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Host: Nida Yasir
Guests: Ghazal Siddique, Haroon Shahid, Atia Fareed
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Guests: Ghazal Siddique, Haroon Shahid, Atia Fareed
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00:05:34good morning Pakistan break
00:05:44welcome welcome back good morning Pakistan
00:05:48which is our topic is siblings for us to talk about today's panel
00:05:54one is Ghazal Siddiq
00:05:56assalamu alaikum
00:05:57I am the most deserving person
00:06:00I am the most deserving person
00:06:02I have 9 siblings
00:06:02I have also 9 siblings
00:06:04so I have a great family
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00:06:10and we are with Haroon
00:06:13assalamu alaikum
00:06:14how are you?
00:06:16we are 3 brothers
00:06:183 sisters
00:06:20no sisters
00:06:21and we have the expert
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00:06:28tell me the name
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00:06:30how are you?
00:06:35it is always lovely to be with all of you
00:06:38it is always lovely to be with all of you
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00:06:44mashallah
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00:06:48every person
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00:06:54if your siblings are more than one
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00:07:02let's start with Ghazal
00:07:03mashallah
00:07:04you have 9 siblings
00:07:05mashallah
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00:07:08all of the sisters
00:07:09the biggest sisters
00:07:12how do you relate to them?
00:07:14Lida
00:07:14with me
00:07:15I am a child of my father's father
00:07:18and all of my sisters
00:07:20their age difference is a lot
00:07:21i mean
00:07:23the biggest sisters
00:07:24maybe
00:07:25they will be older
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00:07:28if you see this
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00:07:29I am a father figure
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00:07:31they have
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00:07:40their children
00:07:40they have a lot of age
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00:07:48they have a family
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00:07:48they are my siblings
00:07:50they have a lot of fun
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00:07:55everything
00:07:55there is a lot of age difference
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00:07:58there is no problem
00:07:59there is no problem
00:08:01there is no problem
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00:08:04at the same time
00:08:06there is no problem
00:08:07there is another advantage
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00:08:09their age difference
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00:08:11in their children
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00:08:12there is no difference
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00:08:15you have a friend
00:08:16I think
00:08:17they are more close
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00:08:19my relationship
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00:08:26my siblings
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00:08:34this is a very different scenario
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00:08:37I am saying
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00:08:39each age group
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00:08:43you are three brothers
00:08:45three brothers
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00:08:46are you bigger
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00:08:47no
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00:08:50I have a twin
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00:08:51twin brother
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00:08:55I do not remember
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00:09:00we are different
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00:09:02it is not like
00:09:03you are scared
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00:10:01So, you always had to somewhat match.
00:10:08No, so the twin brothers,
00:10:09only wear one dress or the other one?
00:10:13No, no, no, no, no.
00:10:16Because we were three twins,
00:10:18but we were not twins.
00:10:19But we looked at our children,
00:10:21one dress,
00:10:22one dress,
00:10:22one dress,
00:10:22one dress,
00:10:23one dress,
00:10:23one dress,
00:10:23one dress,
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00:10:24The little dress,
00:10:25one dress.
00:10:27It's a pincher,
00:10:28so it doesn't fit.
00:10:30So, this is a mother of old women.
00:10:34Like a dress.
00:10:35So, this is a dynamic
00:10:37that is always interesting
00:10:39in life.
00:10:41And,
00:10:43in that sense,
00:10:44if you remember,
00:10:47there are fights in children,
00:10:49in children,
00:11:18in children,
00:11:19some of you.
00:11:19and your mother,
00:11:20and your mother,
00:11:21I don't think that
00:11:23if a difference of opinion
00:11:26has come,
00:11:27is there always a barrier
00:11:29to the end.
00:11:31that we can solve it.
00:11:34That it is not like this.
00:11:37So, there is no direct conflict.
00:11:42And the conflict is not like that.
00:11:44No, never.
00:11:46And it is not like that in Pakistan,
00:11:48in the past 15 years.
00:11:50So, there is no direct conflict.
00:11:55But one very important aspect
00:11:58that I always feel like my husband
00:12:00and all of these things.
00:12:02That I will talk about.
00:12:04When I was in childhood,
00:12:05when I was in childhood?
00:12:06Yes, very much.
00:12:07Yes, very much.
00:12:08He was taken away.
00:12:10And in that case,
00:12:12that my twin,
00:12:16I have never fought.
00:12:17No.
00:12:17I have never fought.
00:12:19I have never fought.
00:12:20But I have never fought.
00:12:22But I have never fought.
00:12:24Is the twin or the big brother?
00:12:26I have never fought.
00:12:27I have never fought.
00:12:29Yes, very much.
00:12:29But I have never fought.
00:12:31Yes, very much.
00:12:32That was a very great deal.
00:12:32Yes.
00:12:33Yes, very great deal.
00:12:34So, that was...
00:12:37What did you do in childhood?
00:12:40It means they were very killed.
00:12:43And then they killed their mother.
00:12:45That was a double dose,
00:12:48that the father killed their mother.
00:12:48After the fight,
00:12:50after the mother killed her mother.
00:12:53That was the element.
00:12:54There was a time when she was a thyroid issue.
00:12:58She couldn't understand why they didn't feel angry.
00:13:01Why they started so much angry.
00:13:03She understood that this was a thyroid issue.
00:13:09I will second you, Haroon, that when my mother has a life, this is so much a blessing that all
00:13:17brothers and sisters are going to go with it and all of them are going to go with it.
00:13:21She's going to go with it and she's going to go with it and she's going to go with it.
00:13:25She is gonna go with it and that is it, theRE is going to go with it.
00:13:39And she would say that she was saying that she is my child, I am very loving.
00:13:43So, in both hearts, it's a big role of love.
00:13:47It's a whole system.
00:13:48When she goes away, she feels that now we are nine brothers.
00:13:54Many siblings are in different countries.
00:13:58So, now we have love, love, everything.
00:14:02But something is missing.
00:14:04When we are living in my mother, we often talk and talk.
00:14:14Now, we are more busy in our lives.
00:14:17My daughter is gone, Ghazal.
00:14:21My daughter is not up to me.
00:14:24It's not up to me.
00:14:24It's not up to me.
00:14:25So, when she came to me, she was working on the morning show.
00:14:29She was working on the morning show.
00:14:31She was working on the morning show.
00:14:32But after going to my mother, she feels that we are closer.
00:14:38Because we feel that our Mecca is within one another.
00:14:43This is the thing.
00:14:44Before my mother had a house.
00:14:46Before we had a house.
00:14:48Now, she is not a house.
00:14:49I don't know if she is in Australia.
00:14:53Who is going to go to Australia?
00:14:54Who is going to go to Houston?
00:14:55Who is going to go to Houston?
00:14:56It's the being of her mother.
00:14:57It is NOAA.
00:14:57She is the one who is connecting with her.
00:14:58She turns over from her family.
00:14:58She tells us everyone.
00:15:03It's the centre of the attraction.
00:15:06The headquarter of the attraction of home.
00:15:07That is a little bit of a wall.
00:15:07The headquarter of the house is hanging.
00:15:09I am a mother.
00:15:12I mean, she is a mother.
00:15:13She is a mother.
