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00:00:06This is the morning that is coming
00:00:09Your lips will come
00:00:11We will come and go and go and go
00:00:15The morning that is coming
00:00:23This morning that is coming
00:00:49Good morning Pakistan
00:00:52As-salamu alaykum
00:00:55Good morning, good morning Pakistan
00:00:59when you come to this world, you will come to this world
00:01:06you will have a better way to get you
00:01:09which are like mother, brother, dad, dad, dad, dad, dad
00:01:15and other other people like cha-cha, phoopi, khala, etc.
00:01:21You know that these ways are seen as much as possible
00:01:27and we have a lot of love that God has made,
00:01:29and we always have to do something for you.
00:01:34Whether they are mother-in-law, especially baby-in-law, immediate family,
00:01:37and we always love you and love without any expectations.
00:01:45Nana, Nani, Dada, Dada, they always love you.
00:01:50And you know that they just need your love,
00:01:53and they just need your respect.
00:01:57And you don't need anything.
00:01:59And your daily life,
00:02:01their love and love,
00:02:03their love and love goes through.
00:02:04But you have to go through your whole life,
00:02:07that you have to do your soulmate.
00:02:10You have to do your own own journey.
00:02:13And you say,
00:02:15you are connected to the paths,
00:02:17and you are on the ground.
00:02:19So something happens when you have a soulmate.
00:02:21They are together with friends,
00:02:22they are together with you.
00:02:24They are very good.
00:02:34And if you listen to the story,
00:02:37that is a story story.
00:02:37It's a story story.
00:02:41And it's a story story.
00:02:41But you have to go through your love,
00:02:45But you think your love and love,
00:02:47and you have to take the love and love,
00:02:48and love.
00:02:48foreign
00:03:19and the girl has read it, she has read it, she has read it, she has read it, she has
00:03:22read it, she has read it, she has read it, she has read it.
00:03:27Then, I saw that this thing has changed professionally.
00:03:32So, the relationship was first of the social work.
00:03:36So, some of the people who had a lot of understanding and social, said to me, my daughter's relationship, my
00:03:46daughter's relationship.
00:03:48But then, when it became a professional work, what happened?
00:03:55What did it happen to us?
00:03:55In that research, we have designed this basic program.
00:03:59It happened that the requirements of the people who have given the requirements
00:04:05looked at that knowledge that the girls are trying to fight for their children
00:04:12with all the talents and all the girls,
00:04:17but with them they need to have money.
00:04:19If you have a child or a child or a child,
00:04:22Our girl is going to be safe. He will have a car and he will have a car.
00:04:28But if we do research then the girl has to say something.
00:04:36Or say security.
00:04:38What will she do? Where will the future be?
00:04:43What is she learning? How is the house?
00:04:46How do you live?
00:04:47Which car has?
00:04:49This bike means that you may be thinking about your daughter's security for yourself.
00:04:55Now, what is your daughter's security?
00:04:59It's a very bizarre line.
00:05:03Basically, today you will get a little bit of a know-how.
00:05:09What is your security?
00:05:12Today there are many cases in our show.
00:05:14We will get to know that you will get a lot of materialistic people.
00:05:24What is your relationship?
00:05:27If you want to be married to your daughter's house,
00:05:31or your daughter's house,
00:05:34which is a good girl for your daughter,
00:05:38what should your relationship be?
00:05:45If you want to be married to your daughter's house,
00:05:53what should you do?
00:05:57If you want to be married to your daughter's house,
00:06:04you will get married to your daughter's house.
00:06:06Because after a certain age,
00:06:09you will leave your daughter's house,
00:06:11and you will be praying for your daughter's house.
00:06:13That your daughter's house will become calm,
00:06:18and you will become calm,
00:06:19and you will become calm.
00:06:20So, what are you on the edge of your life?
00:06:23When you are doing your daughter's house,
00:06:26and you will be seeing your daughter's house,
00:06:28who will be seeing you,
00:06:28and you will see your daughter's house,
00:06:29The future is not just the future,
00:06:31but the future is also the same.
00:06:33who will depend on us.
00:06:35who is the soulmate,
00:06:37who is the soulmate,
00:06:37who will be the same?
00:06:39So, after a short break,
00:06:41we will have a new program.
00:06:42You will be the same.
00:06:43Good morning Pakistan.
00:06:49Welcome, welcome back, good morning Pakistan.
00:06:52So, today we have a topic for you, which usually we don't talk about social issues.
00:06:59We always say that the girls are black, but it has been seen in a lot of times that the
00:07:06girls
00:07:06are looking for their daughter, or they are looking for a safe future, or they are looking for
00:07:12a very close line, or they are also looking for the girl to buy what she does, what she does,
00:07:17what her house is, what a car is, how much money is.
00:07:22We don't talk about that, but today we have done a show design of both things,
00:07:28and the social topics look less on our show.
00:07:33So, today we are basically talking about this.
00:07:36If you are looking at the soul, what are the materialistic bodies,
00:07:42or for your children, or for their lives,
00:07:46today we are talking about this.
00:07:48Today we have celebrities, one side is Ghazal Siddiq.
00:07:51Assalamualaikum.
00:07:52Assalamualaikum.
00:07:53How are you?
00:07:54Thank you so much for calling me.
00:07:56Thank you so much for coming.
00:07:58And we have Sohail Samir.
00:08:01Assalamualaikum.
00:08:01Assalamualaikum.
00:08:02How are you?
00:08:03I am the same.
00:08:04You don't think that I have a similar program in my family.
00:08:07Why did you call me?
00:08:08I think that this is a good business.
00:08:10Yes.
00:08:11Matchmaking.
00:08:12Yes.
00:08:13Now this business has been changed.
00:08:15Because people's brain has changed.
00:08:18That it needs to be a matchmaking.
00:08:19It needs to be a matchmaking.
00:08:20I think that we have to find a lot of things.
00:08:24We have to find a lot of things.
00:08:24I think that we have to find a lot of things.
00:08:27We have to find a lot of things.
00:08:39Yes.
00:08:40Yes.
00:08:40Yes.
00:08:42Yes.
00:08:45We have to find a lot of things.
00:08:46Yes.
00:08:47Yes.
00:08:48Yes.
00:09:03Yes.
00:09:11Yes.
00:09:14Yes.
00:09:45It is.
00:09:45Yes.
00:09:46Yes.
00:09:46It is.
00:09:49You know that at a time, the age of a child was 18 point something.
00:09:59And if we are now looking at research,
00:10:04the age of a child has so much awareness.
00:10:08Now, what is it?
00:10:0920 to 20 plus.
00:10:1120 plus, which is better.
00:10:15They are studying and are independent.
00:10:18Now, they are looking forward to the relationship.
00:10:20But then, just quickly.
00:10:23Now, the age of 18 is not going to be married.
00:10:25Now, if the marriage is wrong,
00:10:28and then we are back,
00:10:29then how do we start our lives?
00:10:32Yes.
00:10:33So, the child is standing on their feet
00:10:34and financially stable, it is very important.
00:10:37I don't think this is the awareness of the child.
00:10:39I don't think this is the parents.
00:10:41Now, the age needs to be so much.
00:10:44And I think this is very compulsory.
00:10:46To be educated for the child.
00:10:48And I think this is what I think is that
00:10:51the skills are very important.
00:10:53We live up and down in life.
00:10:55We are always thinking about this.
00:10:57We are always thinking about this.
00:10:58The child is stable.
00:11:00Now, the norms are different.
00:11:03Now, we see that
00:11:04in the family background,
00:11:06which is the respect of the criteria,
00:11:08they are only spending money
00:11:09and these things.
00:11:11Whether it is from the child's side or the child's side.
00:11:14But today,
00:11:15the basic thing is that
00:11:18the child's responsibility is
00:11:19for the child's responsibility.
00:11:30You can tell me, please.
00:11:32Do you have money in the green flags?
00:11:34Of course!
00:11:35100%!
00:11:36That is also a tick.
00:11:38The money is the basic thing.
00:11:41The truth is that the money is important.
00:11:44The money is important.
00:11:45The money is important.
00:11:45The money is important.
00:11:46We all know.
00:11:47The money is important.
00:11:47We are going to share our health to our health
00:11:48and our relations.
00:11:49We keep the money,
00:11:51but we feel shame
00:11:53that the money is important.
00:11:55The money is important.
00:11:56What do we do not have to do?
00:11:56Yes, the money is important.
00:12:12that the girl has a car, a good house,
00:12:16why do you see all this bad thing?
00:12:20First of all, we see this is the need for which we call the lalach.
00:12:25Which way is the lalach?
00:12:28Because in our society, I observed that a girl is doing a job,
00:12:32and a girl is doing a job.
00:12:34The same job is the same, but the label is different.
00:12:38In the behavior, if you look loudly,
00:12:41if you talk loudly about the girl,
00:12:42then you will talk about it.
00:12:43If you talk about the character,
00:12:45the girl is very strong and straight.
00:12:49There are several examples,
00:12:50I know, we are seeing daily life.
00:12:53Since generations, we observe and witness
00:12:57that the girl needs to be a demand
00:13:00that they want to receive directly benefit.
00:13:03This society has not only accepted,
00:13:07normalized, but celebrated.
00:13:09What do you think of the girl?
00:13:11What do you think of the girl?
00:13:12The car, the plot, the plot.
00:13:14And there are videos that make it happen.
