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00:15:50It was late.
00:15:51It was late.
00:15:52It was late.
00:15:52Dissociation.
00:15:54Those were also the ones who came and came back.
00:15:58They came back and came back.
00:15:58Okay, okay.
00:16:00They were in trouble.
00:16:01They were in trouble.
00:16:02They were in trouble.
00:16:03They were in trouble.
00:16:03When the 4-5 people went to the mall, they didn't have a benefit.
00:16:06Somebody told me to go and show them.
00:16:09I'm a psychiatrist.
00:16:10I'm a psychologist.
00:16:11Just check.
00:16:13So the thoughts are coming.
00:16:14What are the extreme symptoms?
00:16:16Are they seizures?
00:16:17Yes, it's a pain.
00:16:19It's a pain.
00:16:22It's a pain.
00:16:22It's a pain.
00:16:23It's a pain.
00:16:23No one is a pain.
00:16:25No one is a pain.
00:16:27No one is a pain.
00:16:27The other is pain.
00:16:29The pain is pain.
00:16:30It's pain.
00:16:30It's pain.
00:16:31It's pain.
00:16:31It's pain.
00:16:32It's pain.
00:16:33Dissociation is away from your body.
00:16:35We are saying that this is drama.
00:16:37Yes, it's the same.
00:16:38It's the same.
00:16:38Because the girl that I have, when she married,
00:16:41the family took care of her.
00:16:43She didn't have a divorce.
00:16:44She didn't even say that.
00:16:45She gave her a divorce.
00:16:46Then after she gave her a divorce,
00:16:49after her husband passed away,
00:16:51she gave her a drama.
00:16:53She gave her some reports.
00:16:53So at that point,
00:16:55the court is a lawyer and a social environment
00:16:58is a little bit lower.
00:16:59They are coming more than they are coming.
00:17:00And those same people are coming in.
00:17:01They say that I am sitting here,
00:17:03doing these matters with all my friends,
00:17:05and that my friends won't come away.
00:17:06So they are coming out with other aspects.
00:17:08For example,
00:17:09For example, I am, I feel good, I am alone from the shock, but I don't feel like I am
00:17:15sitting there and I don't feel like it that I am sitting there, again, dissociation of the other kind.
00:17:20I am there but I don't feel I am here.
00:17:23All these things are coming along with different dynamics.
00:17:26No one knows exactly that it is my parents or my mother's trauma.
00:17:31They don't know.
00:17:32When they come and then we send the case history, childhood history, and all the dynamics of the parents,
00:17:39they know that the mother and father are both sitting there and the mother are talking.
00:17:43Let me tell you.
00:17:45Let me talk about it.
00:17:45I mean, the mother is talking about it and she is talking about it.
00:17:49Exactly.
00:17:49Let me tell you.
00:17:51Literally, it is like this.
00:17:52Hold on.
00:17:53Let me tell you.
00:17:54If she is in clinic setting, she doesn't stop her.
00:17:57What do you think?
00:17:58How do you stop at home?
00:17:59Oh, so you all observe things.
00:18:01Yes, it is very common.
00:18:04It is very common.
00:18:04That you have to be in our home.
00:18:06Yes, absolutely.
00:18:07That you shut up.
00:18:09You don't know anything.
00:18:10Yes, exactly.
00:18:11So if she is doing it, she will also do it.
00:18:13Obviously, the family members of the family are doing it.
00:18:16They are doing it.
00:18:16They are doing it.
00:18:16Then, they are doing it.
00:18:18The body and the body are not saying it.
00:18:21They are all very well-educated.
00:18:25And the children are living with the child.
00:18:27And I am doing it.
00:18:28Here, they are doing it.
00:18:29Also, the child doesn't have the love of the mother.
00:18:34And the child doesn't do it.
00:18:36Yes, it doesn't do it.
00:18:39And the child doesn't do it.
00:18:43Sometimes, the child doesn't do it again.
00:18:45Sometimes, they find their love.
00:18:47Sometimes, the mom doesn't do it again and the wife is our friendship.
00:18:51There are other children, too.
00:18:54And the children also watch stress.
00:18:57Yes, the child has trauma.
00:19:00but when you go to a psychiatrist, when you start talking to a psychiatrist and take classes for a few
00:19:08years, then you get to know how your body was in stress and how relaxed you are.
00:19:16My daughter had a friend who wrote the books, and she was studying school, and she said that there is
00:19:27something on it.
00:19:28I said, why is this?
00:19:30I mean, it's a lot of morning, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've
00:19:35been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut, I've been cut.
00:19:44Then, after that, Maulana Sahib said that there is something on it, there is something on it.
00:19:50It was a long time, but at the end, it came out that that girl is a psycho.
00:19:59When she sleeps at night, she gets cut, she kills herself.
00:20:05Because in her parents, there was no such bonding.
00:20:07So when she fights, she comes in stress.
00:20:10When she comes in stress, she doesn't do anything in front of her, she gives herself a gift.
00:20:15She gives herself the gift of her mother.
00:20:17She gives herself the gift of her mother.
00:20:21There are many things.
00:20:24Let's go on to our topic.
00:20:26And who is with us?
00:20:28Lubna.
00:20:30What should you tell us about Lubna?
00:20:32I have this problem,
00:20:33and I have this problem.
00:20:33She has no other husband.
00:20:37My husband and Eric Nand.
00:20:40I have no other husband and I have no other husband.
00:20:43I don't know how much of her husband is.
00:20:45My wife is very small.
00:20:46My mom's husband,
00:20:47what she said,
00:20:49that is true.
00:20:50My husband was married.
00:20:53She was stealing drugs.
00:20:55I told her that I'll go alone.
00:20:57But she was saying that she was wrong.
00:21:02because when the other food is covered, you can take a lot of it, so you get uncomfortable, you know
00:21:08how much to get out of it, and it feels weird.
00:21:14He didn't even go away from me, I thought I would go home, so he felt so bad.
00:21:18So he started to get out of it, and he started to get out of it.
00:21:21What did he get out of it?
00:21:23He didn't sit at me, and he didn't have photos and pictures.
00:21:29When I woke up, I didn't even know that this was going to happen.
00:21:34Now, I don't even know that this was going to happen.
00:21:37Now, when I woke up, she said,
00:21:44What did you say to my son?
00:21:48I said, what did I say?
00:21:50I didn't even remember that I said something.
00:21:52Then, she told me that you told me that you didn't have a drink.
00:21:56I said, what a mess.
00:21:58When she told me that she didn't have a drink,
00:22:00I didn't do anything.
00:22:03She didn't do anything.
00:22:03The first impression was that they did.
00:22:06She was the first impression.
00:22:08That she was the one who told me.
00:22:10She was the one who told me.
00:22:12Do you have a husband or not?
00:22:14No, she's heard the husband.
00:22:15She said, she's managed everything.
00:22:19She was here to go to her.
00:22:21So, how often do you come to your house?
00:22:24It's often coming and you don't even think about it once you're ready.
00:22:49After a couple of years I'm going to
00:22:53control their own
00:22:55and go and do that
00:22:57these paths go to their own
00:22:58and the ones who are happy in their own
00:23:02are a normal person
00:23:03that's a little less
00:23:04what do you do
00:23:07go and see
00:23:08I don't know what else
00:23:10I don't know
00:23:11I didn't know why
00:23:13I started to do this
00:23:14but why did I do this
00:23:16because I didn't do this
00:23:16this work
00:23:16it didn't happen
00:23:17I mean
00:23:18if I had anything
00:23:20I had to change
00:23:21change that.
