00:00Heather's showing us her man on the show.
00:02It's like, I want you to have people to double date with.
00:04And he's here in the studio.
00:05Trip, you're so hot, by the way.
00:07I just had to let you know.
00:08Okay, well, he's Heather's man on your show.
00:09Sorry.
00:09I'm so happy for you.
00:10I really, really am.
00:11He is very hot.
00:12Yeah.
00:13Oh, my God.
00:13I want a motorcycle?
00:14Yeah.
00:15I love it.
00:16Also, I love the way that you explain the relationship on this week's episode, too.
00:20Like, you could see it, you know, going for 50 years.
00:23Oh, yeah.
00:23It's like, I love that.
00:25Like, I feel like we're going to grow old together, but maybe not with the same last
00:29name.
00:29Oh.
00:30Okay, not feeling like a, not a marriage card vibe.
00:33Yeah, and that's okay.
00:34You've been there, done that.
00:35I've been there, done that.
00:36Why is that not appealing to you now?
00:38Like, the...
00:38Well, because look at what's happening to all my friends that get married.
00:41Oh, no, it's true.
00:41You know, I want to live in fantasy land and just, like, with my hot boyfriend.
00:45Yeah, right.
00:46You're in the eternal glow.
00:47Yeah.
00:47I want to stay in the eternal glow of, like, you know, I don't want to be reminded that
00:52it can all end terribly, you know?
00:54I've been there.
00:55I've, I was, like, hopeless for so long.
00:58And, like, had these, you know, announcements come when I was, like, at my lowest, I would
01:17be their endgame and not, you know what I mean?
01:19So, it's kind of, I know, like, as a silver lining, even though it's a hard foundation
01:24to be in, it's kind of nice now that you can kind of be that sign that, like, guys, okay.
01:27Yeah, you're going to be fine.
01:29Like, that would be my message to anyone.
01:30Like, you're going to be okay.
01:32It's really hard.
01:33It's really difficult.
01:33But hopefully you'll not only be okay, you'll be even better.
01:36And, like, I never thought my life would improve, but it got radically better when I got divorced
01:41and when I, you know, started living for myself.