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Belle Collective Season 8 Episode 4
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00:00Previously on Bell Collective,
00:02I'm concerned about my son.
00:04Do you know how many mother-in-laws
00:05would want a daughter-in-law like me?
00:07You're living your life for four other people.
00:09And sure am, and living a good one.
00:11You see what we have built, OK?
00:13Your mama came for me.
00:15You and I get along very well until two things
00:18are brought up, finances and mauling.
00:22Did you go see a divorce attorney,
00:24and you didn't let me know anything about it?
00:25I went to see an attorney.
00:27It wasn't a divorce attorney.
00:28Well, you know what?
00:29At this point, whatever.
00:33Treese is having surgery, right?
00:35She don't take it seriously.
00:37Are you worried for the Treese?
00:38Yes, I'm worried for the Treese.
00:40Your health is more important than anything in the world.
00:41So let's just get this done.
00:43She said she want a child.
00:45A child or a child?
00:47A child, one.
00:49No, I don't want a baby.
00:51At the end of the day, what you going to do?
00:53Not have a baby?
00:54I'm a real good operation.
00:56Well, since you don't want to have a baby,
00:58and you don't want to ever listen to the that I say.
01:00I listen.
01:00Then you.
01:16I'll be getting to the millions.
01:20We'll be getting to the millions, yeah, yeah.
01:24Hi.
01:25Fire your weight.
01:27OK.
01:28After having to postpone the whole fibroid surgery
01:31and just everything else that's been going on with me,
01:33I have been prioritizing my health even more.
01:38So today I'm trying something new with a sound bath
01:40to tap into my mental and spiritual side.
01:43We gotta move how we move.
01:45I am another follower.
01:46I'm in my own booze.
01:48Make money like boom.
01:50You just acting funny, make boom.
01:52What?
01:53Oh, y'all got your shoes on?
01:55Yeah, so you can just put them beside your mask.
01:57OK, thank you.
01:58I don't really know what a sound bath is,
02:00but Latrice said that it soothes the soul,
02:03and I need some soothing.
02:05I'm still reeling from Glenn going to see a divorce attorney
02:09without telling me, especially finding out the way I did
02:12in front of the collective.
02:14I want to ask you about Glenn.
02:16Mike told me about a divorce lawyer.
02:19So a sound bath right now is exactly what I need.
02:23Everybody take a big, deep breath.
02:24Breathe in.
02:27Exhale.
02:28Let it out.
02:29So we're just going to continue breathing here on our own.
02:32We're going to breathe in through the nose,
02:34out through the nose.
02:35On those inhales, I want you to think of breathing in peace,
02:38love, positivity, all good things.
02:44Cliff is going to let me have a baby.
02:47I get everything I want.
02:54I'm going to affirm financial dependency.
03:00I need for Glenn to sign this post note.
03:03Thank y'all so much for allowing me to hold space for you.
03:06Hope you can lower your forehead to your palms.
03:08Namaste.
03:09Namaste.
03:09Thank y'all so much.
03:12I will say I feel much better now than I did walking in.
03:17I feel relaxed.
03:19Well, we're going to continue to relax, honey,
03:21because I don't feel like getting up yet.
03:23It feels really good to have this opportunity
03:25to spend time with Latrice
03:27and work on building our friendship back.
03:30So how you been?
03:31What's up?
03:32Girl, I've been peaceful.
03:34Mm-hmm.
03:35Look, I'm trying to cook at home.
03:37I'm getting so much better.
03:38Oh, from the health scare?
03:40Yeah, just from the health scare,
03:41trying to eat healthier,
03:42and I want to control what goes into my body.
03:44Oh, that is smart.
03:45All seriousness, how is everything with you?
03:48Girl, it's a lot.
03:49I don't know what the divorce stuff came from with Selena.
03:52I don't know any of that.
03:54I must say that I am still floored
03:55that Selena exposed my marriage,
03:58put it out there on blast in front of the collective,
04:01but she owned it.
04:03She stood in it, she apologized,
04:06and she made it right.
04:07I don't think we were trying to be messy,
04:09because that's not the case.
04:11Mm-hmm.
04:11It was not malicious whatsoever.
04:13Mm-hmm.
04:14I don't think anybody in the collective
04:16want to see you and Glenn get a divorce
04:18or anything like that.
04:19Glenn has been out of town
04:21since I found out about these divorce rumors.
04:23So when he gets back in town,
04:25it's for sure time to have a one-on-one
04:28and let's lay everything out on the table.
04:30My truth really is,
04:32I did go see a financial advisor.
04:34Mm-hmm.
04:34I'm not going to lie.
04:35Not talking about a post-num,
04:37only because I hadn't seen this type of fun on my own.
04:41It's always been with Glenn,
04:43so now I'm getting my own corn, steady corn.
04:46My corn's flowing.
04:48I love that.
04:48I have worked really, really, really, really hard for this,
04:51but I do know should something happen.
04:53Mm-hmm.
04:54He gonna get petted just to be petted.
04:56Fred want his head.
04:58His and yeah, all of this.
04:59I understand Latisha Glendale.
05:02He's so unpredictable,
05:03so you should want to protect yourself
05:05from someone who is like that.
05:08At our double date, you spoke about having a baby.
05:11How's that going?
05:12That's the thing.
05:12Like, we're going back and forth,
05:14and I'm telling him, like, you my husband.
05:15If I tell you I want a baby, then that's what it is.
05:18Like...
05:18Because he was begging you for one.
05:20Yes.
05:20On top of that, I'm having to have the surgery for my fibroids.
05:24We still have so much going on within taste,
05:27and I keep pushing the surgery out
05:28because if I do have the surgery
05:30and I'm down for weeks at a time,
05:32like, how's the business gonna function?
05:34Mm-hmm.
05:36I don't know.
05:36Do you think I need to talk to Cliff
05:38and you talk to Glenn, or...?
05:39I mean, I would be open to it
05:41because I feel like he'll talk to somebody else
05:44before he actually come to me as his wife
05:46and tell me actually the real.
