00:00Let them love you in their own way.
00:01You'll end up either hating everyone,
00:03either by making yourself unhappy if you continue to expect things from the people around you,
00:07that they behave exactly as you would towards them.
00:09If you expect them to have the same sensitivity as you,
00:12If you expect them to organize the same birthday parties as you,
00:14that they dedicate the same energy to you, that they support you as much as you support them,
00:18I told you before, it won't happen and it doesn't make them bad friends or
00:20However, they are not bad partners.
00:22This is perhaps one of the hardest things to accept in relationships.
00:24It's because people will never love you the same way you love them.
00:27Not because they love you less, but because they love you differently.
00:29Your friends, your partner, are not meant to be like you.
00:32They have their own history, their own sensibilities.
00:34Maybe the person who always replies 10 years after your messages
00:37or who forgets your birthday every other year,
00:39He might be the only person who won't abandon you the day you're really in deep trouble.
00:42You might have some friends you wouldn't confide a secret to,
00:45But to whom would you entrust your life?
00:47And the more you fight to try to change the people around you instead of accepting them as they are
00:50that they are,
00:51The more you end up becoming a bad person yourself.
00:54You're not here to keep score of whoever did the most for the
00:57'other.
00:57Each person gives what they have to give, the best of themselves, but in their own way and...
01:00'That's OK.'
01:01So the next time you feel disappointed because people didn't react the way you did, you
01:04would have done it,
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