00:00Hello, Smartparenting fam!
00:02We are...
00:03Milasan Family!
00:05I am Mela.
00:06I am baby Stella.
00:08I am Mela, the O.A.
00:10And I'm Jason.
00:11And in this episode of...
00:12Isap Tayo!
00:14What?
00:14What do you mean?
00:15We will be playing...
00:16Who's Who!
00:24Stella!
00:25Mama!
00:26All!
00:27All of us.
00:28No, Stella.
00:28Who's the funniest?
00:30For me, it's Stella.
00:31Mama.
00:32She does something funny.
00:35She makes us laugh effortlessly.
00:37She always wants us to be happy.
00:38And when she sees that we're sad,
00:41she always says,
00:42Mama, are you sad?
00:43Then she makes us laugh.
00:44You're so talkative.
00:45Other people laugh at Mama
00:48because they're funny.
00:51Really?
00:52Stella is the funniest.
00:54All of the family is Stella.
00:55Stella is the funniest.
00:59Papa!
01:01Teacher me.
01:02It's Papa because
01:03everywhere we go, he's shy.
01:06He's shy.
01:07He's not shy.
01:08I'm not shy.
01:09Papa is really shy with us
01:11because the three of us are still shy.
01:14We join forces because of our thick faces.
01:17He's the one who's really shy.
01:18Yes, I'm not shy.
01:20Papa is shy.
01:21He's really shy.
01:22Stella loves to dance.
01:24She loves to sing and dance.
01:26He's so annoying.
01:28He's so annoying.
01:33Actually, I'm the sweetest baby.
01:35Why is she the sweetest?
01:36Because she really wants
01:38everyone to be happy.
01:39She always checks on us
01:40to see if we're okay.
01:41Ate is also sweet.
01:44Yes, Ate is sweet.
01:45What does she do to you?
01:46She loves me sometimes.
01:48Stella loves me because
01:50she prays for everyone.
01:52She prays for everyone to be safe.
01:54She prays for everyone to be safe
01:56in the world.
01:59She prays for everyone to eat safely.
02:02She's really thoughtful.
02:03She prays for everyone to get an ambulance.
02:06We got to the point where we were so hungry
02:08because of the prayer.
02:10She included all the ambulances.
02:14That's why she's the sweetest.
02:19Papa.
02:21They have different answers.
02:23Okay, explain.
02:24Me.
02:25Papa because
02:26we always tell him
02:28one is enough,
02:30two is good,
02:31three is too much.
02:33We don't eat a lot of chips.
02:36Mama gives us chips
02:38so we can eat them all.
02:40Mama is the strictest.
02:43She's the one who regulates.
02:44No, she's the strictest.
02:48No, she's the strictest.
02:50She makes us good kids.
02:53Papa.
02:54All parents are strict
02:56but Mama is the only one.
02:58If Mama has a rule,
02:59she's the strictest.
03:00But if she doesn't,
03:01she's the strictest.
03:08Papa.
03:09Mama.
03:11That's not patience.
03:12That's why she doesn't have patience.
03:13She doesn't know how to answer you.
03:16That's it.
03:17Mama makes us read astronomy.
03:20She makes us read.
03:21Her reading is wrong.
03:22I'll teach you.
03:23In semi-triangle, it's right, right?
03:24Yes, it's right.
03:25It's right.
03:26Mama is right in reading
03:28but it's wrong.
03:29Your mama's helping words are wrong.
03:31No, no.
03:32I'm just saying the helping words.
03:34Helping words.
03:35She doesn't help the family.
03:41Mama.
03:42Sorry, Papa.
03:44That's why you asked me
03:45and you didn't say sorry to me.
03:46But you said that to your Papa.
03:48I didn't, Mama.
03:50Okay, why am I the one who's cheering?
03:52Because if you're mad,
03:53you'll be like this.
03:54Then later,
03:55you'll be like this.
03:57Papa is like that.
04:00Don't be like that.
04:01I don't want Mama.
04:03I don't want Mama to make us sad.
04:07That's why when...
04:08Papa doesn't make us sad.
04:10You're always talking.
04:12There was a time when my sister
04:14when she woke up, she was sad.
04:16Mama scolded her.
04:18Mama said,
04:19Don't be sad.
04:20Papa Jesus gave us everything.
04:23All the blessings.
04:24You're the one who's sad.
04:26She might not be sad.
04:27It's just a moment.
04:29What if she's acting?
04:30What if I'm acting?
04:31Mama, is that you?
04:32No, it's not.
04:33It's not me.
04:37Now, we have a bat
04:39and Mama will say,
04:42Me.
04:43Respect other people.
04:45If you want other people
04:47to treat you well,
04:49you should treat them well
04:51so that we're all equal.
04:53But there's one thing I always say.
04:56Pray to God.
04:57No, I know.
04:59Whatever you do.
05:01For example,
05:02if a person is far from their sister,
05:07and you're eating chips,
05:09you should be responsible.
05:12You gotta be responsible
05:14even though if no one is around.
05:18And everything.
05:20Whatever you do,
05:22there's a consequence.
05:25For example,
05:26you did something bad,
05:27there's a consequence.
05:28For example,
05:29you did something good,
05:30there's a consequence.
05:31For example,
05:32Mama said,
05:33Don't jump,
05:34you jumped.
