00:18I am moving on, to where the land is free
00:22No darling, no shaking
00:25Mi ho ma soon, ni mo she soon
00:30I am born to be grey, I can't wait to do anything
00:36Sibe, sibe, sibe
00:38You lo who want to, where do me
00:46This is, thank you
00:48My first betrayal came from my mother
00:50Says bimbo ademoye
00:54Are you nuts?
00:55Wait, are you turning me down?
00:57Nobody turns me down.
00:58Bimbo Ademoyi, the coffee nollywood actress, is one of such people who while growing up didn't get the chance to
01:04enjoy the mother and child relationship.
01:06Bimbo, who confessed that her dad had to double up as both parents, revealed that her first experience of betrayal
01:12was from her mom.
01:13The Anikulapot star actress said she is cool with the fact that she has no relationship with her mom.
01:18She would like people to respect her privacy.
01:21Speaking about why she never talked about her mom and how she celebrates her like she always did with her
01:26dad,
01:27a voluptuous actress confirms that her mom is alive but has no relationship with her.
01:32In her words.
01:33No, no, no, my mom is alive.
01:34We just don't.
01:35My mom is very much alive.
01:37She leaves like 15 to 20 minutes away from me.
01:40We just don't have a friendship.
01:45You know, it would.
01:46So I don't talk about it because I would love for people to respect that.
01:49Like, I'm a very private person.
01:51My mom left when I was two.
01:53So the betrayal, my first ever betrayal came from my mother.
01:59We kind of tried to rekindle the, I wouldn't even say rekindle because there was no romance there.
02:04I didn't get to know her.
02:05But I tried to build a relationship with her.
02:09Right now, we have a relationship.
02:12Like, I'm doing my duties as a child.
02:13A child, yeah.
02:14You know, paying for this, paying the rent, allowance and whatnot.
02:17But that's about what we have.
02:49I think I'm very okay with that.
02:49Let's see.
02:50That boy, I don't want to do work with the Mugunde people.
02:52They mean, if you said, why don't you want a red or black down?
02:54I love that.
02:56I love that.
02:56I love that.
02:58I love that.
02:59I love that.
02:59I love that.
02:59I'm sorry about that.
03:01So sorry about that.
03:02My bad.
03:05Now, if you're looking at this thing, you know, all night, it's very fine.
03:10If you're talking, last night, stop talking the clothes.
03:13And my duo, when you look sharp, like people are going to office.
03:17Sorry, Laboda.
03:20Hold this.
03:21If I'm talking.
03:22If I'm talking.
03:25It will sharp.
03:39The actress also revealed how her extreme issues morphed into anxiety.
03:44And while speaking about her teenage years experiences, the actress, also known by her
03:48secondary school name, Aisha Ademoyen, said she grew up with the thought that nobody wants
03:53to be around her.
03:54So she makes friends by giving things.
03:56In other words, buying them over.
03:58She hinted that her parents' separation also contributed to her suffering from no self-esteem.
04:03Being but sad.
04:04Okay.
04:05I don't like to go out.
04:06I'm agoraphobic.
04:08I don't like more.
04:09If I'm in a room with more than 13 people.
04:12If I said 13, just if I'm in a room with more than 10 people that I don't know, I
04:15start
04:15to have this, like, anxiety attack where my heart is palpitating so bad.
04:21And it sucks that my job, you know.
04:24Puts you in those positions.
04:25Yeah, so if I had my way, I'll just buy that ashwepi to your wedding and send you money
04:30and say congratulations.
04:31Yeah.
04:31But I don't want to show up.
04:33Not because I don't like you.
04:34I just don't want to be at a place with so many people.
04:37I think it came from, um, I used to have a lot of self-esteem issues growing up, you
04:42know, from not being with my parents together.
04:45And then, um, my aunties, I love them.
04:50I grew up with this thought in my head that nobody wanted to be my friend.
04:59Nobody wanted to, I'm going to get emotional.
05:01Nobody wanted to be around me.
05:04So my way of, um, having friends were to give things.
05:09Like, buy them over, you know.
05:12In elementary school, it was like, I had to give my, um, lunch money.
