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90 Day Fiance UK - Season 2 - Episode 12: You Are So Cheap!
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00:03I'm flying around the world to marry a man that I've never met.
00:08I've never felt so comfortable with someone in my life.
00:11We're like the perfect match for each other.
00:14He is literally the love of my life.
00:17I'm getting married in about eight weeks time.
00:20I do feel like a bride in this.
00:23You look like me.
00:24He's coming over on the fiance visa.
00:26This is the start of the rest of our lives.
00:36He's still in there enjoying himself.
00:38Maybe we're not actually supposed to be in this relationship.
00:41It takes a certain kind of person to be okay with it.
00:44Chopping her breasts into somebody's face might remind me to another profession.
00:49It's all right for you to be touchy-feely with other girls.
00:51Bit of a double standard.
00:52Double standard, my boss.
00:55Clapton is a small town.
00:57How's your day then?
00:58What are you doing?
00:59Nothing.
01:00I'm missing Kenya.
01:01Maybe it's okay in Turkey.
01:03Careful of your voice.
01:04He was quite controlling on your birthday.
01:07I will be grinning.
01:09Yeah.
01:10Yeah.
01:11Yeah.
01:12Oh my God.
01:13I think I might be pregnant.
01:15Jose's got his English test on Tuesday.
01:18Jesus Christ.
01:19What are you going to do?
01:20Go back to Kenya?
01:21you.
01:22You know where to go is?
01:23I'm done.
01:28Christian's coming to the UK.
01:29We plan to get married within six months.
01:32So...
01:34Will you honour me?
01:36Will you marry me?
01:38You know I would.
01:39You'll be me wife.
01:40I'll be your wife.
01:43Never in my wildest dreams did I ever think that I'd be getting married.
01:47I haven't really got a clue what I'm looking for.
01:49I just don't anything to make me look too manly.
01:51I think I might have found the one.
01:55You're getting married girl.
01:57I know.
01:59I've found the perfect engagement ring.
02:02Oh I like that.
02:03Almost $5,000.
02:05Yes.
02:05Do you have a thing that is cheaper?
02:08Okay.
02:09David is taking me to the salsa class.
02:12It's basically like you're having sex but dancing.
02:14I'm going to get to a hotel and this relationship is over.
02:17You're disgusting.
02:19What the are you talking about?
02:44I feel all over the place to be honest.
02:48I stayed at a hotel and he stayed with his grandma just because I felt like we needed distance.
02:56Him dancing with another woman so sexually just wasn't on.
03:00The fact that he wasn't in the slightest remorseful yesterday.
03:05I think that's not good enough.
03:07I just feel so disappointed in him.
03:15Last night I couldn't sleep.
03:18This might be the end of a relationship if she's feeling that strong.
03:24I tried to call her last night several times.
03:26I messaged her and every time she hung up.
03:40So I'm just texting David.
03:43I'm just letting him know where I am so he can compare and we can have a chat.
03:53Salud.
03:54At this time she's so mad at me.
03:56I don't think the proposal is going to move forward.
03:59I don't think it's the right time and I don't know what to do.
04:04If he continues dancing salsa I think I would break up with him.
04:08I feel like I would be over compromising if I was to let it continue.
04:16I'm just annoyed to be honest but I'm trying to be patient.
04:28What are you smiling for?
04:34I can't believe that he's just coming with a smirk on his face.
04:38Does he not realise how much he's damaged our relationship?
04:44You are still acting cocky like it's funny.
04:47It's not funny.
04:49You did wrong.
04:51You know how much I love dancing.
04:54What can I say?
04:56I understand that you don't like it.
04:58But you felt comfortable to do that in front of me.
05:01Just do it like that.
05:03I don't believe it's disrespectful.
05:05It's just like having fun.
05:07It's new to me.
05:08Someone that thinks that something like that is like cheering because it's not even.
05:12You knew I wasn't comfortable with it.
05:14And then you still continue to do it in front of me.
05:16You don't respect my boundaries.
05:18I wish you could understand that this is just dancing.
05:22With all the trust that I've gained over the period of time I've been with you.
05:25Part of that went yesterday.
05:28I don't feel comfortable with you dancing anymore.
05:30Whether it's pichata, merengue, salsa.
05:37I suppose I need to compromise.
05:40No more salsa dancing for me.
05:42Teo is more important than everything else.
05:44I will give up my passion for salsa.
05:46I will never dance with another woman again.
05:49Apart from you.
05:51Okay.
05:53And I expect you to do the same.
05:55Of course. I've never not done that.
05:57You were dancing with my grandma the other day.
06:07I feel like you're taking it as a joke.
06:09No, it's not a joke.
06:10I would put you first in every one of the multiverses.
06:13I believe.
06:18I still love him.
06:20So I'm going to forgive him.
06:23And move on.
06:25But if he does it again, then I'm breaking up with him.
06:27I forgive you.
06:29Let's just move on now.
06:30I just want to forget about it, to be honest.
06:31I understand.
06:53You're actually just scrolling.
06:56I've got nothing else to do.
06:58Nothing else to do.
07:00You can help me plan the wedding.
07:01The wedding is in just three weeks.
07:03And it's starting to get really exciting.
07:05But there's so much to get done.
07:07I've been waking up like at 5.30, like every day for the past week.
07:115.30?
07:12How are you feeling?
07:14Well, I'm sleeping well.
07:15All right.
07:17But yeah, you know, it's coming up very soon.
07:20You're ready?
07:21I'm ready.
07:22You?
07:22Oh, amazing.
07:24Yeah, I'm ready.
07:25That was the least convincing.
07:27Yeah, I'm ready ever.
