00:00There was a man who came to Abdullah bin Umar.
00:07He said, I have performed Hajj on my mother's shoulder.
00:11I have fulfilled the right of my mother.
00:13He said,
00:16What is Talqa?
00:19When a child is born,
00:21the mother gets waves of pain.
00:23And those waves are countless.
00:26They make her suffer.
00:28One wave is called Talqa.
00:30One wave.
00:31When one wave goes away,
00:33and another wave follows,
00:35that wave is called Talqa.
00:37So,
00:39Ubaidullah bin Umar said,
00:41I have not yet fulfilled the right of one wave.
00:48Meaning, the right cannot be fulfilled.
00:52Someone asked Abdullah bin Umar,
00:55I made my mother sit on my shoulder with Khurasan.
00:59Khurasan is in Iran.
01:01And I reached Mecca.
01:03I made her sit on my shoulder and performed Hajj.
01:06So, I fulfilled the right of my mother.
01:08He said,
01:10When your mother took care of you,
01:13when she took deep breaths,
01:16you have not yet fulfilled the right of one breath.
01:20You have so much right.
01:23I will sacrifice my life for the sake of my Prophet.
01:26The Prophet said,
01:28Respect your children.
01:35Respecting your mother or your children
01:39is a bigger matter than this.
01:42Even if you kill your children,
01:44no case can be filed against you.
01:47The Prophet said,
01:48Respect your children.
01:51If you respect your children,
01:53they will come back to you.
01:55How many of them have studied?
01:58How many A's have come?
01:59How many B's have come?
02:00How many C's have come?
02:02If you put a three-year-old in school,
02:06who will be more cruel than them?
02:09Even a three-year-old can go to school.
02:12It is for the sake of his mother.
02:14For seven years, my Prophet said,
02:16don't tell them to pray.
02:19This is the highlight of Sharia.
02:23For seven years, he didn't even pray.
02:25So what should you do?
02:26Give them love,
02:27give them shelter,
02:28give them a cradle,
02:29give them a baby.
02:30A mother who is tired of her two children
02:36and sends them to school,
02:38how can a teacher take care of 30 children
02:47or how can he or she take care of them?
02:51If you put your children in school,
02:53then the people of Beacon,
02:54or the people of Grammar,
02:55or all the schools,
02:57they have no love.
02:59That is a deal.
03:01Our school,
03:03our educational system
03:05has become a business.
03:07With apologies,
03:08I say this with folded hands.
03:09Our educational system,
03:10it is not an educational system.
03:12Our educational institutions
03:13have become a business.
03:14Our doctors have become merchants.
03:16When the nation is in decline,
03:18then these things become evident.
03:20There is a joke like this.
03:22There is a little salary from above.
03:27You have caught 40 children,
03:2930 children,
03:3020 children.
03:31One is doing this,
03:32one is doing that,
03:33one is doing this,
03:34one is doing that.
03:35Sometimes she runs here,
03:36sometimes she runs there.
03:37So the mother says,
03:38I have put them in Beacon.
03:39Now they will be fine.
03:40They will be fine.
03:41He will hit you on your head
03:42when you grow up.
03:45A teacher was teaching the children.
03:47She was tired and fed up.
03:50She said,
03:51Children,
03:52say C-U-P-S-U-P.
03:55The children said,
03:56Miss, C-U-P is cup.
03:59She said,
04:00No, say C-U-P-S-U-P.
04:03Then the children said,
04:04Miss, C-U-P is cup.
04:07She said,
04:08C-U-P-S-U-P will remain
04:09in such a small salary.
04:10It cannot be a cup.
04:14I will be sacrificed.
04:16My Prophet said,
04:17Respect your children.
04:19Respect your children.
04:20All the parents are sitting.
04:22All the parents are sitting.
04:23How did my Prophet
04:24respect himself?
04:29This is the house of my Prophet.
04:31This is the house of your daughter Fatima.
04:33There are two houses in between.
04:35The third and the fourth house
04:36is of Hazrat Fatima.
04:37And she does not come and go
04:38occasionally.
04:39She has to come every second
04:40or third day.
04:41She has to come daily.
04:42Because there are two houses
04:43in between.
