00:00If you remember these habits, you will be benefited.
00:04If Allah wills, wherever you go, you will smell like a rose.
00:08There are many flowers in the garden, but where a rose blooms, everyone's eyes go there and stay.
00:14So if I have made these morals, if I have created this softness within me,
00:19then by Allah, you will smell like a rose.
00:22And there will be attraction, there will be attraction.
00:26The attraction of the faces will end after a few days.
00:29The attraction of the morals will end after a few days.
00:31Whether it is our intellectual circles or religious circles,
00:34there is intensity in all of them.
00:36Extreme intensity.
00:38Don't go in the middle as a candle, don't go in the middle as iron, go in the middle as a candle.
00:42And all the talqis of all the relations,
00:44the talqis of your drunken days,
00:46even in the face of grief, nature has kept a shrine.
00:50Learn to drink the talqis.
00:52Learn to shut your mouth.
00:54And then learn to smile.
00:55And learn to be soft.
00:57And then learn to be soft.
01:01The central point of Islam is softness, not intensity.
01:07It is softness.
01:09It is worship and everything else in its own place.
01:13But the thing that connects everything is softness.
01:16Where did I get this from?
01:18Once I was going to Panama.
01:20So I was reading Surah Kaaf.
01:23By the way, I remember that I was reading while looking at it.
01:25So when I reached Waliyat-ul-Attaf,
01:27it was written in Hasha, Nisf-ul-Quran.
01:30So I was thinking for a while,
01:32that Allah is Qadir.
01:34He could have brought any word here.
01:36Why did he bring this?
01:38Waliyat-ul-Attaf.
01:40To be more soft than the hand.
01:42I went to Turkey.
01:44There is a place called Tarsus.
01:46The Urdan people also claim,
01:48I have seen that too.
01:50And the Turkish people also say, I have seen that too.
01:52The Turkish people eat more than the Quran.
01:55The Urdan people don't eat more than the Quran.
01:59So he said,
02:01Don't get carried away by emotions.
02:03Bring soft bread with love and affection.
02:05Come, I am hungry.
02:07And what is the meaning of Mubalgh?
02:11Mubalgh and Takalluf.
02:13So if you have hardness in you,
02:15still you should be soft.
02:17If you have hardness in you,
02:19still you should be soft.
02:22So from here I understood that
02:24the center point of the whole Shariah is the Quran.
02:27And the center point of the Quran is softness.
02:30Waliyat-ul-Attaf.
02:32Now our scolding is considered old age.
02:35Scolding is considered upbringing.
02:41They are scolding the teacher,
02:43the disciples, the rich,
02:45the parents, the children.
02:47And Allah says,
02:50I want to hear a verse.
02:52Do you want to hear a verse?
02:54I want to hear a verse.
02:56It is said by Ibn Mahbub.
02:58It is said by Ibn Mahbub.
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03:30You should be soft with Allah's mercy for your Ummah.
03:34But Allah said,
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04:04Allah has shown His mercy and He has mentioned it.
04:06This kind of kindness that Allah has shown to His Prophet, this kindness, the way Allah has shown it, no other kindness is mentioned in this way.
04:16Look at my hands.
04:20When we say, this is too big, our hands don't go beyond this.
04:24I had a nephew, he spoke for a long time.
04:30When he was in the car, we used to say, he used to do like this.
04:34When he was in the bus, we used to say, he used to do like this.
04:38When the bus was big, we used to point at it like this.
04:40When the car was small, we used to point at it like this.
04:42So, Fabe Maa, this Fabe Maa Rahma, this land has come out of the sky.
04:48It has crossed the East and the West.
04:50It has crossed the North and the South.
04:52It has crossed the limit.
04:54Allah says, my beloved, such a great mercy has come to you, which no one knows except your Lord.
05:00And then you have become soft.
05:04Allah does not give on kindness, nor does He give on violence.
05:09Allah who gives on kindness, does not give on harshness.
05:12If kindness was a form of kindness, then there would not be any form of kindness in this beautiful universe.