05:48Mm-hmm.
05:48I think we need to do a swap.
05:49Let's do a swap.
05:50I mean, he begged you for a damn baby for years.
05:52Y'all went through that,
05:53so now what you mean you don't want to have a baby?
05:56Like, baby little Cliff Arella would...
05:59I really think that this plan is going to work.
06:01Y'all know now, when it comes to the husbands,
06:04we got a little past.
06:05You gotta step up and be the wife Glenn wants.
06:07That with 50-inch ,
06:09don't need to be around a mad woman.
06:11That's insecurity to me.
06:12I'm really hoping that Cliff will be open-minded
06:15to hearing what I have to say,
06:17considering that he always has an opinion.
06:19I'm definitely down for the swap.
06:20What's the worst that can happen?
06:22I have tried to get through to my husband for months now.
06:26You don't comprehend the extent of everything that I do.
06:30What you can do, you can do it on a laptop.
06:32You know how I operate no equipment in there.
06:34So what's the big deal?
06:37I pray and hope that Leticia can move the needle
06:40when it comes to my husband doing more work at Taste.
06:44Well, let's do it.
06:45Let's do it.
06:45We're about to swap the husbands.
06:47Put a husband swap.
06:48Good luck, baby.
06:50Good luck, baby.
07:09Today, I decided to meet my mother.
07:12We've got property out in a small town called Greensburg, Louisiana.
07:16Almost 400 acres of land.
07:19The property was in my father's family for a long time
07:23and passed down through generations.
07:25My father passed away during COVID in 2020.
07:28At that point, the property transitioned over into my mother's name.
07:31Mom, what you doing?
07:33Oh, what a surprise.
07:37Surprise.
07:38What you out here working on?
07:39What bring you here?
07:41You. You brought me here.
07:43Oh, really?
07:44Mm-hmm.
07:44When did I do that?
07:471982.
07:49After listening to Carrie about the situation
07:51that happened between her and my mom,
07:53I knew it was important to sit down with my mother
07:55and then talk to her about what happened.
07:57Marlene was up here on this whole tirade of,
08:01Carrie, you're a bad mom.
08:03You're a bad wife.
08:04Why do you work so much?
08:06Why are you not home with the kids?
08:07I'm hoping that I can get some more clarity
08:11why my mom feels the way she does
08:13about my relationship with my wife.
08:15I went to your house the other day.
08:18I heard it.
08:18You did?
08:19Yeah.
08:20Your wife's got a big mouth.
08:21I wanted to talk to you, and it was about, um, here.
08:25Look at this place.
08:26And I've been under depression, y'all.
08:28We're coming out here.
08:29How many people you know have, uh, 400 acres of land, Matt?
08:33Monaco is 400, I think, 23 acres.
08:38It's a country.
08:39Now, you got 400.
08:40So you trying to turn this into Monaco?
08:42Hey!
08:43Your mama could make stuff work.
08:45Obviously, you know, I've got a lot going on.
08:47It takes a lot of time and resources to get out here.
08:51Since my dad passed in 2020,
08:53my mom seems to be leaning on me more.
08:56I get a call probably two to three times a week saying,
09:00hey, Matt, you need to get out to the property
09:02and check things out.
09:03It's kind of put me in a very tough situation.
09:05Carrie's been stressed.
09:06She's got a lot on her plate.
09:07Well, if she listened to people like me,
09:09y'all wouldn't be as stressed.
09:10She is not tamed.
09:12It's time for you to tame her.
09:15My mom feels like Carrie needs to be home more.
09:20That would allow me to take on a role, um, with the land.
09:24However, you know, Carrie has a ton of things going on.
09:27So the idea of her just being home all the time,
09:31it just doesn't work for her.
09:33And it probably won't work for us.
09:35You and Carrie put me in a very awkward position.
09:38Because I still, at the end of the day,
09:39I got to go home to Carrie, my wife, right?
09:42I live with her, and you're my mother.
09:44I think we have to figure out a way
09:45to get y'all back on the same page.
09:47Because at the end of the day, that is your daughter-in-law.
09:50She's not going to listen to me.
09:51So maybe we all need to sit down and talk about the inheritance.
09:56The reality is my mom's not going to be here forever.
09:58And at that point, the property will then
10:01be passed down to my siblings and I.
10:03I got my wife on one hand.
10:04I got my mom on the other hand.
10:06Tension between the two of them is weighing me down.
10:09And if I don't get them on the same page,
10:11I know it's only going to get worse.
10:13Maybe I will mentor her.
10:14Getting it straight from the horse's mouth.
10:17And I'm the horse.
10:18You're the horse.
10:19Yep.
10:19I'm the horse.
10:20And Karrick better learn how to ride.
10:24Coming up on Bell Collective.
10:26I did have a conversation with Latrice.
10:28Well, she's not having a surgery because she
10:30don't want to let go of taste because this what she running.
10:34It's addictive.
10:35Like a drug, she got to be here.
10:37I'm not trying to argue with you.
10:39But at the same time, Glenn, you...
10:40I'm not arguing with you, man.
10:42Well, what you want to do?
10:43We could divorce, Tisha.
10:45I'm fine.
10:47I feel like I'm in the middle of a cat fight.
10:50No, you're not.
10:51I feel like you should stand up.
10:53There's a lion right here, baby.
10:54I'm a big cat.
10:55Something's really wrong with you.
10:56Wait, now.
10:57Ain't nothing wrong with my daughter now.
10:58You're taking it personally.
10:59Yeah, I am.
11:00Because it ain't nothing.
11:01Let's straighten this out.
11:02Let's do it.
11:05I do it.
11:05I do it.
11:07I do it.
11:08I do it on one.
11:09I do it.
11:10I do it.
11:11I do it on one.
11:12I do it.
11:13I do it.
11:14I.
11:15I.
11:16I'm a go getter.
11:16Beat the eyes one on one on something bigger.
11:19Don't need no assistance about my own dinner.
11:22I ain't never took a L cause I stay winning.
