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00:00This comment section will restore your faith in men something a man did for you once that raised your standards
00:04Permanently as a young teen I bumped into an older man at the local grocery market and I apologized and
00:09He said never apologized to a man and it stuck with me thank you for your service sir i cooked
00:14dinner and i was about to clean the kitchen he said when you cook i clean when i cook i
00:18clean go relax you'll never clean as long as i'm around love this for you i crashed his new car
00:24his dream car that he loved
00:26so so much while he was in the passenger seat and the first thing he said was you okay
00:31When we got out I was looking at the wreckage and I was about to cry he held my face
00:34and said don't look at that look at me he literally never breathed a word about it again and he
00:39loves me more every day just green flag after green flag love this i was sad and very stressed then
00:45he texted me hey i have a surprise for you be ready at eight he took me to the planetarium
00:49I saw the exhibition in shock it was amazing while he was looking at me and smiling once it was
00:54Done, he told me
00:55Now that we saw how tiny our planet is compared to the Galaxy tell me about the exams that stress
01:00you and he sat on a bench and so ready to listen to what I had to tell him once
01:03i stopped yapping he told me do you think passing that exam is not achievable if so i'll cry with
01:09you if not i'll study with you that mother literally studied with me and we have completely different majors forever
01:14grateful for him this feels like something out of a movie or like a sappy tv show that i would
01:20want to binge i love this so much turn down the radio when i spoke also remember
01:25remembers everything i say we love a man who doesn't just listen but listens we were playing around in the
01:30kitchen and ended up breaking a vase he picked me up and sat me on the counter swept up the
01:34glass then walked around in that area barefoot just to make sure there were no tiny pieces of glass that
01:39could hurt me listen i love this okay i do but next time don't use your feet just use bread
01:44use bread to like pick up the little pieces it gets them anyway we'd been dating for maybe two months
01:50when i got a pretty bad concussion and couldn't read anything for weeks without getting awful headaches i love
01:55reading so every day he sent me a recording of him reading at least one chapter of my book until
01:59i got better he was like your personal audiobooks before audiobooks that is so sweet my husband locked in within
02:07Two weeks of his meeting he had no issue cooking dinner for me every night rubbing my feet and praising
02:12me constantly and calling me on my shit he's my biggest fan and supporter i adore him my husband did
02:17the same thing he even started wearing a wedding ring to the gym so that women wouldn't think he was
02:21Single I was dating a guy for four to five months and I got a cyst that was extremely
02:25Painful like I couldn't walk dress myself or go to the bathroom type of pain it got so bad that I
02:30called him to take me to the er he said no because he had work that day it was 3am
02:34i called my ex and he showed up within 10 minutes dressed me and carried me to his car and carried
02:39me into the er stayed with me the whole time he also had work that day broke up with the
02:44other guy within a week ladies if they care they'll show it my husband left work and came home just
02:48Because i couldn't stop crying one time they really will show up if they care i ran into a gas
02:52station because i was about to be late and needed to put
02:54twenty dollars in and this man at the counter said i was too beautiful to be stressed out in a
02:58rush and that twenty dollars in this economy wouldn't fill my tank he walked me out put his credit card
03:03in and told me to get a full tank my car takes premium then told me to have a good
03:07day and then walked away noticing that he just walked away and didn't expect anything for this like he just
03:13did this to be helpful we need more people like this in the world i have a 1962 chevy impala
03:18and had mentioned to the guy i
03:19was dating that i wanted a new paint job he borrowed my car for a month and when he gave
03:23it back he pimped it out new paint carpet banging sound system married him last month congrats and also sick
03:30car we're working friends but he noticed i had nowhere to put my handbag on my desk so he bought
03:34me a hook and screwed it onto the side of my desk to this one of the most thoughtful day
03:38things anyone has ever done for me again i love to see men being helpful just for the sake of
03:42being helpful love it want to see more of this in the world i was on vacation and my best
03:46friend was carrying
03:47my suitcase and I asked her why are you doing this I can do it myself she said to remind
03:51you not to settle for the bare minimum we all need a friend like this i know i have one
03:56i feel like just if you don't have one find one he told me if i wanted to quit my
04:00job and take a month because it's been toxic as fuck he'll carry us until i find something better for
04:04my mental health i'm gonna marry this man my man-hating dog adores him so enough said this is fantastic
04:10Partnership also dogs always know one guy i was talking to told my dad to stop talking to me a
04:15certain way within minutes of meeting
04:17never had someone see or understand the verbal abuse so fast and call it out my husband straight told my
04:22dad when he asked for his blessing to marry me that his job as my husband was to protect me
04:27from anything and everyone including my dad if it ever came to that and like just let him know he
04:31would choose and protect me and my dad and I are good but yeah so hot I was stressed in
04:36grad school and missed my friends he paid for me and my two friends to go on vacation in miami
04:40fort lauderdale i send him a paragraph and he replies
04:43to every part of it a unicorn always pours my cup first kisses my hand constantly carries my bag even
04:50when it doesn't match his outfit brings a sweater just in case the sidewalk rule etc it may not seem
04:55big but the difference is huge i have an entire photo album on my phone of my husband carrying my
05:00purse places i love it so much he walked in my mama's house to help me move out and told
