00:00When a man starts doing everything alone, most people assume he just prefers it that way.
00:04But that's usually not what it means. Most of the time, when a man is asking for help,
00:09he still believes people will show up for him. He's still reaching out, still trusting. But
00:13when he stops asking, it's different. Because by that point, he's already learned something.
00:18He learned that every time he opened up about what he needed, it either got forgotten or used
00:23against him later. So eventually, he just handles it himself. Not because he doesn't want connection,
00:28but because doing it alone hurts less than being disappointed by someone he actually counted on.
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