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00:09:19I'm definitely going to need more clothes.
00:09:54I'm just going to need more clothes.
00:09:55I'm just going to need more clothes.
00:10:39Do you remember packing this many boxes?
00:10:42I feel like they doubled in transit.
00:10:45So when do you have to start working?
00:10:47Well, opening day of the hotel is in three weeks.
00:10:50Mr. DeSille will fly in before that.
00:10:51So you're already working full-time?
00:10:53Yep.
00:10:54I'm going to go in a little later.
00:10:56You should have asked for a week off for the move.
00:10:58I'm sure somebody could have covered.
00:11:00Sure.
00:11:01You don't ask John DeSille to find someone to cover for you.
00:11:04I mean, he's put me in charge.
00:11:06Aye, aye, Captain.
00:11:07Hey, don't rock the gravy boat.
00:11:09Okay, now you are starting to sound weird and eccentric.
00:11:16What about your father?
00:11:19What about him?
00:11:21Well, look, I'm not the therapist in the family,
00:11:23but isn't it kind of pointless to pretend he doesn't exist?
00:11:27I mean, he lives in this town.
00:11:30Your mother met him here.
00:11:31You were conceived here.
00:11:34Yeah, I know.
00:11:37So, don't you think you should bury the hatchet?
00:11:39I mean, isn't that what you tell one of your patients?
00:11:42I think you should call him.
00:11:45Hey, Ryan.
00:11:47Do you still have that gun?
00:11:50What?
00:11:52Because I thought we decided to get rid of it when we left Chicago.
00:11:56Uh, I think you decided.
00:11:58So you're just going to keep it tucked away in the nightstand?
00:12:00Look, Kara, break-ins happen at Seacliff Bay, too, okay?
00:12:05You can never be too protected.
00:12:06Fine.
00:12:07I won't ask you about the gun, and you won't ask me about Frank.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Deal.
00:12:13Okay.
00:12:16I'm going to go in.
00:12:31How do we cope when we find out everything we've ever believed is wrong, changed in an instant?
00:12:41We see life through the confines of our constructed reality, and we believe that which fits in this reality.
00:12:49The truth, the whole of it, rarely fits.
00:12:54And this is where life gets messy.
00:12:56The truth, the truth, the truth, and the truth.
00:13:09The truth, the truth, the truth, the truth, and the truth.
00:13:10The truth, the truth, the truth, the truth, and the truth.
00:13:12I'll take in the library.
00:13:15Got your email.
00:13:17Glad to hear my house met with your wife's approval.
00:13:20And I know how very important a little detail like that can be.
00:13:25Thank you, John.
00:13:27Look, I wouldn't admit this to the world, but my interests there are not all about profit.
00:13:32I grew up in Seacliff. It means a lot to me.
00:13:35I understand. My wife has the same nostalgia for it from when she lived here as a kid.
00:13:40It's a special place.
00:13:41It is. Now, of course I want this project to be a success.
00:13:44But even if occupancy is less than our expectations, I assure you, I'm not going to bail.
00:13:51This is a labor of love.
00:13:52I respect that, sir.
00:13:54That's why I'm making sure that you're comfortable.
00:13:57We're both very comfortable. I mean, the house is magnificent.
00:14:00And Kara already has clients on her schedule.
00:14:02Well, you tell her I can send some folks her way. I can send a couple of my ex-wives.
00:14:08They definitely need therapy.
00:14:10I don't think that's necessary. While she's building her practice, she plans on writing another book.
00:14:15Great. Now, I'm planning to be there next week. I can't wait to see how it's all come together.
00:14:20Well, I think you'll be very pleased.
00:14:23I know I will be.
00:14:25A bienta.
00:14:26Bye-bye.
00:14:32Oh, boy.
00:14:44So, Antonio, do you spend time with Rina?
00:14:46We've been married a whole month now. I'm with her, like, all the time.
00:14:51Yeah, but even when you're there, you're not, you know, there.
00:14:55What are you talking about? I mean, you see? It's like she's obsessing on me, you know?
00:15:00Yes, because you don't love me.
00:15:02See what I mean?
00:15:02Okay, you need to slow down, both of you. And remember why you got married.
00:15:08Marriage without change. Adapting your life to include someone new.
00:15:13What is it you both enjoy doing together?
00:15:17Okay. Besides that.
00:15:23Why don't you take some time and talk that over.
00:15:25But consider this. You'll both have to change, sometimes even sacrifice, just to show that you value one another.
00:15:32Alright? Without that kind of commitment, a relationship can't work.
00:15:35Okay?
00:15:36Okay. Thanks.
00:15:39We'll see you next week?
00:15:41Sure.
00:15:41I'm sorry.
00:16:40You and me and my family can't work.
00:16:41In the next week, I'm Fine.
00:16:41Oh, wow.
00:16:44Oh, wow.
00:17:10Hi.
00:17:12Frank.
00:17:13Dad.
00:17:15Okay, let's not have that conversation, please.
00:17:17Oh, hey.
00:17:19Wow.
00:17:21Yeah, the people down in town are telling me
00:17:23that my famous daughter moved in up here,
00:17:25and I thought I'd drop by.
00:17:27But, I mean, if you're busy, I don't wanna...
00:17:29Yep, busy, busy, busy, just like you always were.
00:17:32It's not really our style, is it,
00:17:34to take time to check up on each other?
00:17:36You know, I read that book you wrote.
00:17:38I mean, it does seem familiar.
00:17:42Well, you were the perfect source for the chapters on family dysfunction.
00:17:45What do you want?
00:17:47Money?
00:17:48Money?
00:17:48No, I don't want money.
00:17:49I never borrowed any money from anybody.
00:17:51You know, I provided for you and your mother.
00:17:53What you provided was instability.
00:17:55Well, I think it's a little more complicated than that.
00:17:58No, it wasn't.
00:17:59It was simple.
00:18:00We needed you there, and you weren't.
