00:02i 100 applaud you charles barkley just saying no and not caring i applaud him but i also want
00:09to say to him and other people who do the same thing including myself you better be careful
00:13you better be careful and why is that well the thing is and to all my brothers and sisters out
00:19there we always ask this question someone says hey we're gonna have x y and z we always say
00:26who all gonna be there right oh that's the first thing you gotta ask who all gonna be going
00:31and like you said melissa the older i get the more i'm like nope i either tell the person no
00:36or in my head i'm like i'm not going but the reason why you got to be careful because there's
00:41going to
00:41come a time when you're like man you know what i do want to get out the house and then
00:45when you go
00:46to reach out to people gonna say no everyone's like well you don't come out you say no you don't
00:52show up so what i'm trying to do now personally is push beyond how i feel and almost force myself
00:59to go out and go to things even if i don't want to go but see leroy why though that's
01:04my whole point
01:04if you don't want to do something and don't want to go somewhere yeah why at this point in our
01:11lives
01:11would you want to do something you don't want to do just don't go because here it is and it's
01:16going
01:16to break your heart it it embarrassed me when i thought about it it can't be about me all the
01:22time it just can't there are some why not some no it can't be
