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00:00:11Music

00:05:28and life is the name of this million emotions.

00:05:34We know that this is our mindsets.

00:05:38It is our mindsets.

00:05:39We know that we are born.

00:05:40We tell that we are getting entry into the world.

00:05:43It is getting exit.

00:05:46Well, now I am getting exit on the break

00:05:49when I am getting entry again in the show.

00:05:52I will remember some celebrities

00:05:53and they will remember their love and sweet.

00:05:57If you also want to remember your love,

00:06:01then go.

00:06:01After this show,

00:06:02you will leave your own album

00:06:04and you will fall into good memories.

00:06:07Good morning, Pakistan.

00:06:13Welcome, welcome back.

00:06:14Good morning, Pakistan.

00:06:16And today we have guest list.

00:06:19We look at our show a little bit.

00:06:21Today we are very different people.

00:06:23There will be different stories.

00:06:24There will be different memories.

00:06:27There will be different memories.

00:06:27So, we have Sarwat Gilani.

00:06:28As-salamu alaykum.

00:06:29Wa alaykum as-salamu alaykum.

00:06:30I am very different.

00:06:32I am very different.

00:06:33I am very different.

00:06:34I am very different.

00:06:36I am very different.

00:06:36But, once again,

00:06:38I will see you in 2-4 months.

00:06:40You are your love.

00:06:41You are your love.

00:06:42Do you feel me first or second?

00:06:45Umair Rana.

00:06:46Second.

00:06:47Second.

00:06:48That's right.

00:06:49Yes, yes, yes.

00:06:49You are your love.

00:06:52Yes, yes.

00:06:52You are your love.

00:06:52I am very different.

00:06:53Yes, exactly.

00:06:54And this is the second time.

00:06:56But, you have little hair.

00:06:57The styling is changing.

00:06:58Yes, little hair and little hair.

00:07:00Yes.

00:07:01How are you?

00:07:02I like it.

00:07:03And with us, Naveen Nakwee.

00:07:05As-salamu alaykum.

00:07:07Wa alaykum salam.

00:07:08I can't do this.

00:07:09No.

00:07:10You have many days later.

00:07:11Many days later.

00:07:12Yes.

00:07:13I mean, okay.

00:07:14There is a gap.

00:07:15It came from the moment of love.

00:07:17It came from the moment of love.

00:07:18And now there is a gap.

00:07:19That is something.

00:07:20How are you here?

00:07:21I am.

00:07:22Okay.

00:07:23Today's topic is a little bit like,

00:07:25I don't know,

00:07:26we can remember our love sometimes.

00:07:30So, we start to remember.

00:07:32It happens.

00:07:34I have some aunts.

00:07:36I sit on my wife in this session.

00:07:38Remember to remember to remember to remember to remember to remember to remember the old stories.

00:07:41We are having better lie, sometimes.

00:07:46There is a lot of sense between our emotions.

00:07:48Sometimes we are happy.

00:07:49Sometimes we are nervous.

00:07:50Sometimes we remember and remember to remember.

00:07:53So, there is a session that has had to remember to remember to remember your loves.

00:07:57We have a tradition that the children, like my aunt,

00:08:03they always sit and all the children were sitting in the guild

00:08:07and they were listening to the people who have gone through their time.

00:08:12So it's an oral history, which is a tradition.

00:08:16So that's why the children of the children,

00:08:21their storytelling techniques are very good.

00:08:24Wow.

00:08:26Wonderful.

00:08:27Actually, my family has a lot of shades.

00:08:32In my family, there are two different shades.

00:08:34My aunt's aunt's aunt and aunt's aunt.

00:08:36So the aunt's aunt's traditional, typical,

00:08:41you know, how to deal with loss,

00:08:44just don't move on.

00:08:46But the aunt's aunt, they go to the other spectrum.

00:08:49I've seen them in such dramatic situations.

00:08:55And I realized, as a child, that it is catharsis.

00:08:59And then we were all sitting like that.

00:09:01And so it started to be like this,

00:09:03because they came out and thought that this is a very uncomfortable thing.

00:09:07And they were saying,

00:09:09that this is the mother's son, the son's son.

00:09:12What's happening?

00:09:12And when someone's dead,

00:09:16everyone is gathered.

00:09:17that this is the mother's son.

00:09:18Absolutely.

00:09:18So there is one day,

00:09:21that everyone is very sad.

00:09:23But a few days later,

00:09:24or a few days later,

00:09:26you see,

00:09:26that all cousins are coming,

00:09:28and they are coming out of the mother's son.

00:09:30That's what I've seen.

00:09:31That's what I've seen.

00:09:32Absolutely.

00:09:33I think,

00:09:33Allah Ta'ala,

00:09:35when you take something,

00:09:36you give the loss of the mother's son.

00:09:39Absolutely.

00:09:40And now,

00:09:41it's like the father of Pahad's father's death.

00:09:44Our beloved doctor.

00:09:46So I remember,

00:09:48my aunt,

00:09:49it was a warm,

00:09:51comfortably warm,

00:09:52my aunt didn't sit down.

00:09:54And they were cousins,

00:09:55and we were drinking,

00:09:56and the next day,

00:09:58you know,

00:09:58we're all sitting.

00:09:59And she was thinking,

00:10:01that this is the mood.

00:10:03But,

00:10:04you have to move on.

00:10:06You have to,

00:10:07and Allah Ta'ala,

00:10:07you have to,

00:10:08And Allah Ta'ala,

00:10:08you give the patience.

00:10:09What's that?

00:10:10When he takes it,

00:10:10He takes it for his loved ones.

00:10:11So it's automatically,

00:10:13it's a strange place.

00:10:14And now,

00:10:15you just think,

00:10:15like Fahad said,

00:10:16that his whole life,

00:10:19and he's building,

00:10:22that he's building,

00:10:23and he's building,

00:10:23so what does he need?

00:10:26It's just like,

00:10:27he can see the child's son,

00:10:28and see the children's son,

00:10:30and see the child's son.

00:10:30And he's a dream.

00:10:32So Fahad was so satisfying in that mode

00:10:37That my Abba has seen everything professionally, family wise

00:10:41He has seen a lot of strength in that perspective

00:10:47I remember when he was in the graveyard

00:10:50He also talked about this

00:10:52Abba is in a great place

00:10:54He went to a great place

00:10:56So our expectation is now

00:10:58It was viral too

00:10:59We have seen it

00:11:00Okay

00:11:02So it's how you deal with loss

00:11:04Yes

00:11:05And Allah gives patience at that time

00:11:07I remember when my husband got into it

00:11:10I felt like a pillar fell on us

00:11:14You were very little?

00:11:16He passed away about 12 years ago

00:11:18That's when he was married

00:11:19That's when he was married

00:11:21So yesterday in fact Father's Day

00:11:25And I remember Fahad

00:11:27So I remember Fahad

00:11:28So at the morning Fahad would cry

00:11:30Look at how we are in our world's life

00:11:34And at night

00:11:35Because I had to come here

00:11:36So I remembered what to talk about

00:11:39So I'm crying at night

00:11:40So Fahad eventually said

00:11:42Look at your eyes will be red

00:11:44Aw

00:11:47The doctor

00:11:48The doctor

00:11:49Wow

00:11:49The doujee draught

00:11:50From beauty related doctor

00:11:52The doctor

00:11:53I'll see him

00:11:54That's how you're following

00:11:54In life you cry as well as laugh

00:11:58And there's some lives you celebrate

00:12:00Like your father, Fahad's father.

00:12:02My mother.

00:12:04I remember, Abbu tells me that

00:12:06I have a very long age in my dad.

00:12:09He said that

00:12:10the people who were talking about

00:12:12were talking about it.

00:12:13I can imagine that.

00:12:14And these are the people who have seen

00:12:16every little bit of study.

00:12:19And they say celebrate.

00:12:21They've had a nice life.

00:12:22We embrace death.

00:12:25We embrace this kind of

00:12:27fear of mortality.

00:12:29That they always have fear

00:12:31of death.

00:12:33It's not like that.

00:12:34We know that it's better than that.

00:12:38That's true.

00:12:39Our religion helps us.

00:12:42Our faith.

00:12:43Our religious culture

00:12:44is also like that.

00:12:48We don't like that.

00:12:49Another place I noticed

00:12:50and we've been in Mexico.

00:12:54We've been in Mexico City.

00:12:55One week is the day of the dead.

00:12:58And it was literally like Eid.

00:13:01I've seen and we've seen

00:13:02and admired.

00:13:03What kind of death do they celebrate?

00:13:06What kind of death do they celebrate?

00:13:08One week is once in a year.

00:13:10One week is the first day

00:13:12for all those pets.

00:13:15One day for all those pets.

00:13:17One day for all those pets.

00:13:18One of the newborns.

00:13:19One of the immediate siblings.

00:13:22Every day is dedicated.

00:13:24Different information.

00:13:27I'm a Punjabi.

00:13:28They will make their food.

00:13:30They will come from the food.

00:13:32You celebrate.

00:13:33The oral history.

00:13:35Keep remembering the people.

00:13:37Keep remembering that death is right.

00:13:39It will happen.

00:13:41You embrace it more comfortably.

00:13:43Exactly.

00:13:45But some things you lose

00:13:46that there is no death.

00:13:49Like if someone has loved

00:13:51or a feeling

00:13:53that is also a loss.

00:13:55Yes, exactly.

00:13:57It is intangible.

00:14:00There is no concern.

00:14:02There is no place.

00:14:04There is no place.

00:14:04In the universe, this loss.

00:14:07Like a list of relatives.

00:14:09Some relatives.

00:14:12Some relatives.

00:14:13Some relatives who have lost their friends.

00:14:14Some relatives have gone far.

00:14:16They have never talked about.

00:14:18They have a misunderstanding.

00:14:20Exactly.

00:14:21It is intangible.

00:14:22You cannot mourn it.

00:14:23You can't go away at a place.

00:14:25You cannot give them to them.

00:14:26They don't do it physically.

00:14:27People are alive.

00:14:28But they are not with you.

00:14:30Sometimes they are alive in jealousy.

00:14:32Sometimes they are alive in love.

00:14:34Sometimes they are alive in love.

00:14:34Right.

00:14:34Yes, absolutely.

00:14:35Sometimes they are living in anger.

00:14:38You know, that loss, Joanna Nida, is a very difficult loss.

00:14:42Because it is a world.

00:14:44It is you have it, but it is not.

00:14:47Exactly.

00:14:48It is a very difficult loss.

00:14:51I feel that is the most heaviest loss.

00:14:53You are right.

00:14:54You are right.

00:14:54Because the rest of the losses, you can mourn.

00:14:58You can cry.

00:14:59You can cry.

00:15:00Your heart can cry.

