,
20:10I've kind of started to question my own sexuality sometimes.
20:14For a while, I saw myself as a closeted bisexual.
20:17But one of the prerequisites of being bisexual is you have to like men.
20:21I didn't like men that way.
20:24But I want to learn more about myself and my own battles with identity.
20:29There's just so many things which have made me question that.
20:32How are you doing?
20:35Not so great today, I'd say.
20:37Yeah?
20:37Just struggling a little bit, I think.
20:39Yeah?
20:40Yeah.
20:41I think just working out my place, like how I fit into things, dynamic,
20:46whether I'm part of the men or the women or the whatever,
20:50long and that sort of stuff, yeah.
20:52Oh, I see, yeah, yeah.
20:53I think I really enjoyed putting make-up on, and it feels like...
20:58Yeah, it's OK.
21:00No, I don't know why I'm doing this, it's OK.
21:03Is that tissue?
21:04Yeah.
21:08Thanks.
21:09Yeah.
21:17I don't think I'm quite the full masculine side of things, I do think.
21:24I don't think I'm quite the full masculine side of things, I do think.
21:30I am slightly more masculine-leaning, but I don't think I'm fully man, but...
21:36Yeah.
21:36I'm not too sure.
21:38Yeah.
21:38And does it feel scary to step into the feminine?
21:43It's scary because I don't know what to label myself as.
21:46Non-binary is quite...
21:49It feels quite scary, I'm not sure it is a total fit for me either.
21:53I want you to try as much as you can to, like, pause from naming things.
22:01Ground it in the body a little bit and just pay attention to how you feel.
22:05Yeah.
22:07OK.
22:10See you soon.
22:10Yeah, see you soon.
22:13I'm not sure I'm totally happy with it at the moment, but that's because
22:16we brought up a lot of stuff that I'm going to work through,
22:19but I'm definitely in a happier mindset, let's say.
22:23Yeah.
22:33Yeah, Holly, guess what?
22:35What?
22:35I'm a lesbian.
22:39What's up?
22:39Morning.
22:40Ready to go today, guys.
22:42Away.
22:46It's day two of the confidence phase of the course.
22:50Morning, Dave, you all right?
22:51Yeah, morning.
22:52This is all I want in life, a good cup of tea.
22:56I'm struggling a little bit with confidence,
22:58but I think it's just taking those little steps for me
23:02and I'm really hoping that I can build up myself and build up my confidence.
23:07That's exactly what Celeste and Danielle plan to do next,
23:11with a lesson on the foundation of all romance, dating.
23:14Oh, chairs.
23:16Oh, we're going on a date.
23:19Oh, my God.
23:19Oh, my God.
23:20I've been on so many dates, this is amazing, right?
23:22Yeah, it should be.
23:33So we're going to talk about the skills of a great date.
23:36All the skills that we need to have in order to have great relationships are just skills.
23:43You want to learn them and practice them.
23:47Celeste and Danielle have a rule of three dating skills.
23:51The first one is giving an in-the-moment compliment,
23:54like, I really love the way your eyes twinkle when you smile,
23:58you know, something that really feels like you're connecting with a person.
24:01The second one is to be able to both give and recognize the look,
24:06and the look means I'm ready now, I'm ready to be kissed.
24:09And then finally, the third skill is the lean-in for the kiss.
24:15So we're going to do a little demo
24:16and then you're going to have opportunities to practice.
24:19And in this case, practice means role play.
24:22I'm so glad we finally got here, it's been a lot of planning.
24:25I know, right? Yeah.
24:28So, do you like to travel?
24:31Oh, my God, I love travelling.
24:32Travelling is really my passion.
24:34Where's your favourite place?
24:37Wow, I can't think about anything now.
24:41I can just listen to that laugh all day long.
24:45You're embarrassing me a little bit.
24:48But I like it too.
24:49So that's an in-the-moment?
24:51Uh-huh. Do you see flirting was going on all the time?
24:54Yeah.
24:57You are giving me the look.
25:00I was also getting it from you, I think.
25:13Such a good kisser.
25:14OK.
25:15You are each other's practice buddies
25:18and that's really going to help you.
25:19The more you practice, the more it's just going to be like,
25:21oh, this is normal, this is just what I do.
25:23That's confidence, right?
25:26Who wants to...
25:28Yay, come on up, Emma.
25:30I wouldn't really say I've actually ever been on a date in my life.
25:33Who else?
25:36I'll do it.
25:37Yay.
25:39It's hard to kind of open myself up to that world
25:42where I've had such a block on it for so long.