00:13:17If I ever come on TikTok,
00:13:20or on Instagram,
00:13:22that the girl has a whole new girl.
00:13:26That's what I'm saying.
00:13:28This is part of the world today.
00:13:29I think today is not today.
00:13:30This is no...
00:13:31This is what I talk about today.
00:13:33This is what I do like today.
00:13:43I think that she celebrated.
00:13:45The girl has been challenged.
00:13:49The girl has been pushed back to her.
00:13:51And she has got to it.
00:13:51So now I am clear in my stance that greed is not at all, not at all.
00:13:58What greed is not at all?
00:14:00The girls are thinking that the girl is stable, the job, the business, the house is not at all, this
00:14:06greed is not at all.
00:14:08And the person doesn't matter?
00:14:10I will tell you, the person doesn't matter, he definitely does.
00:14:13The whole life of the ongoing process will unfold.
00:14:18Compatibility is the most important thing.
00:14:20Now we will address this.
00:14:24Compatibility is not at all because the future life of the girl is thinking about it.
00:14:31And it's not only about a girl, it's not only about a girl.
00:14:35It's just about a family system.
00:14:37They think that tomorrow we will be our daughter's daughter, how will the future be?
00:14:42It is about the entire family system.
00:14:46It's not only about a girl.
00:14:47These are two different things.
00:15:17There is greed, you receive benefits.
00:15:18It is not a woman who we are.
00:15:19Youngs are the ones who are living.
00:15:21And then it is often that she used to be a empire.
00:15:24She used to be saying she used to be a tribute to her daughter.
00:15:30And to her, she used to be a tribute to her daughter.
00:15:32She used to be a gift at that time.
00:15:34I thought that at the very first time, she was not so angry.
00:15:36I don't know what I'm saying.
00:15:38I don't know if I'm not saying anything.
00:15:39No girl doesn't say anything to me before I'm giving you.
00:15:44That's not happening.
00:15:45But she's watching it.
00:15:47Guarantee.
00:15:49It's not even a guarantee.
00:15:51I'm keeping this new step in a new world.
00:15:53Look, she's a major life transition for a girl.
00:15:57It's not for a girl.
00:15:58Because it's a whole support system.
00:16:01A whole life environment.
00:16:04It's a time to create a new home.
00:16:08So if you step in on a new place.
00:16:10You know that the whole world is my future world.
00:16:14You don't want to know anything about it.
00:16:16You don't want to keep security.
00:16:18How is this possible?
00:16:19I think this is a different point of view.
00:16:21I think that we only focus on this.
00:16:26If you're my daughter,
00:16:28or if I'm young,
00:16:29if I'm thinking about it,
00:16:31then I think I'll not only see that my security has money,
00:16:35their home, their home.
00:16:38It's a person that I want to live for 24 hours.
00:16:41And the person that I wouldn't be aware of.
00:16:43And that I don't know.
00:16:45So I just can't live for money.
00:16:46How do I stay there?
00:16:52If we only rely on those things, if you don't have a match, then where do you stand, where do
00:17:01you stand, where do you stand, where do you stand, where do you stand, where do you stand.
00:17:09If you have a compatibility with that, you have two options, a very poor girl who has a compatibility, a
00:17:17very noble girl who has no compatibility with you.
00:17:20Then there are two types of girls, one thinks that my husband will go anywhere, I don't care, I want
00:17:26to go to spa, I want to go to salons, I want to wear jewelry, I want to wear jewelry.
00:17:31One is that girl thinks that I'm sitting on your shoulders, I want a good soul mate, I want a
00:17:39journey to give a pleasure, To respect me and walk along with me.
00:17:45And if there is something that happens when I am talking about money, then you have a little worked on
00:17:52yourself and that is the harmony.
00:17:54It doesn't happen, Nida.
00:17:55I think the most important thing is that you have a harmony with your husband.
00:18:02You are enjoying every minute.
00:18:05I know what life is when a person comes to the pool,
00:18:08and I have a vacation for your baby,
00:18:10and I have a vacation for you.
00:18:14And who has a vacation with you?
00:18:15She doesn't care.
00:18:17I think that you don't need to think about this.
00:18:19You have a balance.
00:18:19You have a balance.
00:18:20Here is a point.
00:18:21I will take all the points of view.
00:18:24Tell me your points of view.
00:18:26What do you think about this question?
00:18:28Mostly, it is said that every job is behind a woman.
00:18:31Absolutely.
00:18:33A woman is not alone.
00:18:35She is also a mother.
00:18:36She is also a daughter.
00:18:38In our culture, women are killed in the name of a woman.
00:18:43Have you ever heard that a woman killed a woman in the name of a woman?
00:18:47She is also a person who killed a woman.
00:18:48She is a woman who killed a woman.
00:18:48It is very rare.
00:18:50But it is a woman's love.
00:18:51It is a woman's love.
00:18:52When we are living here,
00:18:55We are living here,
00:18:55and also we are living here.
00:18:55But her character is a woman's love.
00:18:58If she is doing something with her husband,
00:19:00she thinks that she is a woman's love.
00:19:05She is a woman's love.
00:19:13It is a woman who will be ashamed.
00:19:17If we see it,
00:19:17the woman is like,
00:19:17And she will be open to a bank balance.
00:19:19When the woman is joined in a relationship,
00:19:24There is no difference between two families.
00:19:27I think both parents have a responsibility.
00:19:31Don't let the young people have money.
00:19:35You must explore this.
00:19:38And this is your right. What does a girl get? What does her family get?
00:19:45These are very compulsory things. But I think that we have only one tagline
00:19:50that a girl is doing a good job in a good international company or her own business.
00:19:54Even though she is here, she is not doing anything.
00:19:58But she has a lot of business. Well settled, she needs to be married.
00:20:02And she needs to be married. But if I look at my personal,
00:20:04I will say that if a girl is with her mother-in-law,
00:20:07she is loyal to her daughter-in-law relations,
00:20:09and she is a good girl,
00:20:11then she can go through a good life.
00:20:15If you are doing a marriage,
00:20:17how do you analyze that a girl is good?
00:20:21You have to explore this before marriage.
00:20:23You have to know something about what we are not doing.
00:20:26What are we seeing?
00:20:29We are seeing a relationship.
00:20:31There is a house of defenseman.
00:20:32We have these cars.
00:20:33We do not see that the girl is doing anything.
00:20:37The same as it is,
00:20:39if we are on the other side,
00:20:40we are exploring the girls.
00:20:44How are they?
00:20:45How are they?
00:20:45How are they?
00:20:46How are they?
00:20:46How are they?
00:20:47How are they?
00:20:47How are they?
00:20:50How are they?
00:20:58We will release an apology.
00:21:11But all of this..
00:21:16to be trained in a joint family system.
00:21:21You have to be different so that you don't have the pressure.
00:21:26However, the woman is also a woman.
00:21:29I think this is a very sacrifice.
00:21:33When a girl leaves everything and leaves a new place,
00:21:37I think that the girls,
00:21:39I think that a father,
00:21:42the most valuable thing,
00:21:45the pride of the daughter,
00:21:48should be put in the eye.
00:21:51But the thing here is that
00:21:54we are in the village.
00:21:56What is the girl's work?
00:21:58What is the girl's work?
00:22:00What is the girl's work?
00:22:01I think that if the girl is...
00:22:05If we are good,
00:22:07then why do you have the work?
00:22:09You have to take care of your family members.
00:22:12You have to take care of your family members.
00:22:14After a break,
00:22:16we will come back to you.
00:22:17It means that the girls know their worth.
00:22:19Exactly.
00:22:20So, basically,
00:22:21we have a discussion today
00:22:22about green flags and red flags.
00:22:25What is the girl's work?
00:22:29How much money is the girl?
00:22:31How much money is the girl?
00:22:33What is the girl's work?
00:22:35You have to take care of your children.
00:22:37Now what is the girl's work?
00:22:39What is the girl's work?
00:22:41That's why the girl's work is the girl's work.
00:22:45What is the girl's work?
00:22:45We have a bit more in this stage.
00:22:49What is the girl's work?
00:22:57We will now-
00:22:59What is the girl's work?
00:22:59Good morning Pakistan.
00:23:00So basically, we have to make a brand new brand.
00:23:06And that's why we called her because she can share many people's experiences.
00:23:12Aisha, with us. Assalamu alaikum.
00:23:15Aisha is professionally doing this.
00:23:18She has been doing a brand new brand.
00:23:21And she has been doing a brand new brand.
00:23:24She has been doing a brand new brand.
00:23:29Now, when we are working online, we are working very well with educated families.
00:23:36Because this work is so good.
00:23:38It's a better job.
00:23:39You have two people.
00:23:41And, mashallah, it's good.
00:23:43There are better proposals.
00:23:45However, some of our experiences also happen.
00:23:50The parents also share it.
00:23:52Like some people who are in middle class,
00:23:55Some of our parents are trying to find a good home.
00:24:02And we have to find a good home.
00:24:03We have to find a good home.
00:24:05We have to find a good home.
00:24:05We have to find a good home.
00:24:06We have to find a good home.
00:24:06As a parent, I think that it's my child.
00:24:09So I think it's good for them.
00:24:12And we show our clients' proposals.
00:24:15And we have to choose our clients' work.
00:24:17Must have done this.
00:24:17How we had previously done this.
00:24:23I have to find a good home.
00:24:27And I didn't know that I could do it.
00:24:28Really?