00:15:04But there are some losses that there is no expression.

00:15:07No expression.

00:15:08There is no vocabulary for them.

00:15:10There is no place for them.

00:15:14It is only in your heart.

00:15:18You have to deal with that loss all your life.

00:15:21Sometimes you sit in your house.

00:15:23You open your albums.

00:15:25And you watch your love.

00:15:27Sometimes you don't remember.

00:15:28If you are looking at something like that,

00:15:30you will feel beautiful.

00:15:31Sometimes you do this.

00:15:33Like my mother.

00:15:36My mother.

00:15:37My mother.

00:15:38My mother.

00:15:39My mother.

00:15:40My name was Neelie.

00:15:42Okay.

00:15:43Then they separated.

00:15:46They were different.

00:15:47They were different.

00:15:47They were four or five daughters.

00:15:49They were different.

00:15:50I miss them.

00:15:52Because they are not in touch with us.

00:15:54I miss them very much.

00:15:56And I really hope that you know.

00:15:58In my heart.

00:15:59I feel like they will see me.

00:16:00Because I was very close to her.

00:16:03They will see me.

00:16:04They will see me.

00:16:05They will see me.

00:16:06They will see me.

00:16:07Where will they be.

00:16:07Wow.

00:16:09That loss is very big.

00:16:11That loss is very big.

00:16:12That loss is such a loss.

00:16:12That I cannot reach out.

00:16:15It is a big decision.

00:16:17You know that's kind of.

00:16:19Untangible.

00:16:20You can't touch it.

00:16:21Yes.

00:16:22That's lovely.

00:16:23Yes.

00:16:24Yes.

00:16:25Yes.

00:16:26Yes.

00:16:27For the things that you want from school.

00:16:28Yes.

00:16:28Now you are going to school.

00:16:29Yes.

00:16:30I feel like this isial.

00:16:34I know sometimes, since you are talking tomorrow already, but it sounds very into play.

00:16:43which commemorates you, it's totally open-ended.

00:16:47It can trigger you any time.

00:16:49It can bring back those memories every time.

00:16:51Because these are memories of your childhood.

00:16:53They are very important for you.

00:16:55And it's not that you are close to your blood relatives.

00:16:58There are a lot of people that you don't think

00:17:01that I will be older or I will be my child.

00:17:05It won't be.

00:17:08Like my best friend,

00:17:09I call him Zishan Mahmood.

00:17:14When he turned 41,

00:17:16he died in his sleep.

00:17:18He was an amazing person.

00:17:21He was asleep.

00:17:24And the day of his death,

00:17:27every person was saying,

00:17:29he was my best friend.

00:17:32My two brothers,

00:17:33cousins.

00:17:36This is before I got married to Fahad.

00:17:39Every phone,

00:17:41no problem.

00:17:42I don't have to buy a car.

00:17:43I have to see the house.

00:17:45Do you have any friends?

00:17:47Do you have any friends?

00:17:49Do you have any friends?

00:17:50Do you have any friends?

00:17:51That's it.

00:17:53That's it.

00:17:53If he is not,

00:17:54then who will I call him?

00:17:56You know,

00:17:58like when I lost my father,

00:18:01Abba was a dictionary.

00:18:03Whether it's an Urdu dictionary,

00:18:05whether it's an English or Punjabi,

00:18:07whether it's an English or Punjabi,

00:18:08whether it's an Ashto.

00:18:09I would say,

00:18:10Nidha,

00:18:10I would say,

00:18:12Abba,

00:18:12what does this mean?

00:18:14He would know it.

00:18:15So when he died,

00:18:17the first thing that came to my mind

00:18:19was,

00:18:20who will I ask?

00:18:21Who will I ask?

00:18:22In the words,

00:18:23I mean,

00:18:25who will be my dictionary?

00:18:27So,

00:18:28this loss is very difficult.

00:18:30And,

00:18:31this loss is a big demand.

00:18:34This loss is a big demand.

00:18:36This loss is a big demand.

00:18:37Exactly.

00:18:38Unspoken strength.

00:18:39Unseen strength.

00:18:40So,

00:18:42Allah,

00:18:42give us all this strength.

00:18:44Amen.

00:18:48In your life,

00:18:49if I ask you,

00:18:52some people are very strong,

00:18:54but

00:18:55they also have a weak point,

00:18:59or a weak point,

00:19:00or a weak point,

00:19:02in which

00:19:04all the strength

00:19:06ends.

00:19:07Oh,

00:19:08I think

00:19:09I think

00:19:09now,

00:19:10I think

00:19:10now,

00:19:10I think

00:19:11that

00:19:13I just can't take it anymore.

00:19:19So,

00:19:19in Palestine,

00:19:19in Gaza,

00:19:20when it happened,

00:19:21whatever happened,

00:19:23Father's Day,

00:19:24and

00:19:24then,

00:19:26what are they doing?

00:19:27But,

00:19:27they have to go through.

00:19:30I can't get it out of my mind.

00:19:32I just can't.

00:19:33It's a loss of my mind.

00:19:34And I think

00:19:35I realize it also

00:19:36because

00:19:36of my father.

00:19:39And

00:19:39How many children?

00:19:40My two children.

00:19:42And

00:19:42there were two daughters,

00:19:44who were not.

00:19:45And

00:19:45that loss

00:19:46was the most triggering thing.

00:19:49They were little?

00:19:50They were still born.

00:19:52They were literally.

00:19:54And

00:19:54this is a very interesting

00:19:55movement.

00:19:56Because

00:19:57in our society,

00:19:57generally also not just

00:19:58a society.

00:20:00And

00:20:00it's especially

00:20:01that they were not born.

00:20:03they were not born.

00:20:04So,

00:20:05and

00:20:05this is a big issue

00:20:07that we foresee,

00:20:08forego this.

00:20:09I mean,

00:20:10it's not a gender issue

00:20:11in such,

00:20:11actually.

00:20:12But

00:20:12it's very important.

00:20:14It's very important to talk about it.

00:20:17Because

00:20:17I learned a lot about it.

00:20:20I learned a lot about it.

00:20:21I'm literally between

00:20:22women.

00:20:23Literally.

00:20:24So,

00:20:24I learned a few things.

00:20:25It was that

00:20:27that

00:20:27a woman

00:20:30becomes born

00:20:31the moment

00:20:32she knows

00:20:32she's carrying a child.

00:20:33Yes.

00:20:35She has to earn

00:20:36witness.

00:20:37I was talking to her.

00:20:38She has to check her.

00:20:40So

00:20:41keep her name,

00:20:42think,

00:20:42prepare her.

00:20:43Now,

00:20:43life has begun.

00:20:45You were your first child?

00:20:46These are

00:20:47after her son.

00:20:48They were together.

00:20:49and they were

00:20:50And they were

00:20:51there.

00:20:53So,

00:21:05we were looking forward to that.

00:21:07And

00:21:07when you learn

00:21:08that

00:21:09a woman's loss

00:21:10is a woman's loss

00:21:11the moment it is happening.

00:21:12You need to respect that.

00:21:14I think

00:21:16that

00:21:16I had to bury them.

00:21:19closure

00:21:19that you were talking about.

00:21:21I realized

00:21:22another thing.

00:21:23I think

00:21:23women can benefit

00:21:24to be at the graveyard.

00:21:26They genuinely can.

00:21:28Closure

00:21:28I don't get.

00:21:28Some of our rituals

00:21:30were very bad.

00:21:32I started to bring wisdom

00:21:33to them.

00:21:34With the need.

00:21:34For example,

00:21:36to tell them

00:21:37what happened.

00:21:39we were saying

00:21:40that they were

00:21:40no lair.

00:21:41You know,

00:21:41why is he enjoying

00:21:42this pain?

00:21:43But repetition helps

00:21:44you accept it.

00:21:46It's done.

00:21:47It's done.

00:21:48It's done.

00:21:49It's done.

00:21:55It's done.

00:22:02It's done.

00:22:04It's done.

00:22:05It's done.

00:22:06It's done.

00:22:07So that's logical.

00:22:07My Begum said

00:22:08I wouldn't give it.

00:22:09And she went through

00:22:11clinical depression.

00:22:13Because she couldn't

00:22:13find closure.

00:22:15Like you're saying

00:22:17intangible,

00:22:17then,

00:22:17who will I try to try to try?

00:22:19But when you try to try

00:22:20or witness as well as you can see,

00:22:22at least you find

00:22:23some sort of closure

00:22:24that starts.

00:22:26Another major lesson

00:22:27I learned was

00:22:28My uncle told me that the only way through is the way through.

00:22:34That means, experience things properly.

00:22:38Again, men don't do this well.

00:22:41I think June is mental health month as well.

00:22:44Men need to do it.

00:22:46We don't have a lot of people.

00:22:47There are very close relationships.

00:22:50So, I don't know.

00:22:52They say, how can I cry?

00:22:54Because of childhood, men don't cry.

00:22:57When I saw my father's face,

00:23:01when I saw my big brother's face,

00:23:05they cried.

00:23:08They said, don't cry, don't cry.

00:23:11You get to listen to them.

00:23:13It will get hurt.

00:23:14My mother is in front of me.

00:23:16I will not cry.

00:23:18Why are they going to cry?

00:23:20This is a very pet.

00:23:22It will get hurt.

00:23:24It will get hurt.

00:23:25Don't cry.

00:23:26But if you don't cry,

00:23:27then everything is inside you.

00:23:28You will stay inside.

00:23:30The pain and the pain.

00:23:32If we get inside,

00:23:34then many diseases will die.

00:23:36You don't have to get rid of that.

00:23:37My mother,

00:23:38I know them.

00:23:40She wants to remember them.

00:23:41She wants to remember them daily.

00:23:43They are.

00:23:45She has great attention and sympathy.

00:23:51She must be very happy right now.

00:23:52She wants to remember them.

00:23:53I sent her pictures.

00:23:55I said,

00:23:56she will be delighted.

00:23:59After the break,

00:24:01share your mother's pictures.

00:24:03Good morning, Pakistan.

00:24:05Welcome,

00:24:07Welcome back.

00:24:07Good morning, Pakistan.

00:24:10we remember our love

00:24:11or remember our losses.

00:24:15We remember our losses.

00:24:15What we have lost in our lives.

00:24:18There are some losses such as

00:24:20that it can't be lost.

00:24:22But we can remember them.

00:24:24and we can remember them.

00:24:29We can remember them.

00:24:31We can remember them.

00:24:32We can remember them.

00:24:32So now,

00:24:33your mother's picture.

00:24:34Oh, look at that.

00:24:37Oh.

00:24:37My mother is smiling.

00:24:40Look at that.

00:24:41My daughter,

00:24:42I knew she will do that.

00:24:45Oh, sweet.

