00:00And he said, the best of Muslims are those who treat their wives well.
00:05And a woman asked, O Messenger of Allah, what right do I have over my husband?
00:08He said, let your husband's body be broken and dirty water be collected in it.
00:12And you lick it with your tongue and clean its wounds.
00:14Even then you have not fulfilled the right of your husband.
00:16Both were told to stay here or somewhere else.
00:19Until you learn to tolerate patience, your life will not be beautiful.
00:24Learn to drink anger. Learn to suppress anger.
00:27Learn to be quiet when angry.
00:28Then your life will be very beautiful.
00:32Life is inside, not outside.
00:34You are not living a good life by climbing on the rice every day.
00:36Life is inside.
00:37The heart is like a river, the oceans are like a cave.
00:39Who knows the secrets of the heart?
00:40The back is like a bed, the back is like a pillow.
00:41The back is like a bed, the back is like a pillow.
00:42Life is inside. Life is inside.
00:44And when the heart is exhausted,
00:46when it is exhausted inside,
00:47then there is no fun in external things.
00:49My Prophet taught a beautiful way to live in a house.
00:55Learn to control your tongue.
00:58Learn to control your tongue.
01:00Learn to be quiet.
01:02If your wife gets angry, your husband should be quiet.
01:05If your husband gets angry, your wife should be quiet.
01:08Then your house will be beautiful.
01:10If both of you get angry and both of you start talking,
01:13then you are gone and your child is gone.
01:15Learn to control your tongue.
01:17I had a friend, Maasi Sharifan.
01:19He passed away recently.
01:21He fought a lot.
01:22He came from a small village.
01:23He is a good fighter.
01:25He came to my sister.
01:27He said,
01:28Bibi, my 9 sisters fight with me a lot.
01:30You are the one who fights.
01:31My 9 sisters fight with me a lot.
01:33If someone gives me a taweez,
01:34then all of them will become my servants.
01:36My sister knew that Maasi Sharifan,
01:38you are a good man.
01:40So my sister said,
01:42In our country, there is a tradition of giving a taweez.
01:44You draw straight lines like this.
01:46You make a small circle.
01:48Maasi Sharifan came to me and said,
01:50Maasi, when you start fighting,
01:52then you keep this taweez here
01:54and hit your child.
01:56And don't let it fall.
01:57If it falls, then you are gone.
01:59What did he do?
02:00He gave me a way to make him quiet.
02:02So taweez has a lot of importance.
02:05After a week, he came to me and said,
02:07Bibi, you gave a very good taweez.
02:09The whole fight is over.
02:11Because Maasi Sharifan became quiet.
02:13So I give taweez to these women as well.
02:15I give taweez to Maasi Sharifan as well.
02:17Take the taweez of Maasi Sharifan.
02:19Your life will be very happy.
02:21I swear to Allah,
02:23the respect in bowing down,
02:25is not in raising your head.
02:27The peace in being quiet,
02:29is not in answering.
02:31Learn to be quiet.
02:33Learn to give respect to your children.
02:35Give time to your children.
02:37Both men and women have a job.
02:39Children are negligent.
02:41Give them time.
02:43My Prophet said,
02:45Khairukum khairukum li ahlihi
02:47The best Muslim is the one
02:49who treats his wife well.
02:51A woman asked,
02:53O Messenger of Allah,
02:55what is my husband's right on me?
02:57The Prophet said,
02:59Your husband's body should be broken,
03:01and dirty water should be collected in it.
03:03And you should lick his wounds.
03:05Even then, you have not fulfilled your husband's right.
03:07The best Muslim is the one
03:09who treats his wife well.
03:11The Prophet married 11 times.
03:13I am telling you,
03:15whether you live here or somewhere else,
03:17as long as you don't have patience
03:19and tolerance,
03:21your life will not be beautiful.
03:23Learn to drink your anger.
03:25Learn to suppress your anger.
03:27Learn to be quiet when you are angry.
03:29Then your life will be very beautiful.
03:31Your life is inside, not outside.
03:33You are not living a good life
03:35by getting into life every day.
03:37Life is inside.
03:39Life is inside.
03:45Life is inside.
03:47When the heart is inside,
03:49then the external things
03:51do not give any pleasure.
03:53After the death of Asim,
03:55we don't like the fact that
03:57life is inside.
03:59My son's name was Asim.
04:01He died when he was 36 years old.
04:03We don't like the fact that
04:05there is loneliness inside.
04:07There is only one medicine.
04:09That is to become a Muhammad.
04:11And to adopt the morals of Muhammad.