00:23:22So no, that was where she was.
00:23:24Now change that.
00:23:26Let me take a break.
00:23:27After break, I have to ask you to ask me, is the nature of human being that the human being
00:23:32is a burden and the human being is a burden and the human being is a burden and is a
00:23:36burden
00:23:36of being on his own.
00:23:41I have heard that in my life that they are either in the air or in the air or in
00:23:47the air or in the air or in the air or in the air or in the air.
00:23:49They have a clean feeling.
00:23:54What is this problem?
00:23:56We will go to a little break.
00:23:58Good morning Pakistan.
00:24:05Welcome back.
00:24:06Good morning Pakistan.
00:24:08So, today we will talk about the trauma that we have to bear on our show.
00:24:11The trauma that we have to bear on our children and children.
00:24:17Especially when they are married.
00:24:19And their personality is completely swept away.
00:24:22And so, that is why we have to bear on our children.
00:24:25Or we have to bear on our shoulders.
00:24:27But we have to bear on our shoulders.
00:24:29And then we have to bear on our shoulders.
00:24:31And then we have to bear on our shoulders.
00:24:31So, we will talk about that.
00:24:32Before we go to a break.
00:24:33I said that there are sometimes some personalities,
00:24:37which are fun to have others.
00:24:39And keep them on their shoulders.
00:24:41They are a sadistic feeling.
00:24:43What is the saddest satisfaction?
00:24:46First of all, we have to tell that we have to be honest.
00:24:50What is this happening?
00:24:56I can't get out of a strong person, but I can't get out of a weaker person.
00:25:00For example, if you are in your house or in your house, I can't do anything.
00:25:07So I can't get out of it.
00:25:10The other thing is reinforcement.
00:25:13I can't get out of it.
00:25:20I can't get out of it.
00:25:24So the girl who is the same, the behavior is also reinforced.
00:25:32It's wrong.
00:25:34It's wrong.
00:25:34It's wrong.
00:25:37So we can't get out of it.
00:25:38Even when this person comes to the high age, we say it becomes a part of the personality.
00:25:44If you don't get out of it, you don't get out of it.
00:25:45Or if you are in the early age.
00:25:46For example, if you are in the 23-years-years, that we are starting these things,
00:25:51that don't have traits.
00:25:53We have features that come and then choose.
00:25:57But if you do not do that with a small age,
00:25:58the same thing.
00:25:59the same thing is the same thing.
00:26:04The same thing is,
00:26:06that it's saddest.
00:26:08One more thing,
00:26:11is that the other person
00:26:12will not feel good,
00:26:15but the irritability
00:26:18inside,
00:26:18the anger,
00:26:20the way they will divert
00:26:21the way we are.
00:26:23Our drama share has been great.
00:26:24was hit by ARY.
00:26:26At that time, Arjuman Raheem was a nun who didn't get married.
00:26:30He had been married and he was a vain man.
00:26:34And the anger was a great man of his life.
00:26:39He had to have his hands with his brothers.
00:26:41So, he was a toxic at that time,
00:26:43because he had to have married until he was in a big age.
00:26:48Because he had to have married for all the things.
00:26:50But he had to have married for some reason.
00:26:52So, he realized that the toxic environment that I created myself on my own.
00:27:01And that brother and his family all the time to raise his hands because he is a daughter and gave
00:27:07him a burden for his family.
00:27:09So, the sympathy was seen in the most of the houses.
00:27:13The point was that the people who come and come and go and go and go to the house.
00:27:20So, they say, stop it.
00:27:22And they say, stop it.
00:27:23They say, look, it's a toxic environment.
00:27:26So, Sural is a toxic environment.
00:27:28Where does it exhaust?
00:27:30It's often, we keep our mother's eyes and cry.
00:27:33We have told her something.
00:27:35We keep her eyes and go and vent.
00:27:40So, if we keep her eyes and vent,
00:27:43we keep her eyes and cry,
00:27:46then what's the problem of her mother?
00:27:47Exactly.
00:27:48We are venting here.
00:27:50If you breathe, breathe,
00:27:54venting.
00:27:55If someone wants to breathe.
00:27:57But if you get the toxic attitude,
00:28:00you get the toxic environment.
00:28:02You get the toxic environment.
00:28:04You get the wrong person.
00:28:04And the brother says,
00:28:07stop it.
00:28:09So, that toxic environment,
00:28:11you get the toxic environment.
00:28:14This is the wrong person.
00:28:15in the last one.
00:28:16You see, this is a cycle.
00:28:18Sometimes, when the mother comes to arrive,
00:28:21and the mother says,
00:28:24you're not guilty.
00:28:26Sometimes, like you are guilty.
00:28:27Then, the other one is.
00:28:28So, the important thing is,
00:28:30that when the mindset of changing it,
00:28:33changes it and changing it,
00:28:35and improve it together.
00:28:47because the mother knows that my daughter is wrong and the mother is wrong and the mother is wrong and
00:28:58she knows that my daughter is wrong
00:29:00but because she's a daughter
00:29:02she's dating her husband
00:29:05she is having to help her
00:29:06to protect her husband
00:29:09and then she can be a mother
00:29:11and is having a daughter
00:29:13that she's not a girlfriend
00:29:16she says that she has a daughter
00:29:16who this is not giving her
00:29:18that her family
00:29:20which is a family
00:29:21which is my family
00:29:24which will be my children
00:29:25will be my children
00:29:25that will be my mother
00:29:26who will name her
00:29:27that she will absolutely not
00:29:28because I think that they are able to be happy with me.
00:29:34I know that it is a good way for me,
00:29:36and I think that they can come to me.
00:29:39If they are able to be happy with me,
00:29:41then they are happy to be happy with me.
00:29:44So these are all the big problems.
00:29:46Yes, I will tell you, that is not just the same thing, but the same thing is just the same
00:29:50thing.
00:29:51Like for example, ignore the same thing, like when you are saying, to the other person,
00:29:57do not ask me, or ask me, or ask me, or ask me.
00:29:59So, let's not give some kind of things, but let's not give a lot of things.
00:30:04Yes, let's not give a lot of attention.
00:30:05So, it's a very intense tension, that why...
00:30:09I have said, many people think that,
00:30:11If you have a good day, don't give up, don't give up, don't give up, don't take up, don't give
00:30:17up.
00:30:17But their attitude is not coming to the world.
00:30:21One thing I want to add to this, when we talk about trauma, people say,
00:30:24who is going to kill you, who is going to do something, who is going to live in your house,
00:30:28who is going to bring you into your house.
00:30:30But this trauma is not physical, it is psychological trauma.
00:30:38When we talk about traumatic, when we talk about trauma,
00:30:40it helps our relationship.
00:30:44And then when we talk about trauma,
00:30:48we have the trauma of trauma.
00:30:49And that is a trauma that's constantly changing.
00:30:49And we have to deal with trauma.
00:30:50We have to deal with trauma and all of the trauma of trauma.
00:31:01that they have so much stress.
00:31:04They don't think we have stress.
00:31:06They don't think we have so bad that they are so bad.
00:31:10They don't conceive.
00:31:12They don't listen to us.
00:31:15They don't want to get another kid.
00:31:18They don't want to get more trauma.
00:31:20They don't want to say that they don't want to be a sin.