05:20The house of paradise would also have a form of kindness.
05:23And if there was a form of harshness, then it would be more fearful than Satan.
05:35Imam Ismail, may Allah have mercy on him, is a great scholar.
05:39And he has served the Qur'an a lot in terms of lexicon.
05:42He was extremely ugly.
05:44He was dark and ugly.
05:46He said, I have never been deceived in my life, except once a girl made me such a fool,
05:51that she made me a fool.
05:53When I was going, a beautiful girl smiled at me and pointed at me.
05:57I said, there is a lover on me too.
05:59So I followed her.
06:01She came and I followed her.
06:03I followed her.
06:04While walking in the market, I reached a painter's shop.
06:07So she pointed at the painter and went ahead.
06:10When she went ahead, I was surprised.
06:12I said, brother, what is this?
06:14She said, this girl came to me yesterday to make me a photo of Satan.
06:21So I said to her, I have never seen Satan.
06:24You show me his photo.
06:26So she took it in her arms and said, this is how it is.
06:30So if there was a form of harshness, then it would be more fearful than Satan.
06:36So, the obstacles that have come in our lives,
06:42there is no big reason for it.
06:45These are the reasons.
06:48The harshness of the tongue, the harshness of the speech, the harshness of the gaze,
06:51the harshness of the taunts, the harshness of the beatings.
06:53This has made our relationships weak.
06:55And I am a victim of what Allah is saying.
07:01There is harshness in the Arabic language.
07:04There is harshness in your temperament.
07:06Did I tell you the meaning of this?
07:09Don't run away.
07:11Don't look back.
07:13A teacher like Muhammad Mustafa, may Allah bless him and grant him peace,
07:17and a student like the companions of the Prophet,
07:21people of such a great status,
07:24the word says,
07:26they would leave you and run away.
07:30Harshness is such a big calamity,
07:32that the earth has never seen such companions of a prophet.
07:37And such great people will not come into the world after the prophets.
07:42But they are human beings.
07:44They have made mistakes, they have committed sins.
07:46But Allah says, go, we have forgiven you.
07:48Go, there is paradise for everyone.
07:50So Allah is saying, my beloved,
07:52listen to a few hadiths.
08:05Bilal, when I go to paradise, I hear the sound of your footsteps.
08:10Whoever wants to see the woman of paradise,
08:12he should see Umm-e-Rumman.
08:14He said, look at the companions of the Prophet.
08:17If a follower of mine comes to the doors of paradise,
08:20he will open all the eight doors and say,
08:22Marhaba, come here, come here.
08:24Salman Farsi said, who is he?
08:26He said, he is Abu Bakr.
08:28He is called the eight doors of paradise.
08:30Umar, I saw a palace.
08:32It was magnificent.
08:33I thought it was mine.
08:34When I went there, the angel said,
08:36your servant is Umar bin Khattab.
08:38Usman, there is a companion of every Prophet in paradise.
08:40You are my companion.
08:42Then he held Ali's hand and put it here.
08:44Ali, you also be happy.
08:46In paradise, your house is in front of my house.
08:48Talha Zubair, there is a servant of every person in paradise.
08:51I have two servants, Talha and Zubair.
08:53So there is a queue.
08:55And Allah is saying, my beloved,
08:57if your temperament was severe,
08:59then such great people would have left you and run away.
09:03Children, children, what should I do?
09:08I am tired of listening.
09:12There is a nightingale,
09:14which is still singing.
09:16There is a melody in its chest,
09:18which is still ringing.
09:20It is free from the bondage of the weather.
09:23I wish someone would understand its cry in the storm.
09:26I have been crying for the past 20 years.
09:29Oh brother, be gentle.
09:31Love.
09:32Hate.
09:33Disagree.
09:34Don't hate.
09:35If you have a disagreement with your wife,
09:37then don't hate.
09:38If your wife has a disagreement with her husband,
09:40then don't hate.
09:41In brothers and sisters,
09:42it happens.
09:43Don't hate.
