00:00In my experience is, you can chat with them all you want online, but until you meet them in person,
00:07it's a whole different ballgame.
00:09You have to meet them in person.
00:14I'm from, actually, the countryside. I grew up in the country in central Washington state.
00:23And it was a large family. There was eight of us kids.
00:28So I'm kind of a simple person. I'm an introvert, but I'm meticulous.
00:44I've done a lot of different types of jobs, but they're either farm labor, blue collar, stuff like that.
00:53Yes. Actually, I've been married twice.
00:57My first one ended in 93. I was married 10 years.
01:02And my second one ended in 2000.
01:06Well, since my second divorce, I've been looking, dating, in relationships, but nothing worked out.
01:16Well, I don't know, just the women's attitude in the U.S. is a little different, and it just wasn't
01:27right for me.
01:28I mean, I'm the type of person that really wants to be married.
01:34So, that's, and that whole time, I've been looking for somebody, but there's nothing that worked out.
01:47Basically, their attitude towards relationships and marriage, it's more casual in the U.S., and especially women that are a
01:57little bit older, say 50 plus.
02:00They're either divorced or widowed, and they're, they want their freedom, where I want to be married.
02:19Actually, I was on another dating site that I found on the internet.
02:27I had been on it for a few months, and eventually I figured out it was a scam.
02:37So, yeah, so I went back to the internet and started searching reviews, and that's when I kind of figured
02:45that one out.
02:46And then I ran across AFA, and I started doing more research on it and checking it out, and it
02:55sounded really legit.
02:56And it's based in the U.S. where, you know, I'm from, so I thought, well, I would give it
03:02a shot.
03:04Between the other one, I figured out working and finding a foreign affair.
03:08It wasn't maybe a month or something, because I was serious in finding somebody.
03:18Well, because I found the site in 2020 during COVID, so I couldn't go on one.
03:27But I, I signed up in June of 2020.
03:32And then I just kept reading more information on their websites and looking at profiles and put my name on
03:42the list, put it that way.
03:45And I just had to wait until China opened up.
03:49And I made sure I talked to Michelle and said, am I still on the list?
03:57Well, because from what I read, it seemed like the site to go to, to actually find a wife and
04:07meet somebody and actually find a wife.
04:09And, uh, it sounded legit.
04:12Well, cause I've done online dating before and never really had much success over the years, several different sites in
04:22the U S and it's just nothing worked out.
04:26In my experience is you can chat with them all you want online, but until you meet them in person,
04:35it's a, it's a whole different ballgame.
04:37You have to meet the, meet them in person.
04:44The only one I had was, will they like me?
04:58Fantastic.
05:01It was amazing.
05:03Uh, actually kind of overwhelming, overwhelming.
05:07The socials were kind of overwhelming for me because I'm an introvert and there was so many women and there
05:13were so many of them were interested.
05:15It's like, whoa, what do I do?
05:21But my translator was fantastic, really helped me out.
05:25The socials were very quick.
05:29Um, actually a little too quick for me, I'm a little slower pace, but, um, it was very interesting and
05:39I'm glad I went, that's all I can say.
05:42I'm glad I went, you got to meet so many people in a short amount of time and then we
05:51exchanged WeChat so then you can go on a date afterwards.
05:56So that was just great, everything went smoothly, I thought, I mean, I was impressed, I mean, they kind of
06:04explained what you need to do, what to expect, stuff like that.
06:07So everything went smoothly, I would say, sign up for a tour, because just like I said, just chatting, you
06:17don't really know them.
06:19Even if you do a video call, it's not the same as being face to face, and these women here
06:26in China are anxious to meet somebody, they're serious.
06:31And if you're serious to find somebody, then I suggest you come, forget the letters, forget the videos, just come
06:41and you will find somebody.
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06:56She makes me so happy, but that's a perfect idea.
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