00:00We did an interview, we did a conversation for My Mother, My Story.
00:09In our conversation, you said that you're afraid to be alone.
00:14But I think, you used the word, I think, I think I can do it.
00:21So, the reactions were different.
00:23Some said, why? Why is she sad?
00:26What does she mean by that?
00:28And why in their conversation, in My Mother, My Story,
00:32she didn't mention the name of Gerald, your wife of 10 years.
00:38There were subsequent reactions, speculations,
00:42that you're not getting along, you're separating from Gerald,
00:45you have problems in your marriage.
00:47Now, the question.
00:51And this is not easy, it's hard for me to ask this.
00:54Are you and your husband, Gerald Zimbayan, separated? Yes or no?
01:01Yes, we're separated.
01:10I can do this.
01:11Last month, October, I can't forget, October 14,
01:22he chatted with me in the early morning here in the Philippines.
01:26He said that he wants to have a child and he's not happy anymore.
01:37I was a bit confused and shocked.
01:43Why now? Why this time?
01:46Why? You should've just waited for me to go back to America.
01:53There were a lot of why's.
01:58I was confused.
02:00In fairness, we didn't really fight.
02:05Actually, in our whole time together,
02:07the discussion was really on the fingers, not the fight.
02:14So, I was just surprised.
02:18Why now? What's going on in October?
02:22What's going on today?
02:24And why is it so early here?
02:27Of course, it's hard to read.
02:29Of course, you can't see me because you're still asleep.
02:35I have something to say to you.
02:39What was your reaction? Did you respond?
02:42I responded, but aside from my initial reaction,
02:49it was okay.
02:51Then, when it was already morning,
02:55of course, it was my husband's initial reaction.
02:58It was natural.
02:59Of course, you got angry.
03:01I got angry first.
03:03And then, I was thinking,
03:09what's happening?
03:11Like, is this it?
03:14But actually, Father,
03:16when I got married to Gerald,
03:21I was preparing myself for this situation.
03:26Because I know that Gerald is still young.
03:29Maybe he'll change his mind.
03:31But, you know, I hope not.
03:34I hope not.
03:36I hope there's a real forever.
03:38I hope the Lord really gave me a chance
03:42to have a good marriage.
03:47A long one.
03:49So, I was surprised that it was already now.
03:53I thought it was around 35.
03:57October 14, November 11, this day,
04:01did you talk?
04:04No, Father.
04:06Because our messages,
04:11we didn't talk about it
04:13because he already said that
04:17this is my definite decision.
04:21Okay.
04:22Is my understanding correct?
04:24That the first message,
04:26Gerald separated from you through a text message?
04:31I guess.
04:32Yes.
04:33That message.
04:34That message.
04:35That, okay, the message is,
04:37I don't want it anymore.
04:39The second one, the Viber,
04:41because I was confused.
04:46Is my understanding correct?
04:48Because reading between the lines,
04:50in his text,
04:53it's like, is he separating?
04:56Or is he just telling me this
04:58because this is how he feels?
05:01But what I confirmed to him was,
05:04is this it?
05:06Blah, blah, blah.
05:08And then he confirmed that
05:10he doesn't want it anymore.
05:14No, that's not the word,
05:16he doesn't want it anymore.
05:18His word is,
05:19this is my definite decision.
05:21This is my definite decision,
05:23I'm stopping it.
05:25I don't want it anymore.
05:26I don't want it anymore.
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