00:15:13But after going to her mother,
00:15:16she has a mother.
00:15:17she has an answer to all our girls,
00:15:20that they think that I want to become my daughter or my brother.
00:15:25So, sometimes I become my daughter, sometimes I become my daughter, sometimes I become my daughter.
00:15:30So, this is the thing.
00:15:32Because females generally are emotional and they also have a motherly instinct.
00:15:36Yes, we all become mothers of one another.
00:15:38Which is the need for the mother.
00:15:42At that time, another daughter becomes the mother.
00:15:45So, I have observed that this is how it is.
00:15:47So, MashaAllah, that unity, that there is a problem in any family.
00:15:55So, we all will call a conference and then we will think how to help.
00:16:00Then they will say that I am contributing so much.
00:16:02What can I do?
00:16:03That is what happens here.
00:16:05That is what we call on the WhatsApp.
00:16:07No, the contribution is the thing.
00:16:08I will talk about that I am going to feel.
00:16:11I am going to feel like I am going to help.
00:16:17That is what I will do.
00:16:18So, now the mom's place is where I am.
00:16:22I am a sister and another sister.
00:16:22That is what it happens.
00:16:24Because it is a sibling dynamics.
00:16:25I will tell you about this.
00:16:28It is a sibling dynamics.
00:16:30What is it?
00:16:31A lot of brothers and sisters have become one place.
00:16:34Their origin was the mother of a tree.
00:16:36The mother of a tree was the one place where everyone originated.
00:16:42Then after that, the mother of her, the father of her.
00:16:46These are all things that we have in genetic DNA.
00:16:49But every sibling has a different personality,
00:16:53a different dynamic, different characteristics.
00:16:56These are all things that are evolving.
00:16:59Sometimes it comes to functionality and disfunctionality.
00:17:02Sometimes you don't ask if you have fought or something.
00:17:05Sometimes it comes to dysfunctionality,
00:17:08and it comes to dysfunctionality.
00:17:10We are evolving things.
00:17:12But the child has a cultural legacy.
00:17:19The birth order has a very impact on sibling relationship.
00:17:23When the child is born,
00:17:24the whole family has all responsibilities.
00:17:28The whole family has to do academic achievement.
00:17:30The whole family has to do everything.
00:17:32After that, when the middle child is born,
00:17:34we usually call it a sandwich child.
00:17:37Or the forgotten child.
00:17:38The forgotten one.
00:17:40That he doesn't remember anyone.
00:17:42When the middle child comes,
00:17:44we call it a little child,
00:17:44then he tells it the middle child.
00:17:46He tells it the middle child that
00:17:46he has respect the old brothers.
00:17:50As the relationship,
00:17:52the emotional connection,
00:17:53there is respect of the elements.
00:17:56Not knowing that
00:17:57the child of the child is the personality.
00:18:00Then after that,
00:18:01the mother of the child is born.
00:18:02As a child as a boy,
00:18:05there have a difference between gender and the child.
00:18:06When a child is born, the pressure starts to come, now you have to love each other.
00:18:14Again, there is a very cultural relationship too.
00:18:19Having a child has to be a family child, you've got to love each other.
00:18:23Usually, we say that it's a lot of love.
00:18:27And a social emotional development starts with siblings.
00:18:33It is an environment that is the first interaction with your brothers and sisters.
00:18:39Depending on which child is after school, when they are going to school,
00:18:45they are basically interacting with their parents.
00:18:47So the emotional development, the personality of your make-up,
00:18:51the things that you are evolving,
00:18:53they are all involved in that dynamic.
00:18:56When my father died, I was very young.
00:18:59At that time, my biggest sister gave us a lot of support.
00:19:11We have a lot of brothers and sisters.
00:19:14We have a responsibility for all brothers and sisters.
00:19:19We have a lot of responsibility.
00:19:21We have a lot of support.
00:19:23We have a lot of support.
00:19:25For example, to make a death certificate,
00:19:28all the work of running,
00:19:30they cannot do many of our families.
00:19:33Tell me, Nidha, there are no biological relationships.
00:19:37There are no blood relationships.
00:19:38But there are also people who support you as brothers and sisters.
00:19:43When you talk about death certificates,
00:19:45I remember a little fact that my mother died.
00:19:47I was like,
00:19:48I was just a brother.
00:19:50In Canada?
00:19:51In Canada.
00:19:51In Canada.
00:19:52My brother is a sister that happened in the first place.
00:19:58Like a child in our home,
00:20:08there was something to have a death.
00:20:13My mother died in Canada because she was a former family, so what do I do?
00:20:18I don't know what to do.
00:20:20I thought that they are my children.
00:20:24Because they love me in Canada and support me and help me in everything.
00:20:29There are some risks that you don't have any risks.
00:20:32But you rely on them and depend on them.
00:20:35You have to be confident.
00:20:37When I go to Canada, there is no problem.
00:20:39You don't have to worry about it, Ghazal.
00:20:42They deal with me right now.
00:20:45I asked Haroon to ask you.
00:20:48If you have been sick with your parents,
00:20:51then how many days have happened?
00:20:53Sometimes it has been closed or bad.
00:20:57They are still working.
00:20:58They are still working.
00:21:00Yes, they are still working.
00:21:02But they are still working for a few days.
00:21:03But they are not working at all.
00:21:06It doesn't work like someone has a fear or a fear.
00:21:10They are still working on them.
00:21:12Both of us people get back to their ego.
00:21:13Why did they do this?
00:21:15I don't have to do this.
00:21:16Why did they do this?
00:21:18Why did they do this?
00:21:18Why did they do this?
00:21:18They are working in every family.
00:21:21But otherwise, we don't want a long way to do it.
00:21:27We are busy with our children and lives.
00:21:31My life is so busy.
00:21:33Then we get to know from other children,
00:21:36we don't have a phone call.
00:21:38Then a big girl will call me again.
00:21:41So, it's just like that.
00:21:43It's a bit of a comfort zone.
00:21:47If you meet or not,
00:21:49they don't want to know.
00:21:51They don't want to know.
00:21:52They know.
00:21:54They can understand.
00:21:55And when they are doing it,
00:21:56they are a lot of love.
00:21:58Exactly.
00:22:00It doesn't have any burden.
00:22:01If you have to mind,
00:22:04if you have to come home,
00:22:07then what will you think?
00:22:09Go outside and prepare yourself.
00:22:12It's a comfort zone.
00:22:14You can say anything about this.
00:22:16Again,
00:22:16we are seven brothers.
00:22:18And it depends on that.
00:22:20When you are married,
00:22:22you are the husband's
00:22:24or their home.
00:22:25Now,
00:22:26we are all in one place.
00:22:29We are all one ideology,
00:22:30one thing,
00:22:31all personality traits.
00:22:34Now,
00:22:34everyone is in a different family.
00:22:36Everyone has learned a lot from their family.
00:22:38and I've learned something from my family.
00:22:40I've never spent a lot of time with my parents.
00:22:42It's just that I've spent a lot of time with my family.
00:22:44They have affected me
00:22:45on their personality.
00:22:47Now,
00:22:47I spent a little bit of time with my friends.
00:22:48It is different from each other, people have spent more time in the house, so there are different things that
00:22:58are different from them.