00:18:01It's all Mom ever wanted.
00:18:03Thank God she took me to Chicago to grow up there.
00:18:05Yeah, that's what she wanted.
00:18:08You left us long before you walked out.
00:18:10You shacked up with that, uh, flight attendant.
00:18:13Candace.
00:18:15Whatever.
00:18:17Well, you know, I mean, it doesn't matter now.
00:18:19It's all in the past.
00:18:22What do you want?
00:18:23I just want to see you.
00:18:26Well, now you've seen me.
00:18:31Okay.
00:18:33Um, here.
00:18:34Here's my number.
00:18:35I wrote it down.
00:18:36Well, it's not my number.
00:18:37It's the number of the buddy that I've been staying with.
00:18:39You know, I've been...
00:18:40I've been moving around from place to place for a while.
00:18:44I know.
00:18:45Get out of your hair.
00:18:54Oh, my God.
00:19:19Let me see you later.
00:19:21Yes?
00:19:23The saucy pad.
00:19:25No.
00:19:27No.
00:19:28No.
00:19:29No.
00:19:30No.
00:19:32No.
00:19:35No.
00:19:35Do you know.
00:19:36No.
00:19:38No.
00:20:01Oh, how'd it go?
00:20:03Well, two new clients, so not too bad.
00:20:08I was talking about your father.
00:20:11I saw him leave.
00:20:15Well, I didn't kill him.
00:20:20Well, that's a good thing.
00:20:23Are you going to see him again?
00:20:27I don't know.
00:20:30Hey.
00:20:37Hey, whoa, is this just a ploy to get off the subject?
00:20:40Oh, shut up and take your pants off.
00:20:57Human nature is a lot like nature itself.
00:20:59We hold on to the illusion that life is in control.
00:21:03When just beneath the surface, a storm, our nature, is brewing.
00:21:11And the more we try to control it, the more the pressure builds, and the force becomes dangerous.
00:21:27So, Martin, I usually see couples, but since you were referred by a friend, in your case, I'm...
00:21:35I don't want to control anymore.
00:21:37She left me.
00:21:39I can see that, and you're having some trouble adjusting.
00:21:41I don't want to adjust.
00:21:46We were together ten years.
00:21:48Married five.
00:21:51I tried to be a good husband, a good provider.
00:21:57Maybe it was my fault.
00:22:00One day...
00:22:03One day she just said,
00:22:04I'm...
00:22:06I'm not attracted to you anymore.
00:22:09Well, Martin, I can understand if you feel like you did something wrong,
00:22:13or if you feel inadequate in some way,
00:22:15but assigning blame just isn't productive.
00:22:20It's certainly not going to change the way you feel, or the way that she feels.
00:22:25Sometimes people just drift apart,
00:22:28or move towards different goals.
00:22:30Or sometimes...
00:22:34they just give up on you.
00:22:37Oh.
00:22:38I'm sorry, I'll mute that.
00:22:40No need.
00:22:41So sorry.
00:22:42Thanks for the wake-up call, Doc.
00:22:45I...
00:22:47All right.
00:22:50All right.
00:22:53Hello?
00:22:56Yes, that's my father.
00:23:00A stroke.
00:23:13Your father has suffered partial paralysis on his right side,
00:23:17and he's having some trouble speaking right now,
00:23:20but with speech and physical therapy,
00:23:22he should recover most of his function rather quickly.
00:23:25It's strange.
00:23:27According to his medical record,
00:23:29there's no history of any pre-existing condition or other risk factors.
00:23:33I do see that his health insurance has a long-term care provision.
00:23:37That means he can have a home care nurse with him full-time,
00:23:39and the hospital will schedule on-site physical therapy sessions as well.
00:23:45Will you be taking him home?
00:23:47He has no home to go to.
00:23:52It's your call, Kara.
00:23:58Okay.
00:24:15He's a stranger.
00:24:16I don't even know him.
00:24:20Maybe he was trying to make it right.
00:24:23Yeah, but you know he didn't apologize for anything,
00:24:27make any excuses.
00:24:28He did nothing.
00:24:32I just thought I was finished with this years ago.
00:24:35I don't know him.
00:24:42Okay.
00:24:49Okay.
00:24:53Okay.
00:25:18I'm sorry to startle you in your own backyard.
00:25:20I tried the front door, but nobody was answering.
00:25:22My wife's inside. She must not have heard the bell.
00:25:26Can I help you?
00:25:28I'm Lynette. The Home Care Staffing Agency sent me.
00:25:30Oh, I'm Ryan. My father-in-law, Frank, he's the patient.
00:25:36Yes, I read the file.
00:25:38I'm sorry it took me so long to get here.
00:25:41Insurance, paperwork, it can be killer.
00:25:44No worries. Listen, I gotta get ready for work, but let me take you inside.
00:25:49Okay.
00:25:51Can I help you?
00:25:52Oh, I got this. Thank you.
00:25:58Is everything okay?
00:26:00My dog got loose.
00:26:02You should go find it then.
00:26:09Right this way.
00:26:17Hello?
00:26:18No. That's an easy trip.
00:26:21There. Is that better?
00:26:22I see your mother in you.
00:26:25You have all the qualities that I loved about your mother.
00:26:30Then why did you leave her?
00:26:33Good news.
00:26:36The nurse is here.
00:26:37Oh, perfect.
00:26:40Kara, Lynette, Lynette, Frank.
00:26:43Hi.
00:26:46Listen, I have a busy day at work with my boss coming in, but I'll try to be home around
00:26:49six.
00:26:49Okay.
00:26:51Frank?
00:26:52Hmm.
00:26:54You be good now.
00:26:55Yeah.
00:26:59You have a lovely home.
00:27:00Oh, thank you.
00:27:02Listen, I made up the maid's room.
00:27:04It's smaller, but it's just down the hall, so I thought that could be convenient.
00:27:06Oh, I'm sure it's fine.