00:24:28A good home.
00:24:29I think our customers are very well.
00:24:33I haven't come to get them to get the home.
00:24:34And, oh my gosh.
00:24:35We will be making them a good home.
00:24:40I will be getting them.
00:24:40I will be making them a good home.
00:24:41And, at all, I came to the home.
00:24:44I was really making them an amazing job.
00:24:45When we say to our clients, you know, you're doing your work, you're giving your heart to your heart.
00:24:53So how did you do that?
00:24:55They said, no, it's a good family.
00:24:59They said, no, it's a good family. It's a good family. It's a good family.
00:25:03They didn't do anything without knowing.
00:25:07They got married soon.
00:25:10After marriage, that child faced many things.
00:25:19The child was running his father's business and went out of the city.
00:25:23The parents, basically, took her as a maid.
00:25:27So there was such a big house and a car that had their parents,
00:25:32who wanted a girl in their house.
00:25:33No, our child is good.
00:25:35When it's a big house, it's financially strong.
00:25:39They can hire a maid. Why do they make a maid?
00:25:42No, they didn't do anything.
00:25:43They didn't do anything.
00:25:45They didn't have a maid.
00:25:45No, no.
00:25:46They didn't do anything.
00:25:48They didn't do anything.
00:25:48In our home, it's so bad that our children are here.
00:25:51There are many children.
00:25:52In our kitchen, it's our maid.
00:25:54She doesn't have to enjoy a power, you know.
00:25:57With the maid, you know that you are paying services from the maid.
00:26:01There is a psychological aspect of it.
00:26:03It is a boy who is a girl.
00:26:05But it is the same life that we want.
00:26:09There is that power element.
00:26:11There is a lot of issues with that child.
00:26:14There is no need to attend the party at home.
00:26:19Why?
00:26:20No need to go.
00:26:21Because that husband doesn't have any understanding.
00:26:24They take children from the age of small.
00:26:27I am saying that their mother did not see anything.
00:26:29Later, they realized that we did what we did.
00:26:33We only saw a proper tip-top.
00:26:34It is a very old thing.
00:26:36That marriage is always going to be together.
00:26:39Exactly.
00:26:39They used to be very powerful.
00:26:41Second, you want to meet up.
00:26:47You don't need to see that we call them 4-6-8-10 people.
00:26:51We have their debt.
00:26:52I say that not.
00:26:53You meet up from them.
00:26:55You call their families.
00:26:57You call their parents.
00:26:58They call them.
00:26:59You call them.
00:26:59You will have a idea that their relationship is how they have.
00:27:02to see the children of the house.
00:27:03She has confidence in her.
00:27:06She has confidence in her.
00:27:08She has confidence in her.
00:27:09If you look at the girl,
00:27:11she will see the mother and the mother.
00:27:13She will see her.
00:27:14She will see her.
00:27:16But with the child,
00:27:18she has a lot of problems.
00:27:21She has taken the decision
00:27:24that she can't live.
00:27:25She has a lot of critical situation.
00:27:29She has a lot of reward.
00:27:31Tell me,
00:27:32in our society,
00:27:33there are problems
00:27:34for girls.
00:27:38They have a lot of problems for their marriage.
00:27:41We have a lot of trouble.
00:27:42We have a lot of trouble.
00:27:44In every house,
00:27:47there will be a child
00:27:48whose parents are frustrated.
00:27:50Their age is increasing.
00:27:53They are not desperate.
00:27:54A woman or a girl
00:27:56has a biological clock.
00:27:58She has a lot of trouble.
00:27:59She has to marry a certain age
00:28:00if she wants to make a family.
00:28:03If she is only a companion,
00:28:05after 50 years,
00:28:06she can do it.
00:28:07She has a lot of pressure.
00:28:09She is desperate.
00:28:12We have a lot of problems.
00:28:14We have two years of connection.
00:28:15We have no relationship.
00:28:16We have a relationship.
00:28:16Now, we have a better relationship.
00:28:18We are done.
00:28:20It's different.
00:28:26We have to do this.
00:28:28We are done.
00:28:29We are done.
00:28:31We need to do this.
00:28:36It's different.
00:28:38This is the pressure from us.
00:28:39it's different.
00:28:40That is how it is made to be married and to be married in this age.
00:28:45If you teach your daughter that marriage is not the end of the world.
00:28:50This is not your ultimate goal.
00:28:52You don't have to go through your life in a good way.
00:28:56And be independent.
00:28:57You don't have to leave a girl who wants to do what she wants.
00:29:04But you have to teach her to be good and good.
00:29:07You don't have to trust your daughter.
00:29:10If her parents trust her.
00:29:12She has a good training.
00:29:13She is standing on her legs.
00:29:15If she doesn't get married.
00:29:18She can go through her life.
00:29:20She can go through her life.
00:29:21She can go through her life in her home.
00:29:25A generation, a woman.
00:29:30She takes care of her.
00:29:32She takes care of her liabilities and responsibilities.
00:29:34I think that she is more than a child.
00:29:36Because a girl is married at a home.
00:29:39She has their parents.
00:29:41She has their children.
00:29:42And she has their parents.
00:29:44I think that there is a lot of pressure in our society.
00:29:48She is living in a society.
00:29:49That is why I can't do such a thing.
00:29:52I know that I am.
00:29:53I will tell you what my husband is doing.
00:29:56She doesn't know what she's doing in her family.
00:29:59I do know that she doesn't believe in my family.
00:30:02She has a bad attitude.
00:30:02So I have to go to her and watch her.
00:30:05That is it.
00:30:06A woman doesn't have a lot of things.
00:30:09Sometimes, if a girl doesn't feel good,
00:30:12and she has valid points,
00:30:15I've seen in families, parents say,
00:30:18you're right.
00:30:19But the fact is that,
00:30:20how many relationships have not happened.
00:30:22They give examples of age.
00:30:25After that,
00:30:26after that age,
00:30:28there are constantly things that are fear-based.
00:30:31The girl is scared.
00:30:32Then the girl says,
00:30:33you don't have to worry about our love.
00:30:36We also want to see happiness.
00:30:37Then she comes to emotional things,
00:30:40and she says,
00:30:42yes,
00:30:43yes.
00:30:44I would like to say one thing.
00:30:48Sometimes,
00:30:48the girl is a good relationship.
00:30:50It's a good relationship.
00:30:52It's a good relationship.
00:30:54Sometimes,
00:30:55the parents do it.
00:30:57The relationship is very good.
00:30:59It doesn't need to go.
00:31:00She's a good relationship.
00:31:01you're not looking for a job.
00:31:02She's like,
00:31:02she's like,
00:31:04she's like,
00:31:06she's like,
00:31:07she's like,
00:31:07she's like,
00:31:14she's like,
00:31:19she's like,
00:31:20the story of a girl is a very mature.
00:31:22So that is a very...
00:31:23That is a very...
00:31:23That is a very...
00:31:24I mean, you know,
00:31:25this is a very...
00:31:27if you've seen it,
00:31:29we have so much
00:31:31at this time,
00:31:32we have so much
00:31:32in this moment,
00:31:33that we have emphasized
00:31:35that the girl needs to settle
00:31:37the girl is written, she is standing on her shoulders.
00:31:40In that sense, someone has fantasized her relationship.
00:31:46Nida, she is not able to get married.
00:31:48She has been married so much.
00:31:50No, she has been married.
00:31:51Besides, the girl is not full of girls.
00:31:56She has a criteria.
00:31:59She is not full of girls.
00:32:02So many girls are late婚,
00:32:04and many girls are late婚,
00:32:08and then they have problems with children.
00:32:10The first criteria was not.
00:32:12It was just a criteria that a girl is a family.
00:32:16When you get married at such age,
00:32:18this has been glorified.
00:32:21It is a very important thing
00:32:22that you should get married in 20-21 years.
00:32:25Now, the shift we are seeing,
00:32:28how did the shift come?
00:32:30They have seen their great generations.
00:32:35And if they have been married for 20-21 years,
00:32:39their life has just progressed.
00:32:42They have lived experiences.
00:32:44Yes, what happened is the last time.
00:32:44They have seen that have come from finances.
00:32:47They have also asked their children,
00:32:49and you have to see this thing.
00:32:52They've seen these painful desires.
00:32:54They've seen their great female hard lives,
00:32:57that is the foundation of their想法.
00:32:59It's not like a family.
00:33:00But it's not like a family.
00:33:00We have to be able to see that.
00:33:03That's something I've always been able.
00:33:04That's how I've had to face my mother.
00:33:06What happened?
00:33:08We had to go to my mother and me.
00:33:10She's a kid.
00:33:12She's a kid.
00:33:13She's a kid.
00:33:14She's a kid, she's a kid.
00:33:16She's a kid, and she's a kid.
00:33:27She's a kid.
00:33:27So that's what she's a kid.
00:33:29it's so much
00:33:29where did you get the work
00:33:32because they saw that
00:33:33there is no reason
00:33:35is it
00:33:35this is a story
00:33:37which can create
00:33:37this story
00:33:37which to know
00:33:38her story
00:33:40didn't really work
00:33:41it is
00:33:41and because
00:33:42they lost
00:33:42the time
00:33:42tolah unlike
00:33:43the abd
00:33:50his father
00:33:56now
00:33:56If you believe in that, when I was married in my first age,
00:34:02it was like that when I got a lot of exposure to my children,
00:34:06I said that my mother never did a hotel, my mother never did a hotel.