00:31:24but when I was doing it, I saw a family who made a good food, everything was good.
00:31:33So when someone came to the house, sometimes in the food, sometimes in the food, sometimes in the food, sometimes
00:31:39in the food, sometimes in the food, sometimes in the food.
00:31:41So when someone comes to the food, I also share their own food, so when I have a family, I
00:31:47have a lot of food, I have a lot of food, but I have a lot of food and I
00:31:55have a lot of food.
00:32:08she is like, she will have a voice that will make her own soul.
00:32:14she will be a strongman and a strongman.
00:32:17she will be a strongman.
00:32:18she will be a strongman.
00:32:20she will be a strongman.
00:32:23she will be a strongman.
00:32:33When I came back to my house, I had to put my hand on my hand and put my hand
00:32:39on my hand and put my hand on it.
00:32:42I said, what are you doing?
00:32:43I was like, how are you doing?
00:32:45Then I realized that my food failed.
00:32:50Let's go to Sana's side.
00:32:54Where is Sana?
00:32:56Yes.
00:32:56What are you doing?
00:33:00My trauma is different.
00:33:02A little child gave me a child.
00:33:05How old are you?
00:33:08I was 12 years old.
00:33:10When I was married, I had a joint family.
00:33:15When I was little, my wife told me to be a child.
00:33:18Because they don't have a child.
00:33:20But you will not go anywhere.
00:33:22You will take a house in the house.
00:33:23You will take a house in the house.
00:33:23I took a house in the house.
00:33:26But my wife told me to enter my child in my house.
00:33:33Now she comes, sits, observe everything.
00:33:36She goes and tells me.
00:33:38I am so tired.
00:33:40I will not eat good, I will not wear good.
00:33:43I will not wear good.
00:33:44I know that everything will go there.
00:33:44Everything will go there.
00:33:46That child's mental age is like, it's a child.
00:33:50She's a child.
00:33:50She's a child.
00:33:51What to do?
00:33:53God forgive.
00:33:54She's a child.
00:33:55That is something similar to her life.
00:33:57This is a lie.
00:33:59When I tell myะฐะดะธ and my daughter say,
00:34:01she's making this in my beautiful sweet eyes.
00:34:04She's making this in my beautiful beautiful blue face.
00:34:06I'm getting this in my beautiful woman.
00:34:07But when I am saying that I am so tired.
00:34:10I don't want to talk to you.
00:34:12I don't want to talk to you.
00:34:13I'm not going to talk to you.
00:34:15I'm not talking to you.
00:34:17I've never said anything.
00:34:19She said, no, I don't want to talk to you.
00:34:21She's been watching.
00:34:23I'm also talking to you.
00:34:25I'm also talking to you.
00:34:27I'm a very good person.
00:34:31I try to keep it all.
00:34:33I don't get the difference.
00:34:34I don't get the difference.
00:34:35And I'm still trying to teach you.
00:34:39I say, control it.
00:34:41We're going to control it.
00:34:42We're going to do this.
00:34:43We're not going to do this.
00:34:45I'm going to help my husband.
00:34:47I'm going to help my husband.
00:34:50I'm separate.
00:34:51But I'm not in the water.
00:34:55What can I do?
00:34:57So you struggle with your husband?
00:35:00I want to clear my husband.
00:35:02But they control me.
00:35:04They say, no, no.
00:35:05They will come.
00:35:07They will come.
00:35:08They will do it.
00:35:09You understand this.
00:35:10But I don't understand it.
00:35:12But I don't understand it.
00:35:12My husband tells me first.
00:35:16My husband.
00:35:17They come to the office.
00:35:18They start.
00:35:20After that, I go to the house.
00:35:22I tell them.
00:35:23I haven't done anything.
00:35:24I'm talking to my husband.
00:35:25I just ุงูู to them.
00:35:25But things like I don't have to worry.
00:35:29So let me try to have a position.
00:35:30You wanna talk to me often?
00:35:36I generally feel that ั
ะพัะพั for signs.
00:35:37If you come to our house.
00:35:38It's a family family.
00:35:41Youworven.
00:35:43I make sure to bring it back.
00:35:45I am going to be drunk.
00:35:49When nothing comes from the house.
00:35:49I always say, I'm bad at home.
00:35:50I don't want to raise money.
00:35:52Why do they put one or two in there?
00:35:55And they put it in this way.
00:35:57And then they have an ego that they don't say sorry.
00:36:00That's a child.
00:36:04That mother, as she goes from here...
00:36:06It's a small child, right?
00:36:08Sometimes it's quiet.
00:36:10It's a small child.
00:36:11It's a small child.
00:36:11What's my name?
00:36:14It's a family.
00:36:16It's a family.
00:36:17It's a family.
00:36:20My wife is a family.
00:36:22If she was a family.
00:36:27After that, I'm trying to read it.
00:36:32Then I'm trying to read it.
00:36:33And listen to my name.
00:36:36You're going to read it.
00:36:36When I say I'm asked,
00:36:36you're going to read it.
00:36:37And you just said to me that.
00:36:41We are doing it.
00:36:43But the word is wrong because
00:36:45I know not what you're doing and I know you got to understand...
00:36:47that you can create a different image like a girl, a girl, a girl, a cheater or a girl.
00:36:56When you become an image, you bully the whole family.
00:37:00In college or university, you don't bully.
00:37:03You bully in your house.
00:37:07One thing is that whatever child is, I would like to say that your life will go through.
00:37:14You have to go through.
00:37:20You have to go through.
00:37:22But you have to go through.
00:37:26You have to go through.
00:37:32My confidence is zero.
00:37:34I have to ask questions.
00:37:37If I get a voice, I say that I hear a voice.
00:37:42I don't know.
00:37:44You know, the truth is that you have to be a good person.
00:37:47You have to stop the child from your home.
00:37:50You say that she will not come.
00:37:52No one else will come.
00:37:52You will come.
00:37:53Everyone will come.
00:37:54But she will not come.
00:37:55You have to stand with this.
00:37:57But she will come with the parents.
00:38:00She will not come alone.
00:38:02But she will give you the best idea.
00:38:04Because she will come.
00:38:05Because she will come with them.
00:38:07You have to feel like I am on camera.
00:38:10Like you have to say.
00:38:11So, they are under surveillance.
00:38:12When you live under surveillance.
00:38:13So, what is the situation?
00:38:15I am thinking about everything.
00:38:16I am thinking about everything.
00:38:17Do or not.
00:38:18There is uncertainty.
00:38:20I am talking about everything.
00:38:22I am talking about everything.
00:38:25a few hours later.
00:38:26But my son has invited me to make the such legal action.
00:38:28He always took online pizza.
00:38:30That is what I don't want to try to be.
00:38:33If she is on the island we get separate.
00:38:34Now, we struggle with your house.
00:38:37There isiyaan.
00:38:38There is no money.
00:38:40There is a pizza.
00:38:41I am thinking about that.
00:38:43So I will tell you a little bit.
00:38:43Before it was, I always wanted to stay normal.
00:38:44And I am speaking to me about it.
00:38:47I am speaking.
00:38:48For example, I am speaking about my hands.
00:38:50How are they listening?
00:38:52How am I listening?
00:38:54do you want to do that?
00:38:56The whole confidence level is zero.
00:38:58Look, this is the daily depression.
00:39:01The daily, the pain is said.
00:39:03You will stop by standing by standing,
00:39:06you will have a four days, one week, one week,
00:39:09a month until you have a trauma.
