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00:11We have with us, Dy-Dy.
00:13Dy-Dy, you've been here in Hong Kong for a long time.
00:15Yes, I have.
00:17And your family is in Pampanga and Paranaque?
00:20Yes.
00:21And your mother is watching.
00:22Yes, she idolizes you.
00:24Mother Lourdes, you are the first person Dy-Dy mentioned.
00:28I hope we can help, not just your family, but all Filipinos.
00:33Thank you for your love and loyalty, Mother Lourdes.
00:37So, Dy-Dy, what happened to you?
00:39On December 29, 2020, I underwent an operation on Queen Elizabeth.
00:45I was diagnosed with left breast cancer, stage 3C.
00:51My doctor told me that in a few days, I would be going to Hukay.
00:55I am still thankful to God that I was saved.
00:58I told my father.
00:59Your father was very supportive.
01:00Yes.
01:01Because of the pandemic, I couldn't just go to the hospital or the clinic.
01:07But you had a problem because you were getting assistance from OAH?
01:10Yes.
01:12I went to OAH.
01:13I was in social justice at the time.
01:15I asked for my medical records.
01:18They took it and gave it to me.
01:19They said they would forward it to the Philippines after three weeks.
01:24I got the authorization letter that I wrote to my husband.
01:28And then what happened after that?
01:29Yes.
01:31There was no notice from you that you were denied or that you weren't coming?
01:35None.
01:36But OAH has a record, of course, because you are a member.
01:39So, they have your address to the employer.
01:42Did they get your cell phone?
01:43Yes, they did.
01:44That was in 2020.
01:46When I underwent an operation?
01:47Yes.
01:47So, in 2021?
01:492021.
01:50Yes.
01:51Thank you to the DMW.
01:53Because of cancer patients, the DMW gave me a subsidy.
01:59And because I was scheduled to undergo a thyroid operation on January 8,
02:03I submitted my medical records to the DMW.
02:07And thank God, I got a grant.
02:09I thought to myself,
02:10my medical records were approved by the DMW.
02:14How come I wasn't accepted by OAH?
02:17According to my husband,
02:18there was no call and no receipt.
02:21So, I went to OAH.
02:23I was crying and crying.
02:25I was paralyzed.
02:27All of my hair fell back.
02:28Why?
02:29I was missing.
02:30I was not receiving financial assistance.
02:33That's what I said.
02:34When I went there again,
02:35I called my husband and asked if there was a call.
02:39He said there was none.
02:40So, I went to OAH again.
02:42On December 17, OAH Hong Kong called me.
02:45I replied to OAH Region 2.
02:48They said,
02:50Moises Valenciano received 2021.
02:54I was shocked.
02:56How come 2021?
02:58I received nothing.
02:59I didn't receive anything.
03:01No one reached out to me.
03:03I was the only one who was accepted.
03:05It's like I was embarrassed and hurt at the same time.
03:09My question is,
03:10what assurance or legal action should I take
03:15to my husband that he can't sell my conjugal property?
03:20We got married recently.
03:21When did you get married?
03:22Do you remember?
03:23June 28, 2019.
03:26If you got married in 2019,
03:29it's called absolute property.
03:31It means that what's yours is his and what's his is yours.
03:36Let's talk about OAH.
03:39I'll go first.
03:40Let's talk about your husband's rights.
03:43First of all, you're right about those two things.
03:46Yes, sir.
03:46But I want to emphasize,
03:48the first use of a husband's property is your support.
03:53If he's sick or you're sick,
03:56you can't say,
03:57I don't want to sell it.
03:58I'll drive first, but you're sick.
04:01It goes to the support.
04:03That property is yours.
04:05And in the law, there's a hierarchy.
04:07The higher one is your husband's support.
04:10Okay, let's do it first.
04:12Let's ask the LTO,
04:15if the property is yours,
04:18because that's called notice.
04:21If there's a notice from a person
04:23that it's not his or he has a partner
04:25and you bought it,
04:26it's bad faith, you can get it back.
04:28Okay.
04:28But if there's no notice from him,
04:30of course, he doesn't know.
04:32But if it's in the register or in the title,
04:34that's called notice to the whole world.
04:36Oh.
04:37Right?
04:37So, if I look at this house,
04:39it's beautiful.
04:40If I talk to Atty. Ruff or Atty. Matt,
04:42I'll buy this because they're there.
04:44If I don't look at the title,
04:46and it's in the title of Day-Day,
04:48you can chase me.
04:50Because that's a notice to the whole world.
04:53But of course, Day,
04:54it's going to come back and back
04:55when you talk to your two spouses.
04:58Yes.
04:59But I really am grateful that you
05:02shared your experience.
05:03I cannot say I understand
05:05or I know how you feel because
05:08you're here, your family is here,
05:10you got cancer, you're that bad,
05:12you're on stage three.
05:13I'm so sad that I didn't go home
05:17to get treatment.
05:18Oh, God,
05:20my hair is back.
05:22Day,
05:24we want to be of help.
05:25So, as we said,
05:26this is a big help to others
05:28that they listened to your experience,
05:30they stood up for you.
05:31That's the most important thing,
05:32what you said,
05:33to have faith in the Lord
05:34as you fight.
05:35So, Atty. Matt and Atty. Ruff
05:37will continue talking
05:39to see how we can help.
05:41And of course, we pray that
05:42you'll have a good conversation
05:44with your spouses, right?
05:46If you can talk to her.
05:49What's your first name?
05:51Moises.
05:52Brother Moises,
05:53Day Day has something to say to you.
05:56For me,
05:58not only is 40,000 the value of love,
06:01right?
06:01And trust.
06:03We can earn 40,000
06:06if you're strong,
06:08you don't have a disease,
06:09like me, I already have a disease,
06:10I was desperate not to go home to the Philippines
06:12to get treatment here.
06:14And then, 40,000 is the value,
06:16even if I'm going to die,
06:17I still have to use it.
06:19Despite all of that,
06:21you're willing to forgive.
06:22Just fix it.
06:23Yes, because
06:24I said to my husband,
06:27let's make up.
06:29I'm not mad anymore.
06:30But because I was hurt,
06:31it's still there.
06:33Brother Moises,
06:34we're not judging,
06:35that's between you and Day Day,
06:37but you heard,
06:38you heard the love,
06:40so,
06:41we're here to help,
06:43we're here to be a bridge,
06:44but also to pray
06:46that you'll fix it properly, okay?
06:48And we have a small thank you,
06:50we have a small gift for you.
06:51Thank you so much.
06:53And if it's not enough,
06:55let me know.
06:55I hope you can buy it.
06:58Because,
06:59Day,
07:00for all that you've been through,
07:03we're blessed to say,
07:05you deserve what you need,
07:06you'll get it.
07:08God bless you.
07:09God bless you.
07:14Even if Day Day has been through a lot,
07:16we can learn from it,
07:18and I hope this will be a guide,
07:21especially for the newlyweds,
07:23who will be abroad, right?
07:25Let's make up for their sacrifice and love.
07:28We'll be right back with
07:29Tano in Action with Boy Abunda.
07:33Our action towards Day Day continues.
07:36Even in Hong Kong,
07:38she received a post-mastectomy prosthesis
07:41and prosthesis bra
07:42to make her right breast look more normal
07:45even if it's already been operated on.
07:47And in Tano in Action,
07:49we also pray for your continued well-being,
07:52Mother Day Day.
07:54Oh my, oh my.
07:55Thank you so much.
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