00:23:01In other words, when you get a different exposure in your professional life, then you become different personalities.
00:23:10and then they are the children's siblings and the children's siblings are very different.
00:23:18After a short break, stay with us. Good morning Pakistan.
00:23:27Welcome, welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.
00:23:29Now we will be talking about our children.
00:23:32We will be talking about the children's children.
00:23:36Alhamdulillah our children are very good.
00:23:38We can discuss about them and about them.
00:23:43But Riyaz and Raza are here.
00:23:45And this is a very big part that we will raise our hands.
00:23:51Yes, Riyaz.
00:23:53Assalamualaikum.
00:23:54First of all, I'm very happy to welcome you to this program.
00:23:57So I can welcome you to this program.
00:23:58Of course.
00:23:59I am a Russian student.
00:24:02Please do.
00:24:04I am a Russian student and I have five children.
00:24:07Five children and three children.
00:24:10Five children and three children?
00:24:14Yes, they are.
00:24:15Yes.
00:24:16I have five children and three children.
00:24:20My six children and I have five children.
00:24:23I am three children and my same children.
00:24:27I was angry with my big sister, because my big sister is an intermedical student and she has been interceded.
00:24:35My big sister, who is the oldest daughter, loved her.
00:24:41One year ago, my wife told me that I love her sister.
00:24:49My wife told me that she was very happy.
00:24:52My wife told me that she was very happy with her sister.
00:24:57My wife went to the house and I thought that she was very happy with her sister.
00:25:05She probably didn't want to talk about this topic.
00:25:07My wife told me that my daughter is good, good looking, beautiful.
00:25:14She can come to her.
00:25:16I didn't think about it.
00:25:18I didn't think about it.
00:25:19The other thing is that my daughter is very happy with her sister.
00:25:23My son is a little bit.
00:25:25My son is a little bit.
00:25:27God is not a little bit.
00:25:29I'm not a little bit.
00:25:30I'm not a little bit.
00:25:31I'm a little bit.
00:25:32She made a issue that my daughter is a little bit.
00:25:34My daughter is a little bit.
00:25:35I'm not a good looking.
00:25:37I'm not a good looking.
00:25:38That's why I was very sad.
00:25:41I was very hurt.
00:25:42I was hurt.
00:25:43We were waiting for her sister.
00:25:44Then I asked her father.
00:25:45I asked her father.
00:25:48I asked her father.
00:25:49I'm a child.
00:25:50My daughter is not a child.
00:25:51I said I want to make a daughter.
00:25:53I want to make a daughter.
00:25:53So that my daughter is gone.
00:25:54And your daughter does not like it?
00:25:56My daughter does not like it.
00:25:58Yes.
00:25:58My daughter does not like it.
00:25:58He was the best of my daughter.
00:25:59He likes her husband.
00:26:03That's like you.
00:26:03She knew my daughter she didn't know.
00:26:05When I taught her daughter.
00:26:07The one I told her daughter that she did.
00:26:11What did your daughter do not like it?
00:26:13I told her friend the daughter of daughter do not like it.
00:26:13She's my brother's close-up.
00:26:14She is a brother's bond and she can understand her.
00:26:17Both of us to see her brother's perspective.
00:26:18She told me.
00:26:19My daughter is not a story.
00:26:20That's the reason she is studying my daughter.
00:26:23I'm were interested in her daughter.
00:26:24She was interested in the first year.
00:26:25My daughter was seeking a letter.
00:26:25Now he's given a second-year paper.
00:26:27So I want to go to a good house
00:26:30and where all of his life are available,
00:26:33all of the luxuries and all of the easy things are available.
00:26:35So I don't want to see the sadness I've seen,
00:26:37but my daughter also saw it.
00:26:39And Gulshan came from a relationship.
00:26:41She had a good meal with a good house.
00:26:43Her rent was also very good.
00:26:45She had all the things that were available.
00:26:48Bangla, the car and everything.
00:26:49My daughter saw it.
00:26:50And I'm in middle class.
00:26:52My daughter doesn't have anything.
00:26:54She helps me.
00:26:55She helps me with a small business.
00:26:57She helps me.
00:26:59She is an obedient child.
00:27:00She knows how to do the kids.
00:27:02When she comes to the kids,
00:27:04she wants to be a good child.
00:27:07And I feel very proud that my daughter is like that.
00:27:10My sister ignored all of the things.
00:27:12And after watching,
00:27:14she kept all the things I couldn't do.
00:27:17And I thought,
00:27:20I had a relationship with my daughter.
00:27:21I had a relationship with my daughter.
00:27:22I had a relationship with my daughter.
00:27:23I had a car and everything.
00:27:25So my daughter would be happy.
00:27:27She would have had a good life.
00:27:28And she loved it.
00:27:30And I was very sad.
00:27:32I was very sad.
00:27:34I was very sad.
00:27:39I was very sad.
00:27:41My daughter is so sad.
00:27:47My daughter is so sad.
00:27:49She was so sad.
00:27:54My daughter is so sad.
00:28:00My wife told me that she is falling. She is falling from inside.
00:28:04I told her to be a father to become a friend.
00:28:07I told her that if you are poor, then the world will be poor.
00:28:13Then what happened?
00:28:15After that, we waited for some time.
00:28:17Maybe there will be better than that.
00:28:19My wife will understand our story and our love.
00:28:24But my wife has married.
00:28:27I told her that she is doing engineering.
00:28:33She said that she is doing engineering.
00:28:35She is doing a good job.
00:28:36We need a little time.
00:28:38But she decided so quickly that she is a mother.
00:28:44She is a cancer patient.
00:28:46She wants to answer the question.
00:28:48She wants to come back to her life.
00:28:51She wants to come back to her life.
00:28:56She wants to come back to her daughter.
00:28:57She wants to come back to her daughter.
00:28:57So we want to see her happy at home.
00:29:00My wife was just studying at first time.
00:29:03She was married and married.
00:29:06She is going to be married.
00:29:07She will be a good life.
00:29:08She will be a good life.
00:29:10But she will be totally gone.
00:29:12After a couple of months,
00:29:13she has come back to her daughter's office.
00:29:16she has come back to the office.
00:29:16She will leave her home at night at 10 o'clock.
00:29:19She will be late at 9 o'clock.
00:29:21She is still coming back to her daughter.
00:29:22My wife asked her to go back to her daughter.
00:29:25She is a nurse.
00:29:25Why are you going to come back to the office?
00:29:28Then, after she went back to her daughter,
00:29:30She knew that her nurse is not an engineer.
00:29:32And she had only told her.
00:29:33She was married for first semester.
00:29:35But I did not get married yet?
00:29:37Yes, married. After my husband went there, I knew that the engineers are working with him.
00:29:44But what is the current scenario?
00:29:46Yes, the current scenario is that...
00:29:47The whole history.
00:29:48Yes, there is no one who knows that a girl is not an engineer,
00:29:53and she does a night job for freelancing.
00:29:5550-60,000 people.
00:29:56And what is happening?
00:29:57She does a girl.
00:29:58So my wife has brought her daughter to her house and she wants to divorce.
00:30:03And her husband has about one year.
00:30:05So she's very angry and angry.
00:30:08I am a brother.
00:30:09I do love my daughter and my sister.