04:13To walk on the path of Allah's Prophet.
04:15To fight with your life.
04:19One of my friends,
04:21when he went to preach,
04:23he wanted to keep a beard.
04:25Now his wife is his obstacle.
04:27If you keep a beard,
04:29I will have to divorce you.
04:31He kept thinking for a long time.
04:33One day he got an idea.
04:35I feel like
04:37getting married again.
04:39But I think,
04:41should I keep a beard or get married first?
04:43His wife said, keep a beard first.
04:45I said, keep a beard.
04:47So, accept your wives with love.
04:51Respect is in the way of the Prophet.
04:53My father wanted to make me a doctor.
04:55If I was standing here today,
04:57if I was a doctor,
04:59my younger brother is a doctor,
05:01a very good doctor.
05:03If I was standing here today,
05:05my Prophet's way has brought me here.
05:07My Prophet's Sunnah has brought me here.
05:09My Prophet's life has brought me here.
05:11And the love with which you have come,
05:13my Prophet's life is behind it.
05:15By Allah,
05:17respect is the treasure of my Prophet's pure life.
05:21So, you have shown us
05:23your whole life.
05:25You are showing us the love of Hazrat Aisha.
05:27Aisha.
05:29Aisha.
05:33Aisha.
05:35Since I have come to know that
05:37you are my wife in heaven,
05:39it has become easy for me to die.
05:41Whoever has seen the Lord,
05:43he has no need for anything else.
05:45It was only for the sake of the heart.
05:47Praise each other.
05:49Express love for each other.
05:53Today's situation is such that
05:55if you say to your wife, I love you,
05:57she will say to you,
05:59I love you too.
06:01You will ask, is everything okay?
06:03Express it.
06:05Express love.
06:07This will be your founding.
06:09Children.
06:11Children are our parents.
06:13We love them.
06:15Give them respect.
06:17Express love to them.
06:21Dr. Abdul Hai,
06:23a great saint,
06:25asked, who cooked the food?
06:27The patient said, my wife did.
06:29He said, call her.
06:31His wife came.
06:33He said, daughter, your food was very good.
06:35It was very tasty.
06:37She started crying.
06:39The doctor was worried.
06:41He said, daughter, is everything okay?
06:43She said,
06:45I have been with your patient for 30 years.
06:4730 years.
06:49One day, he did not praise me for anything.
06:51He did not praise me.
06:53Express it.
06:55Express it.
06:57Hazrat Fatima is entering the door from there.
06:59You are sitting in the room.
07:01Or lying down.
07:03Or on the chair.
07:05Or on the floor.
07:07If it was Hazrat Fatima,
07:09you would move forward quickly.
07:11You would not stand there.
07:13You would hold Hazrat Fatima's hand
07:15and kiss her here.
07:17Sometimes you would kiss her forehead.
07:19And you would sit on the floor.
07:21And then you would sit.
07:23This is the respect of my Prophet with his children.
07:27This respect will be yours.
07:29It will be yours.
07:31They do not need advice.
07:33They need your love.
07:37And when the Prophet of Allah
07:39would go to Hazrat Fatima's house,
07:41Hazrat Fatima would stand up.
07:43She would kiss the Prophet of Allah's forehead.
07:45Then she would hold his hand.
07:47And she would sit down.
07:49Expressing is a great medicine.
07:51It is a great pleasure.
07:53A person is in need.
07:55It is good that he praises.
07:57It is not welcome.
07:59It is Haram.
08:01And it is obligatory to praise.
08:03To encourage him.
08:05Your life will not be beautiful
08:07with your big house and big cars.
08:09Your life will be beautiful
08:11by accepting the blessed life
08:13of the Prophet of Allah.
08:15It is all deceit.
08:17It is all deceit.
08:19A few years ago,
08:21a rich lady went to Lahore.
08:23She expressed her desire
08:25to meet me.
08:27The person who met her said
08:29that this lady's husband
08:31lives in Pond.
08:35She came and started crying.
08:37People think that I am very rich
08:39and have big cars.
08:41But what should I do with all of them?
08:43She said,
08:45everything is zero.
08:49A few days later,
08:51another incident happened.
08:53A young man came to me.
08:55He said,
08:57Allah has given you everything.
08:59But my wife's tongue
09:01is 30 feet long.
09:03I said, cut it by 29 feet.
09:05She said,
09:07her tongue is very long.
09:09I am fed up.
09:11Brothers and sisters,
09:13if you want to make your life beautiful,
09:15there is only one way.
09:17There is no other way.
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