07:29So with all the preparation and just the wedding being very soon,
07:32Rebecca hasn't been sleeping very well.
07:34You know, I'm trying to help her as much as I can,
07:37but it's only so much that I can do here.
07:39My dad told me that he's not coming to the wedding.
07:42How does that make you feel?
07:44I mean, it would be nice for him to be there.
07:47If it makes you feel any better, my dad isn't coming either.
07:51Your dad's dead.
07:53He doesn't have a choice.
07:55He wouldn't come anymore.
07:57I just wanted to make you laugh, I'm sorry.
08:00Well done, job done.
08:02You have a lot of people around that loves you.
08:06So, yeah.
08:07You're right.
08:08Christian's right.
08:09The wedding is about us and no one else,
08:11and I'm lucky to have him here to remind me of that.
08:13So let's just stay strong, you know?
08:17We are building something nice here.
08:20No.
08:21No.
08:24No.
08:25No.
08:26No.
08:27No.
08:37No.
08:53How are you feeling today?
08:55Bad.
08:57I've woken up today feeling really deflated.
09:00What should have been an amazing day yesterday,
09:02my own stag and hen do,
09:04turned into absolute carnage towards the end of the evening.
09:08And Mert was just on one, shouting and swearing and screaming
09:11around all our family and friends.
09:14Do you know how much you embarrassed me last night?
09:21I'm so excited for you today.
09:23Are you excited?
09:24For a party?
09:25Yeah.
09:25Yeah, I'm just more excited.
09:27So today is mine and Mert's joint stag and hen do.
09:30Does your mum come in the hen do?
09:33I hope so.
09:34Yeah.
09:35I know you and mum, for a few weeks now, more stress.
09:39You have more argument.
09:41You have more shouting at each other.
09:43And sometimes mum speak not good for you.
09:45But today, just let it go over your head.
09:48Don't have drama.
09:50I hope all fine.
09:53Yeah.
09:53So, yeah.
09:54Since me and Mert have moved out,
09:55mum's and Mert's relationship has gone a bit sour.
09:58They're both massive characters,
09:59and they've definitely clashed over different things
10:02on several occasions.
10:03I hope everything will okay.
10:06She need to be there.
10:07Yeah.
10:07Because this is a very, very special day.
10:11Yeah.
10:11It's the last time we're meeting with all friends,
10:15having drink, having good time,
10:17before we're married.
10:18Yeah.
10:19So, yeah.
10:20Not need to stress, not need...
10:21Yeah.
10:21Over your head.
10:23That's it.
10:24Over your head.
10:24And it'll be nice.
10:26Yeah, I hope so.
10:38This is the best hand-do ever.
10:41It's so nice to see most of my friends and family here.
10:45Maz is my half-sister.
10:46Same dad, different mums.
10:48We get on like a house on fire.
10:50We've got party games.
10:51Is everyone ready for a bit of Willy Bingo?
10:54Yay!
10:57Johnson.
10:59Oh!
11:00Cock!
11:02Boner!
11:05Taliwaka!
11:06Willy Bingo!
11:09And we're all just waiting for Suzanne and Mum to turn up.
11:14Right, my bags are all right.
11:16Switching.
11:16Right, yeah.
11:17And here's Mum, fashionably late, but that's fine.
11:21Is that your mum?
11:22Is that your mum?
11:23Oh, it's not mine.
11:24Do you want to get a picture of your mum while she's at the show?
11:27Come on.
11:28Come on.
11:29Oh, thank you.
11:30No, no, no, no, no, no.
11:32Why won't I let her move over?
11:33What's she doing?
11:37Oh, she's fucked off.
11:39Do you know what?
11:40That's really pissed me off.
11:41I don't think she wants to have, like, animosity.
11:43I don't really know.
11:43Go, go, go, get Suzanne straight.
11:46It would have been nice for her to come and have a photo.
11:48Give you a kiss and a cuddle.
11:49That was a bit awkward, wasn't it?
11:51Oh, well.
11:51I'm not really sure 100% why my mum's not here.
11:54I don't know if she didn't want to come and make an atmosphere or any animosity, but I don't
12:01really know why she's not here, but she's not here.
12:03So we'll just make the most of the people that are here.
12:06Who's he on the phone to?
12:08Who are you on the phone to?
12:11Is he kicking off?
12:13No, no, no, no, no.
12:13He's upset that he thinks that your mum was disrespectful towards you.
12:20It was bad enough she didn't get out of the fucking car.
12:22I know.
12:23She didn't get a photo with us.
12:24This is important today.
12:28You are mum.
12:30Why are you not coming?
12:32I am very behind with the decoration.
12:37Sherry, tell me I am busy.
12:39This is your daughter's party.
12:42You need should be here.
12:44If you come and walk in, welcome to party, but I don't have time because I am very busy
12:50if you're telling people.
12:51It's not bad business.
12:53Why I'm not bad?
12:54You need to go on now.
12:56Okay?
12:58This is not good, ma'am.
12:59I'm telling you.
13:03She thought, making good time, did it close to my face.
13:09What did she say to her?
13:10I thought she always selfish.
13:13I'm so disappointed in my mum for not turning up, but my ringing is really not going to solve
13:17anything.
13:18This made me more stressed.
13:19She knew we had today's party one month ago.
13:23She's working really hard.
13:24No, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not, I'm not trust your mum.
13:27Okay.
13:28It's too in my head now.
13:29Can we stop this conversation?
13:30It's too in my head now.
13:31No, no, because you always stop.
13:33Please.
13:34I'm already stressed.
13:35I understand what you're saying.
13:36I don't want to have this conversation.
13:37Just wait, just wait, calm down.
13:39Not like your mum.
13:40Just calm down.
