00:00Look at what happened with you, Shamia.
00:02You and Portia.
00:03Your moms didn't get along, and look where it got you.
00:06Shamia pulled out this crazy accusation that Portia's mom tried to sleep with her dad back in the day.
00:14I was so shocked because it was almost like this slow build up to it.
00:17Where she's like going about the whole Pilar thing and saying that Portia's daughter,
00:22like Portia doesn't want her daughter to come over to her home anymore.
00:25And then to like pivot directly into coming for her mom was a little shocking to me.
00:30Yeah, the switch up was wild because I have to agree with Portia.
00:36Crying, woe is me, you won't let my child see you.
00:40But then you're going to do that to me is exactly why I'm not going to let my child see
00:47you.
00:47Because if I know that someone feels a certain type of way about me and that certain type of way
00:52is not good,
00:53why would I let my kid hang out with you?
00:56I don't want that energy to transfer onto my child.
00:58I don't want conversations to be had around my child where shit talking is happening about their parent, a.k
01:07.a. me.
01:07Like I don't, I don't see why Portia would have Pilar around Shamia given the state of their relationship.
01:14If somebody don't like me or if I feel like somebody has ill will or we ain't close,
01:19I'm not going to have my daughter go over the house.
01:22Now, for a second, I was kind of buying what Shamia was trying to sell with,
01:27okay, well, Pilar has a relationship with my children.
01:30Why would you, you know, I guess punish Pilar and my kids by not allowing them to continue to foster
01:38that relationship?
01:40But, like, what kind of relationship or friendship could those kids have knowing that their parents don't get along?
01:47Look at what happened with you, Shamia.
01:50You and Portia.
01:51Your moms didn't get along and look where it got you.
01:54No, and honestly, it's kind of like going generationally.
01:56They just need to let it go.
01:57Right, exactly.
01:58Break the cycle.
02:00Oh, my God.
02:00Oh, my God.