05:17I am, um, in, um, high school, I had to give my provisions to, and some of these kids saw
05:26through that.
05:26So it was more like, oh, you don't have this grandma, it's Aisha.
05:30She's going to give it.
05:31You know, I, I, um, I had a, my, I didn't have any self-esteem at all.
05:36It wasn't even a case of low self-esteem or anything.
05:38It wasn't there.
05:41So being in the midst of people and having them come say, oh, hi, it's like, what do
05:46you want?
05:46Mm-hmm.
05:47You know, just say what you want and let me give it to you so you can go.
05:49So you can go.
05:50So I'm still dealing with that, even at this stage.
05:53And, um, that's why I'm very close to my dad.
05:57Because my dad really, really, like, he was very big on helping me with that.
06:04You know, my dad would be like, ah, look at my baby.
06:06Look at your fine bow legs.
06:08Look at, like, look at your head.
06:10It's big, just like mine.
06:11Mm-hmm.
06:11You know, I went to bed for a very long time, like, a very long, I'm talking till, like,
06:18SS2, SS3.
06:19And my dad would laugh it off and be like, hey, my Pekino, you know, just to make me feel.
06:25Very supportive.
06:26Mm-hmm.
06:28So I don't really like human beings like that because I feel like they're full of shit based
06:35off of my experience.
06:36And, um, most times I just, because the people that I trust are not usually around all the
06:43time because of my job now, because of my status and everything.
06:45So most times I just like to be by myself and just, um, I'd rather not deal with the
06:52hurts that people tend to bring.
06:54I'd rather just be on my own and just be around the few people that have given access to me.
06:59So, yeah.
07:14Growing up as a single dad wasn't the easiest, you know, because poor guy, there's some things
07:19he doesn't know.
07:20First, monthly flow, he's just as shocked as you are.
07:23So, yeah, my dad is, like, the most amazing human being ever, like, father of the universe,
07:30my best friend.
07:31He took me to my first audition and waited outside for six hours for me to finish.
07:35And then when I came out, he was like, did you get the role?
07:37I'm like, no, they'll call us back.
07:39No, they'll call us back.
07:40He was like, shh, rubbish.
07:41And then the next one, he took me as well till, you know, he got me a car to start
07:45going
07:45by myself.
07:46He's just been very supportive of me my whole life.
07:48I broke out of my clothes.
07:49And it's not me that broke out of the clothes.
07:51I don't know that broke out of my head.
07:53I will never do such.
07:55But anyway, I say somebody is so close, like, is it, is it close, so?
07:59Yeah.
08:00Hey, what do you want me?
08:01Hey, what do you want me?
08:02See me?
08:03See me?
08:04What do you want me?
08:05What do you want me to do, yeah?
08:07What?
08:08What do you want me to do, man?
08:09You know, yeah, I don't know who's trying to do.
08:11Come on, like this.
08:13And my, you don't know, way.
08:15Hey, and more, way.
08:16You can't tell me that you're so close for your children.
08:18That you want to, I said, my, my, you know, it's Muslim,
08:21I didn't want to try to reach down, I thought he'd leak.
08:24You don't know what, Akko, I do buy your blue.
08:26Oh, yeah, now, only you, in the whole country,
08:28everybody is managing shite, managing shite.
08:30Only you want six children.
08:31Okay, let me to help you.
08:33I put never on the children's court.
08:35You can't speak, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go
08:39more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more, go more.
08:39So that if shite number four, like, shite number four, I've lost, yo, shite number four.
08:44Very, very good.
08:45Akko, we're okay.
08:46What is this?
08:49Cloth.
08:50Is this cloth?
08:51Is this cloth?
08:54I said I wanted a red shirt and black pants trousers.
09:00So where to walk?
09:02What on earth is this?
09:04This black pants and red shirt, I don't know what I'm talking about.
09:07Motherfucker, you're willing.
09:08There's something wrong with you.
09:09It's like you're mad.
09:10It's like you're mad, eh?
09:13It's like you're mad.
09:14It's like you're mad.
09:14It's like you're mad.
09:14It's like you're mad.
09:15It's like you're mad.
09:15It's like you're mad.
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