00:24:47It's super.

00:24:48And that's how

00:24:48before she got married,

00:24:49you know, right?

00:24:50She got married at 16.

00:24:52Oh, wow.

00:24:53So, yeah.

00:24:54Wow.

00:24:54the story is that

00:24:55with her friends,

00:24:58she didn't know what to say.

00:24:59She was playing in Urdu.

00:24:59Yes.

00:25:00So, she was playing.

00:25:01So,

00:25:02my mother said,

00:25:03she said,

00:25:04she said,

00:25:06she said,

00:25:08she said,

00:25:09she said,

00:25:09and she went right back to it.

00:25:14It's a bad thing.

00:25:16But I remember,

00:25:17as I remember,

00:25:18you said,

00:25:19that there are some losses

00:25:20that are not tangible.

00:25:23So,

00:25:25when I was three years old,

00:25:27we went to Saudi Arabia.

00:25:28That was the immigrant exodus

00:25:30that was the Middle East.

00:25:32That you also saw.

00:25:34Yeah.

00:25:34So,

00:25:36after 12 years,

00:25:37we came here.

00:25:38So,

00:25:38the ones who were uproot

00:25:39went there.

00:25:40So,

00:25:40all the people were uproot.

00:25:42all the people were uproot.

00:25:44Yeah.

00:25:44All the people,

00:25:45all the people,

00:25:46all the people were uproot.

00:25:48All the people were uproot.

00:25:50And,

00:25:51after that,

00:25:53I lived in New York,

00:25:54some years,

00:25:55I lived in Islamabad.

00:25:57So,

00:25:57I have left all the relationships,

00:26:00and left places.

00:26:02I have left places.

00:26:03I have a lot of sense of place.

00:26:06That,

00:26:06that,

00:26:06I live in a place,

00:26:07which is the environment,

00:26:10which affects me,

00:26:13it affects me.

00:26:14Right?

00:26:15Like I live in Karaachi,

00:26:16I have a dynamic energy,

00:26:19Karaachi,

00:26:20and a hustle,

00:26:21that,

00:26:22that,

00:26:22I am using.

00:26:25In New York,

00:26:26which is the on-the-go kind of thing,

00:26:28Fast life

00:26:29Yes, that's what I do.

00:26:33When I go in the car, I don't go faster.

00:26:36And when I go in Islamabad, I go to ring, ring, ring, ring, ring, ring.

00:26:42This is also a loss.

00:26:45Exactly, exactly.

00:26:47And those are relations you lose as well.

00:26:49I mean, there are parts of your life.

00:26:50I see government servants, army children.

00:26:53They keep moving station to station.

00:26:55This is a very difficult life.

00:26:56It's so tough.

00:26:58To make or not make, how much they invest emotionally,

00:27:01then how much they lose or not.

00:27:03It's not easy.

00:27:04You have to live in different areas.

00:27:06You have to get different people.

00:27:08You have to get good friends or not.

00:27:11Because you have to invest so much.

00:27:13You have to go further.

00:27:16Like your child, I have a very important life.

00:27:21Class three, four, five, six.

00:27:23That chunk I have been in Germany.

00:27:25You have to go further.

00:27:26You have to study.

00:27:27So, I have learned a lot.

00:27:30I have made many friends.

00:27:32After that, I came here.

00:27:33Then, you have to start from zero.

00:27:36It's a very difficult thing.

00:27:38For every person.

00:27:39The change is good.

00:27:41But, it's good.

00:27:43It's a lot of trouble.

00:27:45But, it's a lot of trouble.

00:27:45It's a lot of trouble.

00:27:47Things are closed.

00:27:48After that, you're comfortable.

00:27:51But the change, it gets very difficult.

00:27:55Because people have to deal with it.

00:27:56You will read that book, Who Moved My Cheese.

00:27:59Who Moved My Cheese?

00:28:01It's about two mice who are stuck in a maze.

00:28:04Rane would know that. Rana would know.

00:28:08That is about change.

00:28:10That the way you accept change quickly.

00:28:13And it's a very amazing book.

00:28:17I think everyone should read it.

00:28:20There is one mouse that doesn't accept change.

00:28:23And there is one mouse that accepts quickly.

00:28:26So it's a story of both of them.

00:28:28Okay.

00:28:29Who wins both of them?

00:28:31The one who accepts change and will accept change.

00:28:36He wins.

00:28:38As soon as you accept change, you will move on.

00:28:44They say forgive and forget.

00:28:47Yes.

00:28:48It is because you will let go and you will forget.

00:28:51Yes.

00:28:52If you are stuck, you will live in your heart.

00:28:55In your heart.

00:28:55I've got to say I can forgive but I cannot forget.

00:28:59I don't forget.

00:29:00It's like that.

00:29:01Yes.

00:29:01That's why these two love are together.

00:29:03Forgive and forget.

00:29:05Because it's tough to forget.

00:29:08Yes.

00:29:08Because that pain, the...

00:29:10What happened with you, how can you forget?

00:29:14Yes.

00:29:14You can't forget your body-wise.

00:29:16You can't forget your heart-wise.

00:29:17You can't forget your mentally.

00:29:18You can't forget.

00:29:19Okay.

00:29:20Like we are talking about loss.

00:29:21There are those people who go away.

00:29:24But they are also who are very good friends.

00:29:28And we are not with that.

00:29:30We are really good friends.

00:29:31We are not with that.

00:29:32And the people of you who are unhappy people live in the heart.

00:29:45It's good people.

00:29:49someone who is with their loved ones, someone who is with them

00:29:52and without that, they lose that person.

00:29:57So, has that happened in your life?

00:29:59I'm sure, of course.

00:30:00We have so many red hair, I'm very happy.

00:30:03Which we haven't done in the deep.

00:30:05We haven't done in the deep.

00:30:06And this has happened a few reasons.

00:30:09All the stresses they have been doing.

00:30:11All the stresses they have been doing.

00:30:12But I mean, yeah, I mean,

00:30:13I mean, like I said, two wives could be called

00:30:15and then a young girl could be called.

00:30:17Young girls.

00:30:18Young girls.

00:30:19Young girls, I don't think so.

00:30:20Young girls.

00:30:21I mean, absolutely.

00:30:21I think that kind of thing,

00:30:22I think your already been doing.

00:30:24How you lose some relationships.

00:30:28This is my experience.

00:30:30It's a lot of anger, a lot of anger.

00:30:32And when it's anger, you can't forget at all.

00:30:36But the thing is, it doesn't look at it.

00:30:39So, I then looked again, because my husband,

00:30:41I looked inwards and said,

00:30:42OK, fine,

00:30:43what am I supposed to do?

00:30:47What contribution am I supposed to make?

00:30:49I mean, that's a part of the book also.

00:30:51What should I do to change for change?

00:30:54Right?

00:30:55And if it happens, it's not my decision.

00:30:57So then, I need to live with my clear conscience.

00:30:59I have put myself a hundred percent.

00:31:01I have talked to myself.

00:31:03I have asked myself.

00:31:04I have asked myself.

00:31:05I have asked myself.

00:31:06I have asked myself.

00:31:07If needed.

00:31:10And then, if it doesn't happen,

00:31:12I mean,

00:31:14I mean,

00:31:16I'm going to taste mine.

00:31:18You taste yours.

00:31:19And you'll be happy and I'll be happy.

00:31:22And it's at least the human level we are connected.

00:31:27Basic human level we are connected.

00:31:29And that's how you move on.

00:31:30And I think,

00:31:31a very strong thing that you said,

00:31:33forgive and forget,

00:31:34is that sometimes,

00:31:36a lot of relationships,

00:31:37a lot of relationships,

00:31:38a lot of relationships,

00:31:39a lot of relationships.

00:31:40And they pass away.

00:31:42They die.

00:31:43Now, you will be angry.

00:31:45And you will be angry.

00:31:47You have to come to peace.

00:31:50You have to come to peace.

00:31:51You have to address it.

00:31:52Some sense,

00:31:53you go to therapy.

00:31:54Fine.

00:31:55Some sense,

00:31:56you talk to friends.

00:31:57Siblings come and play.

00:31:59And talk to brothers.

00:32:00Because sometimes,

00:32:01parents are shared.

00:32:02You know,

00:32:03common.

00:32:04And then,

00:32:04you have to find peace.

00:32:06Peace,

00:32:07rest in peace.

00:32:07In English,

00:32:07rest in peace.

00:32:09You have to rest in peace.

00:32:10Exactly.

00:32:11You have to rest in peace.

00:32:12Exactly.

00:32:13Absolutely.

00:32:13There is another loss, Nidab,

00:32:14which is your own way.

00:32:17Because,

00:32:17every stage of life,

00:32:19you become a very different person.

00:32:21Yes.

00:32:22Some days,

00:32:24you have a lot of hope

00:32:25on others.

00:32:28Like,

00:32:28Umair said,

00:32:31you know,

00:32:32then you go inward.

00:32:33Yeah.

00:32:34And then,

00:32:35when you go inward,

00:32:36you mourn that loss.

00:32:39Like,

00:32:41I think,

00:32:41one year ago,

00:32:42when you feel it.

00:32:44Like,

00:32:45one year ago,

00:32:47I am not the same.

00:32:49Yes.

00:32:49A part of me,

00:32:51I have lost.

00:32:53And it will never come back.

00:32:55Ever.

00:32:56And that,

00:32:57again,

00:32:58it is not tangible.

00:32:59When I look inward,

00:33:00or I look inward,

00:33:01or I look inward.

00:33:03So,

00:33:03I remember that.

00:33:04So,

00:33:05you miss that,

00:33:05that old woman,

00:33:07who sometimes,

00:33:08in teenage years,

00:33:09or in different faces.

00:33:11Because,

00:33:11I miss that,

00:33:12that chunk.

00:33:14Laubali.

00:33:15Laubali.

00:33:16There is no awareness.

00:33:18There is no stress.

00:33:19I remember that chunk of life.

00:33:22I remember that.

00:33:23I don't know, Nidab.

00:33:23I think,

00:33:25I remember that,

00:33:27but,

00:33:27I think,

00:33:29I am better off now.

00:33:31Because,

00:33:31people will not change,

00:33:34but,

00:33:34you have to change yourself.

00:33:36Same.

00:33:36I couldn't agree more.

00:33:38So,

00:33:39you can't,

00:33:40that loss,

00:33:41is inward.

00:33:43And that loss,

00:33:44is that,

00:33:45you cannot write a date,

00:33:46you cannot talk to someone,

00:33:47you cannot talk to someone.

00:33:48It is only inside,

00:33:50the conversation.

00:33:51Between you and your other two selves.

00:33:53Okay,

00:33:54we are talking about loss.

00:33:56Sometimes,

00:33:57some phases,

00:33:58they miss.