00:30:12But I do love my daughter to her sister.
00:30:15That she's missing from her daughter.
00:30:18I did not miss her so much.
00:30:19I did not understand her, I did not encourage her.
00:30:22What do you like?
00:30:24Do you like to make her daughter and her daughter?
00:30:28I have talked to her from my husband.
00:30:32My son also thinks that I will do it, but he is taking divorce in his divorce, but he is
00:30:38taking divorce in his divorce.
00:30:39If you do it, you will do it with him?
00:30:41There is a relationship that you have to think about.
00:30:45If I take this relationship, my son will die.
00:30:48At that time, he was where?
00:30:50This is not a relationship.
00:30:52This is not a relationship.
00:30:54In my opinion, I will tell you this.
00:30:58In general, I am not doing this,
00:31:03that any mother-in-law has a right,
00:31:08that he wants to marry his daughter or his daughter.
00:31:12According to him,
00:31:15there is a relationship between your daughter and her daughter.
00:31:44He is not a relationship.
00:31:46Then, the daughter is so emotional and sensitive,
00:31:49that he is dragging this relationship.
00:31:52This is a little bit of a family dynamic.
00:31:56You can say that you are taking a lot of sensitively.
00:31:59For example, his daughter was a logical right,
00:32:01that if he understood the relationship better,
00:32:03he felt better than his daughter.
00:32:05He felt better than his daughter.
00:32:10He felt better than his daughter.
00:32:11He felt better than his daughter.
00:32:12He felt better than his daughter.
00:32:13So why don't you bring your emotions into positivity?
00:32:16Now, you put your hand.
00:32:17Now, you start to bring your hand.
00:32:19The ego's coming.
00:32:20When your child loves you,
00:32:26you get the love of your life.
00:32:29This is a big difference.
00:32:32Sometimes, what happens is that,
00:32:34if we don't get the thing,
00:32:36if you see this way,
00:32:37that Allah has a better path for you.
00:32:40You don't get a job.
00:32:42You reject it.
00:32:43You get the rejection.
00:32:44You get the frustration and emotional.
00:32:46Allah has a better path for you.
00:32:51If you have a challenge,
00:32:56you take the opportunity.
00:32:57This way, you always think.
00:32:59You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:01You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:01It's better.
00:33:02The whole family is very emotionally sensitive.
00:33:05Every person has their own development.
00:33:07Like physically,
00:33:08many people are very lonely.
00:33:10That's how we are all alone.
00:33:12So if you are all so lonely,
00:33:14which is a very beautiful thing,
00:33:15why don't you take that in positivity?
00:33:17Why don't you go with compassion and empathy?
00:33:19Why don't you get the love of your daughter?
00:33:20You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:21You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:23Exactly.
00:33:23Because the daughter is a big problem.
00:33:25You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:26You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:28And you get the love of your daughter.
00:33:30You get the love of your daughter.
00:33:31Do you say something, Harun?
00:33:32I'm listening.
00:33:33Yes.
00:33:58Harun.
00:33:58It's a lot of pressure.
00:34:00The child has said that it's okay.
00:34:02But they don't need to pressurize their daughter.
00:34:05If she doesn't want to marry her.
00:34:08If she is your daughter and you want to help her with her heart,
00:34:13but you have to listen to your daughter.
00:34:16If she will say that I will hold her hand for her.
00:34:20But you are saying that she has moved on from one year.
00:34:23So now you are sitting on the past.
00:34:25Why did she get stuck?
00:34:27Why did she leave?
00:34:29In the present condition.
00:34:31And she will not marry with the child.
00:34:35Obviously, when the child is married,
00:34:38don't do it.
00:34:39But if there is such a thing,
00:34:41as a brother, as somebody who is very close to her,
00:34:44you are going to raise your hand.
00:34:47Yes.
00:34:48So, you and your daughter came in.
00:34:52Or she was closed.
00:34:54You didn't get married.
00:34:55Do you have any situation?
00:34:57Yes.
00:34:57We did not go to the child's marriage.
00:34:59Yes.
00:34:59Because when she goes to the child's marriage,
00:35:01she has become married.
00:35:01She sees my daughter.
00:35:03She is very hurt.
00:35:04So, I have supported her.
00:35:06And I want her father to support her.
00:35:08Yes.
00:35:08Yes.
00:35:09Yes.
00:35:09And I want her to ask her,
00:35:10you will generally ask us,
00:35:11you don't go to the child's marriage.
00:35:14But as husband and wife,
00:35:16you have to go to the child.
00:35:17Because you are the daughter.
00:35:20Your relationship was different.
00:35:21Yes.
00:35:22The relationship didn't go to the child's marriage.
00:35:24It means that she didn't give her son's marriage.
00:35:28But she wanted to tell her son's marriage.
00:35:30If she wanted to do it,
00:35:32then she is the right to do it.
00:35:34It's right.
00:35:35And she is not so emotional.
00:35:36This is not the end of the world.
00:35:37You are the people who are watching our show.
00:35:41And sisters, daughters, brothers, sisters.
00:35:44They came to the relatives of children's marriage.
00:35:46Especially.
00:35:47Especially.
00:35:47They are the relatives of children.
00:35:50They are the two brothers.
00:35:51They are also the main men who are the two brothers.
00:35:52But they are the children of children.
00:35:56But they are the one thing that they do,
00:35:56I think one thing that they should be the one thing.
00:35:58I think this is the one thing that you should do.
00:36:01You should do it.
00:36:01It is respective to how we are.
00:36:04How we are.
00:36:05How we are.
00:36:05How we are our parents.
00:36:06or how do you deal with your parents, or how do you deal with your parents,
00:36:10and how do you deal with your parents?
00:36:15Exactly.
00:36:16My son is very good and very obedient.
00:36:19I want to reach my voice to my daughter to my daughter.
00:36:26I want to get divorced from there,
00:36:29because all the documentation has been done,
00:36:31and I want to get divorced from 5-6 years later,
00:36:36so why don't I get divorced from my daughter?
00:36:40My daughter is also young,
00:36:42and my son will also believe me.
00:36:44But my sister's ego is still alive.
00:36:49Give her a little time.
00:36:51She will understand that this is better.
00:36:56What do you feel like she is still alive?
00:36:59I am my wife and I know I know everything and the file was being divorced.
00:37:06That's right.
00:37:08She felt like she is in my heart.
00:37:12She felt like she was still alive.
00:37:13She felt like my father was still alive.
00:37:14She felt like she was still alive.
00:37:15She felt like she was still alive.
00:37:21That's why she was just like she felt like she was still alive.
00:37:27so what is happening in the face of the world automatically
00:37:30that you feel very much.
00:37:34So you have to be aware of the words and understand the meaning.
00:37:38It's a burden.
00:37:40So it's not the same.
00:37:43It's not the same.
00:37:44It's not the same.
00:37:44It's not the same.
00:37:45It's not the same.
00:37:47Because I don't have to make a decision for children.
00:37:52What happens to them?
00:37:53I will talk about that mother, father and child are all one unit.
00:37:59Everyone is supporting each other.
00:38:00If my child is happy, I will be disappointed.
00:38:03My husband will be disappointed.
00:38:05That is in that scenario.