04:44And among her children,
04:45Hazrat Fatima is the
04:46one whom she loves the most.
04:48She is a part of my heart.
04:49The one who gave her happiness,
04:52gave me happiness.
04:53The one who gave her pain,
04:54gave me pain.
04:55Fatima, my daughter,
04:56is the leader of the women
04:57of heaven.
04:58No one has such
04:59beautiful virtues.
05:01My son Hassan Hussain
05:03is the leader of the youth
05:04of heaven.
05:05Fatima, you, me,
05:07these two, this Ali,
05:08we will be together
05:09on the Day of Judgment.
05:13My Prophet is sitting
05:14on a chair,
05:15sitting on the ground,
05:16lying on the bed.
05:18And Hazrat Fatima
05:20enters.
05:21All of us parents
05:23are sitting.
05:25After this,
05:26you do the analysis.
05:27Do we give these
05:28protocols to our children?
05:31And usually,
05:33the son gets more
05:34protocols.
05:35The daughter does not
05:36get any at all.
05:37From the beginning,
05:39from the beginning,
05:40the poor girl
05:41gets beaten up.
05:44When Hazrat Fatima
05:45entered,
05:46you saw her,
05:47you stood up.
05:52You stood up
05:53in respect.
05:55We,
05:56we stand up
05:57for our elders.
05:59It should be done.
06:00We have respect,
06:01we have respect.
06:02This is our culture.
06:03It is very good.
06:04But what is my Prophet
06:05doing?
06:06He is standing up
06:07for his daughter.
06:10And he did not
06:11stand up.
06:14He moved forward
06:15very fast.
06:19Now,
06:20I am stuck,
06:21I cannot go.
06:24He moved forward
06:25very fast.
06:26And he used to
06:27hold Hazrat Fatima's
06:28hand.
06:30And he used to
06:31hold her hand
06:32and kiss her.
06:34Then he did not
06:35leave her.
06:37He used to hold
06:38her hand
06:39and come here.
06:40And first he used
06:41to say,
06:42sit here.
06:43First he used
06:44to make
06:45Hazrat Fatima sit
06:46and then he
06:47used to sit.
06:49These are the
06:50aspects of my
06:51Prophet's character
06:52which you may
06:53have never heard.
06:54He cut
06:55two pieces of
06:56the moon.
06:57This shows
06:58the greatness
06:59of my Prophet.
07:00But I do not
07:01get a way
07:02how to spend
07:03my life.
07:04He used
07:05to tell me
07:06about miracles.
07:07He used to
07:08tell me about
07:09the greatness
07:10of my Prophet.
07:11He used to
07:12tell me about
07:13the faith.
07:14But he used
07:15to tell me
07:16about the
07:17life of my
07:18Prophet.
07:19He used to
07:20stand up.
07:21And Hazrat Fatima
07:22used to do
07:23the same
07:24with her father.
07:25And her children
07:26used to do
07:27the same.
07:28The Prophets
07:29of Allah
07:30used to
07:31sit and
07:32lay down
07:33with the
07:34light of
07:35their light.
07:36They used
07:37to hold
07:38their father's
07:39hand and
07:40kiss him.
07:41And they
07:42used to
07:43hold their
07:44father's
07:45hand and
07:46kiss him.
07:47And then
07:48they used
07:49to sit
07:50and say
07:51this is
07:52how my
07:53Prophet
07:54was shown
07:55to his
07:56children.
07:57If you
07:58respect your
07:59children,
08:00your office
08:01will be
08:02clean.
08:03They
08:04will be
08:05clean from
08:06all the
08:07wrong decisions.
08:08When
08:09a person
08:10who gives you
08:11advice
08:12doesn't
08:13give you
08:14the right
08:15advice,
08:16you don't
08:17get the
08:18revelation
08:19that you
08:20make the
08:21right decision.
08:22You
08:23have no
08:24idea
08:25how wrong
08:26our decisions
08:27are.
08:28Because
08:29you sit
08:30in Islamabad
08:31where you
08:32don't get
08:33a drop of
08:34water,
08:35and on top
08:36of that
08:37you have
08:38a system
08:39that welcomes
08:40you,
08:41then it's
08:42destruction.
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