13:41Don't fucking say that.
13:43No, I am not loving your mum like this, uh, ways.
13:48Okay.
13:48Okay, right.
13:50You've got everything off your chest now.
13:52I'm stressed.
13:52We've got all these party guests here.
13:55Can we go and, um, mingle, play some party games, get some photos, stop talking about
14:00my mum.
14:01Let's do it in my head now.
14:03Just one more.
14:04Oh, fuck's sake.
14:06You need...
14:07What's your problem?
14:08I've asked you three times.
14:09Okay, baby.
14:10Stop this conversation.
14:11I don't want this conversation anymore.
14:12You need to listen.
14:12No, I don't.
14:13You need to listen to me.
14:14I'll get up in a minute.
14:14If you have wedding day, any problem, I kick off your mum.
14:19I swear, the wedding day, you do not kick off anyone.
14:22If your mum making like this, negative way, I don't want.
14:28Look at all the people that are here to celebrate me and you getting married.
14:31I want to have fun.
14:31This is a happy day.
14:32I want to have fun.
14:33Yes, my mum has made me stressed.
14:35I don't want to hear anymore.
14:36Okay.
14:36Grace has put so much effort into today.
14:38Okay, baby.
14:39You need to speak with your mum.
14:40Okay, finish now.
14:41Okay.
14:41Can you get me a glass of Prosecco, please?
14:43You need to speak with your mum, okay?
14:45Can you get me a glass of Prosecco, please?
14:47I'm a little bit disappointed that Matt hasn't been able to let this go.
14:51This is going to be our special day where we just have fun.
14:54If I can let things go and enjoy the day, so should he.
14:58In reality, what he's saying is true.
15:00So I can understand why he's upset.
15:02Yeah.
15:02But I also see it from your point of view.
15:04It's my mum.
15:05Yeah.
15:05I'm the one that should be really stressed about this.
15:07Yeah.
15:13I understand that my mum upset you yesterday, but you could have just thought, do you know
15:18what?
15:18Grace has done this amazing party for us, and you could have just had a lovely time.
15:23Matt's behaviour was an accumulation of different things.
15:28I think he misses his family a lot.
15:30My mum's behaviour and how she's made me feel has fed into things.
15:34A hell of a lot of alcohol was consumed.
15:37You let your anger get the better of you.
15:41This is your mum, Paul.
15:44My original family not here.
15:46You're telling me you're not speak with mum.
15:49If you want, you can cancel.
15:51I can't fucking go into my country back.
15:54I am not care.
15:55You don't care?
15:56I'm care about for you, but you're not thinking me.
15:59Oh, my God.
16:00We are getting married in two days.
16:02I don't know if my mum's going to come to this wedding.
16:04Because of problems that you've had.
16:07Okay, but I'm not...
16:08Wait a minute.
16:09I'm not married with your mum.
16:11I just want you to make it up.
16:15I don't want there to be this atmosphere.
16:17We are getting married in two days.
16:19You're so angry about my mum.
16:21You clearly don't like my mum.
16:23Yeah, I don't like it.
16:24Because what?
16:25Shane's mum makes me more negative all day.
16:30I have tried to give respect to your mum,
16:34but she never come to me nicely and give respect.
16:40Why are neither of you thinking how I feel?
16:43I've got everything.
16:44I've got the weight of the world on my shoulders at the moment.
16:47You just have to attend the wedding.
16:49You don't have to do anything.
16:51I'm doing everything for you.
16:54Maybe I can't make money.
16:56Maybe I can't help about money.
16:58But what I have, making everything for you.
17:01Why the fuck am I leaving my country?
17:03Why I did it all 28 years?
17:07Why are you thinking?
17:08For you?
17:09Huh?
17:10Do you know what?
17:12I can't speak to you right now
17:13because you're just throwing things back in my face.
17:16I just feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place
17:18with my mum right now.
17:20And everything's just going to shit.
17:22I'm asking you as your wife,
17:24please just sort things out with my mum
17:26because I don't want you like this at the wedding.
17:29I don't want my mum like this at the wedding.
17:31This is going to be the happiest day of our lives
17:33and I'm fucking dreading it.
17:34I don't want to get married right now.
17:55So where are we going?
17:57We're up very early.
18:00We're going to a special place.
18:04Today is the day I'm planning to propose
18:06despite the difficulties that we're having.
18:08I promise it's going to be nice.
18:13My main worry is that she might not like the ring that I got.
18:16I don't have the money to afford the one that she wants.
18:19Do you remember our first date?
18:21The monument.
18:22Yeah.
18:25The monument is a very important historical building in the centre of Santiago
18:30and it's one of the first places that we went.
18:34I'm feeling nervous.
18:35I hope that Dion doesn't realise what I'm planning.
18:40I'm so tired.
18:42Why am I awake at this time?
18:43What could we possibly be doing?
18:45I just want to go back to bed.
18:48I want to see the sunrise with you.
18:50Mm-hmm.
18:52David, it's the crack of dawn.
18:54Why are we here?
18:55It's very cold.
18:57It's very cold.
18:58Give me a hug.
19:00No, because your hands are really cold.
19:02I know David is trying to be romantic, but it's freezing.
19:07Shall we go to your next surprise now?
19:10No, I want to see the sunrise where the skies gets orange.
19:16All that stuff.
19:19The view's not going to change.
19:22Oh.
19:24No.
19:26You're doing this to me.
19:28You're keeping me outside in the cold.
19:30It's coming out.
19:31Oh, for God's sake, there's barely any difference.
19:34The sound might not come out.
19:36It's really cold, but I love the girl and I want to do it now.
19:40I would know there's a surprise.
19:42Is it breakfast?