00:34:00Like,

00:34:01for example,

00:34:02play with cousins.

00:34:03Absolutely.

00:34:04They stay at home.

00:34:06They stay at home.

00:34:07They stay at home.

00:34:08They stay at home.

00:34:09the phases of life,

00:34:10they miss.

00:34:12That,

00:34:13that,

00:34:14that,

00:34:15that,

00:34:16that,

00:34:19that,

00:34:20what happens,

00:34:20you don't have,

00:34:21Well it seems like,

00:34:27I am in my 50's now.

00:34:3220's forgets very much,

00:34:3330's,

00:34:34How much was your time?

00:34:3540's not so much.

00:34:37Ah ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha.

00:34:39No, what do you know,

00:34:4140's are the best?

00:34:43Yes.

00:34:43Oh my god.

00:34:4450's are the best.

00:34:45Oh, really?

00:34:46They are the best.

00:34:48Something to look forward to.

00:34:50Yes.

00:34:51Yeah.

00:34:52So, I don't think of these 20s, 30s.

00:34:5420s was totally lost.

00:34:55I mean, I don't know.

00:34:56Yeah, totally.

00:34:5830s was also better because you felt like,

00:35:00yes, a little bit of knowledge.

00:35:02I'm looking at my pictures,

00:35:03saying, God, my skin is so good.

00:35:08The loss of a great skin.

00:35:11I started to be white at 18 age,

00:35:13so I can't even lose my black hair.

00:35:16I can't even miss that.

00:35:18Yes.

00:35:19Today, people say,

00:35:19I'm genuine, Meghaji.

00:35:21Yes.

00:35:22I mean, it's a great thing in my memories.

00:35:26Always, always.

00:35:27Don't you ask a lot about this?

00:35:29You're from Anwar Maksud's family.

00:35:31That would be a compliment.

00:35:33Yes, absolutely.

00:35:34But funny you say that because,

00:35:35I mean, Guftu, I remember,

00:35:38you know,

00:35:39there are certain points when you're a child

00:35:41and you have some relationships

00:35:43that you have to remember feelings.

00:35:46Obviously, you're too small to understand.

00:35:48I was my grandma and Taya,

00:35:50Bashir Taya.

00:35:51So, all Taya,

00:35:53my father was the youngest.

00:35:54So, Bashir Taya was the oldest.

00:35:57In his 30s, he was all white.

00:35:59So, all I remember him was white.

00:36:02But the greatest thing I remember,

00:36:03I didn't remember his voice.

00:36:05I didn't remember what to do with him.

00:36:07I didn't remember what to do with him.

00:36:08they were coming to us,

00:36:08and they were doing our hands.

00:36:10I remember that

00:36:11in his presence,

00:36:13there was so quiet,

00:36:15there was so much love.

00:36:17There was so much love.

00:36:17That feeling.

00:36:18That I just wanted to go to him.

00:36:20And then,

00:36:21I knew that

00:36:22I was also learning to go.

00:36:24Oh!

00:36:25But, I remember that

00:36:26when he died,

00:36:27we were in LA.

00:36:28In school,

00:36:29in a music class,

00:36:32there was a song called,

00:36:33The Grey Goose Dies.

00:36:35He taught us.

00:36:36And I was crying.

00:36:37Because,

00:36:37he was going to go,

00:36:38he was going to go,

00:36:39he had cancer.

00:36:41And,

00:36:42I remember that

00:36:42when he died,

00:36:44he was in LA.

00:36:45It was just a genuine,

00:36:47literature,

00:36:48as we say,

00:36:49a pathetic fallacy.

00:36:49So,

00:36:51his loss,

00:36:52was the first loss,

00:36:53as a child,

00:36:54I felt.

00:36:55He had a shafkat.

00:36:56My father himself,

00:36:58is wonderfully amazing.

00:36:59Abu,

00:37:00he was also the presence

00:37:01of Bashir Taibbi.

00:37:02So,

00:37:02I felt,

00:37:03that Abu,

00:37:03he was like,

00:37:03my God.

00:37:06And,

00:37:06I felt,

00:37:07that,

00:37:07he left.

00:37:09It's just the feeling,

00:37:11the loss of that,

00:37:12feeling of around.

00:37:13Which reminds me,

00:37:15which scares me,

00:37:16frankly.

00:37:16Because,

00:37:17I have seen,

00:37:18friends,

00:37:19who have lost parents.

00:37:20A wife,

00:37:21who has lost her father.

00:37:22So,

00:37:23abhi bhi,

00:37:23alayn,

00:37:23me,

00:37:24I need to address it.

00:37:29I need to address it.

00:37:30MashaAllah,

00:37:31it's good age also.

00:37:32But,

00:37:33I remember,

00:37:34that's why I remember,

00:37:34that,

00:37:36that,

00:37:37that,

00:37:38that,

00:37:39that,

00:37:46that,

00:37:48that,

00:37:49that,

00:37:51that,

00:37:52that,

00:37:53that,

00:37:54that,

00:38:06that feeling remained with me.

00:38:07that,

00:38:08that,

00:38:08have already been growing so much,

00:38:10even so ____.

00:38:12But,

00:38:14the thing is,

00:38:16with cancer,

00:38:17especially since,

00:38:17you mentioned it,

00:38:18that my mother passed with cancer,

00:38:20so,

00:38:21what time when she says,

00:38:23that they have diagnosis,

00:38:24she says,

00:38:25that they have been 4 or 5 years,

00:38:27that,

00:38:27and that due to a deadline,

00:38:29I feel,

00:38:30that,

00:38:30the grieving process,

00:38:31begins right then.

00:38:32For the next 4-5 years, you are already moaning what is going to happen.

00:38:37And then, obviously, it feels like you know, it broke down the ground.

00:38:43And then it happens. Cancer is really the worst.

00:38:47Cancer is a disease, like Yasir's little brother.

00:38:51He has been hospitalized for 7 months.

00:38:53And now he has been hospitalized.

00:38:55And the doctors told everyone to the whole family that they will not survive in the situation.

00:39:04So, they are mentally prepared.

00:39:07When they are mentally prepared, they start planning.

00:39:10What will next? What will next? What will next?

00:39:13What will next? What will next?

00:39:14So, the family starts to move on to that mind.

00:39:17So, when it happens, the other people, like Yasir's brother,

00:39:23As soon as they will be happy, they will be happy.

00:39:27But as soon as they will be happy, they will not be able to think about it.

00:39:31That's right.

00:39:31So, when it happens for months, there is a disease in your home.

00:39:35And then it happens.

00:39:37So, as soon as you are a little composed of disease,

00:39:42You don't feel a shock.

00:39:45You are preparing yourself, as they said.

00:39:47Like you have said that you are a cancer patient or any other disease.

00:39:54There is also a loss in which we are sitting in a month.

00:39:59Exactly.

00:40:01Exactly.

00:40:01The people we didn't know, we have only read about them.

00:40:15Yes.

00:40:16So, as you are saying that you are a child of Gaza.

00:40:19Yes.

00:40:20Look, there is no relationship with them.

00:40:22But then there is a loss.

00:40:24There is also a loss.

00:40:25It is a very strange and strange loss.

00:40:28Let me quickly correct that.

00:40:29Because the relationship is...

00:40:32The relationship is our religion.

00:40:33Exactly.

00:40:33We are a human.

00:40:35We are a human.

00:40:37We are a human.

00:40:38Now it is a genocide.

00:40:40That is the fact that we are saying that it is wrong.

00:40:42It is wrong.

00:40:43We remember that our Imam in that their people remember their rights.

00:40:47Of course.

00:40:47We are saying that the being of God was wrong.

00:40:49But we celebrate ourselves.

00:40:51They have taught us that we are still standing at the law.

00:40:54So many layers to this loss.

00:40:56So many things.

00:40:57But why do we teach that everyone who lives,

00:41:02What have you learnt?

00:41:03Have you learnt how you have lived in this life?

00:41:06Have you learnt how to deal with the relationship between brothers and brothers?

00:41:12One happens when you prepare for the elder, one happens when you prepare for the unnatural one.

00:41:16My son will be the best, my little brother will be the best.

00:41:20So are you valuing that time?

00:41:22Are you valuing, are you behaving the way you should behave?

00:41:25Have you given that time or not given that time?

00:41:27I'm going a little, it's recalling to me.

00:41:31That's what I remember.

00:41:33It's the essence of the time.

00:41:35God said that we need to respect the time.

00:41:39Because life is nothing but time.

00:41:41Are you respecting that or not?

00:41:44Which again, I'm sorry, I'm going a little tangent.

00:41:46Please understand the Jain Jis.

00:41:48Do the best of the life.

00:41:50This should be a South Asian lesson.

00:41:53All the brown people should remember.

00:41:55Do the best of the life.

00:41:56Do the best of the life.

00:41:56Yes, that's right.

00:41:58That's right.

00:42:00There's another loss, Nida.

00:42:01Yes.

00:42:02I feel as actors that loss, I feel very much.

00:42:06As a character, the director cuts, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights.

00:42:15But if you're a character, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights, the lights and

00:42:22the lights.

00:42:27Yes.

00:42:28Yes.

00:42:29Yes.

00:42:31Yes.

00:42:32Yes.

00:42:34Yes.

00:42:35Yes.

00:42:40Yes.

00:42:51Yes.

00:42:52Yes.

00:43:04Yes.

00:43:05To, she's grown.

00:43:22And we also know that this will happen, this loss will be needed.

00:43:28When we are born, we get back to this thing.

00:43:33The one who has come to this world has to be known.

00:43:36But then, when we don't have the love in our lives or go,

00:43:42we don't know why we are so tired.

00:43:43We are prepared from our childhood to make sure that we have to go,

00:43:49and they have to go.

00:43:52So, before we go to the break, there is a loss that may not be related to it.

00:44:01But they also play characters in life.

00:44:04Sometimes they play their mother, sometimes they play their daughter, sometimes they play their daughter.

00:44:12So, in real life, basically, like Shakespeare said, that life is a stage,

00:44:17and they play their roles.

00:44:20So, the loss of your people,

00:44:23when you play a character in the drama,

00:44:27and then they play their characters.

00:44:30That's very difficult.

00:44:31Yes.

00:44:31Sometimes they stay with us.

00:44:34I remember that I was playing a play called Matai Jaan.

00:44:39And there was a scene in that scene,

00:44:42when Kaui Sahib is a neighbor,

00:44:45and he is seen in America.

00:44:47And they talk to us and say,

00:44:50that my children are not with me.

00:44:54And they are two children,

00:44:56and they are not with me,

00:44:57and I am waiting for them.

00:44:59And I was with Adil Hussain.

00:45:03And I was with Adil Hussain.

00:45:20I was with Adil.

