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  • 10 months ago
Southern Charm’s Venita Aspen Breaks Down JT Thomas Dating Timeline, Claims
He Did Her ‘So Dirty’

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00:00We find out that after filming Wrapped, you and JT did start dating for a little bit.
00:05Kind of give me the timeline a little bit.
00:07So we started dating when I got back from New York in September.
00:11Okay.
00:11So it was from September, October, November.
00:14Trying to figure out, like, okay, like, are we doing this?
00:16Like, do we actually like each other?
00:17Is it because we're around each other all the time?
00:19Like, trying to figure that out.
00:22And in November, he posted that he had the girlfriend on Instagram,
00:26and that's how I found out about the girlfriend in that moment.
00:29So did you have the conversation that you were exclusively dating?
00:33No, we were just dating.
00:34And so I think it would have been nice to just have him be like,
00:36hey, by the way, like, I'm dating someone else,
00:39and I've decided to go with her versus you.
00:42Fine.
00:42Like, I would not have cared.
00:43I'm like, oh my god, like, I appreciate you so much for saying something,
00:46being kind about it, but he didn't do that, so.
00:48Especially since you were best friends.
00:51Yeah.
00:51Right.
00:51Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:52Did you know this person at all?
00:54No, no, no.
00:55So did you end up, like, ghosting him after,
00:58like he says, the reunion?
00:59No, I did not ghost him.
01:00Okay, so what happened here?
01:02So I decided to take a step back after the super teaser.
01:05I mean, I would too, yeah.
01:07And like, once the super teaser dropped, I decided to take a step back,
01:10and I was just like, hey, listen, like, this is wild.
01:12Like, I don't really like what's happening here,
01:14because in that moment, that's when she was calling me out of my name.
01:17So I was just like, I'm taking a step back from this,
01:20because he was like, I can't do anything about it.
01:22And I go, okay, cool.
01:24Like, that's not someone I want to, like, affiliate myself with
01:27if you can't, like, do anything about someone calling me out of my name.
01:30So I guess he thought me taking a step back was me ghosting him,
01:33which is like, no, I literally said, I need time.
01:36And if you wanted to talk and say, oh, well, you know,
01:39have you taken enough time?
01:40Like, can we chat?
01:40You should have done that versus getting mad at me
01:43and then making that decision.
01:45Sure.
01:45Did he, when, after he posted that photo of his girlfriend,
01:48did he reach out to you at all?
01:51So you never got even, like, any explanation about this?
01:54Not one.
01:54Then he quit a week after that.
01:56I know we're going to see the reunion.
01:57Yeah.
01:58You come, you know, guns blazing as you should.
02:01You know, yeah.
02:02Right.
02:03Going into the reunion, what were the answers that you were looking for?
02:06And did you get them?
02:08I was looking for him to communicate better and he didn't.
02:13So that's the main thing I was looking for.
02:15And his communication has been lack thereof this entire time.
02:18And I was just, like, hoping in that moment, okay, like,
02:21you know, I'm still sitting here choosing to not
02:24let my anger take over this conversation, even though I did get a little feisty.
02:27But, like, I was just, like, I'm not going to let that lead me.
02:29Like, I do want to hear you out and hear you talk.
02:31And, like, he just did not give me that at all.
02:34It was very sad.
02:34You did not get the answers that you wanted to at the reunion.
02:37What has been the relationship like since then?
02:40Are you done?
02:41Yeah, I'm done.
02:42Done.
02:43Yeah.
02:43And it's sad.
02:44It's actually really sad.
02:45Like, I'm so disappointed in him because
02:47I knew in my heart that he was, like, the bigger man on this cast.
02:51You know what I mean?
02:52Like, I was like, okay, he's coming in and, like, going after everyone and, like,
02:55calling people out for beating the women and, like, doing dirty.
02:58Like, now you're doing the same thing.
02:59Yeah.
03:00Yeah, and it sucks.
03:00Right.
03:01Is he totally out of the friend group now?
03:03Like, is there no way for him to get back in?
03:05Because, like, you were his only lifeline, pretty much.
03:07And that was the only reason why people filmed with him last season.
03:10Really?
03:10Yeah, because everyone was like, oh, no, like, you know, we're not really, like,
03:13filming with him or, like, we don't like him or whatever.
03:15And I was like, guys, come on, like, give him a shot.
03:17They gave him a shot for me.
03:18Like, I also put my neck on the line and stuck my neck out
03:21to risk new and old friendships to, like, hanging out with him, bringing him around,
03:25you know?
03:26But yeah, the whole group is done with him.
03:28They're done with him.
03:28I don't want to speak for everybody, but, like, I think they're done.
03:31Would you ever imagine filming with him ever again?
03:33No.
03:33No.
03:34Yeah.
03:34I don't trust him.
03:35It's over.
03:36I've never felt like this ever in my life.
03:38I've never had someone do me so dirty.
03:40Yeah.
03:40And when you were so close.
03:42Right.
03:42Right.
03:42That's the hardest part.
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