09:44Salam, dua, khatam.
09:46So, you are going to be free.
09:48If you remember these things,
09:50you will benefit.
09:51InshaAllah, wherever you go,
09:53you will be like a rose.
09:55There are many flowers in the garden.
09:57But where the rose blooms,
09:58everyone's eyes stay there.
10:00So, if I have created these morals,
10:02if I have created this gentleness in me,
10:04then I swear to Allah,
10:05I will bloom like a rose.
10:07And I will be attractive.
10:08I will be attractive.
10:10The attraction of appearance
10:11ends after a few days.
10:13The attraction of morals
10:14remains till death.
10:16So, the desire for food
10:17does not end till death.
10:18The rest of the things,
10:19people say,
10:20eat a lot of meat,
10:21make lentils.
10:22Make okra.
10:24But the food is such that
10:25if you eat food every day,
10:27it will remain inside.
10:29Such good morals are like food,
10:31whose desire never ends.
10:33So, whether you are a scholar
10:34or a religious person,
10:36you will find intensity in all of them.
10:38Intensity of all kinds.
10:39You become a candle in the middle.
10:41Don't become iron,
10:42become a candle.
10:43All the rituals of relations,
10:44the rituals of your last days,
10:46are also fun.
10:47Nature has also kept fun
10:48in the stage of sorrow.
10:50Learn to drink the rituals.
10:52Learn to shut your mouth.
10:53And then learn to smile.
10:54And learn to be gentle.
10:56Which is the highest quality
10:57of my Prophet.
10:58May the mercy of Allah be upon him.
11:04Do you know when this incident happened?
11:05When the battle of Uhud was defeated,
11:07the companions left the battlefield.
11:11So, when Abu Sufyan's army
11:12went back,
11:13they came back.
11:14They were all scared
11:15that now we will be scolded.
11:18Shahabuddin Ghori
11:19fought the first battle of Tarawadi
11:21against Pirthvi Raj.
11:23We are the descendants
11:24of Chauhan Rajput,
11:25Pirthvi Raj.
11:26So, they were defeated.
11:28So, the Afghani leaders
11:29who had started the battle,
11:31all of them
11:32had their heads
11:33on their faces.
11:34They had their heads
11:35on their faces.
11:36All of them had their heads
11:37on their faces
11:38that they were the ones
11:39who had fled.
11:40This is what the king used to do.
11:42When my companions
11:43of the Prophet
11:44started to doubt
11:45that what will happen now?
11:46So, you welcomed them
11:47with a smile.
11:48Come, brother.
11:49Come, brother.
11:50Come, brother.
11:51On this, my Allah said,
11:52O my beloved,
11:53it is a favor of your Lord
11:54that you have become gentle.
11:55Otherwise,
11:56you would have been scolded
11:57on such occasions.
11:58You would have been
11:59thrown away.
12:00The fort of Istanbul
12:01was not being conquered.
12:02Sultan Muhammad Fateh
12:03was 21 years old.
12:04So, he started
12:05beating him
12:06with sticks
12:07in a crowd.
12:08Then, he removed him
12:09and beat the other one.
12:10Now, my Prophet
12:11is saying,
12:12Come, brother.
12:13Come, brother.
12:14Look at the love of Allah.
12:15Allah is saying,
12:16My Prophet,
12:17forgive them.
12:18You have already forgiven them
12:19but I also recommend
12:20that you forgive them.
12:21Then, he says,
12:22And tell me
12:23that I also forgive them.
12:24What kind of people were they?
12:25About whom Allah is saying,
12:26I also forgive them.
12:28Such great people
12:29could not tolerate
12:30such violence.
12:31Brothers,
12:32understand my plea
12:33for the sake of Allah.
12:34Be gentle.
12:35Be gentle.
12:36Be gentle.
12:38This does not work
12:39without being strict.
12:40This is nonsense.
12:42This is the mischief
12:43of your ego.
12:44My Prophet is saying,
12:45What Allah does
12:46on gentleness
12:47is not on strictness.
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