00:27:08Okay.
00:27:08May I?
00:27:09Oh, please, by all means.
00:27:10Great.
00:27:12Now, I stopped by the hospital pharmacy to pick up your father's meds.
00:27:15He's going to continue to take the Agronox daily.
00:27:17Is that the blood thinner?
00:27:18It's to help prevent possible reoccurrence of a stroke.
00:27:21The doctor also prescribed him a heart medication, and three times a week a physical therapist
00:27:25will be by to actually rehabilitate the muscles that were weakened by the stroke.
00:27:29Now, I'm off on Sundays, but I'll be available all the time.
00:27:32Wow.
00:27:33We're going to do everything we can for him.
00:27:35Have you been doing this a long time?
00:27:36When I graduated from nursing school, I joined the agency.
00:27:39Private duty doesn't come along very often, but it works for me.
00:27:43Then you don't mind the hours?
00:27:45Everything worthwhile takes time.
00:27:49You can go back to work if you like.
00:27:50Oh, and if you don't mind, if I can use the kitchen, I'll make sure that your father's
00:27:53properly fed as well.
00:27:55Really?
00:27:56Well, the hospital nutritionist did give me instructions, but I like to think I can
00:27:59do slightly better than hospital food.
00:28:02Oh, that's wonderful.
00:28:03Um, the insurance.
00:28:05You don't need to worry about a thing.
00:28:08Okay, well then, I'm going to leave you to it.
00:28:11Oh, please let me know if you need anything.
00:28:13I will.
00:28:15See you later.
00:28:16Bye-bye, sweetie.
00:28:22So, you're my nurse?
00:28:24Your guardian angel.
00:28:27Oh, wait.
00:28:28You're not going to stick me in the butt with that, are you?
00:28:31Tempting, but no.
00:28:32Your arm.
00:28:33No, but my right arm because it's...
00:28:35I know.
00:28:35I know.
00:28:36Because it's numb.
00:28:39And relax.
00:28:47And...
00:28:48All done.
00:28:50No.
00:28:51Well, it didn't hurt at all.
00:28:53Maybe now I can get some exercise.
00:28:55Oh.
00:28:56You're not going anywhere.
00:28:59You need to relax.
00:29:02There you go.
00:29:04Now you need to listen to me, lay back, and I'm here now so I can take care of you.
00:29:10I know.
00:29:11Well, you're the boss applesauce.
00:29:26Ah.
00:29:28John.
00:29:29Hi.
00:29:30Welcome.
00:29:30How was your flight?
00:29:31It was fine.
00:29:33This place looks terrific.
00:29:35How is your father-in-law doing?
00:29:37He's doing much better, thanks.
00:29:38Uh, but it's a big adjustment.
00:29:40And how's your wife holding up?
00:29:42Yeah, as well as to be expected.
00:29:43Um, you know, they were very close when all this happened.
00:29:46I gathered.
00:29:47Um, hey, Brian, I have a small confession to make.
00:29:53Well, you see, I actually know Frank.
00:29:57What?
00:29:58Years ago, he used to do handyman work for my father, Seacliff.
00:30:03And I run into him from time to time when I'm here.
00:30:06So, you know my wife's father, but you never mentioned it?
00:30:09I mean, we're not close friends.
00:30:10We're barely acquaintances.
00:30:14And had you made this connection when you hired me?
00:30:17Well, about a year ago, Frank had mentioned that his daughter had married a hotel exec in Chicago.
00:30:22And since I'm a hotel man, I was curious and did a little checking into you.
00:30:28You have very impressive credentials.
00:30:31And since I was looking for someone to relocate in Seacliff, and your wife has roots here, I thought it
00:30:38would be a perfect match.
00:30:40Wow, and here I thought I got this job on my own merits.
00:30:43You did.
00:30:44You absolutely did.
00:30:46But I wouldn't have known about you unless Frank had told me.
00:30:50So, what you're saying is that I owe Frank?
00:30:52No.
00:30:53Poor someone.
00:30:55But what a turn of events.
00:30:57I mean, you and Kara moving to Seacliff, the precise moment that Frank needs you?
00:31:04Yeah, I guess.
00:31:06Well, I just wanted to get that out in the open.
00:31:08Now, if you need any help with Frank's convalescence, you let me know.
00:31:13Well, thank you.
00:31:16Now, let's go look at this big, new, beautiful hotel.
00:31:22Where do we start?
00:31:23Upstairs.
00:31:24Let's do it.
00:31:39No one understands.
00:31:41Not like you do.
00:31:42Martin, we don't have an appointment today.
00:31:45There are procedures that we need to follow.
00:31:47If you want, we can schedule.
00:31:48You want to get rid of me, is that it?
00:31:51Like her?
00:31:52Of course not.
00:31:56You'll have to talk to me.
00:31:58I feel comfortable telling you.
00:32:00Okay, well, why don't you have a seat?
00:32:05I want to know why she left.
00:32:08Tell me what I have to do to get her back.
00:32:12Well, Martin, I can't tell you that.
00:32:15Maybe if your wife came in, we could talk.
00:32:16I don't want to talk!
00:32:21I want her to love me.
00:32:41I'm sorry to interrupt.
00:32:42I was just on my way to the kitchen when I heard raised voices.
00:32:45No, please don't apologize.
00:32:48I should be thanking you.
00:32:50He's a referred client, but he's a bit unstable.
00:32:55I didn't know you were a therapist.
00:32:57Yeah, and you're a hypnotist.
00:32:59How did you scare him?
00:33:00Well, I just disrupted his self-importance and rejected his intimidation.
00:33:05Tricks you learn when you're a caregiver.
00:33:07Some patients can be quite challenging.
00:33:11You mind if I sit?
00:33:12No, please, by all means.
00:33:16It's actually nice to talk to somebody with solutions instead of problems once in a while.
00:33:20I'm sure you have your own set of tricks.