00:34:10So we all experience this.
00:34:12But it's not only the problem of girls, it's also the problem of girls.
00:34:17So then, it's very difficult to take responsibility for you.
00:34:22You don't go into that element of marriage.
00:34:24They say, why don't I stop?
00:34:26My father saw her phone and said, where are you?
00:34:30Then I will stop.
00:34:32So I enjoy my life.
00:34:34One thing is that, you don't have to know more about it.
00:34:37You don't have to balance it.
00:34:40The problem is there.
00:34:42You don't have to know more about it.
00:34:44To balance it, it's a real challenge.
00:34:47The information you have, the experiences you have,
00:34:50Now, how do you balance your life and your life according to your balance?
00:34:56This is the real challenge.
00:34:57To learn a different session,
00:34:59You don't have to know more about it.
00:35:01You don't have to know more about it.
00:35:04You don't have to know more about it.
00:35:06You don't have to know more about it.
00:35:16When you talk about it in your home,
00:35:21You don't have to know more about it.
00:35:26You don't have to know more about it at the beginning of your house.
00:35:32This is the real challenge.
00:35:34This is the real challenge,
00:35:35It happens.
00:35:38However,
00:35:38My mother doesn't have to know more about it.
00:35:40So it doesn't have to know more about it.
00:35:42and the basic step is you forget it.
00:35:45There is foundation.
00:35:46But this is how you have to get the girl.
00:35:48The generation rise is also upgraded.
00:35:51We have not done many things.
00:35:53And we are doing it.
00:35:55We have not done many things.
00:35:57Or we have not done any of it.
00:36:00We have listened to our students.
00:36:02We have studied street lights.
00:36:04That's not the case.
00:36:06The girl is independent.
00:36:08It doesn't mean that she has no credit for her parents.
00:36:11The moment in our society,
00:36:14when a girl or a woman is emotionally or financially independent,
00:36:17it becomes questionable.
00:36:19Why?
00:36:20Independent, if she is happening
00:36:22and she is passing away from her mother,
00:36:26she doesn't mean that she doesn't give her mother.
00:36:28She doesn't give her credit.
00:36:30It simply means that she is a different person.
00:36:33Coming back to the topic,
00:36:34I am coming to you.
00:36:36I want to ask you.
00:36:37You have told me
00:36:38that the girls are seeing the girls' house.
00:36:43Yes.
00:36:43Now, tell me about the girls' house.
00:36:46What is generally happening?
00:36:48Yes.
00:36:49I will tell you about the girls' house.
00:36:50Like the girls are coming to us.
00:36:54The short cut is that
00:36:55if they belong to the middle class,
00:36:56or if they have a professional degree,
00:36:58they also have to leave us.
00:36:59They want us to show the proposal abroad.
00:37:03This is a short cut is to go abroad.
00:37:05Because you know how many problems we face.
00:37:09One time ago,
00:37:10the girls' relatives came abroad,
00:37:12the whole family grew up.
00:37:15And now,
00:37:15the girls want to show the purpose.
00:37:19I think the girls have to leave us.
00:37:21Yes.
00:37:21Yes.
00:37:21So,
00:37:22there was a proposal.
00:37:24Yes.
00:37:25A girl was a engineer.
00:37:27Yes.
00:37:28She went there,
00:37:28and there was a girl in the family.
00:37:30She had a good meet-up with her.
00:37:35She got married.
00:37:37Yes.
00:37:37She went there.
00:37:37She spent a wedding with her.
00:37:37So, the girl was running.
00:37:39She sponsored her.
00:37:40She gave a girl.
00:37:41After she called her,
00:37:42she had to face the things there.
00:37:44The girl?
00:37:45Yes.
00:37:46I think that he was a servant.
00:37:48Yes.
00:37:50Everyone is doing it.
00:37:51That's what he's doing.
00:37:52That he's living here with his lifestyle.
00:37:55He's living here with his children.
00:37:59I'm sorry I'll interrupt you.
00:38:01You're saying that he's a servant.
00:38:02Our husband is a servant.
00:38:06He's taking his life.
00:38:08He's trying to work.
00:38:10What do we have?
00:38:11If a woman works, then it's okay.
00:38:13If a woman works, then he's a servant.
00:38:15Why he's a servant?
00:38:16Because we have such a smile.
00:38:18I have a smile.
00:38:20My son lives in Canada.
00:38:23He's also his servant.
00:38:24They keep their mindsets.
00:38:26Why do we have to do this?
00:38:28Because all the work is on the side of the girl.
00:38:34Look, it's a nice thing.
00:38:36All the girls who are listening,
00:38:38who have a shock to go abroad,
00:38:39when they reach out,
00:38:41they don't have a job.
00:38:43They don't have a job.
00:38:43They don't have a job.
00:38:44They don't have a job.
00:38:45And if the baby has such a life,
00:38:47that Mia and the baby have to work together,
00:38:49which are the expenses,
00:38:50they're very large.
00:38:51It's not possible that one can earn
00:38:53and the other can eat.
00:38:54So if the girl has a job,
00:38:56she doesn't have a job,
00:38:58she doesn't have a job,
00:38:58and the baby is going on a job,
00:38:59then Mia will manage the job.
00:39:01She will manage the job.
00:39:02She will go here and say,
00:39:04I've been a doctor,
00:39:06I've been a servant.
00:39:07She will think of it.
00:39:09It's the same thing.
00:39:10It's the same thing.
00:39:11It's the same thing.
00:39:11You can tell.
00:39:12She will keep her.
00:39:14She said,
00:39:16I'm going,
00:39:17and it will be a good life.
00:39:18I will set a dollar.
00:39:20I will give her respect.
00:39:22It's the same thing.
00:39:23But she has a job there.
00:39:25She has a job there.
00:39:25And the parties,
00:39:26the friends who are coming,
00:39:28they do a job.
00:39:29But with that,
00:39:31it was a mistake.
00:39:32She has a job there.
00:39:33And the whole night
00:39:35it will be set.
00:39:37It will be set.
00:39:38It will be set.
00:39:38So this life,
00:39:39they don't have to understand.
00:39:41Why did they get a job?
00:39:43She didn't get a job.
00:39:44She didn't do it.
00:39:44She didn't do it.
00:39:45No, but she didn't do it.
00:39:46Very good question.
00:39:47She was a job there.
00:39:48She was a job there.
00:39:49She was a job there.
00:39:51She was a job there.
00:39:54She was a job there.
00:39:55I'm happy not to be happy.
00:39:56And she had a job there.
00:39:58And what about her?
00:40:00They is there.
00:40:00They kept her own.
00:40:01She has a job there?
00:40:03She had a job there.
00:40:05He was on her job.
00:40:07No,
00:40:07he was on her job.
00:40:08She said that they have papers
00:40:09and they have passed.
00:40:10So that was locked.
00:40:12I wouldn't understand.
00:40:13But every time,
00:40:15it doesn't happen like that.
00:40:16But there are issues.
00:40:17None of them are involved.
00:40:18He is in contact.
00:40:18Is he in contact?
00:40:19Is he in contact?
00:40:19He is in contact with his wife.
00:40:21He is with his wife's wife.
00:40:22Okay.
00:40:22Yes, yes, yes.
00:40:24Look, it's still a little bit.
00:40:27It's a little bit.
00:40:31We're taking a break.
00:40:32I want to have some fun with break.
00:40:33I'm taking a break.
00:40:35Good morning, Pakistan.
00:40:42Welcome back. Good morning, Pakistan.
00:40:44When you go to Rishita, first of all, we have tea.
00:40:47Let's talk about tea.
00:40:48Let's talk about green tea.
00:40:50Because green tea has a benefit.
00:40:51Especially, Tepal green tea.
00:40:53Which has two new flavors.
00:40:55Orange and pineapple are limited edition.
00:40:58So, try it early.
00:41:01And what do you do for green tea?
00:41:03Green tea boosts your metabolism.
00:41:07You keep your weight.
00:41:09You keep your control.
00:41:11You keep your balance.
00:41:12You keep your balance.
00:41:15Basically,
00:41:16anti-oxidants,
00:41:18which are available in your body.
00:41:22It's a little delay.
00:41:24It's a little delay.
00:41:26It's a little delay.
00:41:26It's a little delay.
00:41:27So, green tea is a great advantage.
00:41:32When you have green tea,
00:41:32why don't we use green tea?
00:41:39Are you more human?
00:41:42Are you paying attention to our children?
00:41:44Are you paying attention to our children?
00:41:59That's the one thing.
00:42:03Yes.
00:42:04So, the same thing is it.
00:42:04So you can see what my child's need is at least the need is complete there.
00:42:09Then there is compatibility, home and home.
00:42:12There are so many things in Nida.
00:42:14Only one thing we can make a formula.
00:42:17If we do this then the marriage will be successful.
00:42:20And I say that everything we have seen, everything we have done is gambling.
00:42:24Do you know that when we are doing shows,
00:42:28we have done all the welfare trust of children in our show.
00:42:31There are very good girls in the shelter.
00:42:37They are taking care of their troubles in the shelter.
00:42:41So when we have done weddings, there are many relationships.
00:42:46Which people are going to do here?
00:42:48Good families.
00:42:51They are not so well-established girls.
00:42:53They are not getting married.
00:42:56They are not getting married.
00:43:01They are not getting married.
00:43:02They are living in the relationship.