00:45:21And I was thinking,

00:45:22who are these people,

00:45:23who leave their parents?

00:45:26Who are the people in this world?

00:45:31There are no tangible things.

00:45:34Do you see that loss,

00:45:36that character,

00:45:37that feeling...

00:45:39Like we were telling at break,

00:45:42that a director says,

00:45:43It's a cut, it's gone, but it's not cut in your life.

00:45:48You can't slice it and keep it away, that is a different sort of loss.

00:45:52One thing I can feel, because I was acting too,

00:45:58people might think that it's a glamorous job,

00:46:01and you get a VIP treatment, you don't have to do so much work,

00:46:05but when you play an emotional character,

00:46:08and when you reach the whole day, you get drained.

00:46:16Because the whole day that you have an emotional acting,

00:46:22or you are crying, or you feel the pain,

00:46:27your whole energy is drained away.

00:46:29And it's a lot of pressure.

00:46:32And some of you have, like you have been with me,

00:46:35and you have been with me, and you have been with me.

00:46:37I have broken my heart, changed my mind,

00:46:40and I have broken my hands,

00:46:42and I have been hurt with my hands.

00:46:44I have not broken my hands,

00:46:46that's what I have said to me.

00:46:48My eyes, you know.

00:46:49When you have to change your mind,

00:46:53you have to change your mind,

00:46:54it's a loss.

00:46:56And when you come back,

00:46:59you don't immediately snap out of it.

00:47:02This is a case like you said,

00:47:03that the bulb is off.

00:47:04Exactly.

00:47:05So what are you carrying?

00:47:08I have seen a lot of actors,

00:47:11who are laughing at the scene,

00:47:13and when the scene is cut,

00:47:17they don't stop laughing.

00:47:18I have never seen it.

00:47:19How many people have seen it?

00:47:21They are sitting alone in the dark.

00:47:24They are sitting alone in the dark.

00:47:25They are so quiet.

00:47:27Absolutely.

00:47:29Sanya has taught me how to get out of it.

00:47:32How to get out of it.

00:47:33Please, tell me.

00:47:34So, breathing, slow breathing,

00:47:38and fast breathing.

00:47:40When you have to get out of depression,

00:47:42or if you have to get out of downtime,

00:47:44you have to do fast breathing.

00:47:46So your prana comes up.

00:47:49And when you are very hyper,

00:47:50and you are very energetic,

00:47:53and you have to come back to your zone,

00:47:54then you slow breathing.

00:47:56Or you have long breath.

00:47:58Yes.

00:47:59And slow, slow,

00:48:00and low breath.

00:48:00Like when I'm late,

00:48:02and I'm running,

00:48:04and after that,

00:48:05I'm starting my breath,

00:48:06and I can't start it.

00:48:08So it's very slow,

00:48:10and I'm feeling the breath.

00:48:12So I'm capable of saying it.

00:48:13I'm saying it.

00:48:14This was a very big anchor for me,

00:48:17as an actor.

00:48:18Because from that time,

00:48:19I was crying every day.

00:48:21Every character.

00:48:23Because it's possible.

00:48:24Listen, but after the character of Chudael,

00:48:27Chudael,

00:48:27but after the character of Chudael,

00:48:29you are very fun.

00:48:30We have only laughed at people.

00:48:34We were on the other side of the team.

00:48:38everything has affected.

00:48:40So when he played that character,

00:48:42he was not talking about Chudael at home.

00:48:44The only Chudael was this, right?

00:48:46Yes.

00:48:48Spoiler alert.

00:48:49Spoiler alert.

00:48:50I haven't seen it.

00:48:51The actual Chudael was running.

00:48:52But did you cry?

00:48:55No, no, no, no, no.

00:48:58There's a cutaway scene.

00:49:00There was a cutaway scene.

00:49:00There was a cutaway scene when Nimra comes,

00:49:03and she's closed, etc.

00:49:04and she's saying,

00:49:05I want to go.

00:49:07I remember that as a character,

00:49:10in that moment,

00:49:11I thought,

00:49:11what will be the motivation to get out?

00:49:14What will get out of it?

00:49:15Not control,

00:49:17not dominance.

00:49:18My children are here.

00:49:19I thought,

00:49:20I have three children,

00:49:21and they're adorable.

00:49:23Really adorable kids.

00:49:25It was natural.

00:49:25So I used that.

00:49:26In fact,

00:49:27you know,

00:49:27come to think of it,

00:49:28another thing that comes about.

00:49:31I remember that,

00:49:31we were doing Sangeh Marmar,

00:49:33and Uzma Hassan is a phenomenal actress.

00:49:36And that's how she is a woman,

00:49:38and she's crying.

00:49:41And she was inconsolable.

00:49:42And Sanya,

00:49:43God bless her,

00:49:43she was there to hold her.

00:49:45Sometimes,

00:49:47there are certain characters we hold on,

00:49:48and I always talk about some characters.

00:49:51In other words,

00:49:53Sangeh Ma,

00:49:54Mastan Singh,

00:49:55his two or three things,

00:49:56I have to keep physically alive.

00:49:57Because he is alive with me.

00:49:59He is a kind of a person.

00:50:00But in a few moments,

00:50:02we use our emotional memory.

00:50:05His father's recent past.

00:50:07And then she used that,

00:50:09which is a very dangerous thing to me.

00:50:11But it was inconsolable.

00:50:14So, God has a weird sense of humor.

00:50:17I remember that,

00:50:18when my daughter lost my daughter,

00:50:20I went to the hospital,

00:50:21and I came home again.

00:50:22And I was called Kashi Nisar.

00:50:25She was a 2-year-old woman.

00:50:26I was a 2-year-old woman.

00:50:27And I was a Samiyah Mumtaz.

00:50:28And my character was running away.

00:50:30And the daughter's broken,

00:50:31and she was sick.

00:50:32And she was just leaving her hospital.

00:50:34And then she was running away.

00:50:36And then she came home again.

00:50:37And then she said,

00:50:37Nour Al-Hasan,

00:50:39and she said,

00:50:39I'm a big burden.

00:50:40I'll go to the wife.

00:50:42And she said,

00:50:42I'll go to the wife.

00:50:43And she said,

00:50:44I'll go to the wife.

00:50:45And she's going to the hospital.

00:50:46Where are you going to stop in the prison?

00:50:48She said that she left your baby's daughter, she was gone.

00:50:51And my character had to cry.

00:50:54It was a very dangerous thing and I was inconsolable.

00:50:57I just couldn't stop because I got a chance to get it out.

00:51:02Unfortunately, this is a double-edged sword for our actors.

00:51:05We get a chance to have catharsis.

00:51:08And we carry on that catharsis.

00:51:10You know when I was acting,

00:51:11when I was acting,

00:51:12because I put a lens,

00:51:14my eyes are weak,

00:51:15so I can't put glycerin or anything else in my eyes.

00:51:19So at that time,

00:51:20at that time,

00:51:21I needed a bit of time.

00:51:23For this character,

00:51:25to give me a bit of time.

00:51:27Then I was given a bit of time.

00:51:28And at that time,

00:51:29I was the same as my griefs,

00:51:31which went away,

00:51:32which was the reason.

00:51:34And then at that time,

00:51:36I didn't stop.

00:51:38You are saying that

00:51:39that when you really remember your grief,

00:51:40and you remember your grief,

00:51:42and it triggers,

00:51:43then you do it.

00:51:45You do it.

00:51:46It's the end.

00:51:47It's the end.

00:51:48But Nidha,

00:51:48this time came in my career,

00:51:50when I used all my losses

00:51:52for different characters.

00:51:55So what happens at that time?

00:51:57At that time,

00:51:58you imagine that

00:52:00such girls,

00:52:02in our society,

00:52:03who are going through this,

00:52:05you feel their loss.

00:52:07Yeah.

00:52:08Yeah.

00:52:09That's also a good thing.

00:52:10Your mic is broken.

00:52:11Don't give me a mic quickly.

00:52:12Put it.

00:52:13Put it.

00:52:16You can immerse yourself

00:52:20in the character.

00:52:21One,

00:52:21one,

00:52:22one,

00:52:23two,

00:52:23one,

00:52:24one,

00:52:24two,

00:52:25one,

00:52:26two,

00:52:26some people also use tiger palm.

00:52:28Yes.

00:52:30It's infection for your eyes.

00:52:32Yes.

00:52:33And the other thing is

00:52:34that you go into yourself

00:52:36and immerse yourself

00:52:37and that what you do

00:52:38in your losses

00:52:40or beef

00:52:41and that

00:52:42that is a big task

00:52:43that is a very difficult task.

00:52:44But then it's difficult

00:52:46when it's time to re-take.

00:52:48What are you doing?

00:52:49Again,

00:52:50and again,

00:52:51and again.

00:52:51At that time,

00:52:53we need to respect

00:52:54that

00:52:55laugh is something else.

00:52:58But when you act

00:52:59in an emotional scene

00:53:01it can't be repeated.

00:53:04I'd like to repeat

00:53:04what you said earlier

00:53:05that it's very smart

00:53:06for people to understand

00:53:07because it's not easy.

00:53:08You don't do acting.

00:53:09You don't understand

00:53:10why are you so tired?

00:53:12What are you doing?

00:53:14Really,

00:53:14as we talk about

00:53:16Soski,

00:53:17Mayyat,

00:53:17etc.

00:53:18when you breathe

00:53:18whole day

00:53:20or laugh

00:53:21whole day

00:53:21or whole day

00:53:22activity

00:53:23you're really tired.

00:53:24It's emotionally draining.

00:53:25But the other aspect

00:53:26was

00:53:27what you said earlier

00:53:28imagine that

00:53:29that your life's

00:53:30a part,

00:53:31a relationship

00:53:32that's finished.

00:53:34Are you missing it now?

00:53:36For example,

00:53:37my son

00:53:38went to university.

00:53:39And I had to remind myself

00:53:41how do I do this?

00:53:43I never had this

00:53:45And I said

00:53:45I will understand

00:53:45the relationship

00:53:47So,

00:53:48the relationship

00:53:49is very important

00:53:50because your relationship

00:53:51is a relationship

00:53:52but it's completely

00:53:53changed

00:53:54physically

00:53:55you don't see it.

00:53:56It's not the thing

00:53:57you don't see it.

00:53:58It's not the thing.

00:53:58Even the emotions

00:53:59that you don't see it.

00:54:01It's not the thing.