00:39:10And then after you will have a very smoothly life.
00:39:14You will have to stop.
00:39:16We have to stop standing.
00:39:44stand
00:39:46There is no education.
00:39:46That's what I call a person.
00:39:48Of thefahren.
00:39:48If I go to my husband and say how masculin is.
00:39:54It's the testament, being able to live from my husband.
00:39:54I believe it's our kepaqa of social media.
00:39:56If I take the rent as I say sometimes.
00:39:58If I go to my husband.
00:39:58Now in a certain age or at a certain time sometimes when ..
00:40:04but women who have actually happened and of the time there instead of revenir on women no problem ...
00:40:09I damn care, I damn care, a time comes in life, then you get so calm and peace that you
00:40:17don't have to think about it.
00:40:18How do you take that time quickly, that your life is easy?
00:40:21When you get that time, you get disturbed by many things.
00:40:25I say that if you feel like one thing and a little stand,
00:40:30if you feel like a child, you don't feel good.
00:40:34If you feel like a child is coming, then someone will come with it.
00:40:37Or if a child is coming for a while, then he will go, so that you don't have to worry
00:40:41about it.
00:40:41If you think about it, take a step first, you don't need to reach there.
00:40:48I don't think that my child has become a child.
00:40:51What will the impact of it?
00:40:55Or he will learn this, or he will be like me.
00:40:58He will be scared, he will be scared, he will not be able to say anything.
00:41:01And if you say it, it will be popular that it will be bad.
00:41:05Let's take a break after the break.
00:41:07Good morning Pakistan.
00:41:14Welcome, welcome back.
00:41:16Good morning Pakistan.
00:41:18Today, we are discussing the trauma that people often give the name of the drama.
00:41:23It's like being done.
00:41:28Why is it like being trained here for age?"
00:41:34So, if you keep dragging them as such a child.
00:41:36It's like a couple of times, and you keep trying to try to become silly.
00:41:36If you keep using children and you vender them both well then,
00:41:40Now that's what the problem will suggest that the child views.
00:41:40So it's quickly- mmhmm .
00:41:41The child Jagat free animal going aboutๅธๅ ด,
00:41:43that he is probably trying toะ door your compassionate eyes to your family.
00:41:46and she's playing with her
00:41:49and her eyes are good for her
00:41:51and her eyes are good for her
00:41:53so how can she get these things from her?
00:41:56I'm saying that all the pain
00:41:57if the girl traumatized
00:41:59is in this situation
00:42:00I think the biggest pain in the house
00:42:02is the biggest pain in my house
00:42:05because she's got her
00:42:06to keep her daughter
00:42:08and she's got her daughter
00:42:09If she's got her daughter
00:42:11I think my two daughters are married
00:42:19I have, I have,
00:42:20I have,
00:42:20my love,
00:42:21my life,
00:42:21I have not seen such a lot of love.
00:42:26They share their stories with me.
00:42:29They will not tell me,
00:42:31they will not know what their mother will do.
00:42:34They will understand their stories.
00:42:37They will understand their stories.
00:42:42When you look at the drama, it is a very big drama.
00:42:45When you look at the drama, it is a real thing.
00:42:49When you look at the drama, it was a real thing.
00:42:53You are doing the drama and you are saying the drama.
00:42:56Absolutely.
00:42:58Soji is here with me.
00:43:02Tania.
00:43:03Assalamualaikum.
00:43:04Tania, what do you say?
00:43:06I am a lot of trauma.
00:43:09I am depressed and crying.
00:43:11I am a lot of sleep.
00:43:13I was having a love marriage for about 12 years ago.
00:43:15I started my two kids.
00:43:17I started my job.
00:43:18I started my husband to support me.
00:43:20But I was living in a joint family.
00:43:23My wife and the wife started to do it.
00:43:25I was going to the office, I was going to work, I was going to make food.
00:43:29I was going to go back and I was going to eat.
00:43:31They are blaming me for the children.
00:43:33I am going to eat.
00:43:34How can you eat all the children?
00:43:36They are doing all the work.
00:43:38Everything is going to work.
00:43:39This is a long life.
00:43:41I was learning to find my husband to get married.
00:43:43After my office, she will go to her second wife.
00:43:47And I was learning to find the kids.
00:43:49Now the second wife asked her if she was wrong.
00:43:53Now she was wrong.
00:43:54She was not admitting.
00:43:56She was not admitting.
00:43:58She was not admitting.
00:43:58Now when she was talking about her,
00:43:59she was saying that I was living with you.
00:44:01My second wife is very good.
00:44:03Now the kids are in the room.
00:44:05They are most of their hands.
00:44:07My husband and wife,
00:44:08which they are living together.
00:44:09I don't know these things.
00:44:11It's all that I can't remember.
00:44:12I was living in my house and my child's house.
00:44:15I was living in my house.
00:44:16I was living in the house.
00:44:17I was living in the house.
00:44:18I was living in the house.
00:44:19My wife was living in the house.
00:44:20There were two children.
00:44:22And there were two children.
00:44:22They were living in their own lives.
00:44:52of
00:44:53It's like a support of your mother's house.
00:44:56Go out there and pay attention to it.
00:45:00You're also paying attention to it.
00:45:01I was studying at school.
00:45:02I was studying at school.
00:45:05I'm hungry. I'm not going to school.
00:45:08I'm giving money.
00:45:09I'm eating food.
00:45:10I don't have anything for me.
00:45:13You're asking yourself to think about yourself.
00:45:17Look, why do you give this punishment?
00:45:20That's why it's good.
00:45:21You're good.
00:45:21You're good.
00:45:22You're good.
00:45:24You're good.
00:45:24You're good.
00:45:26And love.
00:45:33You have also fixed.
00:45:36You're still my collection.
00:45:37Then you get into it.
00:45:37What you need to do to make a great deal?
00:45:40The mother.
00:45:43You don't have anything about it.
00:45:45Although the children are wrong.
00:45:45You should not be a great deal.
00:45:47Like children are bad.
00:45:50The child.
00:45:51If you want to think about your children, leave them home, leave them to your mother, give them their money.
00:45:56This is a very good thing, you are independent. You are confident.
00:45:59I do the job, the job is also disturbed.
00:46:02You are in a trauma, you don't have to sleep in the night, you don't have to sleep in the
00:46:05night.
00:46:06You know that God gives you the opportunity and He shows you how you are going with it.
00:46:14It is possible that this is your destiny, that you want to go further.
00:46:17I want to go further, career wise.
00:46:20And all these things are happening with you.
00:46:22Sometimes women don't look at it.
00:46:24Years and years.
00:46:25Why is this happening with me at home?
00:46:26I was a good mother, I was a good mother.
00:46:29But with me, I am so good and I am so good.
00:46:33Then I realized that this alarm has shown you.
00:46:38That you focus on yourself, look at your children.
00:46:41Because we did love marriage in the beginning of the year.
00:46:44It is a good health and all of them in the beginning of the year.
00:46:45They all become very cooperative, all of them became good.
00:46:48After this and after this, it has been my mind that it was such a love marriage.
00:46:52If not to my heart, the husband was able to meet your husband.
00:46:55He will complete your goals and the children.
00:46:57The children were very good.
00:46:58The children were very good at this time.
00:46:59In that period, I know that it was important, the parents are the same.
00:47:03You have your parents, your mother has a staff, you can know.
00:47:07Yes, of course.
00:47:07It's all supportive.
