00:00Do you want to give an example and we can walk through it?
00:08Yeah, there is a person who I have sort of hurt in the past and she has hurt me in the
00:17past and we're still very good friends, which is kind of weird, but I've always trying to
00:24fix things and make it how it was and never really letting go of that guilt.
00:30Even when I know that maybe she's kind of over it or whatever, it's just not really
00:35ever going back to where I wanted it to be.
00:37It's not ever really getting fixed.
00:38Well, that's what we were talking about yesterday when we said, don't go back and try to relitigate
00:44something because you're in a whole different place.
00:48And when you go back and try to fix it, you activate those old vibrations over which you
00:53have even less control now than you did then.
00:56And they are worse of a vibrational match for you now than they were even then, no matter
01:02how Rocky or uncomfortable or what you call bad, a past experience was as you move forward
01:10into more and more alignment.
01:11When you go back to relive it, it's better.
01:15And I often find myself, I don't like to feel this way, but I almost could have sort of
01:19resent them for not letting me try and help them or fix it.
01:24That's that closed circuit that we're talking about.
01:26That is sort of electrocuting you a little bit.
01:28You're trying to put current where it isn't being received.
01:31And so it's a sort of shocking experience.
01:34We want to give you some things to soothe this.
01:36First we want to say you used some interesting words.
01:39You said I hurt her and she hurt me.
01:42And we would like to rephrase that a little bit.
01:44We used each other for our excuse for being hurt.
01:52We used each other as our reason to close our circuit and not let the true current from
01:57source flow, because that's really where it's all flowing.
02:01Nobody needs you to blast them with your current or vibration or energy.
02:07Everyone has access to the same stream.
02:10And there are a lot of people walking around with closed circuits and complaining about
02:13it.
02:14Wanting those of you who appear to have your circuits open to give them some of what you've
02:18got.
02:19We said to someone the other day who was suffering so much over not being able to get through
02:24to help someone.
02:25And we said, that person has access to source energy.
02:30And if we can't get in, what makes you think you can.
02:38So sometimes what happens, and this is a very common behavior for our physical friends.
02:48When you see someone suffering, sometimes you almost feel guilty because you are not.
02:53And then you try to accomplish empathy, which is adjusting your vibration to the same place
02:58of disconnection that theirs is.
03:01And then you've got no power to give them, but they like you better.
03:06And so that's really the dilemma, isn't it?
03:08Should I stay tuned in, tapped in, turned on?
03:11Should I stay in my own power or should I adjust my vibration to their frequency so
03:17that they can relate better to me?
03:19And we say, that's what many people do.
03:22That's why you want to gather together in groups of dysfunction and stand strong against
03:27the world who is thriving over there to your disgust.
03:32And really what you're wanting to do.
03:34If you're wanting to help someone, you can only teach to the clarity of your example.
03:39And so here's the way we would go about it.
03:43When they are asleep, their circuits are open when they are happy, their circuits are open.
03:52So if you are thinking about them, when they're not presenting a closed circuit to you right
04:00before your face, if you're thinking about them with appreciation, then you are directing
04:08the energy of source on their behalf.
04:11That's beneficial to them.
04:14But what you're really accomplishing is an adjusting of your vibration about them, because
04:20you cannot be in sync with source and thinking about somebody negatively at the same time.
04:28So if your emphasis to yourself is upon feeling good, while you think about them, then you
04:35must always know that you're doing the most that you can do, but you want to watch yourself
04:40because sometimes you're inspired to the thought you're tuned in, tapped in, turned on.
04:44You're in the receptive mode and you get an impulse and you're thinking about them.
04:47It happens a lot.
04:49You're thinking about them, not because you have regret and not because you need to go
04:52back and fix something, but because you had positive momentum with that person too.
04:57And so the thought comes, the impulse is right, and you're in the receptive mode.
05:01And then, because it's a familiar thought and it was more familiar in the negative realm
05:06than it is in the positive realm, your thoughts turn negative.
05:10And then you feel the regret.
05:12And then you feel like you still want to follow through with the impulse that was there before
05:16the regret was there.
05:18And that's when it backfires.
05:20And that's not only about their circuit, it's about yours too.
05:24So what we would do, we would think fondly, we would make lists of appreciation.
05:31We would even rampage appreciation.
05:33If you want to about anyone and use that as your adjusting of your vibration.
05:39And then what that ensures is that you are less likely to get an impulse about them unless
05:45the timing is really right.
