00:00What is meant by love being exception-making?
00:02Love is exception-making, Julius, because love is search for the exceptional.
00:09What do you offer to the unexceptional ones, to the commoners?
00:13You offer common stuff.
00:15But then there is the beloved, and the beloved is exceptional.
00:19Because he is exceptional, so you do not offer to him what you offer to the commoners.
00:24In front of the commoners, Gail says,
00:26you will never allow yourself to be broken, trampled, ordered, dominated.
00:31Because that is impossible and inconceivable for you in your relations with people.
00:35There has to be that one in front of whom you put down all your defenses,
00:41you waive away all your rules,
00:45anything else is allowed to go or trespass.
00:48That's the exception that you get.
00:50It's a waver. It's a tribute.