19:44So, I'm sorry for everything that I did wrong.
19:53Yeah.
19:54Ever since I met you, I knew you were someone special and made me feel loved and happy in a
20:03way that I never experienced before.
20:05You are my best friend.
20:07My soulmate.
20:09Close your eyes.
20:12Oh, my God.
20:22Will you marry me?
20:27Yeah.
20:30She said yes, and I got her.
20:35Of course.
20:41It's a real ring.
20:44It's not the ring, that one.
20:47It's so cheap.
20:48It's real gold.
20:49No, it's not.
20:49Israel gold.
20:50No, it's not.
20:51I don't believe you.
20:52Israel gold.
20:54Oh, my God.
20:55It's honestly, it's an ISO.
20:56It's disgusting.
20:58Belongs in the bin.
21:02He knows who I am, and I'm a princess, we all know that, but this is just ridiculous.
21:10It's almost like a prank.
21:12Slap in the face.
21:14I don't even look good as well to be proposed to, and on top of that, this is not the
21:19ring that we discussed.
21:21You're not even going to have that one for long.
21:23No, I'm not.
21:24I don't know where he brought this ring from.
21:26It could have been like a 2P machine, who knows, whatever.
21:29It's supposed to be perfect.
21:32It's perfect to me.
21:35Good for you.
21:36Good for you.
21:38It just made me feel frustrated that she doesn't like anything because I'm trying my best.
21:43It's just like so negative and so on.
21:46Why did you say yes?
21:48I said yes because I do actually love you.
21:50If you pick a ring that I can't get, I couldn't even buy it with my car.
21:57Now, other people would have accepted this as a nice gesture, but that doesn't fly with me.
22:04You said you love me.
22:05What's your problem?
22:07I never said that I don't love you.
22:09It's just that I was...
22:12So what?
22:14I think she's being ungrateful.
22:16I set up all of this.
22:18I put so much effort into it, but she is a big moody.
22:24You're dramatizing right now.
22:25I'm not.
22:26You don't have to be that mean.
22:29Right now, I'm just feeling very angry.
22:31It's going horrible.
22:32I thought she was going to like it.
22:33I tried my best, but it's going sideways.
22:35I'm not.
23:04I'm so excited.
23:06How are you?
23:07I'm good.
23:09It's two days before the wedding, and we've had our nails booked in for weeks now, and
23:13I'm glad to be out of the house.
23:15I'm hoping that this will give us a chance to all clear the air.
23:18I need to have big conversations with mum and try and resolve things.
23:22So what happened at the party?
23:24When you didn't get out of the car, it created a massive atmosphere.
23:29Mert was so upset that he was missing his family so much.
23:33He was trying to explain, my mum can't be here, but your mum can, but she's choosing
23:37not to, and then I think Mert had way too many drinks.
23:41But I think the issues that you and Mert have together at the moment, I feel like I'm stuck
23:48between a rock and a hard place.
23:50I'm just quite happy for now to just get on with things.
23:55Everything that happens between Mert and Mum, I take that home, and then I've got Mert upset,
24:01where she can just come and forget about things.
24:03I don't think she understands that.
24:04I know maybe you're happy to just get on with things, but I think what would actually
24:10clear the air is if you both sat down and you both come together trying to figure out
24:17what's going on.
24:17You both like to have the last word, and you clash.
24:20So how are we going to resolve it?
24:22It would be beneficial for me if sometimes you could apologise for being who I am.
24:35But how you speak to people, and...
24:38I don't...
24:39Shane, there's very few people who get offended by the way that I speak to them.
24:43Actually, I want to stop you there.
24:45People don't tell you to your face.
24:47Oh, I know somebody.
24:48I know where this is, Gobe.
24:49I don't even know if I'm getting anywhere with this conversation.
24:52My mum just keeps shutting me down.
24:53I can tell she doesn't want to listen.
24:56But these are things that need to be said.
24:58I'm really not coping with the two people I love the most being at each other all the time.
25:04I think Mert needs to try and keep his temper under control, and you need to be very aware
25:10to think before you speak, because it's really hurting me.
25:14I just want this...
25:16I want this sorted more than anyone, because it's breaking my heart.
25:20I don't know how we're going to sort it in such a short period.
25:24Even if there's just a chat, bearing in mind, Mert's obviously emotional on that anyway from the day.
25:28I think you need to have a long, hard chat with him.
25:31Yeah.
25:32I think for the sake of the wedding, Mert and I just need to be pleasant, relaxed with each other.
25:38We can sort everybody's differences out after.
25:41For now, the wedding's important.
25:43Everybody smile and be happy.
25:45Are you still going to come to the wedding?
25:47Are you still giving me away?
25:50Pride question.
25:51Of course I am.
25:53We've made some progress today, but I just hope the next two days and the wedding day just goes nice
26:00and smoothly.
26:00We can always try and fix things after the wedding.
26:19Hello?
26:20You okay?
26:21Yeah, you all right?
26:22Things are still a bit frosty with me and Mert, but we need to fix this.
26:25And I can't stay mad at him for long.
26:28I've seen Mum and Grace today.
26:29Obviously we all went to go and I was done.
26:31Yeah?
26:32My mum listened to me.
26:33We can't change that she wasn't there.
26:35And she said maybe we all have a speak after wedding.
26:38I'm all ready for this.
26:40I love you more than anything, I do.
26:42But I don't want that to happen again.
26:45Please, for a wedding, you can have a drink.
26:47Yeah, yeah, yeah.
26:47You can have a Prosecco or something or a beer.
26:50Yeah.
26:50But please not more.
26:51I don't want...
26:52No, no, I have limits.
26:53You promise me?
26:54I go.
26:55Come on, I go.
