00:00The questioner has asked, the moment I step out in the world, I am constantly magnetized by the pull of
00:07the opposite sex.
00:08How does one deal with this?
00:10I was talking to someone yesterday.
00:12So the same stuff, finances, wife, kids, problems.
00:17In the flow of things I asked, how is your sex life?
00:19He said it was great before marriage.
00:21These are the exact words.
00:23Once you come close, the fantasy is gone.
00:25Start living together and you would find that sex and all such urges have actually diminished.
00:30Those who don't have any love affairs feel like having a love affair with every woman they see.
00:36Even if attraction is a trap, avoid that trap, fall in that trap a few times.
00:41But you won't go close, you won't touch.
00:43You would say I am the witness.
00:44You are not witnessing, you are participating with your eyes, with your mind, with your imaginations, with your dreams, with
00:50your hands.
00:51And this is such a sick participation.
00:53Why dream of her when you can meet her?
00:55Meet her and be free of her.
00:57Dream of her and remain forever bonded.
01:00In fact, sexual attraction is such a deep tendency that it can reveal that to you which can otherwise not
01:10be consciously known.
01:11Your sexual attractions would tell you a lot about your ego.
01:16Don't hide them.
01:17Don't suppress them.
01:18Don't make a problem out of beauty or sexual attraction or pull of any kind.
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