00:00 What do you want? What do you want?
00:04 It's not that simple.
00:05 What do you want?
00:07 What do you want?
00:11 If Ryan Gosling can't figure it out, then the rest of us don't stand a chance.
00:15 But that's all changed, gentlemen.
00:18 Prime Time's found a woman who speaks for all women and tells us what they want.
00:22 Women find boundaries very attractive. They pretend that they don't.
00:26 They'll say, "You can't tell me what to do. I'm my own woman. Dunno this, that and the other."
00:30 But there's something so attractive about a man who's not a people pleaser.
00:33 So, women like a firm hand.
00:36 Do women like nice guys or bad boys?
00:39 They lack a lot of masculinity.
00:42 And what they do is they blame the fact that they're so nice as to why they can't get women.
00:46 But it's not about being nice. It's about a lack of masculinity.
00:49 Oh, interesting. Nice guys do finish last.
00:52 So what about players?
00:55 I think celibacy, especially on a man, is so unbelievably attractive.
00:59 Because what it means is that he is not accessible and available to everybody.
01:04 Now I'm a little confused. They don't want a nice guy, but they don't want a player either?
01:08 So the woman we're listening to is dating coach, Sadia Khan.
01:13 She doesn't just give men advice. She speaks to women too. Listen.
01:16 We've created a generation of narcissistic women.
01:20 And what's happened is the rise of social media and the rise of online dating and the rise of feminism
01:26 has taught women that they are not to blame for any poor choices.
01:29 So if you want to be a sex worker, it's great.
01:31 If you want to post bikini pictures online, it's fine.
01:33 And every internal reflection is seen as gaslighting yourself.
01:37 So they've even got terms for internal reflection to prevent it happening.
01:41 That comment, by the way, got her thrown off Instagram.
01:45 They said she was being anti-sex worker.
01:49 But she's not banned from primetime. Dating expert, Sadia Khan is here with me.
01:53 Sadia, explain when you say women want men to establish boundaries.
01:59 I think what I meant by that is men and women, because we live in a society now
02:05 where we're not really looking to create a healthy home.
02:08 We're looking to see the most we can get out of each other.
02:11 But women are still designed to be protected by men.
02:16 The only way we define a man that is able to protect us is one that has high self-esteem.
02:20 Men with low self-esteem make terrible life decisions.
02:24 They are unable to predict threats in the environment.
02:28 They can't control their emotions.
02:30 They are easily manipulated by women.
02:32 And the main thing is they have no willingness to walk away
02:35 when they are being manipulated or being badly treated.
02:38 And as a result, we've created a culture of women who just marry
02:42 because they want a good alimony.
02:45 They want to make sure that the prenup favors them.
02:46 So in this day and age where it's so easy to have the upper hand over men as a woman,
02:52 it's so easy to post pictures and be flown out across the country by a billionaire.
02:57 It's so easy to marry and divorce and then stop him from seeing the children.
03:01 The only thing that will make us truly respect a man is if he has high self-esteem,
03:06 high enough for him to select wisely and not be manipulated and pushed into a corner
03:13 by a woman simply because he's attracted to her.
03:15 And that's what I think the fundamental core value that we've now no longer find in men anymore.
03:20 And it doesn't help. The laws don't help.
03:22 But essentially I think that's what most women are looking for.
03:25 You can be rich, you can be tall or short, you can be funny or not funny,
03:29 but if you are easy to manipulate and you have low self-esteem
03:33 and you can never walk away from a woman,
03:35 we essentially see you as less powerful and less attractive.
03:40 So you're saying Greg Gutfeld, who is short and rich and funny,
03:44 can get any woman he wants, but if he is lacking self-esteem, it's trouble.
03:51 Absolutely. Because you can be rich, tall, short, it doesn't actually matter.
03:56 If she knows that you're super intelligent at work, you're a CEO,
04:00 you've got a bunch of employees, but all she has to do is wear the right outfit
04:05 and then you're able to take her shopping and fly her out
04:08 and let her do whatever she wants with your credit card
04:10 without earning any of those privileges, you immediately become somebody she can't respect.
04:14 So, Saadi, what you're saying is we can't let you guys control us.
04:19 Absolutely.
04:21 But you guys are designed to control us.
04:23 I'm sorry?
04:25 Aren't you guys designed to control us? Don't you always try to control us?
04:29 We just shouldn't let you?
04:31 We are designed to test you.
04:33 Oh, test us.
04:35 We are designed to test you.
04:37 So, I believe what women are actually designed to do is to test to see if you let us take the driving seat.
04:43 What we truly want is a man that we don't want to take the driving seat from and he doesn't let us.
04:48 Because women are always going to try and control a man.
04:51 That's what they're always going to do.
04:53 But the moment they can control him, they lose desire and respect for him
04:56 because he no longer is seen as masculine.
04:58 So, we test you and only the ones that we know we can't manipulate and can't control
05:03 are the ones that we'll submit to.
05:06 I thought there was going to be a test.
05:07 Nadia, before we let you go, the social media situation, you were telling women it's a mess.
05:16 Can you just elaborate on that for us?
05:19 I think social media has made sure that women are perpetual victims.
05:24 And the only way to get out of this victimhood is that you use men for your own selfish desires.
05:31 They are not there to create a home with.
05:33 They are no longer your partner.
05:35 Instead, they are either a bank that you just take all his money from
05:39 or they're somebody that you don't get too close to, you don't attach to.
05:42 They're essentially the enemy.
05:44 And I think it works both ways around.
05:46 I think men have also been manipulated into thinking women are the enemies.
05:48 So, both are going into relationships with the desire to win this game rather than actually create a home.
05:55 So, I think social media has destroyed expectations.
05:58 For men, it's created high expectations in terms of appearance and sexual performance.
06:03 It's created really high expectations in terms of financial investment.
06:05 So, now you'll get a simple girl expecting to be taken on a private jet,
06:10 which is just unsustainable and narcissistic.
06:14 Yeah, tell me about it. You should see the cost of these jets these days.
06:17 Thank you so much, Sadia.
06:20 You have really enlightened me.
06:23 I did not know you guys were testing us this whole time, but that was very important information.
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