25:46Hello.
25:47Hello.
25:48How are you? OK?
25:49Very good. Did you enjoy the show?
25:51Yeah, I did, yeah.
25:52What did you like the best?
25:55That you put me on the spot.
25:58I like how you get lost in your thoughts there.
26:02Always, always get lost.
26:04Somewhere else.
26:04Yeah. Yeah, in my own world.
26:09I like that you noticed that.
26:10I like that you noticed that.
26:12Very observant.
26:27That was phenomenal.
26:29Any tips for Zach on how he could even give it...
26:33I need the tips.
26:34Maybe if you just took care of the hand a little bit more
26:38and just pay attention to how it feels on your skin.
26:41Yeah, OK.
26:42Just slow down and...
26:43Slow down. Make sure that it's the right level.
26:48Great job, Zach. That was beautiful.
26:50Good job.
26:53After Zach and Emma's masterclass...
26:56A fully nude cafe. Bold choice for our first date.
27:01The others step up to the dating plate.
27:04I'm a bush driver.
27:05Do you enjoy it?
27:06No.
27:09Do you want to just try giving her the look?
27:11That was it. That was the eyebrows.
27:16Just want to see if you're catching it.
27:18No, I didn't catch it.
27:19You didn't catch it.
27:20OK, I want you to start paying attention to those things.
27:33It's nice talking to you.
27:34Yeah.
27:38Wow.
27:43Last to take the plunge is serial dater Ben,
27:45who despite having over 40 dates has always been unlucky in love.
27:53What stopped me from taking it to the next level with a lot of these dates I've been on,
27:56I think it's just lack of experience and lack of success at reading social signals.
28:01I tend to play it safe.
28:02And I think for guys like me who just struggle with that,
28:05making the move and reading the signs, it's very hard.
28:10Who want to try it with Ben?
28:23Do I get to do it?
28:25Good, because this will be our second date.
28:28Yeah.
28:29Well, it's good to see you again, Celeste.
28:33It's good to see you, too.
28:35What job do you do?
28:36I coach people to have more intimacy and connection with each other.
28:40OK.
28:49I like your glasses.
28:51They suit you.
29:00When you get all into the experience, you're really beautiful.
29:05So are you.
29:14Despite Celeste's flirting,
29:18being rejected by the group has hurt Ben.
29:22So tonight, you're going to have another opportunity to just practice skills building.
29:28As you'll all be going on practice dates with each other,
29:31you'll learn so much and give each other so much from that experience.
29:38Holly, how was my kissing skills out of 10?
29:41A solid 9.5.
29:42Yes!
29:47What did everyone think of that session?
29:48It was fine.
29:50I enjoyed it.
29:53Tell me how you found the lecture.
29:56Crap.
29:58Awful. I didn't like it.
30:02You know, I got up and no one wanted to do it with me.
30:04That was really hard.
30:05The ironic thing is the confidence section, which I knew would be hard,
30:09has probably wrecked my confidence.
30:12Hello.
30:14Hello.
30:16For Ben, it's yet another setback.
30:20You OK?
30:21The confidence round has basically shattered my confidence.
30:24And he's not the only one struggling.
30:26I walked out the workshop feeling worse.
30:29Oh, really? What's wrong with you today?
30:34I don't know.
30:37The experts feel something is holding Emma back.
30:41And now they want to find out what it is.
30:45How are you feeling?
30:46I'm feeling all right.
30:48But I just really feel for Ben.
30:50It's hard, isn't it, when I care for other people.
30:54It's hard to think about myself.
30:57You actually have to not so much worry and take care of everybody else.
31:00What does it feel like to just say, what about me?
31:04That doesn't feel natural.
31:05Of course, it's the opposite of the habit.
31:07The habit is, you OK? Everybody OK? You OK?
31:10What about me?
31:11Yeah.
31:11See if you can say it with some...
31:15What about me?
31:16Let me do it a little bit stronger now.
31:19What about me?
31:20Yeah.
31:22You deserve to be angry.
31:23Like, what about you? You know what I mean?
31:26It's your turn.
31:27Yeah.
31:28Yeah.
31:28OK.
31:30Ah.
31:32You need to go, ah, a little bit.
31:38What about me?
31:39Yes! What about me?
31:41What about me?
31:42Yeah, what about me?
31:44What about me?
31:45That's right.
31:46I feel like I'm going to need a punching bag in a minute.
31:49What?
31:50Oh my God, yes.
31:52I can only...
31:53That's all I've ever wanted you to say.