05:35Your knees hurt
05:38and when you're angry,
05:40tomatoes.
05:46Mama works hard for us.
05:48She gives her best for us.
05:52Papa also works hard for us.
05:58He tries his best for us.
06:02Like what Stea said,
06:03they work hard for us
06:05so that we can eat
06:07so that we can buy our clothes.
06:09We want our shelter.
06:11They pay the rent
06:12and our clothes.
06:18I'm grateful for Papang.
06:20We're just naive
06:21but he's the responsible father
06:23for the kids.
06:24That's why I'm saying
06:26he's like that.
06:27You know,
06:28when it comes to health,
06:31his kids,
06:32I'm a bit stubborn
06:34but he's the one
06:35who really knows
06:36what to eat,
06:37what to drink,
06:38what vitamins to take.
06:40Sometimes,
06:41I'm amazed at his fairness.
06:43We grew up
06:44like you're in charge
06:46of your immune system.
06:48But him,
06:49you know,
06:50I can say that
06:51because my dad used to be like,
06:53It's okay,
06:54you'll live.
06:55You're in charge of Lord.
06:56You're really attached to Lord.
06:57He's really,
06:58you know,
06:59he's attached to Lord
07:00but he's also attached to himself.
07:01He's like,
07:02this is my son,
07:03this is my family.
07:04He's really hands-on.
07:05You know,
07:06if he's holding two hands
07:07and you can't see it
07:08but he's holding ten hands,
07:09he's really giving it
07:10to his kids.
07:11I'm really happy.
07:12Sometimes,
07:13when we fight,
07:14it doesn't matter
07:15if we fight
07:16as long as he gives his kids first.
07:17You know,
07:18I can forgive him right away
07:19because, you know,
07:20when it comes to kids,
07:21it's like,
07:22Thank you, Lord,
07:23I have a husband like this
07:24because
07:25the hands-on father is different.
07:26We know that
07:27mothers are hands-on
07:28but the father,
07:29the father is different.
07:30He really secures
07:31the protection
07:32and security
07:33of his children.
07:34That's why,
07:35I know that I'm safe there.
07:36If he's there,
07:37he's really safe in our house.
07:38I'm really used to that.
07:39But when he's not there,
07:40I really lock the doors.
07:41Jason is like that.
07:42Because, you know,
07:43even if we sleep,
07:44we have to eat.
07:45He's like that.
07:46Oh, it's moving.
07:47It's moving.
07:48He's killing the mosquito
07:49in the dark.
07:50He's like,
07:51there's a mosquito.
07:52You know,
07:53that's where I'm really proud of him.
07:54That's why I'm grateful.
07:55That's why I'm grateful to him
07:56because,
07:57even if he's a woman,
07:58he's really strong.
07:59He's strong
08:00in spirit.
08:01His face is strong.
08:02His face.
08:03So, it's good
08:04because in our world,
08:05I said,
08:06of course,
08:07I'm the first one.
08:08I like it.
08:09So, at least,
08:10even if I'm not in the world,
08:11I know that...
08:12No,
08:13of course,
08:14that's God's time.
08:15You're not the one
08:16who will decide that.
08:17So, that means,
08:18you know,
08:19as a woman,
08:20you know that
08:21he's strong.
08:22So, you're confident
08:23because even if he's a woman,
08:24he can handle himself.
08:25So, that's what I like about him
08:26because I'm grateful
08:27that even if...
08:28He can handle himself.
08:29Even if sometimes I'm not there.
08:30Why?
08:31It's like,
08:32you want to leave me.
08:33That's what I'm saying.
08:34Why?
08:35He can handle himself.
08:36So, now,
08:37maybe we'll separate
08:38because he can handle himself.
08:39And I'm grateful
08:40because he's not perfect.
08:43Because now,
08:44it's like,
08:45we want to do...
08:46We want everything
08:47to be perfect.
08:48But then again,
08:49imperfection
08:51is
08:52school.
08:53But you know,
08:54if he understands
08:55each one of you
08:56like that,
08:57it's like,
08:58it's good because...
08:59Because nobody's perfect.
09:00That's what I like
09:01because it really fits me.
09:03You know,
09:04if you understand each other
09:05more,
09:06life will be easier
09:07if you're not
09:08perfect.
09:09If you think,
09:10you're perfect.
09:11You're looking for a lot.
09:13So, you shouldn't look for
09:14anything else.
09:15Acceptance.
09:16Acceptance.
09:17For me,
09:18he's indisciplinary to us.
09:19He's always sweet
09:20to our kids.
09:21He's the one
09:22who talks 24 hours.
09:23He doesn't have
09:24patience
09:25when it comes to talking.
09:27When it comes to reading books.
09:28He's English.
09:29When it comes to that,
09:30sometimes,
09:31at first,
09:32of course,
09:33we know
09:34each other's weaknesses.
09:35Like,
09:36this girl
09:37should be
09:38taller
09:39because
09:40I know how to read
09:41Disney princesses.
09:42So, you know,
09:43it's like,
09:44I'm just taking
09:45her weakness
09:46and I'm the one
09:47who's going to
09:48give it to her
09:49because
09:51that's her weakness.
09:52So, that's it.
09:53Which is
09:54very cute
09:55in my part.
09:56Baby number 3 is
09:57coming over.
09:58And that's it
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