Where Are All The Good Men? (The Truth No One Talks About)

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The good men aren’t missing—they’re just silent. In this video, we break down why society overlooks the men who love through action, not words. Learn how to recognize the heroes in your life and why their quiet strength keeps the world turning. 🔧💔  🔔 Subscribe for deeper dives into self-growth, relationships, and modern masculinity. Hit the bell to never miss a video!

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00:00You keep asking, where are all the good men?

00:02I'll tell you where they're not.

00:04They're not in your comments section.

00:06They're not liking your pictures and sending you DMs,

00:09and they're definitely not trying to win an argument with you online.

00:13They don't debate, because they were never taught to talk.

00:16Not like that.

00:17That good man you're looking for, he doesn't parade his pain.

00:21He carries it quietly.

00:24Because in his world, suffering isn't something you share.

00:27It's something you hide.

00:30Not because he's dishonest, but because he knows what happens when you show weakness.

00:36It gets used against you.

00:39So he learned early on, if you're hurting, work harder.

00:43If you're lost, don't say a word, just get back to it.

00:47That's how he loves you, by the way.

00:49Not with words, but with labor.

00:51With early mornings.

00:53With problems solved before you even knew they were there.

00:57So if you're wondering where he is, he's probably out fixing something, paying for something,

01:04lifting something heavier than he wants to.

01:06But he won't say that.

01:09Because saying it would feel like failing.

01:13And if you saw him right now, he'd probably light up in a big old smile and ask you how you're doing.

01:19And when you're done telling him how you are and you ask him, he'd just nod and say, I'm fine.

01:25But if you really looked, you might see the weight he's carrying.

01:29The things he'll never say.

01:31Not because he doesn't feel, but because he was raised to believe that a good man carries his pain silently and keeps the world turning anyway.

01:41So where are all these good men?

01:45They're not missing, they're out there keeping things running that no one notices until they stop.

01:52Fixing what breaks, carrying what's heavy.

01:55Loving in the form of reliability, protection, quiet presence.

02:00They don't ask for recognition, but they deserve to be felt.

02:03So if you have one, a father, a husband, a grandfather, a brother, look again at that man.

02:11That tired man who never complains, that might just be your hero in disguise.

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