00:47:14I was married at 17 years old
00:47:16At that time, what did your parents say?
00:47:20My parents didn't trust me
00:47:22so I didn't trust me
00:47:24because I didn't trust me
00:47:25I didn't trust my parents
00:47:26At that time, the decisions were made
00:47:29very immature
00:47:30My parents knew my husband
00:47:33and said that it was right
00:47:36so everything was right
00:47:39How old are you?
00:47:40My husband was 3 years old
00:47:42I have seen this
00:47:44when young age
00:47:46and young age
00:47:49after a certain age
00:47:51after a certain age
00:47:52they don't like their love
00:47:55because they are not mature
00:47:57and they have married in maturity
00:48:01but if a child is not mature
00:48:03then they say that
00:48:04this woman is not my favorite woman
00:48:06This is another thing
00:48:08that I feel like
00:48:10I feel like
00:48:11you don't have a need
00:48:14but God made a path
00:48:18because if your husband
00:48:19can take another baby
00:48:20then you can take it
00:48:25and they can take another day
00:48:25that you have the growth
00:48:26if your parents are not mature
00:48:29then you have to understand
00:48:30and understand
00:48:30both the pros and cons
00:48:32and then the progress
00:48:34I always say that
00:48:36you should understand
00:48:36and that you have to understand
00:48:38your support system is true
00:48:39but if you are the support system
00:48:40that you agree
00:48:41that you will manage
00:48:43in a way
00:48:45you will see
00:48:45that you have enough resources
00:48:46It is very difficult to be stable, but children are small.
00:48:52It is a lot like that.
00:48:53Doctors like Dr. Aiba understand that they will come to the house,
00:48:58they will come to the house tomorrow,
00:49:01they will come to the house tomorrow.
00:49:02They will not say that.
00:49:03Now they have two children there.
00:49:06They are not.
00:49:07Now they are not.
00:49:08They will live.
00:49:10They will be married.
00:49:10They will be married.
00:49:11They will be married.
00:49:12I already told you to go to the house.
00:49:15You are the way to work in your work.
00:49:17You are the reason why you like to get married?
00:49:20You have a baby.
00:49:21My mother has ticed me to go to the house.
00:49:24I told you to get married.
00:49:24My mother had nine years old.
00:49:26My mother had happened since I could have married.
00:49:30When I go to the house,
00:49:31my father had been married.
00:49:33My mother had married to my family.
00:49:34My mother had his confidence to come to the house.
00:49:36My mother had a daughter.
00:49:37My sister had been married.
00:49:38She told my mother.
00:49:38She said to her.
00:49:38No, it was a great.
00:49:39My baby.
00:49:40I was forced to go to my house, I didn't see anything at all.
00:49:44But now I have to decide what I want to do now.
00:49:53I will tell you that you don't feel so big for this thing.
00:49:58You have to be married in a small age.
00:50:01You have to manage everything in your life.
00:50:03You have to manage everything. But you are more in the practical life.
00:50:09You are doing good jobs. You are doing good jobs.
00:50:13But you have to be practical and you will not regret it.
00:50:18As you have given the space before you take the space,
00:50:23you go to the separation,
00:50:25you get a lot of problems in your mind.
00:50:28You get to know that you give the time to your life.
00:50:32You get to know that you have to do it.
00:50:34Because we have all the limitations.
00:50:36No one is perfect.
00:50:37And everyone can manage it alone.
00:50:40We give them everything to someone.
00:50:42We are different.
00:50:44Everyone can manage it alone.
00:50:47and the most important thing is that your mother has done anything with you,
00:50:52but also women are involved in that person. If they are involved, if they love them,
00:51:01then you can't teach them as well as you will do it.
00:51:08Your husband loves children? Yes, they love children.
00:51:12Yes, they love children.
00:51:16No, they don't have any responsibility.
00:51:20How do you love it?
00:51:21Even if we are living at home, I have to pay rent.
00:51:27But I think that you are over-matured here.
00:51:33I will do this and do this.
00:51:36If you don't pay rent, you will not pay rent.
00:51:41I have to pay rent for children.
00:51:43I have to pay rent for your children.
00:51:45You can get a rent by law.
00:51:49Because this is the right to be given to the children.
00:51:53So you can take them.
00:51:54I need to pay rent.
00:51:56So you'll pay rent for children.
00:51:57So you'll pay rent for children.
00:52:01So you'll pay rent for your children.
00:52:16I think that is the best way to make it.
00:52:19I think that is the best way to make it.
00:52:22I think that is the best way to make it.
00:52:24My friend told me that I don't have all the responsibility.
00:52:34Do you understand?
00:52:35I think that is the most important thing.
00:52:38We don't have to do anything.
00:52:41work at home. If a child is a daughter, like my daughter and son, this is your responsibility.
00:52:48I earn but I don't do all the finances. I don't do all my husband and my husband.
00:52:53They have to pay their finances. I want to do it or I want to do it.
00:53:00It means that you have to plan to do things. If a woman and a woman is not doing all
00:53:05the
00:53:06things that I can do, that if someone brings a burden, then we can make it.
00:53:13We can put everything on the side. We can put everything on the side.
00:53:18We can do it with a human nature. We have to set our boundaries.
00:53:23Even the parents have to make their own duties.
00:53:27They are making everything for somebody. So the maturity is where you are.
00:53:30But you can say to your husband, to your in-laws, that my child is getting married and their schools
00:53:38are being taken away because no one can't send, so I won't do a job.
00:53:43You take responsibility of your children, because I am only eating, and the rest of the children are doing it.
00:53:47You don't have to leave your daughter's job.
00:53:50But I said, I don't want to leave your husband's job.
00:53:54But if you say to your husband, I will do it.
00:53:58And if you do it, I will stay in the same way.
00:54:02I left the job. I resigned.
00:54:05Then I realized that something is going to happen here.
00:54:09Then I joined again.
00:54:10It's a very small place to keep you back.
00:54:13So I did it.
00:54:15I didn't have any money to do it.
00:54:16I was working to support.
00:54:18I said, let's take a little money and I will do it.
00:54:21But that's totally all I got.
00:54:24You can also notice for the children.
00:54:27Why?
00:54:28You have to give them to my children's job?
00:54:29I have to give them all the things.
00:54:33And when I look at them, I have depression.
00:54:36I have no life for children.
00:54:37No school or children.
00:54:40There are no activities for children.
00:54:42I will say that when we have to take the decision, we will see the last experiences,
00:54:49now I will say that you will be thinking and thinking about what will happen to me,
00:54:56what will happen to me, what will happen to me, what will happen to me, what will happen to me.
00:55:09I will say that this will become a pattern, because you are young,
00:55:17for example, you will not live with a husband, so you will have to take the decision making.
00:55:24For example, we are wise with age, our wisdom does not come directly with age.
00:55:32We are learning to eat and eat and eat.
00:55:34We have not seen the hair in the water.
00:55:39Our parents often say that we don't know what to do.
00:55:42We don't know what to do.
00:55:44We don't know what to do.
00:55:46I will tell you that you can observe the other people and work.
00:55:49Yes.
00:55:50That's why I say that it is important to see all the things,
00:55:52and take a look at it and then talk about it.
00:55:55Why do we emphasize so much that we will do a marriage?
00:55:59Or the children who say that they are married in 17 years,
00:56:02they have fought so much love.
00:56:07What is the importance of this?
00:56:08Yes, that is a good relationship.
