00:04You are an expectant mother.
00:07Kumusta yung journey na yun?
00:10Very exciting, Tito Boy.
00:12And at the same time, nandun ako sa part na
00:14will I be okay?
00:17Kasi bilang first-time mom,
00:19ang dami kong mga kailangan matutunan,
00:21ang dami kong kailangan malaman.
00:23Even sa sarili ko,
00:25especially first trimester,
00:27ang daming mga changes
00:28na hindi ko naiintindihan.
00:31So, dumating sa point na
00:33parang in a way,
00:37kinuwestiyon ko yung pagbubuntis.
00:39Parang, ganito ba yun?
00:40Ganito ba kahirap?
00:42Kasi hindi madali yung pinagdadaanan ko everyday.
00:47It's not like parang sa soap opera.
00:50Kanukonto ko nga po ito sa mga friends ko
00:51na parang pag nalaman mo na buntis ka,
00:54dahil parang may warning sickness,
00:56isang beses na parang nagsuka ka.
00:58Okay, shocks, buntis ako.
01:00And then that's it.
01:02Pero sa totoong buhay,
01:03ilang beses mo palang pagdadaanan yun.
01:06Ilang beses kang mayhihilo,
01:08ilang beses kang magsusuka,
01:10ilang beses kang manghihina.
01:13And hindi mo maintindihan,
01:14bakit nangyayari ito?
01:16Pero I'm so blessed to have women around me
01:19telling me that you're strong,
01:21okay ka, ganyan talaga.
01:22Pero part yan ang pagiging mom.
01:26Kaya pala sabi ko yung mga mom,
01:28sobra silang strong.
01:32Pagka nakakausap ko yung mga nanay
01:34na nagdadaan sa mga ganito,
01:35parang yung pinagdaanan ko,
01:37hindi pala siya ganun kalala.
01:39Okay.
01:41Dedetalya tayo doon.
01:42Pero bago ito,
01:44we talked about starting a family.
01:46Yes.
01:46There was a time,
01:48hindi mo naman sinabing,
01:49we're not ready to start a family,
01:51but parang it was not there
01:55in the consciousness.
01:58At that time po.
01:58Yes, yes.
01:59At that time parang I wasn't ready talaga.
02:01It wasn't my priority.
02:02It wasn't our priority actually
02:04to have a baby as soon as possible.
02:08So did you expect this?
02:10Yes, we did.
02:11Oh, you did.
02:12Apo, apo.
02:13Okay.
02:13Ilang months ka na?
02:14I'm five months pregnant.
02:17Okay.
02:17Yes.
02:19Wow.
02:2021 weeks actually today.
02:22Kasi every Monday,
02:25nadadagdagan siya.
02:2621 weeks.
02:27So, mula doon sa
02:28hindi pa ako handa
02:30to now we are ready.
02:32Anong nabago?
02:34Siguro po,
02:36I just felt na
02:38I'm ready,
02:39na we are ready.
02:40You feel it, no?
02:41Yeah, opo.
02:42Kasi yun din yung sinasabi sa akin
02:44ng mga ibang friends ko na
02:45wag mong pilitin.
02:47Hindi naman ako
02:47nadala sa pressure
02:48ng mga tao around me,
02:50like mga tao
02:51nagsasabi na
02:52ilang taon ka na
02:53kasi I'm already 38.
02:55So, syempre,
02:57in a way,
02:57consider ko yun
02:58dahil I don't want to
03:00parang have a hard time.
03:03And...
03:04You know,
03:04without realizing,
03:05thank you for raising that.
03:06At kasi,
03:06hindi conscious ang tao
03:08pag, halimbawa,
03:08nagkinasal kayo
03:09three years,
03:10four years,
03:10and then,
03:11out of nowhere,
03:12dito ho sa fast talk,
03:13pinag-uusapan namin nila,
03:14Ardian,
03:14at ng mga writers.
03:15You know,
03:16when we ask,
03:16ba't wala ka pang anak?
03:17It's a very difficult question
03:19to ask.
03:19It's very, very sensitive.
03:21Kasi,
03:21malay mo,
03:22may medical condition.
03:23Malay mo,
03:24ang choice ay ayaw.
03:26So,
03:26it's very, very sensitive.
03:27When you say,
03:28ba't wala pa kayong anak?
03:30Kahit ang iyong intensyon
03:31ay maganda.
03:32Yes.
03:33So,
03:34we have to be very,
03:34very careful.
04:10you.
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