31:57OK, right, let me strip off.
32:00Oh God, OK.
32:01I'm going to push it out.
32:02What about me? And then punch it.
32:04Yeah, yes.
32:06What about me?
32:07What about me?
32:07Yeah, more.
32:08This is my turn.
32:09Yes, yes, yes, my turn.
32:12What about me?
32:13Fuck you.
32:14If you've ever made me think shit,
32:17and fuck everyone who's taken my kindness for weakness.
32:20Yes.
32:21It's all about me.
32:22It's all about you.
32:23Fuck you, fuck you.
32:25Sorry, she's sick.
32:26Yeah.
32:32The exercise stirs up old emotion.
32:37When I was seven, I did have a really horrific incident
32:41with another child of them touching me inappropriately.
32:45It kind of shut me off and brought up this fear of sex,
32:51and that was so horrible.
32:54So I want to move past that horrific experience,
32:59but it is so difficult.
33:02It's like a piece of glass.
33:03You can shatter some glass,
33:05but even if you put it back together,
33:07it will never be the same again.
33:08Just imagine little Emma looking up at you and saying,
33:12thank you so much.
33:14Thank you for looking out for me
33:19and being the strong, independent woman
33:22that I always wanted to be.
33:25You should be proud of yourself
33:27because you're so stronger than you think
33:29and wiser than you know.
33:39How'd it go?
33:40A really good session.
33:42I feel like Celeste released a new energy inside me
33:45that I didn't realise I had.
33:46Right now, I feel on top of the world.
33:48I feel like a brand new, complete version of Emma,
33:55and I'm not going to let people's negative input impact me.
34:00I feel like now I'm more open to forming new connections,
34:04which I haven't seen before.
34:06It's not just Emma who's feeling like a new person.
34:09After his session with Kat yesterday,
34:11Tom has been reflecting on gender identity.
34:14I think my next step is I probably will tell some more people
34:16about my gender fluidity
34:18because I don't constantly have a sort of barrier up all the time
34:21or like I'm not hiding a part of myself anymore,
34:24which I'm constantly having to do here at the moment.
34:27You want to sit here?
34:28Yes.
34:28After her own issues around identity,
34:31she's been working on her own identity.
34:33After her own issues around identity,
34:36Tom decides to confide in Taylor.
34:41Coming here, I've been learning a lot more about my own identity.
34:44I found that as well.
34:47Really puts it into perspective.
34:48It does, 100%.
34:50When I had my makeup put on me...
34:52Yes.
34:52...and then I had to take it off and I felt a bit,
34:55oh, no, I really wanted to keep that on.
34:57You did say that.
34:58It got me thinking a lot about my own sort of identity.
35:01I'm not sure.
35:02I think if gender is like on the spectrum...
35:04Yes.
35:04...I'd say I'm exactly between he, him and they, them.
35:09Yes.
35:09So masculine, but not...
35:12Yeah.
35:12Do you still identify as straight?
35:14Like you like girls?
35:15Yes, I still very much like women.
35:17There's no matter like who I go to bed with,
35:20it's like who I go to bed as.
35:22Yeah, of course.
35:23Who do you go to bed as?
35:24Yeah.
35:25Oh, how exciting.
35:26So exciting.
35:32It's late afternoon on Virgin Island.
35:34You all right?
35:35Sup?
35:36And this evening, the group will pair up for date night.
35:40So how are we going to do this today?
35:42Is this my first proper date?
35:43Do I class this as a date?
35:45We can make it a date.
35:46We'll see what happens.
35:48One thing I don't want it to be is I don't want it to be awkward.
35:51Why would it be awkward?
35:52I don't know.
35:52I feel like I'm just an awkward person.
35:53No, you might fall in love after this.
35:55Really?
35:57Maybe.
35:58Maybe.
35:58Sometimes when you look at me, I do feel like,
36:00are you just looking at me, like, randomly,
36:01or are you looking at me?
36:03Maybe I'm overthinking it.
36:06Why do you just look at me like that?
36:09Oh, Emma.
36:11After her session with Celeste,
36:12Emma's newfound positivity is taking effect.
36:16Did you realise, like,
36:17my dream woman will have to be someone who, like,
36:19goes to India with me and has that dream wedding?
36:21Oh my god, yeah.
36:22You would look really good in a sari.
36:23No, I actually would love that.
36:25That's like the classic.
36:25What colour would my dress be?
36:28Like red?
36:29Yeah, I picture a red.
36:31Really?
36:32Yeah, I picture a red.
36:33Don't know whether red would suit me.