00:56:11We are always trying to do a good relationship.
00:56:13We are always trying to do a good relationship.
00:56:14We are always trying to do a good relationship.
00:56:17our level of education and independence.
00:56:20Please love anybody who has any kind of่ชฐ.
00:56:23Any big girl or personal girl has no sameburys to hiรงbir store.
00:56:30If they lose an interest in their shoes,
00:56:32them should be someone you have company.
00:56:33You have a degree that makes it all the time because it's your school ministry.
00:56:38They're saying we should be Vijayoun T.
00:56:45that they can be able to do their own and not be able to do it.
00:56:50Just because there is no one who has no one in their lives.
00:56:52They can be so independent and make it so independent.
00:56:58When you have married, you have to be able to marry your children.
00:57:03So you have to accept your family.
00:57:08I have to accept my husband's husband's husband.
00:57:13and they told me I would go to the salon. I said I don't want to go and do nothing.
00:57:20I sent a distraction and made a link to Nabilah or Rubinah. I started a career in the acting.
00:57:28So I learned a skill.
00:57:29To learn skills in a child, they learn skills.
00:57:33They are very good.
00:57:33We don't have to learn the skills.
00:57:36If we don't learn the skills, don't do it,
00:57:40then we learn the skills and learn the skills.
00:57:43People are talented and they don't have to learn the skills.
00:57:48If there is something else,
00:57:50we can get sick of our sick and sick of our children.
00:57:55Our children are standing on their shoulders,
00:57:57they do not have any support.
00:58:02good morning pakistan welcome welcome back good morning pakistan so
00:58:12we are discussing how to save children from trauma basically we are discussing all the
00:58:17things we are discussing but if I ask you how to save children from trauma from trauma
00:58:26what will happen to you.
00:58:27a very good question about that when you talk about the skill that is about the children
00:58:33I am going to add one thing I am going to add on that you are learning to adapt.
00:58:37Adaptation is what is needed to earn then do not go on that thing that is my self and
00:58:43that is not my thing.
00:58:45If you think that at this moment you need to earn from a moment you are going to go for
00:58:49that.
00:58:49If you think that at this moment you need to be more in my house then not go on that
00:58:53thing
00:58:54identity is disturbed, because when you need your decisions based on that, you always help
00:59:01you.
00:59:02In the future, you will get the chance to get the chance, because you have a tendency
00:59:06to go there.
00:59:07That is, you have to look at your mental peace, you feel that if you are sitting at home,
00:59:11if you are building a new relationship, you are doing a marriage, you are doing a job or
00:59:17you are building your career, so you have to give some time to your relationship, so that
00:59:26it will be built, and then you will feel that this is my upset, my relationship, I have
00:59:33all my friends, all my friends, I have adjusted so much, now I will think about my career.
01:00:06This is you.
01:00:06This is you.
01:00:06how much you love them, how much you can do them, these are all the things that you have to
01:00:12tell.
01:00:13So if we interrupt this in a sentence, you need to know what is best time for you.
01:00:24In this case, you have to talk about what you have to talk about, what you have to talk about,
01:00:40and how many times you have to talk about it, how many times you have to be able to answer
01:00:44your questions,
01:00:44how much time you have to answer your questions, how many times you have to answer them,
01:00:49then we get to know how much we are going to get to the start of our past,
01:00:56We have made a big deal. Why did we not give the answer?
01:01:03Why did we not give the answer?
01:01:05In adaptation, we will know what to do.
01:01:10I have done a campaign for every client.
01:01:13I feel that before marriage, we will take sessions and therapy.
01:01:20Pre-medital counseling.
01:01:22Exactly. It is very necessary.
01:01:24You can learn Chinese rice.
01:01:30You can learn it on YouTube.
01:01:35Before marriage, you need to do these courses.
01:01:40Very necessary.
01:01:41You need to do these short courses.
01:01:42So that you can understand.
01:01:45In relationship, if you are the first child,
01:01:48you need to be a child.
01:01:50You need to be a child.
01:01:52You need to be a child.
01:01:53You need to be a child.
01:01:55So what happens is that we can see who can adapt to the age.
01:02:03So you need to have the option to be a child.
01:02:06So your child needs to be a child.
01:02:10On your age.
01:02:10To step forward, it is a child's last child.
01:02:19You need to from a child.
01:02:23But you know.
01:02:24You are a child's a child.
01:02:27You can check the science and do exercises.
01:02:32Yes, there is a formulation.
01:02:35Whatever we use the techniques, they are evidence-based.
01:02:38I know that there is no fault, there is no benefit.
01:02:41Every person has NLP.
01:02:44The kids, the people, everyone has done it.
01:02:47Because if you look at the education system,
01:02:51which we have studied,
01:02:54the students have done it.
01:02:57The students have done it.
01:03:01They have done it.
01:03:01The students have done it.
01:03:01That's why they have done it.
01:03:04They have done it.
01:03:06They can keep your mind in control.
01:03:10If they have young children, especially young age,
01:03:14who are starting to be young age,
01:03:16they have to do it.
01:03:17They have to do it.
01:03:21They have to do it.
01:03:23They have to do it.
01:03:24They can bear the burden.
01:03:27If you do it,
01:03:29exercise is strong.
01:03:33Basically,
01:03:34these exercises,
01:03:35which we call marriage counselling,
01:03:38will be so strong,
01:03:40that they will be able to be able to feed.
01:03:43I want to say that whoever the girl or the girl who doesn't do it,
01:03:51who wants to take divorce, first of all, the counseling is necessary.
01:03:57This is happening.
01:03:59I tell you that if you want to see a girl's face,
01:04:04you don't want to see a girl's face.
01:04:06They say that there are so many people who have so good and are so happy that they give so
01:04:17many prayers.
01:04:19The judge said that you have time.
01:04:23In the time, the judge said that I would suggest that you take the therapy first.
01:04:27I thought that it would be good for the law, but it would be good for the time.
01:04:37But now they have to say that you have to do a couple of times.
01:04:42What happens is that you know that what you have to do, I will say that you don't have regrets.
01:04:49So when you go to marriage counseling, one couple, do you have different sessions?
01:04:56Do you have two things?
01:04:57Yes, there are theories.
01:04:59For example, the first session is to put together in the first session.
01:05:02We observe all the things.
01:05:03There will be a lot of struggle.
01:05:05There are rules.
01:05:07You have to say that.
01:05:07You have to say that.
01:05:08We are only in the family therapy.
01:05:13We are learning the same aspects.
01:05:15We have to manage this.
01:05:18We have to make rules.
01:05:19I have to say that there are boundaries.
01:05:22When you turn your turn, you will have to listen.
01:05:24You have to say that my attention will be there.
01:05:27I will not look at you.
01:05:28We have to do a little confrontation.
01:05:31We have to do all the work, love, love and love.
01:05:34And then they cooperate.
01:05:36You have to understand.
01:05:37People understand.
01:05:38After adaptation, the other thing is communication skills.
01:05:42If I say that economically, it will come to the budget for couples.
01:05:51It is not very dangerous in the counselling.
01:05:54In other words, counselling rates are different charges.
01:05:57But I say that the life cycle is the best.
01:05:59If you look at that, I will be happy.
01:06:01If you look at that, what will happen?
01:06:05If you look at that, what will happen?
01:06:06Because your heart is sad.
01:06:07Patients are bad at this.
01:06:09If you give it with the money, people will do it.