11:24Today, I'm pulling a phone clip at Taste, because part of my agreement
11:28with Latrice is that we will meet up with each other's husbands.
11:31It's only fair that I do to him what he did to me
11:34when he popped up at my office.
11:36What do I owe this pleasure?
11:38I've just been talking to Glenn.
11:40He said, you're being word related.
11:41So I said, I'll go back and talk to your wife.
11:43So Glenn sent you?
11:45Yeah.
11:46So right now, I'm here, and I hope to talk some sense
11:49and to Cliff.
11:50What you doing here?
11:52Listen, you got a minute.
11:53Let me talk to you.
11:54Come over here.
11:55I know you're surprised to see me.
11:58Real surprised.
11:59Very surprised.
12:00Cutting trees, I've been doing that for over 30-something years.
12:03But this was a surprise.
12:05What is Latrice putting up?
12:07It takes, we're not opening on these items because we're closed.
12:10I'm cutting down a tree.
12:12Latrice putting up, I know it got to be something
12:14because here goes the piercing again.
12:17I did have a conversation with Latrice.
12:19Right.
12:19She did share with me some concerns about what's going on
12:23and how she feels.
12:24And I actually shared some stuff with her, too, as well.
12:28But I was like, you know what?
12:29Maybe we should switch up.
12:30She go talk to Glenn.
12:31I come talk to you because sometimes a different perspective,
12:35y'all receive it better.
12:36You know what I'm saying?
12:38Swapping for what?
12:39Latrice trying to get the wheel on her own.
12:41She sends over another bill.
12:43And that's the biggest problem.
12:44One bill for another bill.
12:46How are you trying to talk about my marriage?
12:48When I look at your marriage and Shambo all the time,
12:52I'm like, what the hell?
12:53What's going on with Glenn?
12:55I know I heard some pillow talk.
12:56They say it was a divorce rumor that Glenn was going to a lawyer
12:59and all this.
13:00Yeah, I heard about that, too.
13:02My financial advisor, she advised me about a post-nuptial.
13:08So a post-nuptial is anything you make in the future?
13:10In the future.
13:12I don't know.
13:13Because we didn't have in the beginning.
13:14We need a post-nuptial on what I have going on right now.
13:17I got a talk show coming down the pipeline.
13:19It's just to protect this and protect everything that I'm building.
13:23Glenn has never asked me for a dime.
13:25But I know if, should something happen,
13:27y'all get sassy and petty.
13:29And he'll just do stuff to make me.
13:31I ain't never did that.
13:32I never get sassy.
13:33Clem, you the creator of sassy petty.
13:38I'm a create sassy petty.
13:39You already made the mother and you the creator.
13:42I am.
13:42I feel like Clem is misunderstanding the entire reason
13:46that I want a post-nuptial.
13:47He still has Glenn's best interest at heart and not mine.
13:51So ain't no need to me keep talking to him, honey,
13:53because it's falling on deaf ears.
13:55I did have a conversation with Latrice.
13:57Right.
13:57And we talked about, like, different stuff like we used to do.
14:01Fibroids, that's the real thing.
14:02She did talk about the fibroids.
14:04And she got to have another surgery.
14:05Right.
14:06So my thing is, well, why are you not having a surgery?
14:09Well, she not having a surgery because she don't want to let go of taste
14:12because this is what she running.
14:15She's scared it's not going to be ran properly.
14:18So we got to make sure the person who's keeping the doors open
14:21that she is healthy.
14:22She's together.
14:23She's taking care of.
14:24I keep the doors open.
14:25No, you do not.
14:25You cut the tree.
14:26Now, this cute.
14:27I like all this.
14:27Now, this is what you supposed to do.
14:29But we need you doing that in us, too.
14:32How she knows?
14:33She ain't there.
14:34I know what I do.
14:35I the one who built it from the ground up,
14:38and I just let her.
14:39It takes both to keep the door open.
14:41She's just a boss,
14:42and she want to make sure that everything runs properly.
14:45But you got to be a boss in your life, too.
14:46You got to take care of your temple first,
14:48so she got to understand.
14:49Well, she want to take care of that.
14:51Right.
14:51But she's scared to leave.
14:53No, I see.
14:53Clearly, she don't have confidence in you or the GM.
14:56She hard-headed.
14:56If you can step up and just do what you need to do and be her,
15:01she would love that.
15:02The treats worry about a lot of stuff.
15:04I told her she ain't got to worry about the business part.
15:06I can't have no taste, and I'm approved to her.
15:08Let everything be done right.
15:10After talking to her,
15:11I think she really wants to have a baby.
15:13But Cliff, you were just down her throat,
15:15not even a couple years ago, wanting a baby.
15:18Well, that was two years ago.
15:19She should have just did it then while I was still in the mood.
15:22That's your wife now, and she want a baby.
15:24My main focus is on her body, her health.
15:28We got to get her healthy so she can have a child.
15:31We get the surgery,
15:32and the doctor give her clear-billed health,
15:34and then we talk about her baby.
15:36You got to figure out how can I make my wife comfortable enough
15:40to leave the business in my hands,
15:43and then she'll say, I'm going to have a surgery.
15:46And just show her, babe, I got this.
15:47I got this.
15:48Show her that you that guy.
15:49I got this.
15:50And if you don't, Cliff, we're going to have a problem.
15:53I'm willing to put my privacy after my wife helped.
15:56So I'm going to do this for her,
15:58show my wife that I can step up to the plate.
16:00I'm going hard for my wife, so she can trust me.
16:04You got me.
16:05We locked.
16:06You hear me?
16:07Okay.
16:07Next time, text me before you pop up.
16:09Might need a drink before you come.
16:11You be putting pressure on me.
16:12Yeah, you put pressure on yourself.
16:16Coming up on Bell Collective.
16:18Thank you, because I feel like I was owed an apology
16:21for a lot of stuff.
16:23I owe you an apology?
16:25Yes.
16:25I hear you saying that you feel like you was owed an apology.
