00:00you mentioned uh you and erica you're kind you're texting things are a little bit better now oh yeah
00:05okay so what's the what's the progress there that's amazing well i had reached out to her
00:10when i had seen you know there were some headlines about her upcoming trial and
00:15that firm that bought her her trial i got you know really upset and i reached out
00:20she messaged me right back with the same warmth yeah that we would even before we ever had any
00:26issue and and then she reached out to me weeks later um also when headlines in the press and we
00:33talked about getting together very soon and there's a lot of love there there's a lot of love
00:38there's a lot of history you know prior to that one moment in italy erica and i didn't have we
00:44never had a crossword yeah you know we we've always been good so you know there's there was a lot
00:52of
00:52emotions um it's been a really challenging couple of years i by no means feel like the only woman
00:59going through a divorce of course not but when you have a camera that is tracking your every move and
01:06i'm i'm living real time you know and i really wanted things to be good with pk but we were
01:12not
01:12communicating and things were difficult and then obviously to have the issues with kyle which i did
01:18not expect going into the season i thought we really turned a corner so then to feel that it was
01:24i felt blindsided and that's exactly how i felt by erica in italy because i had just been in her
01:33room
01:33at two o'clock in the morning the night before sitting on her bed in the pitch black she was
01:38getting ready to sleep or i think i may have even woken her up and you know we talked and
01:43everything
01:44was good and everything was fine and then the next day just out of nowhere in this desolate town
01:49i think her intention was to kind of get kyle and i back together right but then it felt like
01:56an ambush
01:57yes a little bit that's exactly what it felt like and it just feels when you are ready you've already
02:03tapped into the reserves so you're not you're not your best self yeah right right and you really are
02:09just looking for support and then to have to deal with on top of that having to defend yourself
02:15or fight with your friends it's really hard i know and it's crazy too because um a tv writer for
02:23the late night with seth meyers she uh has gone through a divorce and she was a guest on the
02:28show
02:28a little a few weeks ago and she doesn't watch housewives but i was explaining to her because
02:32one of it was during the reunion time and i was saying how erica and kyle were coming after you
02:39and she's like well why and i was like oh well could she's going through divorce and she feels
02:42like they don't like the choices or how she's acting and everything and she was like i went
02:46through a divorce what you're supposed to do for your friends during that time is be there for them
02:49and let them do what they think they have to do and if you don't think it's the right decision
02:54they'll find out eventually or also they'll let you know and maybe it's the right decision for them
02:58so i feel a lot of people watching also felt that way that they were just like
03:02let Dorit process how you need to that's right yeah and also some of the judgment right
03:08was i shouldn't be speaking about pk on the show now let's just break that down for one second
03:16i'm being paid to share my life and aside from the fact that i don't think the powers that be
03:23would find that you know particularly fair also this is not something i can show up and pretend
03:31that everything is hunky-dory or that everything is great i wish it was but even whatever i was i
03:38was
03:38talking to girlfriends about what i was the challenges i was dealing with on a daily basis
03:43and they were surface i wasn't looking to you know um uncover something or say or eviscerate pk or
03:52anything really had it not turned into a whole storyline and it would have just been some support
03:59right a hug then you know maybe there would have been more fun yeah yeah and i feel to your
04:05point too
04:05that you are there to share your life i feel a lot of critics of certain cast members of yours
04:12a lot of fans say they're there and they're not sharing their life so then what else is there
04:16to that's why you get discussed so that's right much often because no one's giving you anything
04:20else to discuss that's right well it's really funny that the ones that don't want to share their life
04:26seem to be focusing on mine an awful lot right and there's just a little bit of sometimes i think
04:35hmm is this in a way to deflect from what's going on in their own life right because it certainly
04:43felt
04:43like it well and then also you know you are going through this divorce it feels like oh she's an
04:48easy
04:48target she's a little bit vulnerable right now let's let's kick her while she's down that's it which is
04:53kind of and even like kicking down anything because even because we're here talking about
04:56unburdened when you were announcing your book they were trying to kick that down but you know what i
05:00will say i always think about amanda francis showing up to the the book party because she said she wanted
05:05to support your financial journey etc she's the money manifesting queen how do you feel about amanda
05:10francis today because while she did support you and she came up to uh you know party with you at
05:16the
05:16cover reveal etc um she was recently on a podcast on the vile files and i didn't watch or listen
05:22to the
05:22whole thing but your house was talked about and she was like i sometimes i think about buying it
05:27and it just it was giving sassy and it was giving uncalled for and i just want to know how
05:31like how
05:32do you feel about amanda today are you do you guys talk do you i mean no we don't talk
05:35we don't talk i
05:36mean i find that really cringe but i think a lot of the things that come out of her mouth
05:41you know are
05:42kind of cringe also you know i i wasn't getting authentic vibes that was the issue that i had
05:50there was something it was very much like let me portray like everything is absolutely perfect
05:58my life is perfect my my marriage is perfect my kids and that's great i mean and i think she's
06:05got
06:05a beautiful life and children and she's happy and i wish her all the best however it's not real
06:10because nobody has only perfect life and i also think that there was um you know she had a lot
06:20of
06:20opinions but really anytime we wanted to talk about her it was about her business and it was only about
06:28her business and it just felt her and i i thought in the beginning that we might be friends yeah
06:35and
06:35then sutton had told me that she was saying those things behind my back obviously i had no idea it
06:41was the anniversary of her son's passing of course i would never ever have brought that up right that
06:48turned into something and then she wants to hold on to some negativity she can however um i don't think
06:57that bitch is going to be buying my house anytime well the thing is she her claiming that she wants
07:03to
07:03support you and she wishes and then nothing but the best for you and talking about your finances
07:07specifically and then trying to make a dig at your financial situation i just thought was like a
07:11little hypocritical like well also she doesn't know one thing about me yeah she doesn't know anything
07:17about me and even if you see the headline of the foreclosure which is terrible and it's embarrassing
07:25and it's awful that's not something that i was privy to right that's something that i was blindsided by
07:32which is terrible i'm so sorry that you're in that situation exactly that's horrific exactly and
07:38so for her to like poke fun at that that's right that's right that's right so when people claim to
07:44be girls girls you know it really makes me laugh because i love it i i've been seeing a lot
07:50people
07:51i'm a girl's girl i'm a girl's girl but the actions don't match those words it's also i feel kind
07:56of a point you made at the reunion it's easier to be a girl's girl when everything's going that's
08:00right but when there's like you know unfun situations who has your back that's right and
08:06who's there for you that's right
08:08you
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