26:57Limit.
26:58No matter what's going on, it doesn't change the fact that I love you.
27:01I love him.
27:01He's a pain in the arse, but he's a pain in my arse.
27:04And I'm making the right decision.
27:06Come on, I love you so much, baby.
27:08Give me your lips, please.
27:09How much?
27:10Oh, I love you with all my heart.
27:14I love you too.
27:15It's not like...
27:21Why do you always have to stick your tongue in my mouth?
27:23Um, daddy bitch.
27:26I love you.
27:47I love you too.
27:52Since I've been here in England, it's a big change.
27:56It's a 180 degree change.
27:58I can't work without the visa.
28:01I'm starting to be a little bored.
28:03All I do is just go to the gym for two hours, maximum.
28:07I just all day here at home, sitting on the couch,
28:12watching telly all day.
28:13I'm just only hoping that changes, you know,
28:16once I start working.
28:18Particularly this last month, it really hit me.
28:20Like, what am I doing here?
28:22Last thing that I did in Argentina is just partying.
28:26I mean, partying and partying.
28:28I had money.
28:32Since we're starting to prepare this wedding,
28:36Rebecca has been, unfortunately, a nightmare.
28:41Very difficult to deal with.
28:42I don't have enough time to find out if this is the real Rebecca
28:47or she's only stressed because of the wedding.
28:51In order to get the visa, you need to get married.
28:54I'm starting to have doubts.
28:55Am I doing this because we have to?
28:57Or because we want to?
28:59It's only been three months.
29:08I get here to just think about things and gather my thoughts.
29:12While I'm doing it, just enjoy one, two, three, four, five, six, seven beers,
29:17if necessary.
29:20Rebecca doesn't know that I'm here, but I'm a free man anyway,
29:24so I don't see why I would have to tell her.
29:33I'm not really sure where Christian's gone.
29:35At the moment, he left quite a while ago,
29:37and I haven't heard from him or seen him.
29:46I finally sit in the pool, sir, having my own time.
29:50My bloody phone goes off.
29:52Text after text after text.
29:54Can I get five minutes of peace?
29:57I've got so much to do the day before the wedding.
30:00I thought he'd be here to help me with that.
30:02But he's just fallen off the face of the earth.
30:07It's so hard for her to understand that I need some time apart.
30:11I feel like I don't have an escape.
30:15I can't believe that he's not even picking up any of my calls now.
30:18Who is he with?
30:19What is he doing?
30:22Where the hell is he?
30:24Is he coming back?
30:26Now I'm questioning the relationship.
30:28Does he want to get married?
30:31This will only push me away.
30:34And once I'm out, I'm out.
30:56You're excited?
30:58I'm shit myself, if I'm honest.
30:59But no, I'm really excited.
31:01It's the day before the wedding.
31:02We're at the wedding venue.
31:04We're actually here.
31:05We're getting married tomorrow.
31:10Are we going to wake the whole hotel
31:11where we're going to make the marriage?
31:13I'm not comfortable for five minutes, look.
31:15I'm not comfortable for five minutes in this bed.
31:19Look, when I have five minutes, I need to relax.
31:22I can't feel it.
31:23Five minutes is a bit of a code word.
31:25Let's have five minutes.
31:26Let's go and have a bit of hanky-panky.
31:29This is comfortable enough for me for the night.
31:31Look, you can't feel it.
31:33Messrs, yeah?
31:34Yeah, it's not the most comfortable.
31:36Right.
31:37What?
31:38Get your stuff and bugger off,
31:39because Grace will be here in a minute.
31:41What?
31:41I can't sleep with you tonight?
31:43No, you've got another room.
31:46Yeah, that's why we've booked two rooms.
31:48Grace is staying in here with me tonight,
31:50and you're staying in the other room.
31:53So get your stuff.
31:55Are you leaving?
31:56Yeah.
31:59I don't like this.
32:00My plan, maybe we have five minutes tonight
32:02before wedding, but...
32:05that's not good.
32:07I might come down and have some dinner later.
32:08OK.
32:10I'm going to wait here for Grace.
32:12I love you.
32:13I love you too.
32:14Bye.
32:14See you in the morning.
32:16See you in the morning, baby.
32:17Don't miss me too much.
32:25Why we don't have five minutes?
32:27I don't know if I can wait another day.
32:33I feel sad.
32:34Oh, yeah.
32:38Oh, yeah.
32:38Oh, yeah.
32:39Oh, yeah.
32:45Oh.
33:01Hello there, darling.
33:02You all right?
33:04Hello.
33:04Yeah, are you?
33:06I'm all right, but you're clearly not.
33:08What's going on?
33:10Where the hell have you been?
33:11By the booth, huh?
33:14Nice.
33:15Jesus.
33:17Just got in.
33:18You're not giving me a break.
33:21What?
33:22What is the problem now?
33:23Have you not seen any of my messages?
33:25Or any of the calls?
33:27Well, I haven't at the last minute, but I was coming back, so...
33:29Somehow that's worse, that you've seen them
33:31and then still chosen not to respond.
33:33Darling.
33:34No.
33:35Don't darling me.
33:37I was actually wondering what took so long
33:39that today you haven't bitched.
33:41It was about time.
33:45The last month you have been a nightmare.
33:48And what have I been bitching about, Christian?
33:50You have been bitching about work,
33:52about this that doesn't go as you want.
33:55And I understand that, but I might today
33:57need a day on my own.
34:00Stress is trying to plan a wedding all by yourself,
34:03having no-one to help you.
34:07I actually don't have a problem with you going to the pub.
34:10That's not what I care about.
34:12What I care about is you not answering.
34:14You've been gone for how long?
34:17I've called and I've texted and you haven't replied.