00:33:22Yeah, sometimes I wonder.
00:33:25I sit here recognizing symptoms and offering advice.
00:33:29And I really can't seem to figure out my own life.
00:33:32Why do you feel that way?
00:33:34Well, you're surrounded by people that love you.
00:33:37Your husband, your father.
00:33:40Well, Frank hasn't exactly been a model of a loving father.
00:33:44What do you mean?
00:33:47That's a really long story.
00:33:49Well, you took him into your home.
00:33:50He's part of your life.
00:33:52I don't understand.
00:33:54Well, you'd have to see the whole picture.
00:33:58Like the ocean.
00:34:00You know, when you look at things on the surface, they seem serene, calm, blue.
00:34:06But when you dive deeper, things get a little bit darker.
00:34:09Down where the predators swim.
00:34:11Yeah, that's why most people feel it's safer to just stay on the surface.
00:34:16Safer.
00:34:17That's where the predators feed.
00:34:19Ha.
00:34:21True.
00:34:23All right, well, maybe I will try and get some work done.
00:34:30You're welcome.
00:34:42Hey, this is really good.
00:34:44Yeah.
00:34:45I didn't know cooking was part of your job description.
00:34:48Well, he had to fix something for your father-in-law. He was hungry.
00:34:51Wow, I was hungry.
00:34:53Like a wolf.
00:34:54Kara was working, so I just thought I'd make you a plate.
00:34:58It's delicious.
00:34:59And the chicken's good, too.
00:35:03Lynette, you better be careful.
00:35:04We could get used to this.
00:35:06So good, I am.
00:35:30Good.
00:35:40All right.
00:35:41I'm at the end.
00:35:42soldier feet at halftime and we're freezing our butts off and I'm trying to slip the ring onto
00:35:47her finger but I'm shivering like that. Hey Kara hey are you finished working can I make you a
00:35:55plate? No that's all right I just wanted to see what all the fun was about. Hey baby you gotta
00:36:00try
00:36:00this chicken it's to die for. Man the vintage of this wine is excellent. Are you giving him alcohol?
00:36:08Oh it's fine with dinner he doesn't have any meds until in the morning. Well he's a recovering
00:36:12alcoholic. It's just one glass. Besides it improves cardiovascular health and it helps reduce the
00:36:18risk of coronary heart disease. Yeah that's my nurse. Over my dead body. Listen Frank I think you should
00:36:28get some rest. I'm not tired. Come on pal. Listen to Brian Frank. Oh. Okay.
00:36:49Look I am so so sorry. I mean there was nothing about an alcohol problem anywhere in his chart.
00:36:55Well now you know.
00:37:32you know.
00:37:33So what is the body of this guy?
00:37:33look there.
00:37:38Go hunting.
00:37:39Go about it.
00:37:47Go to Hunt again.
00:37:47Go hunting.
00:37:50Go hunting.
00:37:51Go hunting for hunting.
00:38:17I hope you don't mind if I use the pool, it's just so warm out tonight I need to feel
00:38:21something
00:38:22cooler on my skin no it's fine we don't use it nearly enough that's a shame I'm really sorry that
00:38:30I lost my temper earlier oh no it's my fault I should have called you to dinner I just thought
00:38:36you were working on your book well I was trying did I tell you about my book oh no I
00:38:45I just read
00:38:46the first one so follow-up sounded like a great idea oh anyway I want you to know that I'm
00:38:52really
00:38:52grateful for all of your help my schedule's just been so busy I understand clients strangers in
00:39:01your home it can be really tense intention it's like poisoning the body yeah how's that feel
00:39:16um good actually you know I always wanted to be a nurse to help people feel better to help them
00:39:25get
00:39:25past their hurt it's funny I got into my career for the same reason I wanted to help people with
00:39:34their emotional trauma so you could help yourself yeah and then I realized it doesn't always work
00:39:42that way the more I would delve into people's lives try to get them to focus on the good instead
00:39:49of the
00:39:49bad the more I realize that some things from your past just can't be undone what would you want to
00:39:57undo moments times where I could have said or done something I left so many questions unasked that
00:40:11when I look back I don't really know what happened sometimes I think the easiest answer is the right
00:40:22one chance I think we like to ask why I think you analyze behavior try to make sense of it
00:40:34sometimes people just do things sorry I better get to bed physical therapy starts tomorrow and I have to
00:40:45have your dad ready good night good night
00:41:22good morning hi you're looking better I feel better my right arm is getting stronger yeah heal too quick and
00:41:31you'll put me out of a job oh well I wouldn't want to do that time for your meds
00:41:39there you go let me get you some water
00:41:49thank you I'll be back to check on you later okay
00:41:54okay um open the press room and make sure that each press kit is laid out on every chair
00:42:00I'll be in in about an hour okay thanks bye
00:42:05you know you're okay to have dinner with your boss I think we pretty much got things covered it
00:42:09it's okay I don't think John minds it that I make time for you
00:42:13yeah well I'm starting to like this mr. Dussault you know now that we're on the subject I want to
00:42:29I know it was news to me too not well apparently but he knew about our marriage and that I
00:42:35was a hotel
00:42:35guy and that's how I got the interview for the job you're joking right hey there hey uh can we
00:42:44help
00:42:44you I'm Gregory I'm here for Frank's physical therapy oh yeah he's inside um I'll introduce you
00:42:53come on down we're gonna need to finish this conversation fine but uh I gotta get to work
00:43:01and you need to introduce Gregory your father hi hi there uh I'm Brian this is my wife Cara
00:43:10uh she's gonna take you and I gotta get to work I'll see you later this week
00:43:12uh you might have your hands full with this one but I will introduce you anyway
00:43:18come on follow me that's great a motivated patient this is Gregory how do you do good morning Frank
00:43:47good morning we're gonna do some muscle toning exercises today get your beach bod back again
00:43:52uh my beach bod in that case you better make up the room next to Lynette's it's gonna take more
00:43:58than a
00:43:58day Lynette she's a home care nurse oh I thought Ling Liu got assigned Ling took a position in Sonoma
00:44:05so I stopped at oh I'm from the San Francisco office I hadn't heard uh well I have an appointment
00:44:14so I will see you guys later we'll get started too if you like some pool time sure that sounds
00:44:23fun
00:44:25okay we're gonna start with some simple leg exercises all right there it is no swimming laps yet
00:44:33huh have you been exercising on your own yeah I try you know but Lynette she she keeps me on
00:44:41a short leash
00:44:41a leash huh whoa looks like you have some bruising here oh
00:44:50I don't know I must have banged into the toilet or something I don't know
00:44:54ain't being clumsy well at least you're not alone
00:44:59no I'm not my daughter took me in thank God and she would have been right to turn me out
00:45:06you know she has become quite the lady no thanks to me
00:45:12well let's be sure to work on those arm muscles then in case you know at some point you want
00:45:16to
00:45:16give her a hug that would be nice
00:45:22if it'll work
00:45:48give her a hug
00:46:45Okay.