36:35I think it would.
36:36I think any colour would suit you.
36:37Why not?
36:50Now she's opened the floodgates.
36:55Emma's letting herself go.
36:56Even went through to the second layer.
36:59Later, we'll all pose for a calendar.
37:04And so are the boys.
37:06What do you guys, like, like?
37:08What do you mean?
37:09What do you like?
37:10But that's such a weird question.
37:11How do you want to have sex?
37:12I know what I want.
37:13I want to feel powerful.
37:14I mean, yeah, I'd like it if a girl rides on top of me, sure.
37:18I would like to be dominated.
37:19I think that's what I like.
37:20You like that?
37:20Yeah.
37:21That's interesting.
37:22But that's because I'm, like, a shy virgin.
37:24I think I want something really boring, like, mischievous.
37:27That's me.
37:29After being rejected earlier,
37:30the confidence phase of the course has yet to help Ben.
37:34I think what's scary about the whole approaching somebody in real life
37:37is the prospect of rejection.
37:39It's just awkward.
37:40Ben struggles to turn dates from the vertical to the horizontal.
37:45So the experts want to see if they can teach him how.
37:49Coming out of this and feeling confident is why I'm doing it.
37:54Let's get a little closer.
37:56And just so our hands are touching.
37:59Your job is to stay present with the touch.
38:02How do I make the first move, the first physical move?
38:05Because that's quite a big step and something you always worry about.
38:07If there is a moment that you feel a connection,
38:10but you might just look at her and be like,
38:13you're so cute.
38:16You know?
38:19Like that?
38:20Yeah.
38:21Yeah, it has to feel like it's time, though.
38:24Naturally.
38:25Yeah.
38:25When you're confident, that's one of the most important things.
38:29Mm.
38:31With the basics covered, Ben takes the giant leap to the bed.
38:39That's nice.
38:45It's really nice, Ben.
38:52Yeah.
38:53Slowly, Ben's confidence seems to be rising.
38:59And whatever you do, don't try to get it right.
39:08There's no getting it right.
39:10There's only exploring.
39:16Squeeze me if that helps you to feel more of me.
39:27See you soon.
39:29What I found most helpful is that she can help me get out of my head
39:33and get more in the moment.
39:35Yeah, I just feel like I'm a lot more confident going into these sort of situations now.
39:41After Ben's confidence boost,
39:47the whole group get themselves ready for date night.
39:51This feels a bigger deal than I thought it was going to be.
39:54Ooh, a tie.
39:55You're looking good, baby.
39:57You all look good.
39:58Yeah, who knew virgins could be so sexy?
40:05Ooh, lovely.
40:07The experts have paired them up ready to test their date skills.
40:10This is nice.
40:11This is nice.
40:13Ladies first.
40:14So kind.
40:16And they've hit the island's most romantic spot.
40:19There you go, my lady.
40:20Thank you very much.
40:22You look lovely.
40:23Oh, thank you.
40:24I was worried I'd be overdressed and I was like...
40:26I was worried about the same thing.
40:28Having come out as gay, Taylor's dating expert, Aisha,
40:32giving Ben the chance to carry on where he left off with Josh.
40:36How have you been since we last met?
40:39Yeah, fine. Waiting for you. You're late.
40:43I hope this is vodka.
40:45So do I, actually.
40:46Cheers.
40:47As they sit down to chat up...
40:50Nice to meet you.
40:51Nice to meet you.
40:52...they must remember Celeste and Danielle's three steps of dating.
40:57I wanted to know, actually, what's it like in Glasgow?
41:00Is it just full of, like, Frankie Boyle posters?
41:03Yeah. He's, like, actually, like, our mascot.
41:09What state did you grow up in?
41:10Florida.
41:11Oh, Florida. I would never have guessed.
41:13Really?
41:13Apparently, Florida people are crazy.
41:15Does that mean you're crazy?
41:17Um, I think I am a little.
41:20We may be about to get rained on.
41:22You don't like getting wet?
41:24I thought that was your whole thing.
41:26Wow!
41:29I appreciate that. I appreciate you taking it sexual.
41:34Step one, giving an in-the-moment compliment.
41:37You look nice.
41:39Thanks.
41:39You look very nice.
41:40How nice?
41:40Out of 10?
41:4210.
41:44Not to say.
41:45Me, right?
41:47Short of some dolphins.
41:49I like how rosy your cheeks are.
41:52It's the one thing I hate about myself.
41:54Is it?
41:54Yeah.
41:56I'm glad I brought it up, then.