34:20And you want to walk back in?
34:21Hi, darling.
34:23That's disrespect.
34:27It's never stopped, eh?
34:31I literally don't understand why you couldn't just send a text.
34:34I'm at the pub.
34:35I'm thinking.
34:37Because...
34:37I'm getting pissed again.
34:40I'm every day stuck here,
34:43hearing non-stop complaining about things.
34:47I'm not only carrying my baggage, but I'm carrying yours.
34:51Maybe if I wasn't holding everything on my shoulders,
34:53I wouldn't have anything to bitch about.
34:56What are you doing to help me?
34:58I did what I could regarding to the wedding.
35:02If I stay here and do the bloody flowers,
35:05you're going to bitch about them because I did not do it right.
35:09So why am I going to be here?
35:12I did not answer because I wanted to buy myself some extra time
35:15before you start going on again.
35:19We're getting married tomorrow.
35:21You need to show your wife to be more respected than that.
35:27That's why I needed to go to the pub.
35:30Just to find myself, gather my thoughts.
35:33But think about what, though?
35:35I think this is quite rushed, though.
35:38This is rushed, it's a big change.
35:41I even afraid a little bit.
35:43Am I going to be truly happy being married?
35:47Wow.
35:49That's a nice thing to say.
35:52I cannot mention any of these things to you.
35:55You always have to get upset.
35:57You always have to get upset.
35:59Well, is there any wonder?
36:01You've just questioned whether we're going to be happy.
36:03I think that's a good reason to get upset.
36:08I'm seriously this close to calling the whole thing out.
36:12Just, I got enough.
36:14This is enough.
36:16Well, you needed some time.
36:17Take all the time you need.
36:18Go on.
36:21I got the fucking wheel.
36:23You know what?
36:24I'm going to have a lot more.
36:26A lot more.
36:26Take your time.
36:29I don't care.
36:30I had enough.
36:33Why would I want to marry that?
36:36If this is the start of our marriage,
36:38I think it's best we call it quits now.
37:03Right now, David is getting really, really offended.
37:07Even though this ring is very ugly,
37:10there's still something more important and that's our love we have for each other.
37:14So I really need to make it up to him and reassure him that I do want to be with
37:19him for the rest of my life.
37:21This is just a mishap.
37:24I feel like I've had time to digest what just happened and I do appreciate the gesture.
37:32I was just very much in shock.
37:35I'm done with them, I'm done with them.
37:40I still don't trust you with any surprises though.
37:43Like you've completely ruined that.
37:44No more surprises.
37:46Noted.
37:48The flowers were like perfect.
37:51Absolutely perfect.
37:52I'm happy that you're happy with your flowers.
37:54I just wasn't prepared for this situation.
37:59I know you were not at all.
38:01It was supposed to be a surprise.
38:03Which, you know, you don't like.
38:05This is like false hope.
38:07No.
38:08It's not what it means.
38:10A placeholder ring means that I'm being considerate.
38:12I don't like placeholder rings.
38:13I did it because it's...
38:15I don't like cheap things.
38:17I would rather you have saved the money that you brought with this to go towards the actual ring.
38:23Because for me, I feel like you just wasted your money.
38:26It's a very expensive ring, Dominican standards.
38:28I know that in the UK might be different, but here it's like, oh my God.
38:32When you said that you want a ring that costs 3,000 pounds,
38:36any other person would have run away.
38:38The right person would have.
38:40That's me.
38:42That's why I didn't run away.
38:44From my perspective, I really believe in what I did.
38:46Even though it wasn't with the ring that I want or would like,
38:55the most important thing is, is the fact that I love you
38:58and I see myself being with you for the rest of my life,
39:02regardless of what ring you opted to give me in the moment.
39:05I have a placeholder ring. It is what is.
39:36The morning of the wedding.
39:38and I feel a bit down about it almost we had a blazing row last night and
39:45nothing's really resolved so I am just hoping and praying that he is gonna be
39:50there and that he hasn't changed his mind
39:54go on to Nana's in order to get ready for the wedding because you're not
39:57supposed to be together with your bride
40:04hi I'm obviously feeling very nervous I mean the discussion that we had last
40:09night wasn't ideal I mean I could have done without it the day before we get
40:13married I understand everything that he said you know he needed his space but I
40:18mean I would have probably dealt with that a different way but hopefully
40:22that's the end of it now how's it all been going then well you know it has
40:29been unfortunately closer to the wedding everything started going wrong Nana and
40:35Rebecca have a really solid relationship I think Nana's they had mother figure I
40:40have an amazing relationship also with her yesterday we have a little bit of an
40:45argument yeah which is crazy you know I think we're getting married are you sure
40:50you're doing the right thing I'm hoping people could say that we're getting
41:01married for the visa if we want to be together this is what we have to do we
41:06have to get married we have to rush it's starting to feel better real once I'm
41:13starting dressing up time me sticking I'm feeling very nervous she's freaking out and what am I doing
41:36here you know I don't know I can't really talk about you just give me a minute will ya
41:53go away
41:57I'm out of me saying just run as much as you can don't look back
42:28can you believe it grace no I can't
42:32this seems so surreal started with you no I'm nervous you are hiding it well I genuinely feel
42:39like I could have a bit of a nervous breakdown yeah yeah it's my wedding day I'm gonna get married
42:47to
42:47Matt in a couple of hours a plan for today it's just take things nice and steady do my makeup
42:52hope
42:53there's no dramas once I've got that dresser and I'm just hoping that you want it's not gonna fit is
42:59that giving a lot of anxiety no I wasn't thinking that but now I'm thinking that now I'm a little
43:03bit
43:03worried it might not fucking fit
43:08I don't know I was thinking that but now I'm pretty much
43:18you know well I'll get a lot of anxiety because I'm trying to get married now I'm trying to get
43:34a lot of
43:35Maik Ali khaki
43:37Allah Aziz
43:40Merhaba baba
43:41Yani keşke burda olabilseydiniz
43:43Öyle bir ihtimal olsaydı ama neyazık ki
43:45Öyle bir durum söz konusu değil
43:47Biraz üzgünüz
43:49İsterdik orda olsaydık ama
43:52Buralara geldiğinizde Allah izin verirse burda
43:55Kendi aramızda aile arasında
43:57Daha güzel bir
44:00Tarzı birşey yaparız
44:02Yes, I will. I think that's right, I think that's right.