00:46:47That's pretty good for your first day.
00:46:49Thanks.
00:46:51You want to head back inside?
00:46:53No, I'm going to sit here until I get all pruney.
00:46:55Then Lynette will have to get me out later.
00:46:58All right, suit yourself.
00:47:00Thanks.
00:47:10Hey.
00:47:11Hey.
00:47:11Are you all done?
00:47:12Yeah.
00:47:13He's doing well.
00:47:15I'll be back day after tomorrow.
00:47:17Great.
00:47:18Thanks.
00:47:18He seems upbeat.
00:47:20He is.
00:47:21And it's great that he's you to look after him.
00:47:22Family is the best medicine for recovery.
00:47:25Well, we're not exactly close.
00:47:28Really?
00:47:28That's odd.
00:47:30Why?
00:47:31He just spent the majority of our session telling me how proud he was of you.
00:47:39Listen, if you ever have any questions about anything, any concerns at all, you just call the agency.
00:47:47Okay?
00:47:49Okay.
00:47:50Very nice of you.
00:47:51I'll see you later.
00:47:55See you, buddy.
00:47:55So long.
00:47:57Thanks.
00:48:20Hey.
00:48:21Good session?
00:48:22Yeah.
00:48:23Probably use a little bit more walking.
00:48:25Well, I just wanted to ease him in.
00:48:27He can be a stubborn old man.
00:48:29Well, he seems to like you.
00:48:31And you don't?
00:48:33I guess I'm immune to your charm.
00:48:36Of course.
00:48:37Too good looking to be straight.
00:48:39Too good looking to be straight.
00:49:03You don't belong here.
00:49:06You be sure to clean up after your dog.
00:49:16Frank?
00:49:18Dad.
00:49:20Okay.
00:49:22Um, I think we should spend some time and talk some things through.
00:49:27Well, I'd like that.
00:49:28I don't want to be angry anymore.
00:49:31Well, I'm sorry I ever did anything to make you angry.
00:49:35I understand you know John Dessau.
00:49:37I don't know him.
00:49:38He's just a guy I see at AA meetings sometimes.
00:49:41Oh.
00:49:43Okay.
00:49:44All right.
00:49:44That's enough for one day.
00:49:46You still need to get your rest.
00:49:48A little longer?
00:49:49No.
00:49:50Come on.
00:49:51We're not out of the woods yet.
00:49:52You don't want a reoccurrence.
00:49:54Better listen to your nurse.
00:50:10You still need to get your nurse.
00:50:25AA is supposed to be anonymous.
00:50:26Hmm.
00:50:28It's no wonder John was so reluctant to tell us.
00:50:31Yeah, he just didn't want to admit how he knew Frank.
00:50:34Hmm.
00:50:35Hmm.
00:50:36I feel better knowing the whole truth.
00:50:37I mean, it explains a lot.
00:50:41Mm-hmm.
00:50:43Let's go to bed.
00:50:44Okay.
00:50:45I love you.
00:50:48All right.
00:51:14Tessa?
00:51:17No, Frank.
00:51:19It's the night.
00:51:21Tessa?
00:51:25How are you now?
00:51:27Okay.
00:51:30Now, your paralysis has taken a turn.
00:51:33But the new meds I'm giving you
00:51:35will make everything better.
00:51:54Can you feel this?
00:51:58No.
00:52:00No.
00:52:01Mm-hmm.
00:52:16Does that hurt?
00:52:22How about that?
00:52:23No.
00:52:30No.
00:52:34No.
00:52:35No.
00:52:37No.
00:52:38No.
00:52:39No.
00:52:39No.
00:52:40No.
00:53:01Water.
00:53:02Dry mouth.
00:53:12Oh, thank you.
00:53:15What happened last night?
00:53:19What do you think happened last night?
00:53:23I gave you a sedative for your discomfort.
00:53:26It had a slight hallucinogenic effect on you.
00:53:28Next time I'll lower the dose.
00:53:30That should help.
00:53:32There you go.
00:53:33Just relax.
00:53:36You're doing great.
00:53:39There you go.
00:53:44What are you doing?
00:53:47You should mind your own business.
00:53:52Are you okay?
00:53:54Yeah.
00:53:58So you gonna be home for dinner?
00:54:00Baby, we have dinner with John tonight.
00:54:02Right.
00:54:03Okay, I'll be ready.
00:54:04I promise.
00:54:05Okay.
00:54:06Have a good day.
00:54:07Thanks.
00:54:07Me too.
00:54:07Love you.
00:54:07I love you too.
00:54:14You have a very strange woman in this house.
00:54:18Uh, Mrs. Curiazzi, right?
00:54:20I will tell you what I have seen.
00:54:24Um, I have to go because I'm gonna be late for work.
00:54:27Go.
00:54:28But remember, I warned you.
