00:00You don't need to be the smartest student in school to succeed.
00:02However, you need to have more emotional intelligence.
00:05And I'll give you three tips to develop it.
00:06Emotional intelligence is what allows many people
00:09less competent than you, objectively or less attractive than you,
00:12to succeed on many levels in their lives,
00:13in love, in friendship, and even professionally.
00:15The first piece of advice is to force yourself to put yourself in other people's shoes.
00:18It's no secret that there are always two versions of the same story.
00:21and that, generally, we keep the ones that suit us.
00:23When you watch a movie, a series, or read a book,
00:25Try to understand everyone's point of view.
00:27what they truly feel. This will help you develop your empathy.
00:30Not just for those who think like you.
00:31but for all the people you will meet in your life.
00:33Second piece of advice: practice really listening to others
00:36and to provide them with support.
00:37A simple word of encouragement, or even showing that person
00:40that you remember what she told you several weeks ago
00:42to ask him again if he's feeling better.
00:44All of that makes a difference. Tell me in the comments what it means to you.
00:46is the most important in terms of emotional intelligence
00:48or, conversely, the behaviors that make you run away.
00:51The final piece of advice is to learn to question yourself.
00:53Sometimes you can be right about the substance, but wrong about the form, and vice versa.
00:56Knowing how to put your ego aside.
00:58Ease relations instead of running away or becoming defensive.
01:00These are the kinds of people that people really want to have in their lives.
01:03You don't need to be the most handsome to be loved.
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