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To Stop A Bully, It's As Easy As 1-2-3
So how do you stop a bully as easy as 1-2-3? Well, see, there's six things that have to happen in order to be bullied.
Number one is that it has to be repeated. Two, there has to be an intent to cause harm. Three, a perceived power imbalance. Four, it has to be either an individual or a group. Five, an unresourceful state. Or six, limiting belief.
So, when you look at these six things, three of those are the other person, or the bully, and three of them I'm in control of. So in order to stop a bully as easy as 1-2-3, number one, I said there was a perceived power imbalance, so that is your belief. Do you believe that there is an imbalance of power?
The second thing is limiting beliefs. Do you believe that you can be bullied? Does your child believe they can be bullied? See, what if it was as simple as a person who believes they can be bullied gets bullied, and a person who believes they can't be bullied doesn't get bullied?
And then the final, unresourceful state. If you choose to be in a resourceful state, if you are confident, if you are happy, joyful, you are in a resourceful state. You simply can't be bullied.
So stopping bullying is as easy as 1-2-3? Again, remember these steps. Number one, believe that you do have the power. Two, you're limiting beliefs you're in complete control of. And three, always be in a resourceful state.
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