00:54:47I can tell he's attracted to other women.
00:54:52He's obsessed with football.
00:54:54Well, my team wounds.
00:54:56Especially with the new picks.
00:54:58You go to all the home kids just to drink and hang out with your buddies.
00:55:03I can tell, you know?
00:55:05You don't know what you're talking about, okay?
00:55:07Just cause I gotta hang out with my friends I need to get away from.
00:55:13If you ever have any questions or concerns at all, you call the agency.
00:55:18Okay.
00:55:28I should've known Frank wouldn't honor the confidentiality of AA meetings.
00:55:34Oh.
00:55:34Don't worry about it.
00:55:35Your secret's safe with us.
00:55:38Ah.
00:55:38I finally get to meet your better half.
00:55:41I'm John Deso.
00:55:42Kara.
00:55:43I know who you are.
00:55:44Your father turned me on to your book.
00:55:46So I hear, which I find a little hard to believe, but I am learning new things about
00:55:50him every day.
00:55:50You can say what you want, but I can tell you, he adores you.
00:55:54He never stops talking about you.
00:55:56Okay.
00:55:57Hold on.
00:55:58My future ex just walked out of the house.
00:56:02Hey, sorry to interrupt.
00:56:04No problem.
00:56:05Can I talk to you for a minute?
00:56:07Oh, of course.
00:56:08Excuse us.
00:56:10Who is that?
00:56:12Uh, that's the home care nurse that's taking care of Frank.
00:56:15You lucky dog.
00:56:17Where's Frank?
00:56:17I wanted Brian's boss to meet him before we left.
00:56:19Yeah, that's the problem.
00:56:20You know, your father really overdid the exercise and he's exhausted.
00:56:24I just don't think we should wake him.
00:56:25Oh.
00:56:26Okay.
00:56:27All right.
00:56:27And I'm sorry I'm not wearing my uniform.
00:56:29It got dirty.
00:56:30I had to clean it.
00:56:31I know it's unprofessional.
00:56:33Oh, please.
00:56:34Don't be silly.
00:56:35And I'm sure they don't mind either.
00:56:37Okay, thanks.
00:56:38No, thank you.
00:56:39Ladies, we have dinner reservations.
00:56:42Oh, you guys have fun.
00:56:43Don't worry about anything.
00:56:44I'll take care of your father.
00:56:45Oh, but I thought you would join us as well.
00:56:47That's not possible.
00:56:48I have a patient to tend to.
00:56:50But thank you for the invitation.
00:56:52Well, that's admirable, but I won't take no for an answer.
00:56:56I'll have the restaurant delivered.
00:57:00So, Kara, Brian says that you're an avid scuba diver.
00:57:04Plenty of great dives around here.
00:57:05Hey, why don't we all go out on my yacht sometime and I'll show you the best spots?
00:57:09Well, I used to dive, a little, but that was a lifetime ago.
00:57:14I mostly grew up in Chicago.
00:57:15Kinda hard to dive in Lake Michigan.
00:57:17It's always like that, isn't it?
00:57:19You take for granted when you've got it, but you don't realize how much you miss it until it's gone.
00:57:25What about you, Lynette?
00:57:27Where are you from?
00:57:28Uh, um, here and there.
00:57:30I moved around a bit.
00:57:32Your family?
00:57:33My mother passed away.
00:57:36Father?
00:57:37Out of the picture.
00:57:39I'm sorry.
00:57:40It's okay.
00:57:41I find that by being an in-home care nurse, I gain an instant family.
00:57:46Well, you've done very well for yourself.
00:57:51I'm gonna go check on your father.
00:57:54Thank you for a wonderful dinner.
00:57:56It was lovely.
00:57:57Oh.
00:58:04Was it something I said?
00:58:06Was I too nosy?
00:58:07No, no, of course not.
00:58:11Come on.
00:58:29Who would like some coffee?
00:58:31If you have my favorite Arabic blend.
00:58:34Well, seeing as how you stopped our kitchen, I would say that that is a fair bet.
00:58:38I'll tell you what.
00:58:39I'll go get the coffee.
00:58:41Yeah.
00:58:43Maybe Lynette would like a cup.
00:58:45Well, I'll go ask her.
00:58:53So, how's your father doing?
00:58:55Uh, he seems to be improving.
00:58:57Well, he has the best of care.
00:59:00You like Lynette.
00:59:02Ooh.
00:59:04Direct and to the point.
00:59:06Why do I feel that every yes-man therapist has been a total waste of time and money?
00:59:14I'm impressed by you.
00:59:15Well, I try.
00:59:17And your analysis?
00:59:18You like shiny new things.
00:59:20A new hotel, a dazzling new investment.
00:59:24But...
00:59:25Go on.
00:59:26Well, you also like to be in control.
00:59:28So a hotel, things like that, they don't change.
00:59:32So you keep them.
00:59:35Women are always changing on me.
00:59:39So you move on.
00:59:42Wow.
00:59:44Boy.
00:59:45Do I appreciate someone who just comes out and says, what a fool I've been.
00:59:51When it comes to relationships, we all do foolish things.
00:59:55Like letting someone who looks like that move in with you and your husband?
01:00:00Well, gee, when you put it like that, man.
01:00:02No, I'm just kidding, Brian.
01:00:04He's probably the most straight-laced person I know.
01:00:07That's why I can depend on him.
01:00:09That's you and me both.
01:00:42And what about your analysis of Lynette?
01:00:48I don't know if I have her figured out quite yet.
01:00:51She's sweet.
01:00:53But there's a sadness to her.
01:00:58And there's something...
01:01:01She is a mystery.
01:01:05Or maybe she's just shy.
01:01:12Thank you, Brian, so much for a lovely evening.
01:01:15And I'm so sorry I didn't get to see Frank.
01:01:18But will you say goodnight to the Nephemy?
01:01:21I will.
01:01:22All right.