00:43:04They are 3 or 4 children who have married.
00:43:07So they are going to go to shelter home for children.
00:43:12Because there is a safety.
00:43:14A shelter.
00:43:16There is no demand for those girls.
00:43:18Yes.
00:43:18There is no demand for those girls.
00:43:20There is no demand for those girls.
00:43:30If you don't need a family or birthday to you,
00:43:36no parents, if you don't have homes to you,
00:43:37it would never be a sort of married.
00:43:39This is positive change.
00:43:40Yes.
00:43:41So that they need to pay attention for those girls.
00:43:45It is an excellent trend.
00:43:47An excellent trend as well.
00:43:48What would you tell us about.
00:43:50Mehera?
00:43:51I am talking about this topic and I want to move on to that topic.
00:43:58Recently, I was done a proposal a few times before.
00:44:04And you are doing a match?
00:44:07Yes, Alhamdulillah.
00:44:09As a match, I am going to take my field.
00:44:11And here we have every way of matches.
00:44:13And the demands are made, which is our topic today.
00:44:20It is from both sides.
00:44:21From the girls and the girls.
00:44:23And all these things depend on the family.
00:44:27The girl who is building in her family knows that this place is our home.
00:44:34The mentality of her is also the same.
00:44:37And then she comes to her personality.
00:44:40You can tell what you've seen generally.
00:44:42I have seen the story from the party.
00:44:43I have seen the proposal recently.
00:44:45I had a couple of times done some time.
00:44:47I have to do my own job.
00:44:49And I also have to do my own job.
00:44:51And the reason is that the girl's demands,
00:44:53unless the girl's should afford to be able to do this,
00:44:56there was very good posts.
00:44:58High qualified family status is very high.
00:45:02And the girl's rights was a great thing.
00:45:03But she was a girl's responsibility.
00:45:06What did she tell me?
00:45:07I will tell you, the girl's love, she said what she needs, what she needs at that time.
00:45:13What she needs?
00:45:15There is no demand for anyone.
00:45:18At the beginning of the time, there is no demand.
00:45:20When the girl starts talking about it, there are more demands that come in front of her.
00:45:25Like taking a suit, she won't wear 15,000,000,000.
00:45:31The girl has not compromised.
00:45:32I can afford it, I can do it for my wife.
00:45:36But when she did a last demand, which was two weeks ago,
00:45:41she asked me to give me a flat, which will be my name.
00:45:45Okay.
00:45:46Because the girl came from the moment,
00:45:50joined the family system.
00:45:52She didn't see the things.
00:45:53She said, I'm going to be different.
00:45:55You're going to be different.
00:45:56You're going to be different.
00:45:59She didn't compromise there.
00:46:01When she called me,
00:46:03and told me the whole history.
00:46:06These are the things.
00:46:08Now, you tell me.
00:46:09I said,
00:46:10because I know the child's family.
00:46:12It's very good.
00:46:13I said,
00:46:14you end up here.
00:46:14You're not going to be different.
00:46:15I said,
00:46:16you're not going to be different.
00:46:16And,
00:46:17you'll get a lot of demands.
00:46:19But if the girl comes into your family,
00:46:22then your life will be improved.
00:46:24Because we are going to take the family forward.
00:46:26We don't see everything in the family.
00:46:29And this is all the life.
00:46:31So,
00:46:32Alhamdulillah,
00:46:34we have done all the dates.
00:46:34Then,
00:46:34we have done a proposal there.
00:46:38And,
00:46:39mashallah,
00:46:39the child is sitting outside.
00:46:42And,
00:46:42that girl,
00:46:43no demand,
00:46:44because she's not a girl.
00:46:46She's not a girl.
00:46:47High qualified.
00:46:48She's a very good family.
00:46:49She's a girl.
00:46:51Now,
00:46:51I'm going to tell you one thing.
00:46:54What do you set the criteria for the girl?
00:46:58If they want to see what they want,
00:47:01then they won't be a girl.
00:47:03What is your mind?
00:47:05In my mind,
00:47:06the thing is that,
00:47:08the criteria of our family,
00:47:13is the money.
00:47:14I'm asking you,
00:47:16what tick marks should be for the girl?
00:47:21In her family,
00:47:21it's not a girl,
00:47:22it's not a girl.
00:47:23But,
00:47:23in her family,
00:47:25everyone wants it.
00:47:28Okay.
00:47:28If you are a daughter,
00:47:30if you are a daughter,
00:47:31I'm going to see her daughter.
00:47:33I see her daughter.
00:47:34I'll just see her daughter.
00:47:35High qualified,
00:47:36okay.
00:47:37High qualified.
00:47:38Family status should be good.
00:47:40And,
00:47:40people should be poor.
00:47:42And,
00:47:43if she is a child,
00:47:45she can do something for her family.
00:47:47If she is a child,
00:47:48then,
00:47:48can do a lot of things. But if the money...
00:47:51How will arrange marriage for me?
00:47:53How will arrange marriage for me?
00:47:54Mehinti is the same way.
00:47:56First of all,
00:47:57if I talk about my field,
00:48:00we say that you will do it yourself.
00:48:03You will do it yourself.
00:48:04You will do it yourself.
00:48:07But those families
00:48:08who we know,
00:48:10we guarantee that
00:48:12they are the same families.
00:48:14But where we don't know,
00:48:15so first of all,
00:48:17we take responsibility,
00:48:19we take guarantee,
00:48:21this is a human trait,
00:48:22no one will satisfy,
00:48:23until the family member will go to the investigation.
00:48:26This is your question, investigation.
00:48:29I don't think you should mind it.
00:48:31It is very important
00:48:34that you have to give your daughter,
00:48:37you are giving your daughter,
00:48:38you are not seeing anything,
00:48:40but if the girl is a man,
00:48:41the character of the girl,
00:48:43so now,
00:48:43The place of the girl is the same.
00:48:44So until you end up like an office,
00:48:45the person who is the person,
00:48:59or the person of the girl,
00:49:01he would know nobody.
00:49:04people go to different places, they are living in the old place, or they have a job in the office.
00:49:14This was the first time.
00:49:16This was the first time.
00:49:18I've seen every husband or brother.
00:49:20I've seen it in the old days.
00:49:22At that time, the criteria of investigation was something else.
00:49:25Today on the internet, on the internet, on the internet, on the social media.
00:49:33What is it? How is it? How do we know?
00:49:36People think, how do we know in our range of marriage?
00:49:39There are many groups that can do.
00:49:44You need to do basic things.
00:49:45Because your husband or daughter has a problem.
00:49:48This is the responsibility of both children.
00:49:51You should also know how the family is.
00:49:54Because there is a whole life.
00:49:56Two families and two families.
00:49:58I don't know.
00:50:00It's a guilt or shame.
00:50:01People have taken it personally.
00:50:03We feel like we feel like we feel good.
00:50:06We feel good.
00:50:08We feel good.
00:50:09We feel good.
00:50:11We feel good.
00:50:11We feel good.
00:50:12We feel good.
00:50:12But internally, your family system is good.
00:50:14We feel good.
00:50:15So, I've seen that many times,
00:50:18I've seen this happen.
00:50:18I've seen this happen.
00:50:20They will be bad.
00:50:21They will be bad.
00:50:21They will be bad.
00:50:23They will be bad.
00:50:23So, I always tell people,
00:50:24I try to talk about this.
00:50:27You know?
00:50:36You know,
00:50:37You know,
00:50:38You know,
00:50:41You know,
00:50:42But the main thing is that you have lost things.
00:50:46You have lost all your lives.
00:50:48The drama is this.
00:50:50That's not what you have to say in the story.
00:50:52You know that you are good.
00:50:55But if you are giving a girl to your daughter, you don't know anything about her personality.
00:51:02So how do you see her close eyes and give her a kiss?
00:51:08And her whole life is wrong.
00:51:11On this topic, I also clicked on the name of Dostak.
00:51:14That was the same.
00:51:15Exactly.
00:51:15My question is, do we need to force our daughters to our daughters?
00:51:21Or do we need to keep our daughters in a joint family system?
00:51:28Or should we be able to keep our daughters in a joint family system?
00:51:29This is my question.
00:51:31Depends on it.
00:51:32You will tell us.
00:51:33Some people do.
00:51:35Yes, absolutely.
00:51:35Some mother-in-law thought that our daughter is not in a joint family system.
00:51:40The demands are coming.
00:51:41Yes, absolutely.
00:51:42It's a major question.
00:51:44Yes, the family is small.
00:51:45They are only 9 or 10 daughters.
00:51:47But the family is small.
00:51:49Okay, let's go.
00:51:49That's okay.
00:51:50That's okay.
00:51:51But the other thing is that they don't compromise.
00:51:55There are girls too.
00:51:56And in many places, there are girls too.
00:51:57They don't compromise.
00:51:58But look, this is the thing that we don't have to live in a joint family system and live in
00:52:05a joint family system.
00:52:05These are all our demands.
00:52:07And if they are telling them, they are fair to live in a joint family system.
00:52:13So, there are people to live in a joint family system.
00:52:23Yes, they have to live in a joint family system.
00:52:24There are many families whose number of families have been 15 children.
00:52:32They are willing to live in a joint family system.
00:52:34Oh, I see.
00:52:39And there are many families of their families who are few.
00:52:42They want to go in a meal system.
00:52:43There is a lot of family here.
00:52:45Yes, my mother thinks about it before her son's marriage.