00:54:02If my son

00:54:03gets out of the way

00:54:04I can bear them

00:54:06pain

00:54:07because

00:54:08especially

00:54:09In this case, you are emotionally strong, people who are women

00:54:14I'm going to contest that, talk about it

00:54:16I knew that

00:54:17I'm going to contest this

00:54:18I'll tell you what

00:54:19We can tell

00:54:21We can't tell

00:54:22A person who is emotionally very strong

00:54:25And the reason is that we have

00:54:28I'm representing all men now

00:54:31We don't have emotional language

00:54:33We don't have vocabulary

00:54:35We don't know how to do what

00:54:37I do coaching

00:54:38And I'm so happy when I'm coaching females

00:54:41Because they understand their emotions

00:54:42Men, even with men

00:54:45I'm a middle-aged man, I'm a Pakistani man

00:54:47I know what's going on

00:54:48So I'd say you have to be vulnerable

00:54:50At least to Shakespeare's talk

00:54:52To thine own self be true

00:54:54Tell yourself

00:54:55We don't even know that

00:54:56My emotions have changed

00:54:58What's the easiest go?

00:55:00Anger

00:55:01Anger is a manifestation of suppressed emotion

00:55:03Indeed

00:55:04Ager aapne takleef mahusus neki

00:55:06Eneke roona roya he nehi

00:55:07Jaiso kere hai

00:55:08Bahi tu roo nehi

00:55:09Maa marie yaar

00:55:10How can you not cry?

00:55:11Yeah

00:55:11Eneke ye toh pathar din banane baat

00:55:13And that manifestation

00:55:14Ghanat hotte hai

00:55:15Women alhamdulillah have that space

00:55:18And have been accepted and expected to do so

00:55:21Men now need to do the same

00:55:24And to make

00:55:25Oh sorry

00:55:25Sorry

00:55:26But to make yourself vulnerable

00:55:28Takes great strength

00:55:30Thank you

00:55:31So I think

00:55:32It is greater strength to be vulnerable

00:55:34Yes

00:55:35Cold back tears

00:55:36Absolutely

00:55:36Na roona itna bahaduri ka kaam nahi hai hai

00:55:39Rona bahaduri ka kaam

00:55:41Acha ye joa aap baat karethe

00:55:42Ke bachche jab bade oorhe hotte na

00:55:45To

00:55:46To

00:55:46Peirents ke liye

00:55:47Wo ek

00:55:47Loss hotte hai

00:55:49Is tarah

00:55:49Kye jis tarah

00:55:50Woh chhote hotte hai

00:55:52Or woh

00:55:52Aap se kareeb hotte hai

00:55:53Need hote hai

00:55:55Need hote hai

00:55:56Need hote hai

00:55:56Aayistah jab ap apni aankho se jateh

00:55:59Dekhte hai

00:55:59Aapko fakhd toh mehsus ho raha hotte

00:56:01Kye bachcha amare

00:56:02Hum se lamba ho gya

00:56:04Ya

00:56:05Oh ho

00:56:06Mere se bada jouta a raha hai

00:56:08Ya mere jouto meh kadam rakh liya

00:56:10Lekin aap usko

00:56:11Apeni aankho se dekh raha hotte hai

00:56:13Kye usko ab utni mehri zaroorat

00:56:15Nahi hai

00:56:16Aapke pas dho emotion hote hai

00:56:17Eek fakhr ka emotion hai

00:56:19Kye aap usko mehri zaroorat nei hai

00:56:21Or eek aasa emotion hote hai

00:56:23Jho us vok ap izhar meh kar sakte hai

00:56:25Sif aap feel kar sakte hai

00:56:27Kye usko mehri zaroorat nei hai

00:56:29Yee dho, dho tarikay hai

00:56:31Bilkul

00:56:31Hei nah

00:56:32Mäi umeer ki baat ko second karungi

00:56:35Kye

00:56:36Mere dho beethe hai

00:56:37Eek yara saal ke, eek nore saal ke, mashallah

00:56:40Hum rooz baat karte hai

00:56:41Kye hum kya emotion feel kar hai

00:56:43Eek board hai

00:56:45Jispe likha hai how I'm feeling today

00:56:48Kye hum maari woh generation hai

00:56:50Hume vocabulary dih mili emotions ki

00:56:53Emotional intelligence kya hoti hai

00:56:55Forti ki umar mein aapko aake pata chala

00:56:57Tender age of 40

00:57:00So it is so pertinent

00:57:03It's so important

00:57:04Kye hum fear ko

00:57:07Anger ko

00:57:09Disappointment ko

00:57:10Anxiety ko

00:57:12Maitlab if you start vocabulary

00:57:14Aap karay toh badeh sari vocabulary hai emotions ki

00:57:17Hume aiki chiz tamajh roo ta hai

00:57:18Hume aiki pata hai

00:57:19Anger, Disappointment, ya fear

00:57:21Ya you know this tarha ki chize hai

00:57:23Toh woh bhoot zaroori hai

00:57:25Kye hum woh vocabulary

00:57:27Bachpan se apne bachon ke saath

00:57:29Chahe woh beeti ho ya beeta ho

00:57:30Uske saath zaroor woh kare hai

00:57:43Hum

00:57:44Good morning

00:57:45Good morning Pakistan

00:57:49Welcome

00:57:50Welcome back

00:57:50Good morning Pakistan

00:57:52So aaj we are talking about losses

00:57:53I am talking about

00:57:54And

00:57:55Woh log joo pats paalte hai

00:57:58Kyunke

00:57:59Unko pata hooga

00:58:00Kye woh kya feeling hooti hai

00:58:02Jab hum kehtae na

00:58:03Paida karnye se

00:58:04Zyada paalne wala

00:58:06Hota hai woh ek

00:58:08Saath rehna

00:58:10Usko kilana, pilana

00:58:11So woh wali joo ek

00:58:14Mohabbat aur piaar

00:58:15Ye woh hi jaanta hai jiske paas

00:58:17Woh shaks palawa hota hai

00:58:19Ya woh jaandar basically

00:58:23To dousra hai uske dukh ka andazah

00:58:25Ninh laga sakta

00:58:25Bilkul ase hai

00:58:26I think pet lovers

00:58:29Is cheez ko baut serious lete hai

00:58:32Loss of their pets

00:58:34Because woh babies hoote hai

00:58:35Phr

00:58:36Or woh babies hoote hai

00:58:37Jho kabhi apse keh nahi sakte

00:58:39Burs dikhha sakte

00:58:40Ake baih jayenge

00:58:42A lot of times

00:58:44Mere jitti me

00:58:45I've grown up around pets

00:58:46Mere shadi hoi toh pet

00:58:48Category bautt dour ho goi

00:58:50Mere ghar se

00:58:51But I had a dog

00:58:52His name was Koko

00:58:54Or meh jab bhi sad hooti thhi

00:58:56Ammi se ďanpt pardti thi

00:58:57Abbu se ďanpt

00:58:58I'm sirv jaakke chhat pe Koko ke sath baih jati thhi

00:59:01And Koko ko pataha tha

00:59:03Que meh ghamgeen o

00:59:04And Jitta love

00:59:05Wo mujhe dettea tha

00:59:06And I think

00:59:07To abhi jab mere bacho nne

00:59:10Ek dogi lia

00:59:11Mainnen hun ko Koko ki kahanii sunai

00:59:13Mera jo bada wala beeta hai

00:59:15Emotional hai

00:59:17She said, we will keep Coco's name so that you will remember it.

00:59:21You know?

00:59:23And that loss was never a loss again.

00:59:27I remember Coco's day.

00:59:29Wow.

00:59:30I had two babies that were different from me because I went to New York from Islam.

00:59:40That loss was so great.

00:59:41And she was looking at me like, what are you doing?

00:59:46Why are you letting me go?

00:59:48So I thought that I will never have pets.

00:59:52Recently, I gave a kitten on my birthday.

00:59:58Himalayan Persian.

00:59:59Beautiful.

01:00:00His name was Balushahi.

01:00:04So Balushahi was with me for two months.

01:00:07When I was separated, I didn't feel good at home.

01:00:11I didn't feel good at home.

01:00:14So for two days, I did not leave my house.

01:00:18I didn't leave my house.

01:00:22That's a serious loss also.

01:00:24Exactly.

01:00:25I didn't leave my house in my house.

01:00:27Balushahi.

01:00:30Okay, there is another loss.

01:00:33There is a loss when you are in a profession.

01:00:37Then you leave that profession and go to another profession.

01:00:41For example, you are doing 9 to 5 jobs.

01:00:43And there is one place and you have to leave the country.

01:00:50Then you go to another profession.

01:00:52For example, I was doing acting before.

01:00:54And then I left my acting.

01:00:57And now I am in a profession.

01:00:59So I miss my profession.

01:01:01I miss my profession.

01:01:03Especially when I am watching a good play.

01:01:05Or watching a good character.

01:01:07So I feel like I miss my mind.

01:01:10That I miss my profession.

01:01:13So you are in a teaching profession.

01:01:15I wasn't teaching.

01:01:16For me, because I was in a corporate consultancy

01:01:21or training.

01:01:22So it is still teaching and enabling.

01:01:24But within acting,

01:01:26the one who has created me,

01:01:29is theatre.

01:01:30Oh.

01:01:31The theatre has been very...

01:01:32Your real love.

01:01:33The real love.

01:01:34The real love.

01:01:37The real love.

01:01:39The real love.

01:01:39That's true.

01:01:42But theatre has always been that.

01:01:43And from Allah's side.

01:01:45I went to Houston.

01:01:46Ayesha Alam Khan.

01:01:47Great friend.

01:01:48She was doing this theatre.

01:01:49She said, Umair help me.

01:01:50Akbar, someone was who was who was acting.

01:01:52So I had to thank for a week.

01:01:54I said okay.

01:01:55And when I worked there.

01:01:57And when I worked there.

01:01:58And then in the third night,

01:01:59I could be on a particular area.

01:02:01I wasn't on Earth.

01:02:03Because I realized,

01:02:05and I think that's the universal thing

01:02:06which is combining all of it.

01:02:08There's a lot of relations.

01:02:09With the relationship,

01:02:10between the two people,

01:02:15with the people,

01:02:15with the families,

01:02:16with the families.

01:02:16and with the relationships, the relationship that changes or breaks,

01:02:21that is a loss.

01:02:23When my relationship is connected, I was just in heaven.

01:02:27So why did you not come to acting?

01:02:29Why did you go to the other side? Why did you go to teaching?

01:02:33I was always in theatre.

01:02:35I thought that I would do the typical economics and management degree

01:02:40and then I would buy some tea or tea or whatever.

01:02:45After that, I would have to study.

01:02:48I always wanted to.

01:02:49Because I was a teacher, Kelvin Kates, in class 4.

01:02:52He inspired me, you should teach.

01:02:55He never said it but I felt that it was a noble cause.

01:02:58What did God do?

01:03:01Back and forth.

01:03:02What did you do?

01:03:04I was teaching theatre production.

01:03:06I introduced all-level drama.