01:01:22I will see you tomorrow at the hotel at 8 a.m.
01:01:25Thank you, boss.
01:01:26Thank you. Perfect.
01:01:27Goodnight.
01:01:28Bye-bye.
01:01:32Mr. Dassault.
01:01:36John, please.
01:01:38Wine?
01:01:42Thank you, but no, I don't drink anymore.
01:01:44Oh, come on.
01:01:45One glass won't hurt.
01:01:47Besides, it improves cardiovascular health
01:01:49and it reduces the risk of coronary heart disease.
01:01:52Well, when you put it that way...
01:01:56Listen, I'm sorry about earlier if I was rude.
01:01:59It's just been a really long time since somebody's actually paid me attention.
01:02:04Eh, that's hard for me to believe.
01:02:07Why?
01:02:11I'd like to get to know you better.
01:02:15If you wouldn't be opposed to that idea.
01:02:19I don't know.
01:02:21I think you already know too much.
01:02:32May, uh...
01:02:33May I take you to the grand opening gal of my hotel this weekend?
01:02:38You must get some time off.
01:02:41Eh?
01:02:42Ask me again tomorrow.
01:02:53Let's go.
01:03:16We wander through life searching for the truth, love,
01:03:21a way to belong.
01:03:28In some cases,
01:03:30we can lose our balance
01:03:32and fall off the edge.
01:03:34And all of those fragile needs and hopes
01:03:37come crashing down
01:03:38and we are broken.
01:03:54I need to talk to you, doctor.
01:03:55I need to talk to you, doctor.
01:03:57Martin,
01:03:58you can't be here like this.
01:03:59I can't help you.
01:04:01Martin, I'm not...
01:04:02You have to help me!
01:04:05I followed my wife.
01:04:23I saw them make love.
01:04:25Like she could just toss me aside.
01:04:30She was wrong.
01:04:35Martin!
01:04:37Martin!
01:04:37Martin!
01:04:40Martin!
01:04:41Martin!
01:04:42Martin!
01:04:43Martin!
01:04:44She looked at me like I was nothing.
01:04:46Please!
01:04:47I'm sorry!
01:04:48Please!
01:04:49What did you do?
01:04:51I gave her some therapy.
01:05:00Don't scream!
01:05:01I gave her some therapy!
01:05:05Are you alright?
01:05:06Are you alright?
01:05:09Whoa!
01:05:11Whoa!
01:05:12ahhh
01:05:15ahhh
01:05:15ahhh
01:05:16ahhh
01:05:16ahhh
01:05:17ahhh
01:05:17ahhh
01:05:19Oh, no.
01:05:39420 to Central.
01:05:40420, go ahead.
01:05:41420, Capitola Road, 17th Avenue, 17th, no worries.
01:05:45Thank you very much.
01:05:47Get home safely.
01:05:49They'll be matting one hour, hospital 17th Avenue.
01:05:5110th Avenue,
01:05:5310th Avenue,
01:05:5410th Avenue,
01:05:5510th Avenue,
01:05:557th Avenue,
01:05:568th Avenue,
01:05:568th Avenue,
01:05:589th Avenue,
01:06:16420,
01:06:17Everybody's right.
01:06:17My mom and I, my mom.
01:06:22My mom, my mom and I, my mom.
01:06:24And I find my mom.
01:06:26My mom and I'm from there.
01:06:28My mom and I.
01:06:29I'm from there.
01:06:34And I'm from there.
01:06:38Oh, my mom.
01:06:39Oh, my mom and I have like to go.
01:06:40So, I have my mom.
01:06:41Hey?
01:06:44Hey.
01:06:45Do the police still need me?
01:06:47No, no, no. They got your statement.
01:06:51Did they find his wife?
01:06:54She was dead.
01:06:57The man she was with lost a lot of blood, but he survived.
01:07:02So she was the only one that was killed?
01:07:05No.
01:07:07The police were trying to collect witness statements and they went to the house down the road.
01:07:13The dog was barking and then...
01:07:16Yeah?
01:07:18Apparently Martin went to Mrs. Curiosi's house before he was here.
01:07:23He cut her throat.
01:07:30No.
01:07:32No, it doesn't...
01:07:34It doesn't make any sense.
01:07:38Why would she do?
01:07:41It could have been you.
01:07:44I...
01:07:57I'm not going in tomorrow.
01:07:59No, go on.
01:08:01I'm okay. He's taken away.
01:08:05I'll call you if I need you.
01:08:06Then I'll call you.
01:08:36I'm dead.
01:08:48Oh, that's really...
01:08:50You're awake.
01:08:54Oh, what's going on?
01:08:56Why are you crying?
01:08:58I'm so sorry that I shut you out for all these years.
01:09:03It's not your fault, sweetie.
01:09:06You were little.
01:09:08Things happened.
01:09:11Your mother, I mean...
01:09:13She had stopped loving me, and...
01:09:16I wanted to feel loved.
01:09:18What happened?
01:09:20I was having an affair.
01:09:22She had stopped loving me, and I ended it.
01:09:26But...
01:09:27She wanted you out.
01:09:28She wanted me out.
01:09:30I wanted to fix our marriage.
01:09:32And she didn't.
01:09:35And this woman.
01:09:36I promised your mother that I'd never see Candace again.
01:09:40And I've always upheld that promise.
01:09:43Always.
01:09:45I would have never left you.
01:09:47Never.
01:09:50And she refused to let me see you.
01:09:53She what?
01:09:55No.
01:09:57Kara, she took...
01:09:59...you away from me.
01:10:02Yeah.
01:10:05And she got off all contact.
01:10:12I'm sorry.
01:10:14I'm so sorry for all this pain that I've caused you.
01:10:18When your mother took you off to Chicago and ripped you away from me, I was...
01:10:25alone.
01:10:33And I thought my life was over.
01:10:38And it's not.
01:10:46Come on.
01:10:52I love you.
01:10:54I love you.