16:29I don't know.
16:30I feel the same way.
16:33You're looking at a boss, looking at a boss.
16:35Shine so bright, never turn it off.
16:38You're looking at a real one, real one.
16:40Baby, I got time to brag, I'm a real one.
16:44Now that Letitia fulfilled her side of the husband swap,
16:48now it's my turn to step up and check in with Glenn.
16:53Letitia.
16:55Nobody dead?
16:56No, nobody died.
16:58But listen, so, you know, of course,
17:00me and Tisha wanted to do this whole husband swap
17:03with your ass thing on the road,
17:04so I can't pop up on you, okay?
17:07I have not had a one-on-one conversation with Glendale
17:11in probably a year or so.
17:14I hate that I couldn't meet with Glendale in person,
17:16but I'm excited about this call.
17:18Me and your wife, we went, we're good.
17:23Me and Letitia, we're good, actually.
17:26Y'all good today.
17:28Tomorrow, she'll be a broke bitch again.
17:31Oh, that's in the past.
17:33We're moving forward, and part of moving forward.
17:36I apologize.
17:37I apologize.
17:38She's right.
17:38Thank you, because I feel like I was owed an apology
17:41for a lot of stuff.
17:44I owe you an apology?
17:46Yes.
17:46I've seen Glendale several times in group settings,
17:49but I honestly feel like he definitely owes me an apology
17:52for stepping at me at Selena's birthday party.
17:54Who have I talked about?
17:56Who?
17:57What the fuck?
17:58You out of my mouth?
17:59Shorty.
18:00Shorty.
18:00Hey, don't walk up on my wife, bitch.
18:02And now that I have Glendale one-on-one,
18:04I definitely need to express to him
18:06exactly how that made me feel
18:08and how this could never happen again.
18:10I hear you saying that you feel like you owe an apology,
18:13and I'm not gonna lie, I feel the same way.
18:17It was never an apology given to me
18:21for, you know, that drama that went on at the pool party.
18:25Have you ever been attracted to someone in the group?
18:28No.
18:29He a liar.
18:31Wow!
18:34But because that everyone else is trying to move forward,
18:37I have no choice but to also move forward as well.
18:41So let's see what's going on.
18:44I stand on anything I do, so you know what I mean?
18:47I apologize if I made you feel any type of way.
18:50If I was wrong, I do apologize.
18:53I apologize if I made you feel a certain type of way.
18:58But at the end of the day, life is too short.
19:01I agree, especially with your health care.
19:05Like, I was in the casino.
19:06I was like, what?
19:07We do look at y'all like, man, the bad.
19:09I know both sides are certain.
19:11Look, you still be brother,
19:13but I heard you been over there popping your s***
19:15and doing some extra, extra s***.
19:17Okay.
19:18Me and the...
19:19Yeah.
19:20So first is this whole postnup thing
19:22that she was telling me about.
19:23We hearing that you're going to talk to a f***ing divorce lawyer.
19:27I went and talked to an attorney.
19:29Okay.
19:29The reason I went and talked to an attorney
19:31is to get a better understanding of this postnup.
19:34You could have went to Google
19:35and thought what a postnup was.
19:37Nah, I needed to hear this from a lawyer.
19:39I needed for everything to be broke down.
19:42And I also want to see...
19:43I'm like, okay, she want to protect her ex-ex.
19:45Let me protect my ex.
19:47So did you possibly mention
19:49divorce?
19:50Yes, I did ask the lawyer
19:51what would it look like
19:53if we got divorced?
19:55Like, as far as assets
19:56and everything that I have,
19:58like my 401k,
20:00my mutual funds,
20:01my whole life insurance,
20:02you know what I mean?
20:03I wanted to know,
20:04you know,
20:05how do I protect that?
20:06Because we all know
20:07I've been working on short forever,
20:08so...
20:09Regardless,
20:09if you put in 100%,
20:11it's still, you know,
20:12you busted down the middle,
20:13which she is entitled to
20:14because, hell,
20:15she's been there with you
20:16since y'all been in diapers.
20:18Do you think
20:19Letitia would divorce you?
20:21Oh, most definitely
20:22because she's in a stage
20:24of elevating
20:25and anything that she feel
20:27like is dead weight,
20:29I do feel like she a penny.
20:32What's the thing?
20:32It's not about the essence.
20:34It's not about the money.
20:36It was the disrespect.
20:37It was the feeling of, like,
20:39how dare you?
20:40You act like I'm gonna come
20:41for your money?
20:43Everybody that know me know
20:44I'm fed as hell
20:46when my feelings hurt, right?
20:47Yes, very.
20:48I feel like you should
20:50just give her that.
20:51I mean, it's not like
20:52she's trying to put
20:52everything in a post-nup,
20:54but just give her
20:55a foundation to stand on.
20:57This is really her first time
20:59coming into herself.
21:01You have been great
21:02being there,
21:03supportive husband,
21:05but I feel like
21:06it's time for Letitia
21:06to spread her wings
21:08just a little.
21:10Speaking with Latrice,
21:11she's giving me
21:12another perspective
21:12to look at it from.
21:13It's a conversation
21:14that Letitia and I
21:16should have.
21:16We should have had
21:17before she even went
21:18and seen me
21:18or talked to someone
21:20about a post-nup,
21:21but it's a discussion
21:22that we have to have.
21:24The only thing
21:24I want from Letitia
21:25is the original heart
21:26before I broke it.
21:28Do you think
21:29you're gonna get
21:29that original heart back?
21:31Until guys take
21:32my last breath,
21:33I'm gonna forever
21:34fight for that.
21:41Coming up
21:42on Bell Collective.
21:43Your ideals
21:44about being a wife
21:46and a mother
21:46are a little bit different,
21:48right?
21:48And my mom,
21:49she doesn't necessarily
21:50understand that.
21:52A doctor is not
21:53gonna go take advice
21:54from a street sweeper.
21:56It's very disrespectful.
