00:02I like to revisit as a reader. I love to spend an entire day. As we are wired for belonging
00:08and we are also expected to be fearless which is very opposite to belonging. How one continue
00:22to carry on that you truly believe in. What you call as belongingness is not a thing of your hardwiring.
00:33In animals it is a thing of hardwiring. But the thing is as human beings it is close to
00:39impossible for us to have purely physical relationships. When you have a relationship
00:44there is always a story behind it not just physicality. So one has to be careful while
00:50using that word I belong to someone. In fact if you investigate that word it would
00:56be funny. What do you mean by belongingness? When I think of belonging I'm thinking about
01:01having a shared value or the shared experiences with whom I agree with. So
01:10that's not belongingness. But right company is defined not by the ability to find
01:18someone or some place where thoughts are identical. Right company is where you are
01:24shown the mirror. Once you decide that you don't have to be altogether that much
01:31scared of the mirror. Relationships are natural. They just happen without the
01:37obligation to belong. Never belong. And if you have to say I belong then say that as
01:42as the saints did. I belong to the truth.