05:04me you'll never have to live like this again most people had just judged me for it he was the
05:08First to see that I did the best I could with what I had and promised to give me better
05:12that was seven
05:13Years ago he's put me through college helped me with my career moved me into a nice home put me
05:17Through therapy given me a baby and so much more I never stepped foot in that house again and I've
05:23only been to my mother's house twice since then he was the first man to love me for me and
05:27never switch up my own dad didn't even do that i'm so happy to have a son he'll be the
05:31best man because the best man will be raising him with me i don't even know you but i'm so
05:35Happy for you I drive 86 miles one way to work every day I forgot my energy drink one morning
05:42and sent him a text saying
05:43i was sad i didn't grab it before leaving he drove 86 miles just to bring me my drink and
05:48give me a kiss i told him absolutely not and he said you deserve a little treat i'm on my
05:52way listen this is super sweet okay love it but also did they not just sell energy drinks near where
05:59you work like i'm just saying not a man of course but a female friend i was sick with a
06:04High temperature and she came to my house with a bag full of groceries and started cutting vegetables and cooking
06:08broth for me again doesn't have to be a man friends can raise
06:11the bar for you too he pursued me for a while before i finally agreed to a date i got
06:15to the restaurant and realized he'd booked out the entire place just for the two of us he'd briefed the
06:20chef that he wanted to take my taste buds around the world so the chef curated a menu with different
06:24Dishes inspired by different parts of the world we did break up six months later but wow the standard was
06:30Raised I haven't put on my own shoes open to drink or a door in five years love that he
06:34does all this for you okay i do but what do you mean you don't put on your own shoes
06:38is that not something you want to do good for you though to each their own he was 22 years
06:43old first time i saw him drinking he said i looked at him different when he met my dad he
06:47said he now understood my dad was an alcoholic i married him and i've known him for 10 years never
06:51I saw him drunk he's never taken me to a bar or pub never hangs out with friends at these places
06:56never has a drink and drives i've never asked for any of this he's just always made sure i feel
07:00safe with him glad i married him reposted once about a pandora charm and the next day i had it
07:06long distance and still made sure i got flowers and
07:08gifts all the time with letters ladies if they wanted to they would my husband and i were long distance
07:13When we started dating the first thing he did the first time I left town was take my mom out
07:18to dinner so that she could get to know the man that was dating her daughter like truly truly if
07:23they want to they absolutely will not one specific thing but my baby daddy does not play about me i've
07:29never had that he can't even call me a bitch jokingly tells everyone i'm his guardian angel legit things i
07:34can do no wrong helps whenever asked and goes above and beyond when not asked and we
07:38we aren't even together he's ruined other men for real a wealthy man once told me that the only man
07:43worth taking seriously is the one who solves problems and makes your life easier without hesitation it has literally helped
07:49me understand the complexity of men you know what absolutely yes brought me flowers for mother's day months after we
07:55split up because he knew my babies were too little to understand mother's day but still wanted me to know
07:59that i was appreciated said to me i've never been a woman so i won't ever fully understand your experiences
08:05but i'd love to learn more about them i was gobsmacked yes yes yes yes men write this down we
08:11shared a diary and would take turns writing entries in it he'd write the most beautiful poems and essays for
08:16And about me also just making every effort to be as kind and romantic as possible he saved a lot
08:21of money for months working his ass off and was about to finish paying off his car debt but i
08:25happened to crash my car around that same time he took that money and bought me a new better car
08:30than the one I had before
08:31he said there's no way i'm gonna let you walk while i drive my dream car and just started over
08:36With his savings the first time i spent the night at his house he bought me slippers just so i
08:40could be more comfortable anyways it's been 10 months and he's stuck with me now my husband did this for
08:45me too and now every time we have a house guest come stay he also buys slippers for the guest
08:50room for them I think it is the most adorable thing in the world he bought me last minute flowers
08:53During the holiday season the last ones from the only shop that was still open died within a week
08:58so when he asked me about the flowers I told him the truth
09:01The next date he showed up with lego flowers and said these will never die that's so cute i forcefully
09:06I wore heels when he begged me not to because the walk was long and I ended up being tired and
09:11he gave me his shoes and walked barefoot until we got home oh girl i've been here we've all been
09:15here my guy friend literally said never in your life never get out of a man's way he should get
09:21out of your way, yes sir
09:22i bartend and was having a tough day because of a situationship and some random guy expressed he thought i
09:27was pretty and i needed that so i thanked him and told him that he made my day and he
09:31answered wow that's all it took mic drop you're right sir i have settled been my entire life to be
09:36Treated less than deserved by any man thank you my husband wakes up before me to clean the house true
09:42king my husband does this too but i think it's just because he's a clean freak and i'm not i
09:46was an underpaid teacher and didn't have enough money for summer break my boyfriend of two months paid all of
09:51my expenses until
09:52the next school year and never made me feel bad about it we've been married for two years now too
09:57Thank you for your service teachers are so underpaid it upsets me every day I think about it so you
10:01deserve more rewatch this anytime you're tempted to settle