44:06You've got it, that's right, that's right.
44:09We both love you.
44:10I love you, I love you.
44:12I love you, I love you.
44:14I love you, I love you.
44:17Okay.
44:18Bye bye.
44:24Bye bye.
44:24Bye bye.
44:26Bye bye.
44:28Oh, I'm missing my family. I'm missing my father's smell.
44:33I'm missing my mother's smell.
44:36Oh my God, I'm missing her mouth.
44:40I'm missing all of my family.
44:44No, it's still not too late. If you want to call out, you can still do it.
44:48No, I made my decision.
44:50I never thought I'd find my happy ever after.
44:53There are so many reasons why Mark's the right man for me.
44:55I just hope my mum brings good energy.
44:58I hope Mark brings good energy.
44:59And I just hope they don't clash and ruin the whole day.
45:02Once you're walking down, you'll be fine.
45:05If you're just going to look at Mark, you'll be fine.
45:07Bye bye.
45:09Bye bye.
45:16Bye bye.
45:29Bye bye.
45:31Bye bye.
45:35Finally, I decided to walk into the room.
45:39I love her.
45:40I want to be with her.
45:42You know, at the end of the day, she's the one for me,
45:45and she's the one that is always there for me.
45:48So I'm not going to let her down.
45:56The second I look at her, then it's crazy
45:59because all the fears, doubts, all of it,
46:03just goes away.
46:07Well, good afternoon, everyone,
46:08and a very warm welcome to Derbyshire Register Office.
46:12Seeing Christian at the end of the aisle,
46:14he looks so handsome,
46:16and I just hope that Christian knows
46:18that I haven't got cold feet
46:19and I do really want to marry him.
46:21You are here today to witness their marriage.
46:24I don't want to sound cheesy,
46:26but she does look like a princess.
46:27And it reminds me, though, while we're doing this,
46:30this is what we should be doing.
46:31So for Christian and Rebecca, getting married today
46:34is a proud confirmation of the love, respect,
46:38and true friendship that they have for each other.
46:41Would you all please stand?
46:45Can I please ask, who gives this woman to be married to this man?
46:48Hi, thank you.
46:49If you want to hand your granddaughter's hand over,
46:50and then turn to face each other.
46:54As I'm looking into Christian's eyes,
46:57I can't see anything else but him.
46:59It's so special.
47:00I get to marry the man of my dreams.
47:02Christian, repeat after me,
47:03but say the worst, Rebecca.
47:04Hi.
47:04Hi, Christian Alejandro Paradis.
47:07I, Christian Alejandro Paredes.
47:10Take you, Rebeca EVE Clayton.
47:12Take you, Rebeca EVE Clayton.
47:14To be my wayded wife.
47:17And Rebecca?
47:18I, Rebeca EVE Clayton.
47:21I, Rebeca EVE Clayton.
47:23Take you, Christian Alejandro Paradis.
47:26Take you, Christian Alejandro Paradis.
47:29to be my wedded husband to be my wedded husband
47:35Rebecca means it means everything to me that's all I have here
47:42Rebecca I give you this ring Rebecca I give you this ring as a symbol of my love as a
47:47symbol
47:48of my love all that I am I give to you all that I am that I give to you
47:53all that I have
47:54all that I have I share with you I share with you I promise to love I promise to love
48:00cherish and
48:01respect you cherish and respect you for as long as we both shall live for as long as we both
48:06shall
48:06live Christian I give you this ring Christian I give you this ring as a symbol of my love as
48:15a symbol
48:15of my love all that I am I give to you all that I am I give to you all
48:21that I have I share with you
48:23All that I have, I share with you.
48:25I promise to love, cherish and respect you.
48:28I promise to love, cherish and respect you.
48:30For as long as we both shall live.
48:32For as long as we both shall live.
48:34You are now lawfully joined together as husband and wife united in marriage.
48:39Congratulations, you make us your bride.
48:41I've had the husband and the husband.
48:49We're married!
48:51We finally did it.
48:53Yeah, it's beautiful. It's a beautiful moment.
49:06We come all this way.
49:08We can continue this amazing story of ours.
49:12It's gesturing.
49:14Yeah!
49:42I can't believe I'm actually about to get married.
49:44I can't believe this is happening.
49:45I'm freaking out.
49:46I'm absolutely cacking myself.
49:52I'm very nervous.
49:54So, ladies and gentlemen, could I ask you to be upstanding, please, for the arrival of Shade and Shereen?
50:06I'm ready to go to work.
50:10I'm ready to go.
50:11I'm ready to go.
50:11Are you ready to go?
50:12Yeah.
50:15Yeah, don't try it.
50:17I can.
50:35Wow, I'm excited, you look beautiful, you do, my princess
50:45Ladies and gentlemen, would you please be seated?
50:49Well, good afternoon, ladies and gentlemen, it's my pleasure to welcome you to the beautiful
50:53Cedars Inn on this very special occasion, the marriage of Bilal and Shane, who are here
50:58before us to declare their love and pledge their commitment to each other.