41:59You've got very nice earrings.
42:01You like them?
42:02Yeah.
42:02Thank you. My friend made them.
42:03You've definitely got a good fashion sense.
42:05Yeah.
42:06Thank you. Thank you so much.
42:08All these compliments.
42:09I don't know what to do with them all.
42:12Step two is the look.
42:14I've practiced the look. I've practiced the look.
42:16Oh, yes.
42:16Okay. I'm gonna feel my energy.
42:19I'm gonna turn away and look back at you.
42:20Okay. We're gonna turn away.
42:21Okay.
42:25God damn it.
42:28Finally followed by the kiss.
42:31You're a beautiful girl.
42:32Oh, stop it.
42:33You really are.
42:34You're a beautiful guy inside and out.
42:39But for one couple...
42:40My niece is like weight loss.
42:41I like your motivation to want to do personal training
42:44and want to help other people.
42:46Yeah.
42:46I like that about you.
42:47Thanks.
42:48Date practice is perfect.
42:51You okay?
42:52I'm good.
42:53You sure?
42:54Yeah, I'm all right.
42:56Does that make you nervous?
42:57A little bit.
42:58You don't need to be nervous.
43:01I need to try to be a bit more confident with women.
43:03My family and our Hindu culture still believe in arranged marriages.
43:08I don't see that as a bad thing,
43:10but I just don't think I'd ever put myself in that position.
43:13Once I'm a lot more confident in myself,
43:15I think the type of path that I want to go down will be love marriage.
43:18But if I don't put myself out there, it definitely won't happen.
43:21Do you want to shake hands?
43:22Sure, let's do it.
43:24I'm just gonna...
43:24I have cold hands, though.
43:26No, it's okay. They're okay.
43:28You have nice hands, though.
43:31You've got nice skin.
43:32I feel like I've gotten darker by being here more.
43:34To be honest, you actually have.
43:36But you're a nice colour.
43:42You okay?
43:43Yeah, I'm all right. You okay?
43:44Yeah, I'm good. I'm all good.
43:45Yeah?
43:46Yeah.
43:52Look, you can tell how cold I am because I was going a bit purple.
43:55Yeah. You are going a bit purple, aren't you?
43:57Maybe you can warm them up for me.
43:59You want me to warm them up for you?
44:00Yeah.
44:00I'll give you a little peck.
44:02Yeah, go on.
44:04Beautiful.
44:05How was that?
44:06Yeah, lovely.
44:07Yeah?
44:07Good for you?
44:08Of course.
44:09Good.
44:10We got on quite well, and I'm just looking forward to getting to know him more.
44:14I don't know whether it could be a bit romantic,
44:18but I've never had a connection with anyone like I do with Viraj.
44:23Enjoy that.
44:24Yeah, let me touch.
44:25Okay.
44:25I'm going to be running.
44:28That was awkward.
44:30I feel really great.
44:31I feel confident,
44:32and I feel like I've pushed outside a massive barrier with me with going on dates.
44:36She's just an amazing girl,
44:38and I'm really glad that I was with her for that date.
44:41You want to hold my hand?
44:42We'll make it like an official date.
44:48And with that, it's time to celebrate the end of another phase of the cast.
44:55Are you feeling confident?
44:57Yes.
45:00My confidence has definitely grown over the last few days.
45:02I've kind of been on a journey in terms of my gender.
45:05I'm not quite sure who I am,
45:07but I know at least I'm Tom.
45:11Cheers.
45:12Woo!
45:14Over the last few days,
45:16my confidence has skyrocketed so much more than I thought it ever would,
45:20and I'm really looking forward to where the journey may take me next.
45:25It's so exciting, and it's so nice to feel like these new feelings that I'm feeling.
45:29Now that I'm kind of, I know myself a bit better,
45:32the fear is gone,
45:33so I'm hoping I can progress faster now that I'm not being held back by my own fear.
45:38Tomorrow, we are taking you to the next level.
45:42Oh my god.
45:43Are you ready?
45:47We've come a long journey together, and you never know what's coming next.
45:51I just hope we don't go in tomorrow and they're all naked or something.
45:53That'd be quite scary.
45:57Next time...
45:57So this is my buddy.
45:59For fuck's sake.
46:00The call centre's its toughest phase yet.
46:03We're gonna invite you one by one to show yourself out.
46:08Do you know what? YOLO.
46:14And the one-on-ones.
46:15What's the feeling in your body, the sensation of it?
46:18Disgusting.
46:19Push the virgins further than ever before.
46:22Just like, explore.
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