00:38:07But in that we do a few mistakes,
00:38:10which we can tell a third person.
00:38:12We don't tell a third person.
00:38:14What we are doing is wrong.
00:38:15We are very emotional.
00:38:16We are just thinking about this.
00:38:17Our child is just thinking about it.
00:38:18If we don't tell our child,
00:38:21it will be better for you.
00:38:24Think about it.
00:38:26If you take this,
00:38:27your child will also learn.
00:38:30They are also an example.
00:38:32My child is telling my brother.
00:38:36My son is a medical student.
00:38:40I want to be a doctor.
00:38:41Please focus on me on your studies.
00:38:43I will be an admission of medical university.
00:38:46I will complete my dreams.
00:38:47I will complete my dreams.
00:38:48Because when they rejected me,
00:38:50I was told that they will be rejected.
00:38:53That is when they will give me a good place.
00:38:55Where they will have the whole life of life.
00:38:57It can be possible.
00:38:57God has been a better place for your child.
00:39:01So this is the path.
00:39:02To go to the place,
00:39:03they will go there.
00:39:04It can't be possible.
00:39:05And when children are young,
00:39:06they are also proud.
00:39:08They need time.
00:39:09They need time.
00:39:09They will be waiting for God forbid.
00:39:12If they are divorced,
00:39:12they will be ready for marriage.
00:39:13I feel like that.
00:39:15I am not ready for marriage.
00:39:15In the first place,
00:39:16I don't want to do the marriage.
00:39:18If there is a tie in the day,
00:39:21then the other relationships are broken.
00:39:24The other relationships are broken.
00:39:24And the other relationships are broken.
00:39:26The other relationships are broken.
00:39:26And the other relationships are broken.
00:39:26God has been taught that
00:39:28that in the marriage,
00:39:29God has been taught that
00:39:29there will be problems in the marriage.
00:39:30Yes.
00:39:31So they will not know what they are right now.
00:39:33Because they are not in front of their future.
00:39:34They are not in front of their future.
00:39:35But if you think that
00:39:37there is no problem.
00:39:39Therefore,
00:39:40God has kept this child
00:39:42and made a scenario
00:39:43that she didn't get the child.
00:39:45So if you think about it
00:39:46in a positive way
00:39:47and think about it
00:39:48and tell your children.
00:39:49I am not sure.
00:39:50My pleasure is that
00:39:51you have to support your daughter
00:39:52and do not think about the future.
00:39:55I do not think about the marriage.
00:39:56Both are adults.
00:39:57They have also passed away.
00:39:59They have also passed away.
00:39:59They have passed away.
00:40:00They have passed away.
00:40:00Give them time and space.
00:40:01When it is time,
00:40:02you will be able to decide.
00:40:04If you think about it
00:40:05or not,
00:40:05your daughter is right.
00:40:06Exactly.
00:40:07You have to support all the things.
00:40:10When the two daughters
00:40:11have been difficult
00:40:12in one side,
00:40:13you should support one another.
00:40:16You should keep the pain
00:40:16and keep the pain
00:40:17from the pain.
00:40:19So,
00:40:20that's the time.
00:40:21I think that
00:40:22all the things
00:40:23are...
00:40:24Harun said that.
00:40:25Yes.
00:40:26I have heard about it.
00:40:27I have heard about it.
00:40:28I have heard about it.
00:40:29It was just such a women.
00:40:33What I think
00:40:33is that
00:40:35that
00:40:35I don't know.
00:40:35there's some violence.
00:40:37There was no constant.
00:40:38Move on,
00:40:39but there's a different thing
00:40:40that goes through life.
00:40:41As far as,
00:40:42this is concerned,
00:40:44I'm going to say that
00:40:45at this time,
00:40:46right now,
00:40:47you are saying that
00:40:50that
00:40:50this child is taking into place.
00:40:52It has nothing to do with
00:40:54what happened with.
00:40:54you with.
00:40:55your daughter
00:40:56or your daughter
00:40:57Actually, that is a situation in the moment.
00:41:02If you don't have any situation with it,
00:41:05then you should have been standing with them.
00:41:08And if you have a situation with them,
00:41:10those are two separate things.
00:41:12They are very different.
00:41:14Because their daughter is at home.
00:41:17And their situation is not right with their husband.
00:41:22That is actually the issue.
00:41:23So, support is in your family.
00:41:29We will break after the break.
00:41:33Good morning Pakistan.
00:41:40Welcome back.
00:41:41Good morning Pakistan.
00:41:43We will discuss our relationship today in our show.
00:41:47And probably many of you will feel like this.
00:41:50How can this happen?
00:41:52You will think about it.
00:41:54Because with your brothers and sisters,
00:41:56if you have a healthy relationship,
00:41:58and not a toxic relationship,
00:41:59then it will be very difficult to believe.
00:42:03That in the world, it will also be like this.
00:42:05Because I don't think so much,
00:42:08I don't think so much.
00:42:09There are many celebrities,
00:42:10that are on camera,
00:42:12who are off-camera,
00:42:13who are people's brothers and sisters.
00:42:15But I don't think so much.
00:42:17Leda,
00:42:18these are the things that
00:42:19we share the little things
00:42:20that we avoid,
00:42:21and we are sharing our mistakes.
00:42:23We tell one of our brothers and sisters,
00:42:25they kill each other.
00:42:25They kill each other,
00:42:26They kill each other in our hearts.
00:42:27They kill each other.
00:42:28That's right.
00:42:29So,
00:42:30that's right now.
00:42:30You can go until the end of the day, your relationship is a great, it doesn't come to the end
00:42:34of the day, it's true.
00:42:36So I have Naziya, what will I say on this topic?
00:42:41Assalamu alaikum
00:42:43We are three children and one brother.
00:42:46We are not father and we are alive.
00:42:49We are three children, but we are middle class.
00:42:53They are children, daughters and daughters.
00:42:58We have three children always give them help.
00:43:02Whether they are financially or any kind of help.
00:43:06We are three children always sit with them.
00:43:09And sometimes we are happy to help brothers and sisters.
00:43:13We are always happy to help brothers and sisters.
00:43:14And my mother also said that this is a very good thing.
00:43:17You have made it.
00:43:19And my mother also told me to help brothers and sisters.
00:43:22And then one time came when brothers and sisters came into crisis.
00:43:27And brothers and sisters were able to go abroad.
00:43:29And both brothers were able to help them,
00:43:32but they were not able to help them.
00:43:36They were able to help them.
00:43:36And I was very frustrated.
00:43:38I was crying so much.
00:43:39My husband said, what happened?
00:43:41I said, brothers and sisters have to go abroad.
00:43:42And they have to pay for money.
00:43:43So they told me that they are very smart.
00:43:45And they said, okay, let's meet them and send them.
00:43:48And they used to send them.
00:43:49And we went there and sit there.
00:43:50And they will go back and they will also make life.
00:43:52So coming back to know their lives.
00:43:52We are taking the same visa, passports,
00:43:54etc.
00:43:55And everyone's time traveling,
00:43:55they were able to do anything.
00:43:57And I had to bring my brother with my money.
00:44:03And with all my brother.
00:44:05Why are we able to make them all the time?
00:44:05And then there was a good work together.
