00:00In this family, some traditions are not asked for.
00:04They are simply announced.
00:06We have decided that you will travel to the village next week.
00:10A new mother should not be left to struggle alone.
00:14I will come and stay from next month.
00:16We will be ready for you, Mama.
00:19Everything has been arranged for the introduction.
00:22But Mama, you didn't even ask me first.
00:25Ada, this is for your own good.
00:28Please give me time to think.
00:29This is our house, Emeka.
00:31Should I not have a say in it?
00:34Emeka, say something.
00:36I can't do this now.
00:37Respect and control can look identical from where you're standing.