How to Make Him Sexually Interested Only In You
- 6 months ago
1.) KEEP THE MYSTERY ALIVE! Over time, it’s natural for the obsession and passion to wane and fade… while this might be a bit of a let down, what SHOULD replace this lust a sense of connection and camaraderie. But that doesn’t mean that you should let your sex life go. One of the best ways to get a guy sexually addicted to you is to always keep him guessing.
See, men are hardwired differently in the sense that they covet the chase more than women in the relationship. Just because he’s already “had you”, if you will, doesn’t mean you can’t keep him chasing you for more and more. Once you learn how to properly keep him guessing, you will make him SUPER addicted to you.
So what can you do to keep things mysterious? You could send him a simple text like… “I have a surprise for you when you get home.” … and you can send a little winking emoticon to go with it. But you can even get more creative with this. Have you ever thought about leaving sexy handwritten notes around the house? Or leaving a sexy piece of lingerie at his place? The ideas here are limitless.
If YOU have any ideas on how to create some mystery in your relationship, leave it in the comments section below!
2.) BE UNPREDICTABLE. Routine is one of the biggest attraction killers. In order to get a man sexually addicted to you, you have to be unpredictable.
The analogy that I like to use GAMBLING. Think about why thousands of men and women get addicted to gambling everyday… it’s because the punishment/reward mechanism is DEEPLY addicting for the human brain. And you can use this psychological tactic to your advantage!
So learn how to be spontaneous. Initiate sex at random times when he’s least expecting it. Try initiating sex in different locations, too. Doing so will not only keep him guessing, but you’ll have a ton of fun with it as well.
3.) USE THE ONE WORD THAT CAN DRIVE HIM INSANE. No other word is more powerful to a person than their name. As Dale Carnegie said in his famous book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, nothing sounds sweeter than hearing your own name. And your guy is no exception.
However, just randomly blurting out his name won’t do anything for his sex drive and ego. When you DO use his name, you need to make it really count. For example, whisper his name in his ear in a real dark place in public. Or when you’re alone with him, say his name slowly and sensually to him right before striking up a conversation. Obviously, the applications here are limitless, so use your imagination.
Once you master using this little trick, don’t be surprised if he begins chasing you down like a dog on raw meat.
4.) TOUCH HIM WHEN HE LEAST EXPECTS IT. I had a guy once tell me that he loved it when his girlfriend unexpectedly reached into his front pocket to get the keys. I then started to tell my clients to do the same for their men… and the results were astounding.
See, men are hardwired differently in the sense that they covet the chase more than women in the relationship. Just because he’s already “had you”, if you will, doesn’t mean you can’t keep him chasing you for more and more. Once you learn how to properly keep him guessing, you will make him SUPER addicted to you.
So what can you do to keep things mysterious? You could send him a simple text like… “I have a surprise for you when you get home.” … and you can send a little winking emoticon to go with it. But you can even get more creative with this. Have you ever thought about leaving sexy handwritten notes around the house? Or leaving a sexy piece of lingerie at his place? The ideas here are limitless.
If YOU have any ideas on how to create some mystery in your relationship, leave it in the comments section below!
2.) BE UNPREDICTABLE. Routine is one of the biggest attraction killers. In order to get a man sexually addicted to you, you have to be unpredictable.
The analogy that I like to use GAMBLING. Think about why thousands of men and women get addicted to gambling everyday… it’s because the punishment/reward mechanism is DEEPLY addicting for the human brain. And you can use this psychological tactic to your advantage!
So learn how to be spontaneous. Initiate sex at random times when he’s least expecting it. Try initiating sex in different locations, too. Doing so will not only keep him guessing, but you’ll have a ton of fun with it as well.
3.) USE THE ONE WORD THAT CAN DRIVE HIM INSANE. No other word is more powerful to a person than their name. As Dale Carnegie said in his famous book, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, nothing sounds sweeter than hearing your own name. And your guy is no exception.
However, just randomly blurting out his name won’t do anything for his sex drive and ego. When you DO use his name, you need to make it really count. For example, whisper his name in his ear in a real dark place in public. Or when you’re alone with him, say his name slowly and sensually to him right before striking up a conversation. Obviously, the applications here are limitless, so use your imagination.
Once you master using this little trick, don’t be surprised if he begins chasing you down like a dog on raw meat.
4.) TOUCH HIM WHEN HE LEAST EXPECTS IT. I had a guy once tell me that he loved it when his girlfriend unexpectedly reached into his front pocket to get the keys. I then started to tell my clients to do the same for their men… and the results were astounding.