00:44:06God, my brother all back are all.
00:44:07And I was happy to make people happy.
00:44:08And I said,
00:44:09God, I was feeling like they were not alone.
00:44:17He was set, he was set, there was no need for any more money.
00:44:22Mashallah, my brother went there a little time, a little time.
00:44:25Allah Almighty had his hand there, that he was settled.
00:44:29His setting was set.
00:44:30I also heard from him that my brother was settled.
00:44:34And when I called my brother, he said,
00:44:38no, sister, you pray.
00:44:39And I felt that in his heart,
00:44:42I was scared that I was able to help them,
00:44:45I was able to ask them.
00:44:47But in my mind, it was not so long.
00:44:50I was always thinking,
00:44:54that there is no need for anything.
00:44:56Because now we are far away.
00:44:57First, we were able to come.
00:44:58How are the children?
00:44:59They don't have any need for anything.
00:45:02I was listening outside.
00:45:03I told my other children.
00:45:04But I was avoiding it.
00:45:07I was trying to tell them,
00:45:08that I was settled.
00:45:09I'm going to be worried,
00:45:10I'm not going to be worried.
00:45:12I'm not going to be worried.
00:45:13I'm going to be worried.
00:45:16But,
00:45:16But my brother,
00:45:17after two years,
00:45:19we were happy to see them.
00:45:21But after two years,
00:45:23I noticed that when they had money,
00:45:27they took up for their possessions.
00:45:29They took their gifts to their possessions,
00:45:30They gave us whatever they wanted.
00:45:30If they didn't give anything,
00:45:32then we didn't give them to their children.
00:45:34So, if we didn't give them to their children,
00:45:35we didn't give the children,
00:45:36we didn't ignore them.
00:45:37because they didn't leave my mother to me.
00:45:39I'm going to help my mother.
00:45:42My mother has come to me.
00:45:42We've said okay, there's no problem.
00:45:44You are our mother.
00:45:46Until we are with her,
00:45:49until our mother is with her,
00:45:50we will have her.
00:45:52You don't have that.
00:45:53But there's no such thing in our family.
00:45:56We've avoided our children.
00:45:58I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:00I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:02I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:04I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:04And I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:09I've asked them for so many prayers.
00:46:10They're very sad.
00:46:11I'm not sad that they've given them.
00:46:13They've given them money.
00:46:14That's why they're sad.
00:46:16My brother left us to love.
00:46:19This is the same thing.
00:46:20My mother has to be sure.
00:46:22My brother left her to give her.
00:46:24My brother left her home.
00:46:32My brother left her home.
00:46:33She took her home.
00:46:33She took her home.
00:46:36She took her home.
00:46:37The vast majority of kids have married.
00:46:40She is now settled here.
00:46:43But she came here.
00:46:44My mother came here.
00:46:47And she had to get married.
00:46:48She had to get married.
00:46:51But I have never met with her.
00:46:53So money is such a thing...
00:46:55It doesn't happen to me.
00:46:57Some people don't have money.
00:47:00There is no money.
00:47:01Obviously, it is a matter of money and children.
00:47:05But it is also a toxic element.
00:47:08This is the most common issue.
00:47:12When parents start to come to age,
00:47:15when they need children or children,
00:47:18they need both children and children.
00:47:20And parents pray that they will become our Sahara.
00:47:22Exactly.
00:47:23We have 5-5 children.
00:47:27It will become our children.
00:47:30It will become our children.
00:47:31In my mind, there is a lot of people.
00:47:34Why not?
00:47:35Why not?
00:47:36We talk about our children.
00:47:39We don't have any expectations.
00:47:42This is a human criteria.
00:47:44And Allah has also written about it.
00:47:47You have to do that.
00:47:48You have to do that.
00:47:49You have to do that.
00:48:19I'm going to go to the platform.
00:48:21This is a big deal.
00:48:22They still have a responsibility.
00:48:25We are not a brother.
00:48:26We don't need anything.
00:48:29We don't need anything.
00:48:30He just gives us our time.
00:48:33He wants us to be in love.
00:48:35You have to go to your own.
00:48:38You have to do it.
00:48:40You have to do it.
00:48:40God, it's not necessary to give you.
00:48:43You will give it to others.
00:48:45I'm a great person.
00:48:46My parents are not.
00:48:48There are so few feelings.
00:48:50If they understand their parents,
00:48:54and leave them,
00:48:55they will be evil.
00:48:57These elements are made in the past.
00:49:00When the world is built,
00:49:01which is the Habil and Qabil.
00:49:02The people are killed by themselves.
00:49:07In the Quran,
00:49:08what is the story of Habil and Qabil?
00:49:10He was a shepherd
00:49:13and Qabil was a farmer.
00:49:16He was a farmer.
00:49:18He said,
00:49:19he will offer me the most important things.
00:49:22I will marry them.
00:49:25He will be married.
00:49:26He gave him the flock to his children.
00:49:29He gave him the best.
00:49:29He gave him the farmer.
00:49:31He gave him the farmer.
00:49:31He gave him the farmer.
00:49:31He gave him the sacrifice.
00:49:33Then,
00:49:34he gave him the sacrifice.
00:49:42He gave him the child.
00:49:46He was kind of approached with kindness, but Qabeel was killed and that was the first murder of the world.
00:49:53Where did God set the example? My brother did it.
00:49:56There are blood relationships, parents, children, we are talking about how can it happen?
00:50:05How can it happen?
00:50:07But it can happen because all these things are present at the moment when the world is present.
00:50:13There is a very important question that I would like to do with you.
00:50:17Look, we are learning from good standards.
00:50:21But there is no technique that the mother will do something like this,
00:50:26that the children and sisters will develop a love.
00:50:32It will be an investment if they will learn from that technique
00:50:37and they will learn from it.
00:50:38After that, there will be a solution that the mother will be like this.
00:50:43What happens to the mother?
00:50:44They are thinking about their own children.
00:50:47When I was talking about my mother,
00:50:51she wanted to know that the last child was not set.
00:50:55She told me that my child is not set.
00:50:59She told me that my child is set.
00:51:07She is not a life she is dead, she didn't stand.
00:51:10It is a dream.
00:51:12My mother, her mother which is the last dream that she was not.
00:51:18She told me that she was all happy to stay.
00:51:21So this is the dream of the pandemic.
00:51:23But the dream of the parents is the dream of the future.
00:51:37Now we learn a lot from parents, we learn a lot from parents and we learn a lot from parents.
00:51:46Parents have started to be a lot of pamper and give a lot of love and responsibility.
00:51:54They need to learn that they need to have a very fair dealing with all the children,
00:52:00all the siblings. No comparison.
00:52:03They need to be a son or a son.
00:52:05The biggest tip is no comparison.
00:52:08There is a comparison between parents and brothers and sisters.
00:52:12It's a fair dealing.
00:52:14If you're taking one thing, your son doesn't eat your son,
00:52:17but if you're eating one, you're going to give it to everyone.
00:52:19He doesn't eat it.
00:52:21This is a fair dealing.
00:52:22Here, one, like clothes.
00:52:25Your mother would also think that your heart won't do it.
00:52:28This is a twin.
00:52:31It's a twin.
00:52:33It's a twin.
00:52:34It's a twin.