01:06:13But life is bad.
01:06:14This is the matter of life.
01:06:16Because both of us have been connected.
01:06:19If there are more than 3 or 2 lives, then again.
01:06:24From that, it's so hard.
01:06:27Sometimes it's like you have to raise your hand.
01:06:30And you want to change yourself.
01:06:32But you don't want to do it.
01:06:37You don't want to end your relationship.
01:06:38Some people come to you?
01:06:41Yes, they come.
01:06:41They come separately.
01:06:43They come to the wife.
01:06:44They come to the wife.
01:06:47They come to the wife.
01:06:47I want to be honest.
01:06:49You want to make me a barber.
01:06:50This is it.
01:06:52If someone wants to be honest,
01:06:54I have a client.
01:06:56This is the husband and wife.
01:06:58He has a client.
01:06:59He has a child.
01:07:02He says that when I'm in counseling,
01:07:05my father says that there's no difference.
01:07:07I'll go and talk to him.
01:07:095 minutes later, the counseling is out.
01:07:11If he goes out,
01:07:13I'm going to talk to him.
01:07:14I'm going to talk to him about the rest of the session.
01:07:16Because he's going out.
01:07:18People don't give a little time to go.
01:07:22They do so much prompts.
01:07:24I'm going to tell you the counselor.
01:07:26In his mind,
01:07:27what is the role of the teacher?
01:07:29Then we tell you,
01:07:30if your parents have any advice for us.
01:07:33First, we will see the conditions.
01:07:35Don't worry about it.
01:07:35We have to do so many things.
01:07:37In the same way,
01:07:38when husbands come to take hands,
01:07:40they come to take hands.
01:07:41They say that their wife has mentioned
01:07:44that he will do so many things.
01:07:46He will hear so much.
01:07:47It will be my matter.
01:07:48Because he wants this.
01:07:50They are not going to take hands.
01:07:53And in the other part,
01:07:54they are disturbing.
01:07:57How many people come to me?
01:07:58One client said that
01:08:00my life is a very disturbing.
01:08:05The rest of them are set.
01:08:07They came to himself.
01:08:08I said,
01:08:08how will it be?
01:08:11The problem was inside of my house.
01:08:13But the thoughts are in the workplace.
01:08:16They are not getting focused.
01:08:18They are not getting focused.
01:08:19But the whole thing is not getting scared.
01:08:20Then they thought that
01:08:21I cannot help them.
01:08:22What are the thoughts?
01:08:24They're related to the house.
01:08:25After going to the outside,
01:08:27I felt guilty.
01:08:27I didn't feel good with the wife.
01:08:29I felt my fault.
01:08:30I took my thoughts.
01:08:31So we don't have any incisive.
01:08:35But we can't talk about it.
01:08:38We don't have to express ourselves.
01:08:40We don't have to express ourselves.
01:08:40We don't have to express ourselves.
01:08:43We don't have to express ourselves.
01:08:44Let's go to the next question of Saima.
01:08:48Yes Saima.
01:08:49Hello.
01:08:51I am a soul.
01:08:53I want to go out of this trauma.
01:08:55I am going to go through this trauma.
01:08:58Because my soul has been prepared with me.
01:09:04Because my husband also has two pups.
01:09:11When he comes with me, he has three pups.
01:09:15When I go to the kitchen,
01:09:17they say that they have to put so many water,
01:09:19so they have to put so many water.
01:09:22They have to put the husband in the office.
01:09:24So you take the clothes and the husband will take the clothes.
01:09:26You will not go inside.
01:09:28Because there are little children in our house.
01:09:30They are going to pick up.
01:09:31They are going to pick up the children in the house.
01:09:34Let's just close theben.
01:09:35They are going to take the clothes to open it.
01:09:37They have to put the conditions on like the house.
01:09:42So they have to put in the house.
01:09:43They have to wear the clothes.
01:09:44They keep the clothes.
01:09:45They are going to put the clothes.
01:09:45The clothes only do the kitchen.
01:09:48If they go to the kitchen,
01:09:50they will take a bath out of it.
01:09:52And they will take the water and put the water.
01:09:52I will tell you the oil to add.
01:09:57You have to take a bath with a bath and you have to take 100 bottles.
01:10:02My husband gave me 80% salary, 20% of the money I gave to.
01:10:07So you have to take the education of children's money.
01:10:10Then I had to take the money.
01:10:12And then I had to take the money to my family.
01:10:16I would never think that I would call my family.
01:10:19No, no, no, I wouldn't have to call it.
01:10:20It would be a money.
01:10:20It's a great deal.
01:10:22I'm eating a meal.
01:10:24I'm eating some food.
01:10:25I'm eating a little bit.
01:10:28I'm eating some food.
01:10:31I'm eating some food.
01:10:34I've got to marry my husband.
01:10:36I've got to marry my husband.
01:10:38They're growing up.
01:10:39They're not aging.
01:10:43I married my husband's son.
01:10:46Now I'm going to marry my husband.
01:10:48Now I'm going to get out of the way.
01:10:50but I do it to my parents,
01:10:52I think this is a good life.
01:10:54I have seen so many of them.
01:10:56No, take it too early.
01:10:58Take it too early in the morning,
01:10:58take it too early in the morning.
01:11:00Do you know what you are saying?
01:11:02Yes, I want to get out of this trauma.
01:11:05Do you feel that you are wrong?
01:11:06Yes, I am wrong.
01:11:07But I don't want to get out of this trauma.
01:11:09I don't want to get out of this trauma.
01:11:13This is a good sign that you are a good person.
01:11:16No, I don't want to get out of it.
01:11:20I don't want to get out of it.
01:11:21I want to get out of it.
01:11:23I want to get out of it.
01:11:23How do I get out of it?
01:11:26The most important thing is that they know.
01:11:30The person doesn't know that they are traumatised.
01:11:33Yes, absolutely.
01:11:35The most important thing is that you have to know
01:11:37and you also know that it is coming out of it.
01:11:39Okay?
01:11:40What is coming out of it?
01:11:41This is important.
01:11:42First of all, I will tell you that
01:11:45that the person is talking about you.
01:11:48You know it's not that many things are happening.
01:11:50All of them, the people have been talking about it.
01:11:52You have to know about it.
01:11:53I think that the person with the person who is talking about it
01:11:56and they are talking about it.
01:11:58It's the one that I don't know.
01:11:58The person who is talking about it is the one that is not being used.
01:12:04And even if they are talking about it,
01:12:12I think it's the one that is not being used for it.
01:12:12We are living with women, but we are living with women and women.
01:12:13Our children are living with men, but we must not bear any ัะตัed.
01:12:13Men are still fighting these three girls.
01:12:21But their children are fighting for three children.
01:12:25This is the question that the two children are going to have to work with your children?
01:12:36How are you asking?
01:12:38It is that we are friends and we are not.
01:12:42They have teamed up.
01:12:44They will not be married.
01:12:46If they will not be married, they will be in our own house.
01:12:49After a break, we will discuss them.
01:12:53Good morning Pakistan.
01:13:01Welcome back.
01:13:02Good morning Pakistan.
01:13:03So, today we will talk about the trauma.
01:13:06And now, what we bear with our children.
01:13:09Especially after a marriage.
01:13:11Here is a trauma.
01:13:13Before breaking,
01:13:16the toxic atmosphere is over.
01:13:19The whole life is over.
01:13:20The whole body is over.
01:13:22The whole body is over.