01:03:07That was your love.

01:03:09Was it in your life?

01:03:11Absolutely.

01:03:12That was it.

01:03:12Then I did theatre.

01:03:14And then theatre eventually left to come to celluloid, television and what not.

01:03:20But again…

01:03:21So how did you get a break on TV?

01:03:23TV is very simple.

01:03:25I was doing in theatre.

01:03:26Adil Hashmi had seen it and put it down.

01:03:27I told them that you have to do three kids and then I will turn off your car on TV.

01:03:32I was compelled.

01:03:34So you have comedies.

01:03:36Absolutely.

01:03:37All sitcoms of Lahore.

01:03:38Really?

01:03:40I couldn't…

01:03:41Yeah, I didn't see that.

01:03:42And people take me very seriously.

01:03:45I take comedy very seriously.

01:03:46And you know comedy is more difficult.

01:03:47Absolutely.

01:03:48Absolutely.

01:03:48I love comedy.

01:03:50It's easy.

01:03:50Now it's Father's Day.

01:03:52So we were four kids.

01:03:54My daughter, she's 11.

01:03:56She's 11.

01:03:57I'm 18.

01:03:58I'll tell her.

01:03:59And I…

01:04:00And we said, what do we do?

01:04:02I said, man, there was a script.

01:04:03It runs in the family.

01:04:05Afiya, two days ago, I had the last production.

01:04:09If you want to find the script, I'll give you 5,000.

01:04:11I'll give you 5,000.

01:04:13I'll give you 5,000,000.

01:04:14I said, let's all read.

01:04:16So we put it on television.

01:04:17And we all read this extremely funny script.

01:04:20It runs in the family.

01:04:21And four of them laugh and laugh and enjoy it.

01:04:24Sweet.

01:04:24Wow.

01:04:25I just want to say one thing about Balushahi.

01:04:27He's gone to a very happy home.

01:04:29If you have children, he's getting good attention.

01:04:32And he's happy.

01:04:33I just want to say that.

01:04:34I'm glad that.

01:04:36That's right.

01:04:37That's right.

01:04:37Right.

01:04:38Do you ever change a profession?

01:04:41Or something like that?

01:04:42Yes.

01:04:42You miss.

01:04:44You were in modeling.

01:04:45I'm in modeling.

01:04:46I don't miss in modeling.

01:04:47Why?

01:04:48But in journalism, I was in journalism.

01:04:50And I was in VJ.

01:04:51VJ.

01:04:51That I miss.

01:04:54In fact, Deepak is a very good friend of mine.

01:05:00He was saying that I should do a show like that again.

01:05:03You know, like on YouTube or something.

01:05:08You don't need anything.

01:05:10Many people know until now, because it was the first music channel.

01:05:16And it used to go to NTM.

01:05:17So I have your hair in my head.

01:05:20And I have my hair in my head.

01:05:25Yes.

01:05:26So there's a importance for it.

01:05:28I remember.

01:05:29And I remember your drama too.

01:05:31You had acted in any drama before.

01:05:33Yes, in that time I was acting in the drama.

01:05:36But I remember journalism a little bit.

01:05:39That the rush is unparalleled.

01:05:46Did you practice it?

01:05:48Did you write it here?

01:05:50I was writing it.

01:05:52And I worked for NBC News.

01:05:55And I worked for Dawn News.

01:05:57I was reading it later.

01:05:59I was reading it later.

01:06:00I was doing it later.

01:06:01I was doing it later.

01:06:03For breakfast at dawn.

01:06:05But this is the thing after modeling.

01:06:08Yes.

01:06:08This is the thing after 9-11.

01:06:10Exactly.

01:06:11So.

01:06:12So.

01:06:13So.

01:06:23So.

01:06:28So.

01:06:30So.

01:06:39So.

01:06:41So.

01:06:45So.

01:06:46So.

01:06:47So.

01:06:48So.

01:06:50So.

01:07:00So.

01:07:01So great.

01:07:02So great.

01:07:02I miss acting too.

01:07:03Because I'm playing mommy these days.

01:07:06I know.

01:07:07And I love it.

01:07:09Although I love it.

01:07:10I love it.

01:07:11I wish I could do this and that.

01:07:14But I miss.

01:07:15So.

01:07:15I know what I love it.

01:07:17I miss my second time.

01:07:19I've learned a lot.

01:07:20I've learned a lot.

01:07:20And what I love it is.

01:07:21And what I love it is.

01:07:23And what I love it is.

01:07:24So.

01:07:24It's another sort of loss.

01:07:25And you are lucky that you get a little relief.

01:07:28Yes.

01:07:29That sometimes you get a chance when you get a chance for a whole year or a whole year or

01:07:34a whole year.

01:07:34So after doing that, you have the urge that I am going to be the third actor, that will be

01:07:40the best of both worlds.

01:07:46And that's the thing that Nida said that when you are not doing acting, and you are watching good acting,

01:07:52you say that I am, I will say that. Exactly. That's a loss also.

01:07:58Exactly. I do that.

01:08:00I have a lot of people who do things, but I have not left watching.

01:08:03I will say, I will not do it.

01:08:07That's why Tadka's acting is also taught.

01:08:11And then when I look at it, I am like, yeah.

01:08:13Oh, oh, oh, oh.

01:08:15I have a voice in my mind, oh, this is a character.

01:08:19He is such a good character.

01:08:21An opportunity gone.

01:08:23But then when you see some people who do things, it's so good.

01:08:27Yes.

01:08:27So you like to live through them.

01:08:29Yes.

01:08:30As if this has given me its meaning.

01:08:33It's so good.

01:08:34It's so good.

01:08:36It's so good.

01:08:37It's so good.

01:08:38It's so good.

01:08:38So this is also a loss.

01:08:40So you tell yourself about it because you have changed a lot of professions.

01:08:45Characters.

01:08:46Characters.

01:08:47Any other professions in your life?

01:08:48Morning show you were anchoring.

01:08:50I was doing a morning show a few years ago.

01:08:53Current Affair Morning Show.

01:08:54Current Affair.

01:08:54Which was.

01:08:55I thought this was necessary.

01:08:57I thought it was necessary.

01:08:58Let's go.

01:08:58We are kids.

01:08:59Yes.

01:08:59And that morning show came in a very good time.

01:09:02Yes.

01:09:02When Ella and Noor's play group started.

01:09:07Yes.

01:09:08I had those 6 months of recovery from my postpartum to now this.

01:09:16So those 6 months of recovery came in a very good time.

01:09:19Because I have so many causes.

01:09:21So I have the number of fields and on-ground statistics.

01:09:25They all know.

01:09:26I have all the time.

01:09:27So I could ask all those people.

01:09:30And I wanted to ask a lot of questions as an activist.

01:09:34Yes.

01:09:35So that was the opportunity.

01:09:36I would miss it.

01:09:38I would miss it.

01:09:38I would be here.

01:09:39Director here.

01:09:41Anchor here.

01:09:41And this is the thing that you can do with children.

01:09:47This is a great advantage.

01:09:49So I was sitting here.

01:09:51Absolutely.

01:09:52Like the same thing.

01:09:54You mean how many years are you doing?

01:09:5618 years.

01:09:59Like almost two decades.

01:10:00Yes.

01:10:01Children have also been born.

01:10:02There were big morning shows and big morning shows.

01:10:05This is a morning show.

01:10:07The reason was that it didn't happen to mom's guilt.

01:10:09Children from home from school.

01:10:11By the time you were home.

01:10:12So that's a big thing especially for women.

01:10:15That when they don't have mom's guilt.

01:10:17That they are taking their own profession.

01:10:20And children.

01:10:21The real thing is that children are focused on children.

01:10:25So they get a lot of peace in life.

01:10:27I am in that phase.

01:10:29I know.

01:10:30And when you are always a walking lady.

01:10:33There are many women.

01:10:35Who are doctors.

01:10:37Who can't do full time job.

01:10:39Because they can't leave their children.

01:10:41So they get a lot of help.

01:10:43How good a doctor can become a doctor.

01:10:45Or how good they can practice.

01:10:48So that is a very difficult thing for women.

01:10:49Even for women.

01:10:50Like Dr. Bari.

01:10:52When we are sitting.

01:10:53He says that my children are so long.

01:10:56Yes.

01:10:57Because every time he would go.

01:10:58He would be sleeping.

01:10:59Every time he would leave.

01:11:00They would be sleeping.

01:11:01My father says that.

01:11:03That I have seen you as a profession.

01:11:07And I regret that time.

01:11:08I have missed it.

01:11:09Of course.

01:11:10Boomers.

01:11:10That was all.

01:11:12Absent fathers.

01:11:14Absent fathers.

01:11:14All the generation of fathers.

01:11:19They didn't exist.

01:11:20They didn't exist.

01:11:21I mean.

01:11:23As much as.

01:11:24As much as.

01:11:25As much as.

01:11:25I have to stay away.

01:11:27But.

01:11:27I was a guilty mom.

01:11:28I was a guilty dad.

01:11:29But.

01:11:30My mother was.

01:11:31That I had to go back home.

01:11:32That I had to go back home.

01:11:34That I had to go back home.

01:11:35See what I needed to go back home.

01:11:36This is a loss.

01:11:36We have missed the child's time.

01:11:39And then we understand.

01:11:41Why did we miss it?

01:11:42This is not the time again.

01:11:44This is not the time.

01:11:45Will come back home.

01:11:46It is also a loss.

01:11:47I am saying that this is also a loss.

01:11:49That's a loss.

01:11:50You regret a lot.

01:11:52Why did we not continue to stay with our father's parents at that time.

01:11:54We have not given them enough time.

01:11:55When they leave.

01:11:56So we regret it.

01:11:57that time is also a loss

01:12:00a loss

01:12:02pun intended

01:12:04exactly

01:12:05exactly

01:12:05so when you have a feeling in life

01:12:09then you sometimes sit there

01:12:11then there is a very hard loss

01:12:13which can't come back

01:12:17yeah

01:12:17my father once said

01:12:21life will present you with a bill one day

01:12:25one day life will present you with a bill

01:12:28make sure you are able to pay it

01:12:32that's a loss

01:12:33that's a

01:12:35layered loss

01:12:36there are many things that we don't think at that time

01:12:40but we need to do this

01:12:42I wanted to share

01:12:43I wanted to share that

01:12:44I wanted to share that

01:12:46I wanted to share that

01:12:47I searched on a loss yesterday

01:12:50what do you say? Rishad?

01:12:52Rishad

01:12:54Rishad

01:12:55so

01:12:56what do you say?

01:12:57Rishad

01:12:58Rishad

01:12:59Rishad

01:13:16Rishad

01:13:17That loss which becomes bittersweet pain.

01:13:21You know, it's that loss.