00:52:34I was not a twin.
00:52:35My mother also wore one like clothes.
00:52:40I used to wear one like clothes.
00:52:41I used to wear one like six years.
00:52:43It was a parents' thinking.
00:53:12That's so beautiful.
00:53:12That's so beautiful.
00:53:12That's so beautiful.
00:53:14That's so beautiful.
00:53:14I was really afraid of that.
00:53:15I spoke about this.
00:53:17It's my son.
00:53:20It's my son.
00:53:22It's my son.
00:53:23It's her son.
00:53:24It's a fair deal.
00:53:25That's almost normalize on our abuse.
00:53:27which is very common and normalize.
00:53:29If she is a girl or brother, she can say something.
00:53:36Please don't do this.
00:53:37It's a very fair and a justice.
00:53:40It's a very fair and a justice.
00:53:42We are entitled to love.
00:53:46Everything is our right.
00:53:49The other thing is very important.
00:53:51You have to do two things.
00:53:52Three things will be total.
00:53:57The other thing is that you have to do social empathy and emotional empathy in children.
00:54:03Create and create.
00:54:05Social empathy is that you have to do responsibility financially.
00:54:11Social empathy is that if you have to take a plate,
00:54:14then the girl and the girl will take it.
00:54:16The girl doesn't want to take it.
00:54:17The girl doesn't want to take dinner.
00:54:18The girl doesn't want to take it equally.
00:54:20The girl doesn't want to give it the daughter to the mother.
00:54:23The daughter is doing the same as she is doing the same.
00:54:24And if it means empathy,
00:54:27you can feel the other desires and the other things.
00:54:30That we talk about emotional empathy.
00:54:32But we do social empathy it
00:54:33that you have to do discipline.
00:54:35You have to do responsibility equal parts.
00:54:40You have to do responsibility equally.
00:54:48and if he is a disease, you will give him a feeling that he is a disease.
00:54:52He is a disease.
00:54:53If there is no disease, if there is no physical illness,
00:54:56then you will know that his wife, mother, mother and brother,
00:55:00everyone will be together with each other.
00:55:02Not necessarily that he is a physical disease.
00:55:04If there is a disease, then everyone will ask what happened.
00:55:08And what happened is not.
00:55:09Validating their pain and understanding where they are coming from.
00:55:12This is the family support system.
00:55:14I always say to my clients,
00:55:16that you have to send Allah to Allah to Allah to Allah to Allah.
00:55:22Because there is only Allah to Allah to Allah to Allah.
00:55:25If we have social and emotional empathy,
00:55:28and children to justice,
00:55:30then there will be no sibling rivalry.
00:55:32And then the problem is,
00:55:34that one has a hand that says,
00:55:35that Allah has given you a lot of courage.
00:55:38It is a great deal.
00:55:40Well you can hold the vulnerable guilt in there,
00:55:42You will note,
00:55:43as if they look at the mother and the motherAnnun the other side,
00:55:47only for them is there.
00:55:47The girl makes Sihirua for so care.
00:55:50That is as one of the children.
00:55:51That the girls just deal with dying is one brother.
00:55:54So he'll put a push to daughter's fighting.
00:55:55this is my freedom,
00:55:56so she expects her children to her daughter to be a judge.
00:56:00Doesn't make this easy for her daughter.
00:56:00Because this will be not the right,
00:56:01in the age of development we do.
00:56:03We're doing it again every time.
00:56:04She's done with traumatism.
00:56:05She's done with縦 sit with a heltANE.
00:56:06It's important.
00:56:07And the responsibility of a brother is not getting a responsibility.
00:56:09Yes.
00:56:10And one very important thing I feel is that actions speak louder than words.
00:56:17If I feel bad that my husband is caring for his parents and my mother's care, then I will
00:56:27never do this to my children.
00:56:28You have to worry about your children.
00:56:31You have to worry about your brothers.
00:56:33And you have to worry about your children as a child.
00:56:36If my son and their brothers, my brother, I still feel jealous of my children.
00:56:46If I feel the same, how do I learn my children?
00:56:48So this is a very important thing.
00:56:49Lots of moms say hello to their brother or brother.
00:56:58How do you learn your children?
00:56:59You want to learn your children and tell you what you're listening to?
00:57:01When she listens to the child, she will learn how to say that my mother told me that I didn't
00:57:07talk about it.
00:57:07I didn't talk about it in this case.
00:57:10But otherwise, there was a story that...
00:57:13We'll talk about the story after break.
00:57:15But it's a great story after break.
00:57:17Good morning.
00:57:25Welcome back. Good morning Pakistan.
00:57:27So our last conclusion was that you didn't say anything in the previous segment.
00:57:32Let me tell you a new story.
00:57:35Okay.
00:57:36I said you wanted to say anything.
00:57:38Because of break.
00:57:39No.
00:57:39The thing that we've broken down was that what we see,
00:57:43or what we love in our love, in our love, in our love, in our love.
00:57:49If we're jealous of that, or if we feel bad,
00:57:53we don't know how to learn our children.
00:57:55You also live with love and love.
00:57:57This is a story.
00:57:59I'll short a little bit of a story.
00:58:01My father was very sick.
00:58:04He was sick.
00:58:05He was sick.
00:58:05He was sick.
00:58:06He was sick.
00:58:08He was sick.
00:58:10He was sick.
00:58:12He was sick.
00:58:16He was sick.
00:58:19He was sick.
00:58:22I was sick.
00:58:22My brother and my bạn were doing that.
00:58:25He would do that for me.
00:58:25Because my father was not doing that for me with my brother.
00:58:27My dad was doing that.
00:58:30He was sick.
00:58:30I know that I would do that.
00:58:32That's a story.
00:58:33A lot of things you could say.
00:58:36The sibling rivalry of that rivalry.
00:58:40the most problems come from the world,
00:58:47when they go to the world,
00:58:49and their wealth distribution,
00:58:52which you said is the first thing to make a solution?
00:59:00Haroon,
00:59:01you know,
00:59:02in offices, workplaces,
00:59:04how much financial management is doing,
00:59:08foreign
00:59:37Every person has a greed and because there is no discussion about it,
00:59:43someone doesn't know what to do with the child,
00:59:45what to do with the mother-in-law,
00:59:46what to do with the mother-in-law,
00:59:49and everyone has a financial struggle,
00:59:52that greed goes inside and it starts to escalate.
00:59:56So, the mother-in-law needs a parental tip.
00:59:59Yes, because I wanted to ask you,
01:00:02what to do with the mother-in-law,
01:00:05that the greed of the money,
01:00:08that doesn't develop,
01:00:11that the mother-in-law needs to be more than ever,
01:00:14that the mother-in-law needs to be more than ever.
01:00:16Financial problems, emotional problems,
01:00:19you see, this is a mother-in-law.
01:00:22And as we normalize these things,
01:00:25as we start talking about finances,
01:00:27we don't have a normalization.
01:00:28If someone asks you,
01:00:31or if someone asks you to think about them,
01:00:32a couple of things,
01:00:33where can you stay with the locker?
01:00:36We are all normalizing.
01:00:37And sometimes we get to know,
01:00:39we are in our lives.
01:00:40We are in our lives.