01:13:25The whole body is over.
01:13:29The whole body is over.
01:13:32The whole body has become a generational body.
01:13:37They are now doing their behavior.
01:13:40This has been realized and it has been realized.
01:13:42But they are wanting to come out.
01:13:46So we have asked you, Dr. Tanah, what do you want to do?
01:13:50First of all, I will say that this is your insight,
01:13:54that you have thought that this thing is coming in.
01:13:57That means, again, that you don't want to do that.
01:14:02The other thing is that when we look at our roles
01:14:06and we look at the other roles,
01:14:07like I was also a big one, I was also a big one.
01:14:10But the things that you don't like for yourself,
01:14:13that you don't want to do that.
01:14:16You have to focus more on those things.
01:14:19I know it's easy to say.
01:14:21But when you do it, it's difficult.
01:14:23For this, your health is very important.
01:14:26Look, we don't have physical help.
01:14:29We only have to drink, drink, and drink.
01:14:32It's our emotional help.
01:14:34And your damage, trauma,
01:14:37it was emotional, like in the mood.
01:14:44And the fact that we have to do it.
01:14:51It's all about the words.
01:14:51If you're learning something,
01:14:55then you can do something,
01:14:59then you can do something.
01:15:00So you can do something.
01:15:02You can feel that you can do something.
01:15:03Yes, absolutely. And then you will not study those things, like I said, you are busy,
01:15:07so you will not study those things.
01:15:09Those things you feel like I am doing with your body and you don't like that.
01:15:15That pattern of growth.
01:15:17Because we say that generation to generation is transferred.
01:15:22For this generation to generation, to stop the transference,
01:15:25if you have done something, then this is a very good thing.
01:15:29If you have done something similar, you will see your role as well.
01:15:31But you will have to calm yourself.
01:15:33You will have to be in a system, you will have to make dinner,
01:15:36you will have to be in a situation like this.
01:15:40But if you are in a system, and you will have to adapt your role.
01:15:47If I was a place, then I thought,
01:15:49how did I leave my life?
01:15:50This is a formula that you will have to react to the action and the reaction also will be.
01:15:57It's possible that you were so violent, that you were violent, that you were violent,
01:16:02which is the best of you, but when it goes down,
01:16:07it will take you to the whole house.
01:16:11When it comes to your husband,
01:16:13when it comes to you, it doesn't matter if it comes to your own life,
01:16:18that you will lose, lose, lose, lose, lose.
01:16:20You have to feel that you will regret it.
01:16:23that I have a child with my hand, I don't have a feeling. Why would the girl go to her
01:16:30mother and take her home to her mother and get her home with her mother?
01:16:38Why would the girl go to her mother and get her home?
01:16:53I don't want to see anything from the baby.
01:16:54This is the point where you have to get this thing.
01:16:58I have to put it in my heart and see it.
01:17:02How is your baby? You haven't told anything about it.
01:17:05My baby is good.
01:17:06You have told me that I'm going to become negative.
01:17:12But the baby is positive.
01:17:14It is positive.
01:17:16It is positive.
01:17:16When she is doing good with you,
01:17:19you have to remember that when I was doing it with my body,
01:17:28and she was doing it like this,
01:17:30then I was so upset.
01:17:32At that time, you are the one who can change.
01:17:35Dr. Sanna, one very important question.
01:17:38How do people do positive things?
01:17:41They know that they have gone towards negativity.
01:17:42They have gone towards negativity.
01:17:44What is a way to do positive things?
01:17:47When you have negative thoughts,
01:17:50you have to say that it will be known,
01:17:53it will be affected,
01:17:54it will be affected,
01:17:56it will be affected.
01:17:57How do you do positive things in your body?
01:18:01Absolutely.
01:18:01I will give this message to everyone.
01:18:03Generally, I will ask.
01:18:05Absolutely, generally.
01:18:05There are three things that will remain easy.
01:18:07Self, self, self.
01:18:13Self-awareness.
01:18:14What are you doing?
01:18:15What is the problem?
01:18:17What is the problem?
01:18:17For example, I am a child.
01:18:19I am a child.
01:18:20But where is the problem?
01:18:21Where is the problem?
01:18:22If you have to be aware of self-awareness,
01:18:24you should also change yourself.
01:18:27And the same thing you need to know about yourself,
01:18:29you will identify the problem.
01:18:31And then you will find the solution of the problem.
01:18:33Instead of blaming people.
01:18:37It can be important for the treatment of the problem.
01:18:37Then, myself care is the one thing.
01:18:43And I am accomplishing myself into my life.
01:18:45It makes me feel completely clean.
01:18:47And I am an adult.
01:18:47I get a lot of time.
01:18:48What am I trying to get my life together?
01:18:49Because I am taking my life together.
01:18:51I have to take my life together.
01:18:52Even more than I am taking my life together.
01:18:54I don't have to touch my life together.
01:18:56I try to touch my life together.
01:18:59What am I saying?
01:19:00I just need to touch my life together.
01:19:01Because I am the problem for the truth,
01:19:03and I am watching my life together.
01:19:04and they are watching TV TV.
01:19:05They are just watching TV TV.
01:19:07They know that everyone has to do their work.
01:19:09When they don't do it, they don't work.
01:19:11So they have to see it.
01:19:12They make the idea.
01:19:16These are all things.
01:19:17So you have to get self-awareness,
01:19:18and they will get better in it.
01:19:21And if you have self-care,
01:19:22the power comes.
01:19:24You cannot be physically,
01:19:27but emotionally, spiritually.
01:19:29Why go outside?
01:19:30walk in the park, walk in the park, walk in the park, walk in the park, Allah Allah has given
01:19:34us the sea in free
01:19:35this is the beauty of it, these are all things that give us internally to us, the nature is connected
01:19:41to us, we feel better
01:19:44I will wind up the program, but I will say that today's topic was that the children of the youth
01:19:49are traumatized
01:19:52so the mother-in-law also thinks that the children of the youth are traumatized, but I think that the
01:20:00mother-in-law is not the case
01:20:02and they feel that if their children are traumatized, many mothers are not always angry at their homes
01:20:15but if you feel that they are traumatized and they are not afraid of their lives, but if you feel
01:20:22that they are traumatized
01:20:25and that it is necessary to help you, so I as a mother, your promise is not done
01:20:30I will say that to die and to die, go and die and die, die and die
01:20:47that the child, you will have some sweet ะทะฐะผะตัational ๋ฐฉ๋ฒ in them, but in certain words they are saying that
01:20:56so concern and any Nawali?
01:20:57You will be, you should not let people kill yourautamos
01:21:01that they are
01:21:03ugh, yeah
01:21:04people would never re-tale to them
01:21:04so you can pay them in their homes
01:21:07and people would never leave it
01:21:08as well
01:21:10people and their parents would never get sick
01:21:12the children would never wit themselves
01:21:14and if they don't have a sick
01:21:16then they will save them
01:21:18or save them
01:21:20or save them
01:21:22I would say that
01:21:24please, please,
01:21:26please, please give them
01:21:28to give them
01:21:30if they give them
01:21:32your back will be
01:21:33your own house will be
01:21:35your own house will be
01:21:38so God's fear
01:21:40in their hearts
01:21:42they will understand and think
01:21:43and they will not
01:21:45from suffering and suffering
01:21:48thank you so much
01:21:50this was our show
01:21:53inshallah
01:21:54tomorrow
01:21:56good morning Pakistan
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