05:46Isn't that a lovely thing?
05:47Wouldn't you like to, doesn't it sound like just the best plan ever for you to know when
05:53you're tuned in and when you're tuned in your inner being to know when the other is
05:57tuned in so that you can be guided to the impulse.
06:00We've not put it to you this way before, but that's really what's happening.
06:04If the circuits open so that you're going to have smooth sailing, that's when the impulse
06:08comes.
06:09That's what we mean when we say your inner being gives you perfect timing about things.
06:13But if you're just slogging along and you're not taking care to pay attention to whether
06:17you're really in the receptive mode or not, and instead you're in the receptive mode of
06:20vulnerability or regret or something, and then you get the impulse to go.
06:24And there's no benefit because your non-physical entourage hasn't been out there ahead of you
06:29paving the way for you.
06:31Your timing isn't right.
06:32Are you following this?
06:35Impulses that come from that kind of alignment are always good.
06:38And you know it because they feel good.
06:40And when you follow through with those, when you are chronically consistently able to maintain
06:44that vibration, then you can.
06:47Renew friendships.
06:49You don't have to go back and make amends for what's gone wrong.
06:53In fact, you cannot.
06:55Someone said to us one day, Abraham, are you a forgiving being?
06:59And we said, no, never.
07:01And they were shocked.
07:03And we said, we haven't condemned to begin with, so we have nothing to take back.
07:07But even if we have, we are wise enough to know that going back and re litigating would
07:13take us from the vibrational frequency that we now are.
07:16There is no benefit in that you see.
07:20And so if you say to someone, I'm sorry, I'm sorry that I hurt you.
07:25What you're really saying is in my sorriness, I'm not in the receptive mode.
07:28I'm in a different receptive mode.
07:30And in my acknowledging that I've hurt you, I'm taking credit for your power.
07:34And so I'm diminishing you by saying you don't have an ability to connect with source energy
07:39on your own.
07:40You need me as your conduit.
07:42Anything about that is wonky, you see everything.
07:47Now you can be sorry in the sense that you don't want someone to feel bad, but you cannot
07:51get carried away in that without losing your connection.
07:54And then you have nothing to give them.
07:56So you're right.
07:57Some of them may find you arrogantly in alignment.
08:00Some of them might call you selfish.
08:02You are so selfish.
08:03How dare you feel good?
08:04When I feel bad, that doesn't seem right.
08:07And you say, all right, I've been happy for a long time.
08:10I'll be sad for a month.
08:11I'll be sad from it.
08:13You take the happiness.
08:14I'll take the sadness.
08:16Let me know when my month is up and we'll switch back.
08:20It doesn't work like that.
08:21Doesn't.
08:22I'll be sick.
08:23I've been so well for so long.
08:25I'll be sick now and let some of the sick people be well.
08:28Doesn't work.
08:29Does it?
08:30Everyone has access to the stream.
08:32You just want to demonstrate that you figured out how to access it for yourself.
08:36And as you're consistent in it, they'll figure it out too.
08:41And ultimately that's the, the best help I could give anyone.
08:44The only help you can give anyone, it's the only help you can give anyone.
08:47Oh, there'll be inspired action that comes from it, but that must be the underlying basis.
08:52And sometimes they'll say to you, you've been gone for a long time.
08:56And you may say, I was just finding myself, making sure that I'm steady.
09:00You can find the words to give them, but we would spend no time trying to bring anyone
09:05out of a funk because you always go in with them.
09:10And we wouldn't be rude to them.
09:12Get away from me.
09:13You're in a funk.
09:14You want to be considered of where they are, but that's what compassion is.
09:20Compassion is understanding without joining the vibration.
09:24That's what compassion is.
09:25Compassion is being so dominant in your alignment with who you are, that you are able then to
09:30hold someone as your object of attention in alignment.
09:33That's what Jesus was doing in his healing.
09:36If you stood before him, dripping your illness, he saw it.
09:39Not at all.
09:40Instead, he knew your wellness and he knew it so clearly because he was in the receptive
09:44mode that your illness could not abide in his vibration while he was holding you in
09:48his gaze.
09:50And then he said, go forth and tell no one, because he knew you'd go home and you'd complain
09:53yourself right back into whatever it was.
09:57You'd go find somebody to commiserate with you, to empathize with you, to worry with
10:02you.
10:03Nice to know.
10:05Anything more?
10:06I mean, I could sit here all day and talk, but I forgot to give someone else a chance.
10:12That's considerate.
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