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Here on Modern Money Matters, we enter the home of the Ocasio family. After the devastation caused by Hurricane Sandy, the extended family decided to move into one large, multigenerational home altogether. Watch this episode to learn how a tragedy became blessing!

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Transcript
00:10There's three generations living together in this house, including my grandparents,
00:15and at this point, I really can't imagine living without them.
00:18My favorite part of the week is Sunday. We have a big dinner.
00:23Our family is extremely close. Every weekend, it's a big group of people here.
00:28My cousins come, Tiana and Skye. My other aunts and uncles will come. It's a sight to see.
00:34My grandparents have been married for 52 years, I believe, and they have six children.
00:40I'm the only one that is this single mother with two girls.
00:44I've always stayed pretty close to my parents.
00:47After Hurricane Sandy, we ended up moving in with our grandparents.
00:51There was five feet of water downstairs.
00:53I had to walk about three blocks with the water up to my chest.
00:59We thought it was going to be temporary, but we realized that there were so many financial benefits to living
01:04with them
01:04that we decided to find a home that would fit us all and was more comfortable.
01:10Looking at what was out there and what I would need for myself and two girls, it was just a
01:18little overwhelming.
01:19She said, Papi, I found a house that is perfect for us. Why don't we go see it?
01:24We saw that it's big enough, so we figured, yeah, that's the right house.
01:28You don't have to share the same entrance. You have two kitchens. You just have your own living space. It
01:34works.
01:36I'm a retired bus driver, New York City bus driver.
01:40I make enough money with my social security and my pension.
01:43My credit has always been good. That's why I had to put the house on my name.
01:48My mortgage is about $2,000, and the expenses are like $1,000.
01:51Monica, she helped me out on the bills.
01:54Gas bill, electric bill, cable bill.
01:57But I do pay the mortgage.
01:58One of the biggest financial surprises was how high our heat bill is in the winter.
02:06The house is run on oil, so we can't have the heat on all the time.
02:11So sometimes you just have to put on a sweater and set the fireplace on and call it a day.
02:16My parents have always helped out with child care, picked up the girls from school,
02:22took them to doctor's appointments for me when I was stuck at work.
02:26Child care is so expensive. I have worked in daycares, so I know how expensive they could be.
02:32My mom saved a ton of money with my grandparents being able to help out.
02:36They're also getting older, so I'm able to help them as well.
02:39Both my girls drive, so there's some times where my mom has to go to a doctor's appointment.
02:44We look out for each other.
02:46Technology is where we could help them out a lot more.
02:49If they were on their own, they would be struggling.
02:54We just shop in bulk because the house is so huge.
02:57We have the space to put everything away.
03:00It's all about sharing, and that's how we save.
03:02We don't need to have double of everything.
03:04Sometimes I even share clothes with my grandpa.
03:07I'll walk in from work, and he's like, are you wearing my flannel?
03:09And I'm like, yeah.
03:11Even though we do have two kitchens, we eat together basically every single day for almost every single meal.
03:19One of the good benefits is that having my daughter here, she loves to cook, and she's a good cook.
03:25So sometimes she cooks, and we go downstairs and eat with them.
03:30One reason why I think it's coming back in style that people are starting to live with their extended family
03:35is the cost of living is just so high.
03:38Rent is very expensive.
03:40The majority of people my age are in school, so they have student loans that they have to pay off.
03:45They have their car payments and stuff like that.
03:48That's why I think it's beneficial to live with your parents or whoever as long as you can
03:53because the money that you would be putting towards rent could go towards a loan
03:57or go towards saving so that one day you could maybe buy an apartment.
04:03My grandpa's a great financial role model.
04:05He just teaches us how to spend our money more wisely
04:09and how to look into our purchases before we just buy things on a whim.
04:13They're very good kids.
04:15One day they're going to leave, but I'll be here for them until they're ready to go
04:19because I love them a lot.
04:21My grandparents have been a part of my life for as long as I can remember.
04:25It's almost weird if I wasn't with them.
04:28I love being around them.

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