00:06you start saying my lover is my god that's terrible your lover cannot be your god you
00:11have to take your lover to god you love him because he is your destination and you love
00:16the other because you love yourself and the other is so much like you therefore real carnal love
00:23real worldly love is not about trying to gain something from the other or trying to bring
00:28happiness to the other trying to exchange pleasures with the other but it is about seeing that the other
00:34is so much like you loving the other is in no way the same as loving god loving god is
00:40like loving
00:40health loving the other is like loving a fellow patient now this fellow patient obviously cannot
00:45become a substitute for health that's what often happens in misplaced love your lover or your
00:50beloved becomes a terrible substitute for god
00:58you
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