22:00This is one of them days
22:03I don't feel like
22:04being bothered
22:06Please don't try to hide
22:08Cause this is one of them days
22:19You're welcome.
22:21Okay, the little barbecue vibe.
22:23Matt and I are going
22:24to launch
22:26to hopefully unpack
22:27the little
22:29meet and greet
22:30that he had
22:31with his mom
22:32up in Greensburg.
22:34I really want to hear
22:35what went down
22:36because I'm sure
22:37my name
22:37was in everybody's mouth.
22:39I thought they're
22:40supposed to be hot today.
22:42Boy.
22:43Babe, you on the blood
22:44thinnest or something?
22:44Why you so cold?
22:46You gonna need one
22:46to say that.
22:47No, I'm fine.
22:48The way you got
22:48my nerves bad,
22:49I'm trying to hear
22:50about what you and your...
22:50How you got your nerves bad?
22:51Matt, my nerves been bad
22:52since you went up
22:53up north Louisiana
22:54with your mama.
22:55North Louisiana?
22:57That's Shreveport, Monroe.
22:58Well, what else?
22:59South Louisiana?
23:00I thought you were...
23:02South Central, Matt.
23:03Yeah, that's about right.
23:04South Central.
23:05South Central, Louisiana.
23:06The place where
23:07I ain't trying to go to.
23:08So what went down?
23:09I already know
23:09Moline probably showed up behind.
23:11My mom is very outspoken.
23:13You're very outspoken.
23:15Matt, but my outspoken,
23:16I got something to speak about.
23:17She ain't talking about nothing.
23:19But just let me finish.
23:20But that's one of the problems
23:21right there.
23:22You talk too loud
23:22and too much.
23:23I'm bringing something to you.
23:24I'll bring something to Marlene.
23:26Yeah, if you stop talking...
23:26If you stop talking so much,
23:28can you do that for a change?
23:30I shall oblige you.
23:32Your wish is my command.
23:33Look, you can't do it for two seconds.
23:34That's what your mama want me to do.
23:36Your wish is my command.
23:37For three seconds.
23:38Yes, Matt.
23:39Your wish is my command.
23:40That's what she want me to do.
23:41No, you can't...
23:42And I ain't never been
23:43no wish is your command type of girl.
23:45Yeah, yeah.
23:45Marlene is speaking
23:46based upon her reality.
23:48She is the,
23:49yeah, wish is my command
23:50type of woman.
23:51And that's cool.
23:52I got a lot more on my plate
23:54than she had.
23:55Matt seems to be veering
23:57to Marlene's side of things.
23:59And it's annoying.
24:00My mom is upset
24:02because the property
24:03is dear to her, right?
24:05She's passionate about it.
24:06She feels like
24:07I need to take on
24:08a bigger role.
24:09And I agree with her.
24:11Now, do I have the time?
24:12I don't necessarily have the time
24:14to take on a lot right now.
24:16That right there
24:16is what tells me
24:17that y'all have a disconnect
24:19and your mama don't even know
24:20what's going on
24:20with her own children.
24:21It ain't a disconnect.
24:22Because if she knew,
24:22my mama don't come to me
24:24with outside mess.
24:26My mama and daddy
24:27would never come to me,
24:28hey, let's do a pipe dream
24:30and go spend
24:31hundreds of thousands
24:32of dollars on property
24:33that's 200 miles away from us
24:35and take a gamble
24:37on something
24:37that doesn't even make sense.
24:38Yeah, she's not talking about that.
24:39She's talking about
24:39keeping the property up.
24:40Matt, Matt.
24:41We have enough stress
24:42and drama going on
24:43with our restaurants
24:44going awry
24:46and Matt starting a new job.
24:48Here come my mother-in-law
24:49with a step back
24:50and stay home more.
24:51Carrie Paul cannot step back
24:53because Carrie Paul
24:54is the brand.
24:55Carrie Paul is the foundation
24:56of this household
24:57and this family.
24:58Lady, what are you talking about?
24:59Like, does not compute.
25:02You two are alike
25:04in some ways
25:04where you're both stubborn
25:07but your ideals
25:09about being a wife
25:10and a mother
25:10are a little bit different,
25:12right?
25:12And my mom,
25:14she doesn't necessarily
25:14understand that.
25:15And that's what I have to tell,
25:16Marlene,
25:17you don't even know
25:17nobody like me.
25:18Like, I'm a one-of-one.
25:19You are one-of-one,
25:20but she a one-of-one too
25:22because she's a very peculiar person.
25:23She's just regular.
25:24She's just an everyday
25:25average lady.
25:27First of all,
25:27what is it with women
25:28where you feel like
25:29you have to compete
25:30with each other?
25:31I'm not going to...
25:31That's my point.
25:33A doctor is not going
25:34to go take advice
25:35from a street sweeper.
25:38This is one of those moments
25:40where my wife and I,
25:42we don't see eye to eye.
25:43And this is very disrespectful.
25:45Carrie's definitely
25:46crossing the line.
25:47I think it would be
25:48my wife's best interest
25:49if she started
25:50showing my mom
25:51more respect.
25:52There's always been division
25:54between you and my mom
25:55because I just don't think
25:57you've ever really
25:58given her
26:00as much respect
26:01as you could.
26:02Even when you can
26:02disagree with a person,
26:04that doesn't mean
26:04you have to like a person
26:05all the time.
26:06It's a respect
26:07that you give that person.
26:08You're right.
26:09And I think you've always
26:10had an issue with that.
26:12I feel that
26:13from what I've experienced
26:14and from what I've received
26:15from Marlene over the years,
26:17I have forgiven a lot
26:19and gone above and beyond
26:21to keep things copacetic.
26:23As y'all can see,
26:24my mother-in-law
26:25is a pretty eccentric person.
26:27And I love my mother-in-law,
26:28but the lady is crazy.
26:30Matt knows what it is
26:32to deal with Marlene
26:33because I'm gonna say it.
26:35I'm a little bit
26:35of Marlene light, okay?
26:37But I'm light.
26:38She dark.
