00:00This is where we eat.
00:02I see.
00:05Shethan, it's good to see you again.
00:08My child wished to show me where she now lived.
00:12I made food.
00:20Here, Iskap. Lay to myself.
00:25And do you have powdered ginger for the table?
00:29I'll go get some.
00:35You are not good enough for my child.
00:42I haven't heard any complaints.
00:44You are emotionally sloppy and lack the resolve she needs.
00:49You will only bring her pain.
00:52Or I could make Tosh happy.
00:55It is not about happiness.
00:57Then what is it about?
01:00Teaching my child to survive in this world.
01:04Tosh is an adult.
01:05If you haven't finished teaching by now...
01:09I have failed.
01:11Yes.
01:12I was never taught how to be a mother.
01:15Under the Kuhn, children are raised by those suited to such pursuits.
01:20I trained as a scholar.
01:22I was taught to think critically, to analyze without passion.
01:27And correct mistakes.
01:29You need not tell me that I am an inadequate mother.
01:32I am aware.
01:33Then why did you leave?
01:34When I see my child in danger, I act.
01:39Here's the ginger.
01:48So... I'm non-binary.
01:52What does that mean?
01:55That means I don't feel like a man or a woman.
01:58If you are neither a man nor a woman, then what are you?
02:03Non-binary.
02:05I just said, and I'm going to use they instead of she from now on.
02:08If this is because I have criticized your dress or your manners...
02:13It isn't!
02:18Under the Kuhn, the term for one whose gender does not match the one given to them at birth was
02:23a Kuhnethlock.
02:25Perhaps you are like that.
02:26Why do you have to keep picking at it? Why can't you just be happy for me?
02:30Evatosh. Chakra Toebra.
02:31So I'm supposed to struggle with who I am?
02:34Even if I don't feel like I fit? Even if I feel wrong?
02:36No. You misunderstood.
02:38Then say it better!
02:41Why am I never enough for you?
02:46I will go.
02:48Thank you for inviting me to your home, Panahedan.
02:58I know she's your mother, but I don't like her.
03:04You good?
03:06I...
03:08Yeah.
03:09I'm not hiding anymore.
03:12How she takes it is her problem.
03:15You sure?
03:17Yeah.
03:19Come on.
03:21Don't let food go to waste.
03:30I care about Tash, and I'm doing everything I can to show that.
03:34I don't want to be your enemy.
03:37Then end this.
03:38Before you hurt her, you will only bring her pain.
03:42Pain.
03:44You'd know all about bringing Tash pain, wouldn't you?
03:50Yes.
03:52I was never taught how to be a mother.
03:56That's not your call.
03:57Well, you are emotionally sloppy, and lack the resolve she needs.
04:02You will only bring her pain.
04:07I don't think that's true.
04:08No.
04:08Neither does Tash.
04:10My child's judgment is not to be trusted.
04:13Why are you so determined to doubt Tash, the child you yourself raised?
04:19I have failed.
04:21Yes.
04:22I was never taught how to be a mother.
04:27Tash, I'm so sorry.
04:29No.
04:31It's okay.
04:33Tash...
04:35I'm not hiding anymore.
04:39All of that was new for her.
04:42Just give her some time.
04:44No.
04:45It's okay.
04:47Tash...
04:49I'm not hiding anymore.
04:53If she can't accept you for who you are, then she's...
04:57a...
04:57crappy mother.
04:59She is who she is.
05:02I'm okay.
05:04I'm not hiding anymore.