00:52:49I need a house for her son,
00:52:52where the girl is more influenced in her family.
00:52:55Because you are married and you are married.
00:52:58She will be alone. How will she get her family?
00:53:00We don't know when we are still alive.
00:53:02So she doesn't need such a family,
00:53:04where she has a whole house.
00:53:06Otherwise, the mother's mother doesn't think about it.
00:53:09Look at how unconventional it was.
00:53:12But at the same time, it was so positive.
00:53:14That my son has a proper family system.
00:53:17Because when we talk about family,
00:53:19it is a whole support system.
00:53:21In every situation.
00:53:23So it is a very good thing that you should.
00:53:25But again,
00:53:26that everyone has its own priorities.
00:53:29And it is good to tell you with honesty.
00:53:32Honesty is a must for you.
00:53:34If you don't want to say,
00:53:35that my son is a whole family.
00:53:38My son is a whole family.
00:53:41I don't want to think of it.
00:53:42If you don't want to think of it,
00:53:42it leads us to theס now.
00:53:45If you will move away and go there,
00:53:45send you a message to your son,
00:53:46get to the request to your daughter.
00:53:47Just of these things.
00:53:48Don't do this immediately.
00:53:49Just leave your life on it.
00:53:51And you do it again.
00:53:59Using your husband.
00:54:00If you don't want to take a job.
00:54:04You don't want to take a job.
00:54:07It's not the same.
00:54:08You have to take a job.
00:54:09You are going to take a job and perform through it.
00:54:10They are trying to get married and say no, family is very good and it can be that the girl
00:54:15likes their liking and likes someone else.
00:54:18Another thing is that a lot of girls say that I don't want a working lady.
00:54:25Or they say that I want a working lady.
00:54:27Today the girls are sorted.
00:54:31If they arrange marriage, they are sorted.
00:54:35They are sorted.
00:54:37That their life is better.
00:54:39You are taking a girl and saying that I want a housewife.
00:54:45And when the girl goes to her house, she knows that her daughter's relatives are doing job.
00:54:50The child is doing job in her marriage.
00:54:53She is doing job in her family.
00:54:56But if you have the mentality that if my daughter comes, she doesn't do job.
00:55:00She will have a housewife.
00:55:03And if your daughter is doing job here, there is a lot of clash in the families.
00:55:09I can't do that.
00:55:11It's a matter of clash.
00:55:11But as a girl's dreams, she also dreams.
00:55:16And if she is saying this first thing, she is telling the other girl.
00:55:19She is telling the truth.
00:55:21It's clear.
00:55:21They are hiding both.
00:55:23It's fair.
00:55:24If she takes a working lady and doesn't tell anything before,
00:55:29and after marriage she does pressure that she doesn't.
00:55:31You will be living in the house.
00:55:33You will be living in four days.
00:55:34Then it is a matter of fact.
00:55:35You should know what your objective in life is.
00:55:38Exactly.
00:55:38If you want to find a partner, you can find your home.
00:55:42We don't even think that it should be West Open.
00:55:45We should do that.
00:55:47We will not do that.
00:55:47And if you choose a partner, you will know something.
00:55:50You will know something.
00:55:51I focus on love.
00:55:53I focus on compatibility.
00:55:55I focus on money.
00:55:56I write a book.
00:55:57I should have a book.
00:55:57I should have a good humor.
00:55:59You will know something.
00:56:00You will know something.
00:56:01You will find something.
00:56:03You will find something.
00:56:04You will find something.
00:56:04You will stick on it.
00:56:05The basic things are compulsory.
00:56:09Some people will be affected by this.
00:56:11It is a good gossip.
00:56:14This girl has a very impressive personality.
00:56:17After that, you will explore and know that
00:56:21you will find a problem.
00:56:23It is not adjustable.
00:56:25Then there are more sacrifices and compromises.
00:56:27It is better to take a decision.
00:56:30I think this is very low in our society.
00:56:33The person who is a child or a child,
00:56:35who is a child,
00:56:36who is a child,
00:56:36who is a child,
00:56:37who is a child,
00:56:39who is a child.
00:56:39Not only our society,
00:56:41nor our people,
00:56:42who are working on it.
00:56:44When they go to another person,
00:56:46they need a single.
00:56:48Yes.
00:56:49We will have a short break.
00:56:50We will see you later.
00:56:51Good morning, Pakistan.
00:56:57Welcome.
00:56:58Welcome back.
00:56:59Good morning, Pakistan.
00:57:00So, a topic.
00:57:02The two sides,
00:57:03the girl and the girl,
00:57:06we are basically covering
00:57:09where the girl comes from.
00:57:13What is the line?
00:57:15Needs,
00:57:17Necessities,
00:57:18and the girl.
00:57:19The girl is a child.
00:57:19So, we are discovering that.
00:57:22You are sitting with me.
00:57:24Farija Tariq.
00:57:26Farija Tariq.
00:57:27Farija Tariq.
00:57:27Farija Tariq.
00:57:27My name is Farija.
00:57:28I am a matchmaker.
00:57:29Okay.
00:57:30But now,
00:57:31I have a story that I have,
00:57:32my family.
00:57:34Ah.
00:57:35My cousin,
00:57:38who is middle class,
00:57:41So,
00:57:41I have not yet to be at home.
00:57:44Mmm.
00:57:44So,
00:57:44her requirement was to try to be a woman
00:57:50that me,
00:57:50that I should go to such a girl
00:57:52who can get her at home,
00:57:53I mean,
00:57:54You need to do a job?
00:57:56No,
00:57:57I can go to house.
00:57:58Give her home?
00:57:59Yes.
00:58:00And I see,
00:58:01basically,
00:58:02the girl wants to go to the house.
00:58:04No,
00:58:04the girl needs to go to house,
00:58:07she wants to go to house.
00:58:08She needs to have a house.
00:58:10They were old or old or old.
00:58:17So I will shift them?
00:58:20Yes, that was the same.
00:58:22So I have told them that it doesn't happen like this.
00:58:27Any girl will not offer you first.
00:58:30Then let me know about the understanding of your own,
00:58:34that's how you will do it.
00:58:38But it doesn't happen like this.
00:58:39I don't even know what to do.
00:58:41After that, this is my own Brad Pitt.
00:58:45What do you know Brad Pitt?
00:58:46You never know.
00:58:47No, he would think that I can't find this woman at home.
00:58:50After that, he went and hired another matchmaker.
00:58:56And they had their relationship with their matchmaker.
00:59:00She got her home.
00:59:02Yes, she got her home.
00:59:03She got her home, she got her home.
00:59:06But I had another matchmaker.
00:59:10They told me that this is your relationship.
00:59:13That's why I'm telling you that this woman is mentally disabled.
00:59:20That's why she was very loving and beautiful.
00:59:24If she gives something to a person, then she gives something.
00:59:29The child was very beautiful and very loving.
00:59:32But it was the only issue that she was mentally disabled.
00:59:38And the family had that thing.
00:59:40And when she saw that the girl is white.
00:59:44And if she wanted a flat, then she got married.
00:59:47The first day of marriage,
00:59:50I told her,
00:59:51I told her,
00:59:55that this is the issue.
00:59:56That you don't do this.
00:59:57But she said,
00:59:58that I'm asleep.
01:00:00That the relationship is running out of my hand.
01:00:02That someone hasn't been doing it.
01:00:04That's why I'm talking about this.
01:00:05But I didn't have anything.
01:00:07I wanted to tell them that you don't do this.
01:00:11But in the first day of marriage,
01:00:13it was the truth that the girl
01:00:15came out of the night.
01:00:16She left her back home.
01:00:21She didn't even know anything.
01:00:22She didn't know where I'm going.
01:00:24What is it?
01:00:25She had a habit to go to sleep.
01:00:27She had a habit.
01:00:28She had a type of feet.
01:00:30She had a type of mental disorder.
01:00:32Everything was her.
01:00:33She came in front of the first day.
01:00:34She came in front of me.
01:00:36Then they called me.
01:00:38She told me.
01:00:39I'm very old.
01:00:41I said,
01:00:41I can't do anything.
01:00:43I think that the mother-in-law's mother-in-law
01:00:47will be well-off.
01:00:48She will have an apartment.
01:00:50She doesn't think that
01:00:51she is sending her husband's house.
01:00:56She doesn't even know.
01:00:58She has a lack.
01:01:00The mother-in-law's mother-in-law
01:01:04can't do anything.
01:01:05What can she do?
01:01:07I don't know.
01:01:08The children who are thalassemia minor
01:01:13don't tell anyone
01:01:14that our child is thalassemia minor.
01:01:17If you have a child,
01:01:19they will be born with major.
01:01:21They can't survive.
01:01:23When you take so much risk,
01:01:25it will get married.
01:01:27It will go out here.
01:01:29It will go out here.
01:01:30These are the things
01:01:32that you have to open and discuss.
01:01:34If you have a child's problem.
01:01:36What happened?
01:01:37Are they married or not?
01:01:38No.
01:01:39It was the only thing.
01:01:40I said,
01:01:40I had tried to understand you
01:01:43and tell you the things I knew before.
01:01:45But you didn't give value to me.
01:01:48I told you.
01:01:49I told you.
01:01:52I told you.
01:02:00I told you.
01:02:05I told you.
01:02:08I told you.
01:02:09I told you.
01:02:32who are very good, they reject them and they give a relationship to a son.
