00:00Why do divorces happen?
00:23Let's see Perfection, a master's student in Gudrunwala divorces her educated, loving
00:27husband in a van driver's chakra.
00:30These are the words of Sessions Court, not mine.
00:33You will be surprised that 75,000 divorce cases have been registered from 2005 to 2008
00:39in this Gudrunwala city alone.
00:42According to a news report, there were 12,913 cases of eviction in just 10 months.
00:48Only in the month of September, 2,385 eviction cases were reported in Gudrunwala city.
00:55You can judge the true love of our life or death generation by the fact that in 2017
01:00there were 5,000 divorce cases out of which 3,000 were love marriages.
01:04An average of 150 divorces are registered daily in the second-largest and most educated
01:09city of Pakistan.
01:11This is just one grain of the pot.
01:14The average rate of divorce in Arab countries has exceeded that of many European countries.
01:19There is no denying that in many of these cases, the attitude of the in-laws towards
01:23the girl and the husband's lack of respect for the wife are also the real reasons, but
01:27you go to any derelicta and there are hundreds of letters on a weekly basis that men, not
01:31women, write and ask that our wife has fallen in love with someone else.
01:35She is asking me for divorce.
01:38I also have small children or children.
01:41Tell me what to do.
01:43The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, Divorce is the most displeasing of all
01:47lawful deeds to Allah.
01:49A religious scholar said well, this nation is ready to die for Islam.
01:53But it is not ready to live for Islam.
01:56You should study the Quran from Surah Al-Baqarah to Walnaz.
02:00You will not get the details of one of the duties of prayer, fasting, hajj, zakat.
02:05You will not even see what is the method of prayer.
02:09You will not even know the praises of these prayers.
02:12But marriage, divorce, separation, marriage, matrimonial affairs, husband and wife relations,
02:17domestic violence, more or less disagreements.
02:21You will find everything in this most holy book of Allah, which we and you they keep
02:25kissing.
02:26You must admit that intolerance is the main reason for divorce and divorce in our society.
02:32Remember that a good and healthy family is not made by a good man but by a good woman.
02:37When the religion comes to the man of the house, it is as if it comes to the threshold
02:40of the house, but if the religion comes to the woman of the house, then the religion
02:44goes to her for seven generations.
02:47Sacrifice, self-sacrifice, kindness, mercy, forgiveness, love and respect are mentioned
02:52in the dictionary of Islam and Quran.
02:55The endless desires of women have also turned the society into a hell.
02:59Electronic media has created an idol like Shah Rukh Khan in the hearts of even girls
03:03living in goth villages and slums.
03:06Love marriages are usually the result of a few dates, a few movies and a few gifts.
03:12Girls and boys think that the rest of our life will also be spent as shown in the movies,
03:16but the story after marriage is never shown in the movies.
03:19It is feared that the film will flop.
03:22Ingratitude is also the biggest factor in the destruction of domestic life.
03:26Be it less or more, get it or not get it or never get less, still be grateful to your
03:31husband in any situation.
03:33The biggest disaster has been caused by this WhatsApp and Facebook social media.
03:38Earlier, when girls were angry or angry, they had no means of access to parents and other
03:43people.
03:44The husband would come home in the evening, hold his wife's hand and say four words of
03:48love, sometimes take her to eat ice cream.
03:51And sometimes on the pretext of taking a walk, they would get together for a while and in
03:55this way the anger and grievances of the whole day would be resolved.
03:59But the anger did not come here and it did not reach all the family members on WhatsApp.
04:04Here Madam Sahiba's moat off happened and the status was uploaded on Facebook.
04:09Here Madam Sahiba's moat off happened and the status was uploaded on Facebook.
04:14And after that, the magic of social media blooms that the whole family is destroyed
04:18or the result is suicide.
04:21Mothers explain to the girls that God.
04:23Don't compare your husband with your fathers.
04:26Your husband may not be able to give you all that you had in your father's house.
04:31But remember that 50, 60 years of your father's life have passed in the tourism of this desert
04:36and your husband has just stepped into this desert.
04:39You will get everything in God willing, you will get better than your mother, even if
04:42you don't get it, make a habit of gratitude and you will surely get peace and satisfaction.
04:48Wives should learn to praise their husbands and husbands should learn to respect their
04:51wives on small things.
04:53Make forgiveness a habit in life.
04:56For the sake of God, make it a habit to prepare and live for your husband more than outsiders.
05:01To show the whole world, make up well, but don't do it shaking your head for your husband.
05:07God also needs your attention five times to express love.
05:10We are human beings, express love as often as possible, sometimes even by giving gifts.
05:16The first thing that will be weighed in the scales on the day of resurrection will be
05:19the behavior of husband to wife and wife to husband.
05:23Remember!
05:25A man has the same position in the house as the head of the government in the state.
05:29If instead of improving the state, you are always willing to rebel against the head,
05:34then it will be difficult for the state to survive.
05:37Learn to give the same respect and status to whomever Allah has given, whether you are
05:41a man or a woman.
05:43An ideal home creates an ideal family and a healthy society comes from an ideal family
05:47and this is the origin of Islam and other religions.
05:51Thanks to watch.
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