26:40Can we take on a project
26:42with Marlene right now?
26:43Can we afford to do
26:43anything like that?
26:44Do we have the time
26:45or the moment?
26:45There's not a project.
26:46She didn't call
26:47and ask for your help.
26:48She called and asked
26:49for my help, her son.
26:50She wants me to get
26:51more involved
26:52in taking care
26:53of the property
26:55that's gonna be passed
26:57down to me
26:58and my kids one day.
27:00That's cool.
27:01And we're told
27:02you don't go to Greensburg.
27:03Nope.
27:05And what I'm not
27:06about to do
27:06is catching out
27:07of one of the strays
27:08of the whole situation
27:09of Matt not wanting
27:10to go to Greensburg.
27:11Baby, that ain't on me.
27:12That's on y'all.
27:12Y'all probably need
27:13to come together
27:14and work on
27:16whatever lies beneath.
27:18Get that figured out.
27:19But baby,
27:19leave me
27:20the hell up out of it.
27:22My mama ain't going nowhere
27:24and you ain't going nowhere.
27:25Cool.
27:26I think you two
27:27just gotta sit down
27:28and make things right.
27:29Like, just get on
27:30the same page.
27:31I'll do it.
27:33If it's gonna help
27:34our marriage
27:35and our relationship,
27:37I have no problem.
27:40Tell don't come
27:40with that mess
27:41and tell do not come
27:42with a drink in a hand.
27:43I can't control that.
27:44See?
27:46I mean...
27:49Coming up
27:50on Bell Collective.
27:51I was talking
27:52to her about Matt
27:55and I needed him
27:56to be showing up
27:57sometimes in Greensburg.
27:59You're trying
27:59to manipulate him, Marlene.
28:01You don't even know
28:02what we have going on
28:03in our life.
28:04I don't.
28:04My mom and daddy do.
28:05That's why they don't
28:05come with a mess.
28:24Glenn is finally back
28:25from his work trip
28:26and although I've had time
28:28to cool down,
28:29we haven't had a chance
28:30to just really sit down
28:31face to face
28:32because Joshua's been there.
28:33I know Glenn and Latrice
28:34were able to talk
28:35about him visiting
28:36the divorce attorney
28:37but this has been weighing
28:39on me.
28:40It has been weighing
28:40in my spirit
28:41so Glenn decided
28:42to bring me to the park
28:44where we had
28:44the recommitment ceremony.
28:46I am fully committed.
28:48I'm recommitted
28:49to what we're doing.
28:50We was in such
28:51a great space
28:53before this situation happened.
28:59Oh, this is peaceful.
29:02Yep.
29:02You remember we used
29:03to come out here
29:03all the time.
29:05Even like before Josh.
29:07Way before Josh.
29:08We were 18, 19.
29:10It's just been our place.
29:11Yep.
29:12It's just crazy
29:13not even like a year ago
29:15we were here
29:16during the recommitment.
29:19Yeah.
29:20It was just
29:21the first time
29:22ever really
29:23that I've ever
29:25been out here
29:26and didn't feel
29:27like at peace
29:29during the recommitment
29:30ceremony.
29:31I could tell.
29:32Yeah.
29:33I didn't even think
29:34you were going to come.
29:35I didn't want to come.
29:37Why did you come?
29:38I didn't want to hurt you.
29:39I didn't want you
29:40to look like crazy
29:42or anything.
29:43I did another move
29:44to make you happy
29:45and I didn't like
29:47how that made me feel.
29:5012 months
29:51of me
29:53fighting
29:53for my life
29:54and my marriage
29:55and she's undecided
29:57if she wanted or not.
29:58I am heartbroken
29:59right now
30:00because
30:00I'm looking at it
30:02as a fresh start
30:03and you
30:04don't even want
30:05to be here.
30:06It got me
30:07in a weird place
30:07with us.
30:08We can't keep
30:08circling the drain.
30:10We gotta
30:11resolve this
30:12like adults
30:13because our son
30:15is becoming
30:15a preteen.
30:17He's able
30:17to pick up
30:18on these things.
30:19When we're in public
30:20or at the house
30:21I go to lean in
30:22and kiss you
30:22and you showing me
30:23some kind of
30:23cold shoulder
30:25none of that.
30:25If you with me
30:26you with me.
30:27If you not
30:27let me know.
30:29I just want to ask
30:30you one thing though.
30:31Should I be
30:31expecting like
30:33divorce papers?
30:36Why you say that?
30:38Well
30:38our relationship
30:40became like
30:41the topic
30:42for giggles.
30:44I had a conversation
30:44with my friend.
30:45I didn't have
30:46the conversation
30:47with the bells.
30:49Leticia
30:49acting out
30:50surprising
30:50like she's
30:52embarrassed
30:52that I went
30:53and talked
30:53to a lawyer.
30:54Why you didn't
30:55feel that way
30:55when you went
30:56and talked
30:56to a financial
30:57advisor?
30:57I'm not gonna
30:58feel bad
30:59for talking
30:59to my friend
31:00about situations
31:01that's going
31:01on in my life
31:02like a damn
31:03postnope.
31:03I'm human.
31:04This postnope
31:05is heavy business
31:06and it's messing
31:07with my role
31:08as a provider.
31:09There's no way
31:10in hell
31:10you thought
31:11that you could
31:11come to me
31:12and ask me
31:12to sign
31:12a postnope
31:13and I'd be like
31:14yeah sure
31:14bring it here
31:15let me
31:15you knew that
31:16we've never
31:19had any type
31:20of issue
31:20when it come
31:21to assets
31:22because what's
31:22yours is mine
31:23what's mine
31:23is yours
31:24and we've
31:24always moved
31:25like that
31:25so when you
31:26come hit me
31:27with this
31:27it made me
31:28feel like
31:28you're protecting
31:29your assets
31:30because you're
31:31getting ready
31:31to separate
31:33you're getting
31:33ready to move
31:34on.
