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  • 7/15/2013
Jealousy -- Sometimes its actually a good thing

Jealousy is a very loaded word. For anyone who is looking to date internationally, through AnastasiaDate.com the women you will meet will often evoke powerful emotions. Love, Passion, Affection and yes, even Jealousy!
While for many Russian women the idea that their significant other, YOU, may be jealous of them is attractive, there is a time, place and type of jealousy that is healthy. Jealousy that is healthy? Yes, for the Russian women on Anastasia Date, this emotion is a sign of love, affection and a heightened level of desire. But, gentlemen how you feel and show this jealousy is important. Too much jealousy can kill a relationship.

Since this is such a powerful emotion, let's talk about what are unhealthy types of jealousy.

1- If you are jealous of her relationships with her family that is a problem. Family is at the core of who these women are, and being jealous of their families will only drive a wedge between you and your Russian women.
2- If you are overly jealous of her friends (both male and female) this is a problem. Women need to have friends, need to have people they can talk to about what they are experiencing in their lives. It is important for a healthy relationship for you and she to have lives that both interconnect and are separate. If you don't trust her to be friends with other men or women, then maybe there is a real problem with your relationship.
3- If you are jealous of her hobbies or her job then this is a window into a possible problem with your relationship. Russian women are strong, intelligent and driven. This is probably a large reason you are attracted to them. Trust her to be honest with you, and enjoy that she has a full, interesting and vital life.

The core issue of jealousy is one of trust and understanding. Remember, that while you and she are together, you do not OWN her. She is a woman who is in charge of her own life, and while you are a key part of it, the harder you squeeze the more likely she is to push you away.

Another thing, being overly jealous can be seen as a sign of weakness. If she really loves you, you have nothing to worry about. Jealousy can be a window into your own self-confidence issues. The more confident you are in yourself, the more attractive you will be to your Russian love, and the less likely it is for her to stray.

So, guys remember, some jealousy is good. Too much isn't.

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