01:02:36And later they get to know that they are like lalachy,
01:02:39they have a whole gang, the fraud,
01:02:44they have married their children.
01:02:46So like lalach doesn't want anyone to do,
01:02:49whether they are a girl or a girl.
01:02:52If your heart is lalachy and you don't say that I am lalachy,
01:02:56then you are also doing a fraud.
01:02:57My relative is,
01:02:59my daughter is Emery.
01:03:02She was married many years ago.
01:03:05When the child was born in their home,
01:03:06she was mentally disordered.
01:03:09Yes, she was disabled.
01:03:10Yes, she was disabled.
01:03:11Mia gave her a divorce on this issue.
01:03:14She was disabled and I am not.
01:03:17So, I tell her that
01:03:20she was married for 28 years.
01:03:21She got married for 28 years.
01:03:24She got married for 28 years.
01:03:27She got married for 28 years.
01:03:42She got married for 28 years.
01:03:44So, what happened to her?
01:03:46She got married for 28 years.
01:03:55And I've seen such parents who are special, autistic or any problem that they put on their head.
01:04:03More care.
01:04:04More care.
01:04:05More care.
01:04:07I've seen many other children.
01:04:09I've also got many cases.
01:04:10Those who are all fit children, they ignore them.
01:04:15Because all parents' attention to their special children.
01:04:18We've joined a lot of support groups.
01:04:21They also try to gain a lot of knowledge.
01:04:22They try to gain a lot of knowledge.
01:04:24They don't depend on the doctors.
01:04:26They say that we know that the problem of the child and disability,
01:04:30we work on it.
01:04:31We can do more and more parenting.
01:04:34There are also parents who are good for their children.
01:04:41I've told them that they give a divorce.
01:04:43However, they didn't have a concern.
01:04:45They said, this is a disabled child.
01:04:47I don't want to do it.
01:04:48So, it's a legal form.
01:04:49Now, you see the mindset here, that love is conditional.
01:04:54If it's true, then it will get a love.
01:04:57Yes.
01:04:57This is also a legal form.
01:04:58Now, we have our society here too.
01:04:59The children, the children have a child.
01:05:02If they have a child, the other, the other, the other, the other, the other,
01:05:03the other, the other, the other, the other, the other children have divorced.
01:05:13Coming back to the topic, you told me generally what criteria are for people?
01:05:18Do you have any experience?
01:05:20How do you want a girl?
01:05:22Do you want a girl to be very beautiful?
01:05:25Dubli, patli, gori, chitti, long hair?
01:05:28Or do you want a girl to change?
01:05:33Do you want a girl to change?
01:05:35No, if you look at the parents' according,
01:05:38the mother is the only condition of her mother,
01:05:40the only mental condition.
01:05:43The girl is the only thing that needs to be a girl.
01:05:48Long hair, dubli, patli.
01:05:50Later, she is telling us that the girl is not giving us the morning,
01:05:55she is not thinking about the house,
01:05:57she is not asking her, she is not asking her,
01:05:59she is not asking.
01:05:59but they are talking about the things.
01:06:01The first criteria is that the girl is going to be good looking.
01:06:08In many families who are well educated,
01:06:11they want to have a good study for their home,
01:06:16and they will take care of their home,
01:06:27So, there are a lot of people like this, but the way people are aware of it, like you said
01:06:33Gen Z is growing older,
01:06:36so they are valuing this thing, that we need to be aware of it.
01:06:43My mother said that she is 18-20 years old, her son is 38 years old,
01:06:48but from 18-20 years to 22 years old, she has no criteria.
01:06:54She has no problem with children.
01:06:58So, what do you demand the girls?
01:07:01The girls demand the same thing, that they are reading, they are from the family,
01:07:07and this is the most important thing.
01:07:09Do they participate in their relationship, or do they do the same thing?
01:07:12Yes, they do the same thing.
01:07:15Ah, great.
01:07:15Today, as I have a proposal, the girl's parents were young,
01:07:25but she was speaking in their homes.
01:07:28So, the girl said that they are good, they are written,
01:07:33they are good, I have no problem with that.
01:07:37The parents said that this will be a little difference between the culture,
01:07:40but it does not happen.
01:07:42The children who are reading and reading are familiar,
01:07:45they do not do anything.
01:07:48They are good, they are good, they are good, they are good,
01:07:51they are good, they are good, they are good,
01:07:53they are good.
01:07:53So, I did not send a relationship,
01:07:56but it was arranged marriage.
01:07:58It was not that it was their own.
01:08:01So, you are saying that the girls are participating today?
01:08:04Yes, they are good.
01:08:05And the girls,
01:08:06you are thinking that the girls are white,
01:08:11or generally,
01:08:12what are the demands of them?
01:08:14What are the demands of them?
01:08:15To take a girl?
01:08:16To take a girl?
01:08:17To take a girl?
01:08:18Yes.
01:08:18I did not talk about the mother's father.
01:08:19No, no.
01:08:20The girls are their own.
01:08:22Yes.
01:08:23MashaAllah, the same thing is that the girl is written,
01:08:27and the girls are willing to do better.
01:08:31Okay.
01:08:31Yes.
01:08:32If you don't be independent,
01:08:34or independent,
01:08:36then the girls are prepared for this.
01:08:39Okay.
01:08:40If I ask you,
01:08:42you have a daughter,
01:08:43and your daughter is also a daughter.
01:08:45If you say,
01:08:46if your daughter is a girl,
01:08:50I like this girl,
01:08:51what do you want to see her as a mother?
01:08:54I feel like,
01:08:55what our parents did with me,
01:08:58is that you give a girl so much
01:09:00that when she chooses her,
01:09:03then you don't do it.
01:09:05I mean,
01:09:05you don't do it.
01:09:07I mean,
01:09:07you don't do it.
01:09:07I mean,
01:09:13you don't do it.
01:09:15You don't do it.
01:09:17You don't do it.
01:09:34You don't do it.
01:09:34You don't do it.
01:09:35You don't do it.
01:09:37I mean,
01:09:38I don't do it.
01:09:38I don't do it.
01:09:40if my daughter will choose someone,
01:09:42then it will be like her.
01:09:44See,
01:09:45what's the point I have told ya.
01:09:48It's something that's right.
01:09:49This will be a whole process.
01:09:50This is the basic training.
01:09:51The bottom line is
01:09:52that you get a training for children.
01:09:54What do you want to see?
01:09:57Yeah.
01:09:58I have seen her in an environment.
01:10:00I have seen her in a house.
01:10:01We don't have a family.
01:10:03They have seen her in a house.
01:10:05I have seen her in the house.
01:10:06It has made a family.
01:10:07that girls who tend to do it.
01:10:10where there are barriaches
01:10:11but there is a very tricky problem.
01:10:13But today, the young girls are not getting married.
01:10:21I think that you have qualified your children so that they can get good results.
01:10:31Because in our society, many young girls are not getting married.
01:10:36They don't get married in that way.
01:10:39But you have done so much.
01:10:41Because I have seen such couples that they are very handsome.
01:10:46And the girl is completely opposite.
01:10:48It doesn't seem to be the same.
01:10:50But when I was a little girl, I was close to them.
01:10:53I said, she is not a little girl.
01:10:55She looks like she is a little girl.
01:10:58She looks like she is a little girl.
01:10:59The girl was very smart.
01:11:01She was very qualified.
01:11:03She was very intelligent.
01:11:04She was more intelligent.
01:11:06She was very intelligent.
01:11:08She was very intelligent.
01:11:11She was very intelligent.
01:11:12So I said, this girl was very intelligent.
01:11:15she was very happy, but she had a lot of pride in her parents.
01:11:23She also trained her parents.
01:11:24She has seen that if she is small, she can do it in other areas.
01:11:30She can do it.
01:11:33She can do it.
01:11:34She can do it.
01:11:41We can empower you in your education, professional life, and other things.
01:11:49Basically, the appearance is what you have met in the power of God.
01:11:55That is what you have made your life.
01:11:59That is a matter of success.
01:12:02And parents also leave comparison to their children.
01:12:06Leave your words.
01:12:07Leave your words.
01:12:07Leave your words.
01:12:08Leave your words.
01:12:08Leave your words.
01:12:08Leave your words, leave your words.
01:12:09It's not good.
01:12:10I have a beautiful daughter.
01:12:12This is a comparison.
01:12:14Basically, my friend is saying that the whole responsibility of parents is how to do their children.
01:12:25They don't have to do their children.
01:12:28you give them time, give them time, if they can do it.
01:12:32Before you become bad friends, you become good friends.
01:12:38Yes.
01:12:40Because if you are a girl or a girl, they have to take a whole new generation.
01:12:46They have to grow their generation.
01:12:48So I think this is very important for parents to give their children properly time.
01:12:53And if they are a girl or a girl, they become so competent that they become a must.
01:13:00And if they don't talk about their children, they don't want to be very beautiful.
01:13:03And if they are so beautiful, they don't pollute their children's mind.
01:13:07No, that's not true.
01:13:09That's not true.
01:13:10We are taking a short break.
01:13:12We are watching the break.
01:13:13Good morning Pakistan.
01:13:18Welcome, welcome back.
01:13:20Good morning Pakistan.
01:13:21We are discussing a very important topic today.
01:13:25We are listening to different people's point of view.
01:13:28We are listening to different people's point of view.
01:13:29And we are listening to different people's point of view.
01:13:32And we are learning to know it.