31:35It's not that
31:35it's that at
31:36the end of the
31:37day I want to
31:38protect my
31:38business part
31:39of things
31:40I have business
31:41deals with
31:42people
31:43I'm not
31:43worried about
31:44your business
31:45and I'm not
31:45trying to cut
31:46you off
31:46I don't give
31:47a damn
31:47if we broke
31:48I don't give
31:49a damn
31:49if we filthy
31:51rich
31:51as long as
31:52I'm with you
31:52I'm cool
31:53so you're
31:54cool with
31:54signing
31:54no I'm not
31:55signing a postnope
31:56I'm not
31:57I'm not
31:57doing that
31:58if we signing
31:59that we'll
31:59sign a divorce
32:00too
32:01that's what
32:01our postnope
32:02is for
32:04hearing Glenn
32:04say that he
32:05would rather
32:05get a divorce
32:06than sign
32:07the postnope
32:08it really
32:09hurts
32:09I feel like
32:10Glenn's hesitation
32:11has something
32:11to do with
32:12him still
32:12having a hard
32:13time and he's
32:14struggling with
32:14my elevation
32:15that's just
32:16what it is
32:16so anything
32:17to be rebellious
32:18against me
32:19he's gonna do it
32:20the main problem
32:21with us is Glenn
32:22is that you spoil
32:23are you serious
32:24yes you are
32:25you are
32:26you gonna have to say
32:27you know what
32:28my wife right now
32:29she's still my wife
32:30but she's still not
32:31that type of
32:32kind of wife
32:32she got a business
32:33she got things going
32:34for once in her life
32:35she woke up and said
32:36oh my god
32:37I see the rainbow
32:38cheer me on
32:39like I've always
32:40tried to cheer you on
32:41and always have
32:42cheered you on
32:42anything that you
32:43wanted to do
32:44I don't have a problem
32:45with your elevation
32:46Tisha
32:46I have a problem
32:47not being a priority
32:49what does that look like
32:50you can't say
32:50how did it used to look
32:51I can't ever go back to that
32:53you said I was spoiled
32:54I don't even have a capacity
32:55I can't go back to that
32:57but I want to be your wife
32:59as an adult
32:59that's not my wife
33:00as an adult
33:01when you was doing
33:02your rapping stuff Glenn
33:03whatever I needed to do
33:04or whatever I needed to
33:05sacrifice for you
33:06and your dreams
33:07I did that
33:08I'm just asking now
33:09to give me the same thing
33:10have I not
33:11no
33:13if you can't get on board
33:14with my evolution
33:15then what are we doing here
33:17I'm looking forward
33:19not backwards
33:20it's my fault
33:21because I bowed down
33:22I was there for you
33:22I was good as well
33:23I kissed your ass
33:24I catered to you
33:24I did everything
33:25and now for once
33:26I'm doing something
33:27for myself
33:27and it's a problem
33:28that's what irritates me
33:29with you
33:30if I was you
33:31and you was me
33:31you would be pissed off
33:32too like damn T
33:34alright baby
33:35we good
33:37because you can't listen
33:39it's always what you
33:40want to hear
33:40nah man
33:41because you sit here
33:41and like
33:41you ain't confused
33:42out of me
33:43when I ain't done nothing
33:45I always say confused
33:45when you did do something
33:46so what are we talking
33:48about here
33:49I'm not trying to
33:50argue with you
33:51but at the same time
33:52Glenn you
33:53I'm not arguing with you
33:54you can't take it
33:55that's what you do
33:56I'm sick of this
33:56well what you want to do
33:58we can divorce Tisha
34:00I'm fine
34:02that's fine
34:03whatever the you want to do
34:04like I'm straight
34:05I'm straight
34:06can't even have a
34:07adult conversation
34:08that's stupid to me
34:11are you going to take me home
34:17take the mask off
34:18I see the real you
34:20you can't hide behind it
34:22cause I see right through it
34:23take the mask off
34:24stop being fed
34:26you can't hide behind it
34:28cause I see right through it
34:31welcome to Bushman Street Cafe
34:32I'm glad to be here
34:33this is a very stressful time for me
34:36the combination and the timing
34:38of me starting my own company
34:41and now this new development
34:43with the property
34:44and the tension between my mom and my wife
34:47is very agitating
34:48Carrie's been stressed
34:50she's got a lot on her plate
34:51well if she listened to people like me
34:53y'all wouldn't be stressed
34:54she is not tamed
34:56it's time for you to tame her
34:59she feels like you could be doing more
35:01because she doesn't understand
35:04your lifestyle
35:05and your career
35:07she's just an everyday average lady
35:09a doctor is not going to go take advice
35:11from a street sweeper
35:14give me just a couple minutes
35:15I'll get y'all set up
35:16okay
35:16thank you
35:17this is very important
35:19for my wife and my mom
35:21to sit down
35:22and get on the same page
35:24so Carrie's meeting us soon
35:25who?
35:26Carrie
35:27you say who?
35:30why you saying like that?
35:32who?
35:33your daughter-in-law
35:34oh my daughter-in-law
35:35what other Carrie's you know?
35:37I call Carrie Dill
35:39Dill
35:40yeah daughter-in-law
35:41just have an open mind
35:42that's all I want to tell you
35:43Carrie?