01:10:56I love you.
01:10:59We tell ourselves if I only knew the truth.
01:11:02But does it matter?
01:11:04Can the truth undo the past?
01:11:06I love you.
01:11:10I love you.
01:11:12Oh.
01:11:13Oh, man.
01:11:18Oh.
01:11:24Oh.
01:11:29Oh, my God.
01:12:05I don't know.
01:12:26I don't know.
01:12:57I don't know.
01:13:52I don't know.
01:13:58I don't know.
01:14:25I don't know.
01:14:33I don't know.
01:15:17I don't know.
01:15:37I don't know.
01:15:50I don't know.
01:16:00I don't know.
01:16:01I don't know.
01:16:07I don't know.
01:16:14There you go.
01:16:15I don't know.
01:16:45I don't know.
01:16:48I don't know.
01:16:59I don't know.
01:16:59John had an accident last night.
01:17:01He crashed on his way down the ridge.
01:17:08He's dead.
01:17:14I'm sorry.
01:17:15I don't know.
01:17:37I don't know.
01:17:38I don't know.
01:17:44I don't know.
01:17:44I mean, it's OK, Brian.
01:17:46I don't want to live with those.
01:18:14Deserve? You think you deserve this?
01:18:16Kara doesn't want it. It's all a burden to her.
01:18:19And when she's gone, we can be a family.
01:18:23Get away from him.
01:18:25Kara!
01:18:26We're in love, Kara.
01:18:28Enough with the lies.
01:18:29I checked with your agency.
01:18:31They didn't send you here. They don't even know who you are.
01:18:34The nurse they assigned here is Ling Lu, and she's been missing for a week.
01:18:39Fine. You should know the truth.
01:18:54Please don't!
01:19:06You killed her.
01:19:09And then came here to be my father's nurse.
01:19:11I know more about taking care of people than any nurse.
01:19:15Wait a minute.
01:19:17Did you kill Joan too?
01:19:19What?
01:19:25People die.
01:19:45What did you do to my father?
01:19:51Dad.
01:19:53Dad!
01:19:54Dad!
01:19:57Dad!
01:19:57Dad!
01:20:01Do you stay awake?
01:20:02I have to take care of him.
01:20:04He needs me.
01:20:05No one here needs you.
01:20:06Dad!
01:20:10Dad!
01:20:13Dad!
01:20:14Dad!
01:20:15Dad!
01:20:26Oh, my God.
01:20:29We were happy.
01:20:31He was happy in my mother's arms.
01:20:37And you and your mother, you destroyed that.
01:20:40You took everything from me.
01:20:42Oh, my God.
01:20:43Dad, you are my little Tessa?
01:20:48That's right, Dad.
01:20:51I'm your little Tessa.
01:20:53A half-sister you never knew.
01:20:56This is true.
01:20:58Yes, it's true.
01:21:00It's the affair that I had with her mother, Candace.
01:21:03Tessa.
01:21:04Tessa, I wanted to be a father to you.
01:21:07You and your mother, you made him abandon us.
01:21:11I'm sorry.
01:21:14I wanted to be your father, Tessa.
01:21:20You could have been a father to me.
01:21:23Please, forgive me.
01:21:24Tessa.
01:21:25You should have been a father.
01:21:28And I would have been a father to you.
01:21:30But I promised Kara's mother that I'd end the affair.
01:21:33And then when she ran off with Kara, I came looking for you and your mother and you two had
01:21:37disappeared.
01:21:39Tessa, sometimes everything doesn't work out the way we want it to.
01:21:44Like me having a stroke.
01:21:46You think your stroke was an accident?
01:21:49What?
01:21:52I just waited for you to get drunk, which is never a long wait.
01:21:57Then I followed you to the surf bar and I spiked your drink while you were taking a leak.
01:22:02You never even saw me work just as I planned.
01:22:06The only thing that left a chance was if Kara was going to take you in or not.
01:22:11I figured she was a pushover and I was right.
01:22:14The rest was easy.
01:22:17You needed a nurse.
01:22:19And I made myself available.
01:22:22And now, I'm going to take care of you the same way you took care of me.
01:22:27Tessa!
01:22:29Tessa!
01:22:30God!
01:22:31Tessa!
01:22:47Tessa!
01:22:47No!
01:22:48No!
01:22:50It's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay, it's okay.
01:22:55Okay, okay, okay, okay.
01:23:11Loss, of all of the things that touch us during this lifetime, loss is the most lasting.
01:23:17Loss of youth, loss of self, these are the things it's almost impossible to reclaim.
01:23:25If we can move beyond the pain of our past and see a greater truth, then we can forgive and
01:23:32we can begin to restore that which had been lost to us.
01:23:36You've certainly struck a nerve in me, and I'm sure in many of our viewers as well.
01:23:41Thank you for sharing your work with us.
01:23:42It was my pleasure.
01:23:43The new book, the new book, Life in Crisis, a Case Study, by our guest, Dr. Cara Sutton.
01:23:50Thanks for joining us.
01:24:00Dr. Cara, please, Cara, I really enjoyed the book.
01:24:04Well done.
01:24:07Hey.
01:24:08Hi.
01:24:08Great job.
01:24:09Thanks.
01:24:10It sounded very familiar, especially that part on redemption.
01:24:15Should we get some lunch?
01:24:16Yes.
01:24:17Right on.
01:24:18Yeah.
01:24:22Okay.
01:24:30I was just in my youth, only one true.
01:24:35Mommy and daddy told me just what to do.
01:24:39Sweet, follow the rules.
01:24:41Do what I do.
01:24:43You're developing nicely.
01:24:45It's just what I choose.
01:24:49So I followed along my track, track with no to give.
01:24:58No man with a whistle, sing where I can go.
01:25:07But I still walked along those lines, I knew I'd be fine.
01:25:16Cause life tastes much sweeter when I own it.
01:25:20When it's mine.

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