51:02Matt looks out of this world, I can't believe I'm so lucky that he's going to be my husband.
51:06Cherie, you have escorted Shane here today, are you willing to entrust the love and care
51:11of Shane to Bilal?
51:15I am.
51:15Thank you very much.
51:17Thank you, Matt.
51:20Bilal.
51:23Thank you, Matt.
51:24Thank you, Matt.
51:28It's such a magical feeling, having my mum give me away, and the fact that Matt and mum
51:33have put everything behind them to have such a lovely day, I just feel so blessed.
51:39Look at each other now, and aim to remember this moment, this very special moment in your
51:46lives, the love you have for one another, and the hopes you share for the future.
51:51So, Bilal, do you freely take Shane to be your husband?
51:55Yes.
51:56Yes.
51:57I do.
51:57The registrar saying husband and husband.
51:59It's not how I'd like it to be, but at the end of the day, we can't change it.
52:03Matt loves me for me, I love Matt for Matt.
52:06Will you love him, respect him, and be faithful to him throughout each day of your lives together?
52:10Always forever.
52:12I can't believe I get a married with Shane.
52:16This is an amazing feeling.
52:19I, Bilal Isshan, do take thee, Shane Daniel Harding, to be my lawful wedding husband.
52:32Well said.
52:35Shane, do you freely take Bilal to be your husband?
52:37I do.
52:38Will you love him, respect him, and be faithful to him throughout each day of your lives together?
52:43I will.
52:43And repeat after me, that I, Shane Daniel Harding, that I, Shane Daniel Harding, do you take thee,
52:49Bilal Isshan, do you take thee, Bilal Isshan, to be my lawful wedded husband?
52:53To be my lawful wedded husband.
52:56For me, this is a massive moment.
52:58I feel like a princess, and I get to marry my best friend and the love of my life.
53:03So, Grace, please tell me you've remembered the rings.
53:05I have.
53:06Probably that side.
53:07That's what I was thinking.
53:08And if you can just open the box for Bilal to take the ring that he's presenting to Shane.
53:19Shane, I give you this ring.
53:21Shane, I give you this ring.
53:23As a symbol.
53:24As a symbol.
53:25Of my commitment to you.
53:26Of commitment to you.
53:30And as a daily.
53:31And as a daily.
53:33Reminder.
53:33Reminder.
53:34Of our love.
53:35Of Allah.
53:40Thank you, my Lord.
53:42Thank you, Talon.
53:43Bilal, I give you this ring.
53:45As a symbol of my commitment.
53:46As a symbol of my commitment to you.
53:48And as a daily reminder of us.
53:50And as a daily reminder of our love.
53:52I promise to love, honor, and cherish you.
53:54Today.
53:55Today and always.
53:59I'm delighted to announce that you are now married.
54:02You may now kiss.
54:08I love you.
54:09I love you, too.
54:15Never in my life I had to see you smile like this.
54:17I love you so much.
54:20It's all my heart.
54:22Mert and Shane.
54:24Remember, there's nothing sweeter than love.
54:25Nothing stronger.
54:26Enjoy your married life together.
54:28May I present the newly married Mr. and Mr. Harding is due.
54:32Yay!
54:35Yay!
54:52We're married!
54:54Can you believe it?
54:56I can't believe it.
54:57I'll tell you what, you make me the happiest, happiest wife in the world.
55:02I'm so thankful I've got you in my life.
55:05Thank you, God.
55:08I've waited so long to be happy.
55:11Normally, I feel like I don't deserve this, but I do deserve this.
55:17I have a wish for the world.
55:18I didn't want to be a millionaire.
55:20I just wanted to be happy, and I've got my wish.
55:25And yes, we have our ups and downs.
55:27Sometimes love is hard.
55:29You have to work at things, and you are going to have trials and tribulations.
55:33All I've wanted in my life is just for someone to accept me for me
55:38and show me off like I should be shown off.
55:42And the lads that I've been with have been too scared and too conscious
55:45of what other people will view them as.
55:48And for Matt to actually be brave enough to think,
55:51you know what, I've fallen in love with you as you are.
55:53I don't want to change you at all.
55:55He is braver than any other man that I've ever known.
55:58He's put everything on the line for me.
56:01I'm so thankful because I don't know where I'd be if I hadn't met Matt.
56:07And oh, my God, my tears are running.
56:10That's, it's just such a lovely feeling.
56:13And I can't wait to see what the future holds for us.
56:16If we can do this much in one year, what can we do in ten?
56:38If you apply five, you can swim outside.
56:42Oh, my God.
56:43You might get more controlling.
56:44Sure, this is what you really, really want.
56:49Don't get rushed with his proposal.
56:53You were having drinks with another girl.
56:55Nothing happened with her.
56:56So much attention.
56:59I have come back in the UK in 3 March.
57:02I don't want to give birth without you here.
57:05You know how excited I was for that ring.
57:07You love mother ring coming.
57:10What are you going to do, go back to Kenya?
57:12I'm done.
57:13Fuck off.
57:35This isn't how I pictured anything to be.
57:38I don't want to give birth without you.
57:40I don't want to give birth without you.
57:42I don't want to give birth without you.
57:45I don't want to give birth without you.
57:49I don't want to give birth without you.
57:52I don't want to give birth without you.
57:55I don't want to give birth without you.
57:55I don't want to give birth without you.
57:56I don't want to give birth without you.
57:56I don't want to give birth without you.
57:56I don't want to give birth without you.
57:58I don't want to give birth without you.
57:59I don't want to give birth without you.
58:01I don't want to give birth without you.
58:05I don't want to give birth without you.
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