35:44I have to have an open mind
35:45oh god
35:47gonna stand in line
35:50with the rest of the haters
35:51while I get mine
35:52cause you a hater
35:56so I was talking to Carrie
35:58and she said
35:59hold on
36:00I heard my name already
36:01Carrie said
36:01what I said
36:03what I said
36:05hi
36:06you look nice
36:07beautiful
36:07well what kind of energy
36:09do you bring it
36:10cause last time
36:11I don't know why
36:11you acting off
36:12I'm trying to figure it out
36:13well honey I ain't gonna lie
36:15I'm holding a grudge
36:15cause I'm still mad
36:17about Marlene
36:17popping up at my house
36:19bringing all this drama
36:20so I want to have peace
36:21with my mother-in-law
36:22but she's the one
36:23bringing the drama to me
36:24welcome in
36:25my name is Spencer
36:26I'll be taking Carrie
36:27all today
36:28thank you Spencer
36:28of course
36:29what can I get y'all
36:30started with the drink
36:31I'm gonna do water
36:32and some Chardonnay
36:34because I'm gonna need it
36:35okay
36:35I got you
36:36oh Jesus of course
36:38my mother-in-law
36:39tends to get a little loose
36:41when she gets loose
36:43mess is afoot
36:44so if anything
36:45goes wrong
36:46I got something for her
36:47that's gonna have her tripping
36:48well babe
36:49what you brought us in for
36:51she's nervous
36:54you got my nerves bad
36:56yes
36:56Marlene the last time
36:57you came to my house
36:58you really like
36:59went crazy on me
37:00and my mama
37:00Matt
37:01you believe that
37:02come on
37:03she's a gathering
37:04like she always does
37:05I feel that when you
37:07came to my house
37:08the other day
37:08you were looking
37:09for a fight
37:10when I came to her house
37:12do I not live there
37:14my restaurant
37:15Marlene
37:16are you worried
37:17that he has to have
37:18his own
37:18no
37:19I'm just reminding
37:20my son that
37:21it can't always be
37:22about you
37:23and your vision
37:25it's not just
37:25about me
37:26and my vision
37:26I'd like to
37:28see everybody
37:28get back
37:29on the same page
37:30to hopefully
37:32make peace
37:33find some common ground
37:34find some balance
37:36that's part of the problem
37:37Marlene's talking
37:38about the ground
37:39the grounds
37:40in Greensburg
37:41that's part of the problem
37:42in Greensburg
37:43you and me
37:44were sitting down
37:45having that nice chat
37:46without Carrie
37:46was it nice
37:47because my husband
37:48was very frazzled
37:49when he got back
37:50I wasn't frazzled
37:51we had a good talk
37:53about what
37:54stuff she can't
37:55take care of
37:57I'm a person
37:58that when I deal
37:59with people
38:00I like for people
38:01to bring
38:02solutions
38:02and not problems
38:04we have an understanding
38:06we have an understanding
38:08and I agree
38:09to an extent
38:10that I need to get
38:11more involved
38:12thank you son
38:13because Greensburg
38:15and the properties
38:16are important
38:17part of our future
38:19and our kids future
38:20Matt
38:20I'm starting to feel
38:22a little teamed up on
38:23boy I'm gonna need you
38:24to stand up
38:25and be counted
38:26because in this moment
38:27you're sitting up here
38:28pandering
38:29to your mama
38:30and I do not like it
38:31don't worry
38:32hold on
38:32I got you
38:33don't worry
38:35Carrie
38:36who are you texting
38:37don't worry about it boo
38:39alas
38:40one thing about
38:41Miss Carrie baby
38:42she always comes
38:43with a trick in her bag
38:44and I got a little
38:46something for them
38:46that's gonna have them
38:47shaking
38:54I just think
38:55at the end of the day
38:55we
38:56I got more than green
38:57hello
38:59Mary is here baby
39:00full of grace
39:01look who's here
39:02my best friend
39:04oh god
39:04come get my daughter
39:05I believe I better get
39:06y'all teaming up on her
39:08she said I attacked her
39:10and you
39:12I gotta bring my mama
39:13to explain to Matt
39:14that it's time for him
39:15to man up
39:15and get his mama straight
39:16and even if he doesn't
39:18my mama will take care of that
39:20one thing about me
39:21and my mama
39:22I might be a firecracker
39:23but honey
39:24she's a roaming candle
39:25and I'm about to bring
39:26for this table
39:28the fireworks
39:30what are we here for
39:31what's what's what's up
39:32what's up
39:33tell me
39:33I was talking to her
39:35about Matt
39:37and I needed him
39:38to be showing up
39:39sometimes in Greensburg
39:40you're trying to
39:41manipulate him Marlene
39:42so he can do your bidding
39:44you just
39:44and all I'm doing
39:45is trying to keep it together
39:46over here
39:47you don't even know
39:48what we have going on
39:49in our life
39:49I don't
39:50my mom and daddy do
39:51that's why they don't
39:51come with the mess
39:52I feel like I'm in the
39:53middle of a cat fight
39:54no you're not
39:56I feel like you should
39:57stand up
39:57there's a lion right here
39:58baby I'm a big cat
39:59you see how she's talking
40:01to me
40:02she's out of control
40:03I will not allow
40:04for y'all to put this
40:05on me and Matt
40:06we're not putting on
40:07all you
40:07we're sitting
40:08look we came here
40:09to sit and have lunch
40:10she can't do that
40:11I'm very perturbed
40:13right now
40:13honestly I have
40:14very seldom
40:16been successful
40:17course correcting
40:18my wife and my mom's
40:20disagreements
40:20this is one of those
40:21moments where I know
40:23I can't fix it
40:23maybe God can
40:25something's really
40:26wrong with you
40:27wait now
40:28ain't nothing wrong
40:28with my daughter now
40:29you're taking it
40:30personally
40:30yeah I am
40:31let's straighten this out
40:38next time on Bell
40:40Collective
40:41I volunteered us
40:42to babysit baby TJ
40:44aka baby Tambra Jr
40:47I brought her water
40:48because she only does
40:49distilled or spring water
40:50so no juice
40:51no
40:53god damn it
40:54be still girl
40:56you can't keep on
40:57that baby
40:57today is the day
41:00of my bridal shower
41:02I'm so excited
41:03the issue is
41:04my coordinator
41:05can't do anything
41:06without an order
41:07service
41:08well wait a minute
41:08we can't be stressing
41:09out the bride on her
41:10she is
41:11oh yeah
41:11we can't be waiting
41:12on my bride
41:12we're going
41:13you better straighten up
41:15if my son was here
41:16talking to you like this
41:17what would happen
41:18what would happen
41:19tell him
41:20he wouldn't have
41:20any teeth
41:21when he gets in
41:22his feet
41:22oh boy Jesus Christ
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