00:00I stop idealizing people and start seeing them for who they show me they are.
00:04I stop trying to find a psychological explanation behind everything they do.
00:09Why did this person do that? Maybe they went through something, maybe they're scared,
00:13maybe they just don't know how to express their emotions.
00:16But at some point you have to stop.
00:18Understanding why someone acts a certain way doesn't mean you have to accept their behavior.
00:23I also stop trying so hard to be understood by everyone.
00:27Sometimes some people simply do bad things and that's okay to accept it.
00:32And when someone shows you who they are again and again and again,
00:36you have to learn to believe them.
00:38It's hard, I'm not gonna lie, it's really hard.
00:40Especially when feelings are involved.
00:43And this applies for relationship, friendship and even family.
00:47Because our feelings can completely affect our judgment.
00:50And sometimes the answer is right in front of us.
00:53We're just not ready to accept it.
