00:00If you're with someone who is abusive to you in private
00:02but really lovely to you in public
00:04or treats you really well when other people are around
00:06but it is abusive when you get home
00:08Anger management is not the issue
00:11self-control is not the issue
00:12they know how to control themselves
00:14and they know what they're doing is wrong