01:13:23Then one is,

01:13:24Now there is no doubt, no doubt, no doubt, no doubt, no doubt.

01:13:29Your soul was also alone.

01:13:32Your soul was alone.

01:13:35Your soul was alone.

01:13:36Your soul was alone.

01:13:37My soul was also alone.

01:13:39Wow.

01:13:40What a story.

01:13:42Unspoken loss.

01:13:44It's the last.

01:13:45It's the last one.

01:13:45This is the time we know.

01:13:47Kar raha tha ghameh jahaan ka hisaab.

01:13:52Kar raha tha ghameh jahaan ka hisaab.

01:13:56Aaj tum yaad aaye.

01:13:59Beh hisaab.

01:14:01Aaj tum yaad beh hisaab aaye.

01:14:03Yes.

01:14:04Kya baan.

01:14:06These are losses that help us be us.

01:14:10Aaj wo losses agar nahi hote to hum shayad.

01:14:13Ham nahi hote.

01:14:14Haan bilkur.

01:14:15Exactly.

01:14:16I wouldn't change a thing in my life.

01:14:18Haan haa.

01:14:19Haan haa.

01:14:19Because if that hadn't happened and that hadn't happened, then I'm here.

01:14:22Haan haa.

01:14:23Domino effect nahi hote hain.

01:14:24Haan haa.

01:14:38Haan haa.

01:14:39I don't even know that you have taken your time to continue on.

01:14:45Haan haa.

01:14:46You have to keep your rank, your ranker.

01:14:48Then you have to give your gratitude.

01:14:49That you are the one who will be.

01:14:53So in the long run,

01:14:55in all the time,

01:14:55it is a time for all the time.

01:14:57So now I understand why you need to be grateful to Allah.

01:15:01Alhamdulillah, that it's been done.

01:15:02I am glad that I have gone through it.

01:15:04You know what has helped me Umair?

01:15:06It's the gratitude

01:15:08for all that I got

01:15:10and the gratitude

01:15:12for all that I didn't get.

01:15:13I didn't get it.

01:15:14So the things that I didn't have,

01:15:16it's a lot of gratitude.

01:15:17Because it doesn't have any time.

01:15:19It doesn't have any time.

01:15:20Welcome, welcome back.

01:15:28Good morning Pakistan.

01:15:30Today we are talking about different loss

01:15:33and losses.

01:15:36And one big loss

01:15:37is that we always sit with our hearts.

01:15:41Financial loss.

01:15:42That happens.

01:15:44Sometimes you buy a property

01:15:44and you lose your money.

01:15:47Sometimes you get scammed.

01:15:50Sometimes you get paid for many money.

01:15:53Sometimes you get paid for money.

01:15:56Sometimes you get paid for money.

01:15:57Someone gets paid for money.

01:15:59And it doesn't hurt your neighbor.

01:16:01You don't stop the phone.

01:16:02And there are also many losses.

01:16:04Right loss.

01:16:06You don't get right.

01:16:08You don't get right.

01:16:09You don't get right.

01:16:10You don't get right.

01:16:12It's a huge loss.

01:16:13It's a huge loss.

01:16:15You can do it in court.

01:16:17You can do it in God.

01:16:18But you can't do it.

01:16:20It's hopeless.

01:16:22Like I said.

01:16:24I keep calling you Rane.

01:16:26Sorry about that.

01:16:28But you said very good.

01:16:31That place is hopeless.

01:16:32Yeah.

01:16:51That's a huge loss.

01:16:52I didn't know it.

01:16:53When I was married,

01:16:54I didn't know that this was a right.

01:16:57I didn't know it wasn't right.

01:16:57That's the right time.

01:16:58I didn't know that this was my right.

01:16:58My right time was 24 years old.

01:17:00I didn't know that. But my second daughter, when she was married, she was 26 years old and she had

01:17:08an awareness.

01:17:09She wrote a paper on her marriage and said that I need a new marriage form and she doesn't have

01:17:16a TV show.

01:17:17Very good.

01:17:18I said that you can't tell me in my life.

01:17:21So she had a right to know that our girls should know that they have a right.

01:17:26It's a right and when she was given the law, it is in religion.

01:17:34Why did you cut?

01:17:37When she sent her back, she had a lot of eyes that gave her to her.

01:17:43What's that?

01:17:44She said that my husband...

01:17:46He said that she was once again, but she said that she was like, no, this is my right.

01:17:53so no one can beat me.

01:17:55So our children should have a little awareness.

01:17:58Absolutely.

01:17:59This is their right.

01:18:00So they should not lose.

01:18:02I think now a lot of joy has come to the girls

01:18:05because there is a lot of work on this.

01:18:08Before it felt bad to talk about this.

01:18:10I thought that some people came to him.

01:18:12What is this?

01:18:15And this and the loss of rights,

01:18:18or the loss of money,

01:18:19I mean every loss you do with God.

01:18:22If you all share it with God,

01:18:24you get to do the loss you have to lose.

01:18:25And it also gives you loss of rights.

01:18:28It's very grateful in your heart.

01:18:30And it gives you value in all of the people.

01:18:34After their parents die,

01:18:35they don't get share in their property.

01:18:38They enjoy their brothers.

01:18:40They eat before die,

01:18:43it's not right to get to know.

01:18:44Yes exactly.

01:18:46Exactly.

01:18:46It's not only a plate of food.

01:18:48I didn't get.

01:18:49I don't get it.

01:18:50It's a loss.

01:18:53It's a loss.

01:18:56It's a loss.

01:18:58It's a loss.

01:18:59It's a loss.

01:19:02But I think,

01:19:06the balance,

01:19:08when you get everything,

01:19:10you'll have confidence,

01:19:11you'll be alive.

01:19:15Absolutely.

01:19:15It's a loss.

01:19:16It's a loss.

01:19:19I see that many children who are studying drugs,

01:19:23have everything happened.

01:19:24It's always a loss.

01:19:25Now, what will you do?

01:19:29It's a loss.

01:19:30It's a loss.

01:19:32It's a loss.

01:19:34It's a loss.

01:19:35It's a loss.

01:19:37It's a loss.

01:19:40It's a loss.

01:19:44It's a loss.

01:19:46The loss is because it's a loss.

01:19:48An incredibly powerful.

01:19:51It is strong.

01:19:52The moral fiber is a strong.

01:19:55The strength of character is the strength of character.

01:20:13There is no parallel

01:20:15Right?

01:20:17You go to college or university

01:20:18You gain knowledge

01:20:20But the experiential knowledge

01:20:22The wisdom is called eventually

01:20:24There is no name

01:20:27But this wisdom tells you

01:20:29That when you were 10 years ago

01:20:31That loss

01:20:34That was for you

01:20:37Absolutely

01:20:39It's only when you look at the hindsight

01:20:41You can feel it

01:20:43But when you are in that moment

01:20:45You feel like everything is done

01:20:47Yes

01:20:47Walid sir

01:20:51Thanks to you

01:20:52My experience was triggered

01:20:53I always remember

01:20:54He said

01:20:55The meaning of the flood

01:20:58Is not just living from the heavens

01:21:02It is the same

01:21:03That the walls of the walls

01:21:05The walls of the heavens

01:21:06You need to learn to deal with these things

01:21:11I think it's very important

01:21:12Because with parents here as well

01:21:13And I read a book of anti-fragility

01:21:16Which I think is crucial for everyone to learn

01:21:18Some of us have protected children

01:21:21Because there is no relief

01:21:22They are not ready to deal with those challenges

01:21:25On the contrary

01:21:26But there is no problem

01:21:26A human being

01:21:27A human being

01:21:28The human being

01:21:29The man is too

01:21:29The human being

01:21:30The human being

01:21:30That is not an anti-fragile

01:21:31To give them that challenge

01:21:41The human being

01:21:42The human being

01:21:56to go for denial.

01:21:58People laugh, laugh, go on drugs.

01:22:00They get busy in their work.

01:22:02No, no, see it, accept it.

01:22:04Sit with it.

01:22:05Absolutely, sit with it.

01:22:08A lot of times when Rohan comes home saying

01:22:11that I have lost a football match

01:22:14and he's very down.

01:22:16I go and say, let's celebrate.

01:22:20Celebrate failure.

01:22:22It's so important.

01:22:23We didn't do it.

01:22:26We saw how good the marks came from childhood.

01:22:29He did it, he did it.

01:22:32It was so much of a fear of failure.

01:22:37That we always hide our failures.

01:22:40But our generation is very important to tell

01:22:43that we embrace failure.

01:22:45I'm so sorry, we blame others.

01:22:48It's an external thing.

01:22:49That's why it happened.

01:23:05We have to sit and accept it.

01:23:12Ownership.

01:23:12Own it.

01:23:13Sit with it as we say.

01:23:14I think one of the worst words of our times is

01:23:18loser.

01:23:19I really can't stand it.

01:23:21What you say, he's a loser.

01:23:25Or she is a loser.

01:23:27What does it mean?

01:23:28I think one of the worst words of our times is winning.

01:23:32It's so important.

01:23:35I would prefer to be a loser.

01:23:38Than to be constantly struggling.

01:23:40I feel as a mother, I struggle with that a lot.

01:23:44School, especially in these things.

01:23:46It's a lot.

01:23:47I don't have good marks.

01:23:49I'm bullied.

01:23:52Bullying is a lot of time.

01:23:55It's not.

01:23:55It's a natural sort of self loss.

01:23:58That, as a child, you're experiencing it again.

01:24:02Exactly.

01:24:03That you're with me.

01:24:04You've given it.

01:24:06You've forgiven the deed.

01:24:07You've forgiven.

01:24:08You've also given it a lot.

01:24:09So, you've lost it again.

01:24:11And now, you'll need to deal with it.

01:24:13So marks full from my side, you have tried it.

01:24:19Trying marks are not winning.

01:24:23Winning is not a gift.

01:24:25Trying is not a gift.

01:24:26So he knows.

01:24:28Approach your life.

01:24:32Don't be the best.

01:24:33Don't be the best.

01:24:34Don't be the best.

01:24:38Thank you very much for your thoughts.

01:24:41Your losses.

01:24:43To share with us.

01:24:46Listen to these things.

01:24:49I don't know why you get a feeling.

01:24:51We have talked about losses today.

01:24:53But we have gained a lot.

01:24:56Exactly.

01:24:57Exactly.

01:24:58This is my first conclusion.

01:25:00Besides that, no matter what happens.

01:25:02We have also gained a lot.

01:25:04We have discussed all the losses.

01:25:05Let us discuss it.

01:25:06Good morning Pakistan.

01:25:07Fada Hafiz.

Good Morning Pakistan | Jo Hum Mein Nahi Rahay Special Show | 23 June 2026 | ARY Digital [Full Movie]

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