00:09Yo, I walk up to my favorite cigar bar, glass doors clear, and what do I see, six cougars planted
00:23at my bar, hell no, what's happening?
00:36I push the door smoking leather in the air, my spot, my stool, my ritual, my quiet prayer, put the
00:44bars full of perfume and boxed wine stairs, six single women hunting six foot millionaires, they don't even smoke these
00:53sticks, don't know the blend, just invading the last room, and men can pretend the world's still simple, cigars and
00:59no agenda,
00:59space invaded, I'm bugging out heart rate on the ascender, hell no, what's happening?
01:04My space got claimed, looking for unicorns that don't even play this game, you told us stop the cat call,
01:14stop the approach, we did, now the consequence is yours, and the silence is the bid.
01:32Y'all complained about the street calls, the hey baby noise, so men went quiet, hands in pockets, no more
01:39boys being boys.
01:41We stopped fully, no more random approaches at the bar, now you're the ones walking and looking for the star,
01:47but the six foot millionaire who actually likes a Cuban, ain't sitting here waiting for the rescue mission.
01:53He's got options, or he's already spoken for, while you sit in his old chair wondering where the men went
01:58more.
02:00Here's the quiet part, they don't put on the slide, about 90% of the women who actually approach, and
02:06get accepted, end up marrying that man.
02:10That's not feelings, that's the pattern, but most won't touch the number, prefer the story, the wine, the cat, the
02:17narrative that feels safer than the risk.
02:22And that's fine with me, truly, different paths, different ends.
02:26You've wanted the approach to die, congratulations it did, now the ones who still want a husband have to be
02:31the ones who bid, walk up speak first, wrist the note, more still won't and the room stays empty of
02:36the men you say you missed.
02:37We didn't ban you, we just stopped chasing the same old script, you moved the goal post, then complained the
02:42field went quiet.
02:44Now the cigar bar's full of hunters with no praying sight, and the men who used to hold these stools
02:51just found quieter nights.
02:56Hell no!
02:57What's happening, my space got claimed, looking for unicorns that don't even play this game.
03:05You told us stop the cat call, stop the approach, we did.
03:10Now the consequence is yours, and the silence is the big.
03:20And the ones who know, I already know, and the ones who know.
03:30Boxed wine and cats is a valid choice.
03:34Just don't act surprised, when the bar stays quiet.
03:41And the transmission.
03:57And the one who knows, you know, and the one who knows that when you're tired.
04:02And when you're tired, you hear, that the person and your hand, you know, that the men who can't and
04:03kill you.
04:04It's okay.