00:00The men have a role in which to be on for their family and be off towards their Lord
00:06and the Divine, the kingdom.
00:08The role of the man is to guide the home and guide the family assuming that he's rightly
00:16guided and to be a qualified imam.
00:19You have to follow the sunnah to according to the way of Prophet ï·º and you have to
00:24be in Islam so these are all the givens.
00:27Then we talked about when they enter into the home the role of women was not to be lumberjack
00:34because shaitan very happy with that.
00:36Then they come to spirituality with the same philosophy that I'm here I want to be a Sufi,
00:42a Sufi lumberjack.
00:44Say but that's not how we were built and you find that that doesn't work, the system works
00:49when we work her safety is her home.
00:52As a result her service is now again this binary code.
00:58Her life in the presence of her husband will be a nukh.
01:03Learns to shut down and turn off.
01:07Not to co-imam the house, you're not here to co-debate and co-imam the house.
01:13So as a result she understands that he's the imam and I'm in my life to be a nukh.
01:20As a result of the nukh I receive a tremendous amount of power by staying quiet just like
01:28the student in the presence of the shaykh.
01:30If the student wants to show themselves they are never going to achieve tariqah.
01:35When the servant is able to control their tongue, control their emotion, control their waswases,
01:42God gives them energy.
01:44Means I have a purpose, be patient let me to follow you and I will serve you.
01:49So then the woman is trained that be a nukh in the house.
01:54Not the cause of every problem where you have to be a one that's now satan entered into
02:01the home to bring confusion because the role is not to be a one but to be a nukh.
02:07But the nukh is always understanding, respects the authority, even gives the person of authority
02:14more feeling of authority and this is called humility and good character and the person
02:20appreciates that.
