00:00Have you ever had a conversation, a fight, or a discussion about these things that make her unhappy and she wants to have a child?
00:14Because she knows that it will be hard for you to have a child.
00:19Yes, Father.
00:20I mean, directly to the government.
00:21Yes, Father. That's true.
00:22And actually, that's what I'm afraid of.
00:25The word is afraid.
00:27Because she knows that before she gets me married, I won't be able to have a child.
00:31But Father, I really tried my best.
00:35Because we have an in vitro.
00:39Even if my eggs are weak, I try to have an IVF.
00:49And then, we have three embryos.
00:59They have names.
01:00Gail, Grain.
01:06You can do this.
01:08Grain, Gail.
01:10We still have one.
01:12Gould.
01:15We still have one embryo.
01:19I told her that if we get married, I will give her a surprise.
01:29I will give her a baby so that we can have a baby.
01:37Maybe that's what triggered her.
01:40She doesn't like surprises.
01:43She doesn't like surprises that I will give her a baby because we still have one embryo, Gould.
01:51Maybe that's why she didn't tell me.
01:54But she said that she will be hurt when we lose our two babies, Gail and Grain.
02:03Will she be hurt?
02:04Will she regret it?
02:07Not really.
02:08She will just be hurt.
02:10Maybe that's it.
02:11Maybe that's it.
02:12But she knows that you tried.
02:16Yes.
02:17And I told her that we still have one, Gould.
02:24He's also your son.
02:26I told her that he's also your son.
02:32I hope we can try that.
02:34Okay.
02:35So that she won't regret it.
02:37Maybe she just doesn't want to wait.
02:41She wants to have more babies.
02:45So when she said in the text message that she wants to have a baby,
02:49it was tantamount to saying that I'm separating from you because I'm not happy anymore and I want to have a baby.
02:57My words, because you won't be able to give me a baby.
03:00Yes.
03:01Yes.
03:02You made it clear to her.
03:03If I'm not happy anymore, where will it come from, Aileen?
03:07Actually…
03:08Other than the baby.
03:09Actually, Father, I really don't know.
03:11Until now?
03:12I don't know.
03:13Because I told you that we never fought.
03:18It's just a discussion.
03:19It's always just a discussion.
03:20Yes.
03:21And it's very rare.
03:24Or maybe I just don't notice it because I'm just here and she's busy with work.
03:34Direct question.
03:36My third party.
03:43As a wife,
03:46wives are strong.
03:53I feel there is.
03:58I feel there is.
03:59That's a gut feel.
04:00Gut feel.
04:01Gut feel.
04:03But you don't have evidence.
04:04Yes, but Father, it doesn't matter if there is or not.
04:08Why doesn't it matter?
04:10Because when he said that he was firm in his decision,
04:15I won't fight, right?
04:17You didn't fight.
04:20If I fight,
04:22for example,
04:23if I stay,
04:26it's like,
04:28I know that there will be an ending.
04:30My dignity and my self-worth
04:35will be gone.
04:36I'll just stay.
04:37Because I know that it will happen again.
04:43Because Father, in 2019,
04:47he cheated again.
04:51In 2019.
04:53So,
04:56I have trust issues.
04:58So, maybe that's one of the reasons.
05:00Sometimes, I don't know
05:02if it's my fault
05:04or sometimes,
05:06it's not a big deal,
05:08but the question,
05:09where are you now?
05:10You said,
05:1212, you're already here.
05:14Things like that,
05:15that I don't notice,
05:17that are in fairness to him,
05:20because something like that happened before.
05:23I'll go back to that.
05:36I'll go back to that.
06:06I'll go back to that.
06:36I'll go back to that.
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