01:00:42We're in our lives.
01:00:44We need to look back to our lives.
01:00:51We need to look back to our lives.
01:00:55We need to look back to our lives.
01:01:22Thank you very much.
01:01:57Thank you very much.
01:02:28Thank you very much.
01:08:13I was upset about my life, but it was so much for me, because my mother was the only place
01:08:21of my mother.
01:08:22Everything was the same.
01:08:24So, I wanted to come to her. I was waiting for her.
01:08:29Actually, the spouses, whether they are women or women,
01:08:35they often raise their partner and their siblings.
01:08:39I think exactly.
01:08:40What they want to do is more.
01:08:42They give a lot of relief.
01:08:44Because they say that the spouses choose your good spouses for your life.
01:08:52And they can make a good spouse.
01:08:54They can make a good life.
01:08:56And they can make a good job.
01:08:57And if they want to go to their children,
01:09:01they want to go to their children.
01:09:24Do you want to say anything?
01:09:29No, no.
01:09:30Tell me.
01:09:31I don't know.
01:09:32Yes.
01:09:33Yes.
01:09:33Yes.
01:09:33Yes.
01:09:34Yes.
01:09:36Yes.
01:09:37Yes.
01:09:37Yes.
01:09:38Yes.
01:09:38Yes.
01:09:38Yes.
01:09:48It's coming to me too.
01:10:06What do you want to do in the scenario of that person, instead of being a man?
01:10:11Again, it's a shut-up call. And again, the first thing is that
01:10:18who wants to take their home is an internal family of their family.
01:10:25It doesn't happen to anyone else. Yes, it's true that as a spouse or a partner,
01:10:36being with a partner in this situation, that is also important.
01:10:42When you have the idea of saying something that you want and your spouse is a good thing,
01:10:49if your spouse is saying that, if my husband is a very good person,
01:10:54if he tells me that I want to give your father your dignity,
01:10:57then I'll give him a shut-up call. What do you want to do?
01:10:59You don't want to sit down.
01:11:01Another important thing is that you set boundaries yourself.
01:11:05That your spouse's so much and so much and so much and so,
01:11:09what happened to you?
01:11:09Well, if you ask, because you know,
01:11:13when you talk about everything about everything,
01:11:14there are financial issues.
01:11:16that you have to be able to do.
01:11:16That's not the case.
01:11:17That's not the case.
01:11:18That's not the case.
01:11:19That's not the case.
01:11:20That's not the case.
01:11:21That's not the case.
01:11:21I'm not talking about you.
01:11:22I'm saying that you have to normalize it.
01:11:24Let's talk about it.
01:11:25There is no such thing.
01:11:26But choices are your own.
01:11:29And when you have to be chosen,
01:11:30you should say that,
01:11:32This is important that you should keep your husband's own.
01:11:41And you should keep in mind that you have,
01:11:43This is what I intend to…
01:11:45Yes.
01:11:46That you should have to inherit.
01:11:47That's how you're going to take financial planning,
01:11:50even for your future.
01:11:52So that's all the case.
01:11:54You're talking about it together,
01:11:56But choices are your own.
01:11:58Not that you're willing to be married.
01:12:00You're just like your spouse's ownership.
01:12:01You're not married to your own.
01:12:02You're married to your own.
01:12:04Siblings are who are trying to be married to their parents.
01:12:10that they are not a good person.
01:12:14Some people say that they are a good person.
01:12:18You know that your daughter or your brother is a good person.
01:12:22This is a good person.
01:12:24This is a good person.
01:12:27This is a good person.
01:12:35But here, they are a good person.
01:12:38Okay, this is also a very important point.
01:12:46Atiyah, what do we do now?
01:12:47Let's talk about the break and talk about it.
01:12:49Okay, let's conclude.
01:12:50Good morning Pakistan.
01:12:58Welcome, welcome back.
01:12:59Good morning Pakistan.
01:13:01Today we are talking about siblings about their love, their love,
01:13:05how do they keep their love?
01:13:08Don't be jealous of them.
01:13:11Don't be jealous of them.
01:13:14Don't be jealous of them.
01:13:16Don't be jealous of them.
01:13:17But in the time,
01:13:19siblings have a job of other people.
01:13:22When their parents are not in this world.
01:13:25So, in that regard,
01:13:26we are talking about facts.
01:13:28Every mother wants to go,
01:13:32after our children,
01:13:33keep thinking of wrongs.
01:13:36And if there is any problem,
01:13:38then the child is losing the problem.
01:13:41We are taking the same topic.
01:13:44And who have said,
01:13:45that a family wants to believe
01:13:47And who has such rights,
01:13:49and also has responsibility.
01:13:52If we think that we all meet,
01:13:54but when our parents are growing and we need to take care of ourselves
01:13:59we can take care of ourselves and have a responsibility for ourselves
01:14:02that we can't do ourselves, we have such a good thing
01:14:07we should equally break those things
01:14:10sorry, I think that we are talking about negative aspects
01:14:16but for instance, I think that
01:14:22My friends have always been told that if my mother or sister is wrong,
01:14:30this was a very common theme that I can do more,
01:14:35or I can help more, or let me do it.
01:14:39We always try to do equally.
01:14:41But God's thanks for this situation.
01:14:45In this situation, it has always come to me that it's not a problem that I need to do more.
01:14:53Everyone knows their responsibilities.
01:14:55Functional families, like the last case came, it was so sad that I was waiting for a marriage
01:15:02and I was waiting for a whole time.
01:15:04So here, emotionally, we have such an important thing.
01:15:09We are empathic.
01:15:09There are some relationships.
01:15:11Our relationship is like blood.
01:15:14We are blood through our connectivity.
01:15:17In this situation, it was very clear that it was a lot of pain.
01:15:22You are emotionally empathic,
01:15:24but you don't have to give up to yourself.
01:15:27You don't have to give up to yourself.
01:15:29You are my daughter.
01:15:32My daughter is my daughter.
01:15:34But sometimes this personality is very un-empathic.
01:15:39So it's just un-empathic.
01:15:40So what can I expect from this?
01:15:43It's so good.
01:15:44Forgiving her.
01:15:45If you know who to expect and who to not,
01:15:49so this is not a bad thing.
01:15:52Expectation is over.
01:15:55And that expectation is not deserved.
01:15:57It's not over, Nida.
01:15:59There are natural expectations.
01:16:01Where will it be?
01:16:02But the thing is that we will understand this.
01:16:04Because there is resentment.
01:16:05There is resentment going to the point of hatred.
01:16:08So that's why I will end my program.
01:16:10This is a very important topic.
01:16:13I want to make a part of this program.
01:16:15There is a call.
01:16:16There is no way to reach it.
01:16:18There is no way to reach it.
01:16:21There is no way to reach it.
01:16:22There is no way to reach it.
01:16:32There is no way to reach it.
01:16:36I will end that question?
01:16:37What!
01:16:37Yes it's true.
01:16:38Yes, I was ready to reach it.
01:16:54foreign
01:16:55My father, my father, I had all the responsibilities of my parents and my parents to remember all the responsibilities
01:17:02of education, four people, and five children with rules and regulations, discipline, message, inform, everything was good.
01:17:44Thank you very much.
01:17:44Thank you very much.
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