01:13:33It is good that Gen Z is a different brain.
01:13:37They are developing different minds.
01:13:38They will probably take the same ideas in the past.
01:13:39Straight forward.
01:13:40And we will not learn much of the things.
01:13:43The old school is our thought process.
01:13:49The old school is running.
01:13:51Look, Aitram is on our own.
01:13:52But we can't say that you sit and sit and sit.
01:13:56There is no knowledge.
01:13:57Because we have a lot of knowledge.
01:14:00Our experience is no doubt.
01:14:02But it is a new sport.
01:14:05It is a new sport.
01:14:05It is a new sport.
01:14:06It is a new sport.
01:14:06It is a new sport.
01:14:07It is a new sport.
01:14:07And it will be compatible with us.
01:14:10Yes.
01:14:10Yes.
01:14:10But they have learned from the internet.
01:14:13But they don't want to keep their legs behind.
01:14:15Yes.
01:14:15Because they don't have to keep their legs behind.
01:14:18They don't have to keep their legs behind.
01:14:19It is a new sport.
01:14:20It is a new sport.
01:14:21Yes.
01:14:22Yes.
01:14:22And we will be with Noshin.
01:14:23Yes.
01:14:25Noshin will also share your own experience.
01:14:27Assalamualaikum.
01:14:28Yes.
01:14:30That means my experience is my own personal experience.
01:14:33I have no choice.
01:14:36I have no choice.
01:14:36As a partner.
01:14:38And any of my parents.
01:14:39But when I was married.
01:14:42I had a proposal to a family.
01:14:45They have a family.
01:14:47They have a family.
01:14:48But they have heado.
01:14:50They have not had a house.
01:14:51Your husband has a house.
01:14:53So do it.
01:14:54You give her husband.
01:14:56But they have a family home.
01:14:58You have to give them a house.
01:14:59So my brother is a little girl.
01:15:02But he has never been able to do that.
01:15:04He said that he is not possible.
01:15:05So, he is not doing knowledge or demanding.
01:15:09So, what do you mean?
01:15:10My father said that if he doesn't think that he is not the case,
01:15:13I will give my daughter to her.
01:15:16Then I will give her daughter to her name.
01:15:18She will be the same as her daughter.
01:15:20But I will not do that.
01:15:21It will not be the same as her name.
01:15:25So, my parents were very nervous.
01:15:28But she was angry after all the support.
01:15:31After that, when the date was done, there was a new demand that we had to give a bike on
01:15:38the salami.
01:15:41My brother got angry at that time and said,
01:15:46If you have 4-4 daughters, how many of you have given your daughters or daughters?
01:15:51And how many of you have given your daughter's flat or bando?
01:15:56At that time, it was very difficult.
01:15:58My brothers and sisters have told me that we don't have a relationship.
01:16:04Because today, we are only at home.
01:16:06We have to demand a few days before marriage.
01:16:08After marriage, we will go there.
01:16:10We will go there.
01:16:10We will go there.
01:16:12We will go there.
01:16:13But we will go there.
01:16:14But we will go there.
01:16:15And if God doesn't do it, we will not do it.
01:16:17If you do it, we will not live in a relationship.
01:16:18Then we will go there.
01:16:21But it happened that my relationship ended.
01:16:24And I didn't do it.
01:16:25After that, I am very excited.
01:16:29I am very excited.
01:16:30I had no relationship with God's house.
01:16:34I just had to give up my relationship.
01:16:37I just wanted to share my experience.
01:16:39This woman, who is both?
01:16:44I am very excited today.
01:16:45Two rows before marriage.
01:16:46And they would increase cards?
01:16:48You keep cards.
01:16:49Dr. That's nothing too.
01:16:49But this is crazy.
01:16:51That they find�� that they have to give up school for marriage.
01:16:57And this is a popular kind of acerate.
01:17:07So you have to continue on the journey.
01:17:07Tell them that you are able to decide?
01:17:07They will never know what was the problem in this girl
01:17:10This is the biggest problem in our society
01:17:13We always try to get out of the girl
01:17:17If there is a girl's problem, the relationship is over
01:17:20Why do they think that the girl can be a problem
01:17:22This is the mindset to change
01:17:24I think that the people of the Gen Z
01:17:26I think that the mindset is changing
01:17:28Like this
01:17:29Like this
01:17:29Like this
01:17:33Two weeks before the marriage
01:17:34Actually we start looking at red flags
01:17:38We are ignoring them
01:17:40We are thinking about this
01:17:41We are thinking about this
01:17:42We are thinking about it
01:17:44We are not looking at it
01:17:47If we think about it
01:17:48You have to understand that
01:17:51You have to learn good training and training
01:17:54You have to learn that
01:17:56If someone asks you
01:17:57We are making it
01:18:02People ask you
01:18:02The relationship
01:18:04Your husband
01:18:05And
01:18:06Telling you
01:18:08So
01:18:09You are talking about the red flags
01:18:09Your father is not getting aware of it
01:18:12But
01:18:13Your husband
01:18:15He is so naive
01:18:18We are not getting aware of it
01:18:20This is the red flags
01:18:22No
01:18:23Please
01:18:23Redflex, many times you think and accept it, people have a lot of mindset that it will be fine, or
01:18:30it will be fine with the time and it will not be fine with the time, but when you accept
01:18:35it, it will be the first step.
01:18:38This way, the current situation, the position of the human being, you have to think about it, you have to
01:18:45think that it will be better.
01:18:47Once it happens, you have to think about it, and maybe you have to think about it, you have to
01:18:52think about it, and you have to think about it.
01:18:58Every woman has also found a lot of different things, and many of the women have seen that they are
01:19:01starting to get married,
01:19:03and they say, I am going to spend my daughter's new shoes and I am going to spend this thing
01:19:08with them.
01:19:10So we divert it in the way that we have a great change.
01:19:15I think that after that, when we have a change,
01:19:20why do we forget that we have to give a change from our daughter?
01:19:24Why do we make this mindset?
01:19:26That the change was given to her, the change was given.
01:19:30I think that these things are also very important.
01:19:32We are selfish.
01:19:36We put a lot of things on our own.
01:19:37We put a lot of things on our own.
01:19:38Or sometimes we understand our children.
01:19:42This is a good thing.
01:19:44If we want to depend on these things,
01:19:47then when the parents are still alive,
01:19:48they say that we have to take our home.
01:19:51If you have to teach them,
01:19:53then they will never make a difference.
01:19:54They will think that I am so strong.
01:19:57I can do a good job.
01:19:58I can make a new house.
01:20:00You have to be dependent on them.
01:20:01At the beginning, they put things in their mouth.
01:20:04They do not make a difference.
01:20:06Inheritance in families,
01:20:08the children has to be seeing.
01:20:11The children,
01:20:12of course,
01:20:12or other children,
01:20:13or children of the big children,
01:20:14can't be done in inheritance.
01:20:16So,
01:20:17we have to think of insecurity.
01:20:19That is,
01:20:19it is one of the reasons that they want to be financially sound.
01:20:25That they have to see if anything in inheritance,
01:20:28So when there's nothing here, at least the life will go right away.
01:20:31What is the bottom line? What are the red flags that love and need?
01:20:38Tell me.
01:20:39I will conclude that this program is time to wind up.
01:20:43So I need a conclusion.
01:20:45What is the line that love and necessity?
01:20:50Or what should be the criteria for a good and effective life?
01:20:56So what should they look for?
01:20:59A basic thing.
01:21:01There will be a lot of things here.
01:21:02There will be a lot of time.
01:21:04I will talk about basic things.
01:21:06You see that you are looking for security.
01:21:12How much money is, job is, family is, business is.
01:21:16That is fair enough.
01:21:19But there is a prestige issue.
01:21:22It is true that the world should show it.
01:21:25People should show it.
01:21:26People should show it.
01:21:29That you have married your daughter in a big house.
01:21:31Yes.
01:21:31This is a question that you do yourself.
01:21:34What is the reason why you are looking for it?
01:21:36You will get the answer easily.
01:21:38Yes.
01:21:39This is greed.
01:21:40Yes.
01:21:41Simple.
01:21:42Very true.
01:21:43So, look.
01:21:44You say, honey, princess.
01:21:48We give her many names.
01:21:51We give her a lot of names.
01:21:52We give her a lot of respect.
01:21:53We give her love with love.
01:21:56We give her a lot of love.
01:21:59We give her a lot of respect.
01:22:04because that's why I am a child who gave me a challenge in my hands.
01:22:07As parents, they said,
01:22:09when you say, I will marry the same place,
01:22:11we should also take our responsibility of the person.
01:22:14We should have to do an investigation.
01:22:18No money is not a criteria for it.
01:22:22You know that she is well-known to her.
01:22:26It's a good thing.
01:22:28It's a good thing.
01:22:29It's a good thing.
01:22:29It's a good thing.
01:22:29in empowerment, in any kind of thing,
01:22:32then you have to keep your child's attention to your child,
01:22:38if it's your responsibility.
01:22:41If you think that it's your own self and it's not well established,
01:22:50but it's the choice of his mind,
01:22:54it's the joy in his mind,
01:22:56and you have to keep your child's good,
01:22:59then you have to keep your child's choice as parents.
01:23:03Thank you so much.
01:23:04This was our show today.
01:23:06Thank you very much for your time.
01:23:08Inshallah, you will have a chance tomorrow.
01:23:10Good morning, Pakistan.
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