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00:00:00This is really bad.
00:00:02This is bad for what the you wanna do!
00:00:05Our marriage is on the edge of falling apart.
00:00:10At the end of this trip, it's better we have done with this.
00:00:15I don't wanna be in a sexless marriage, so if this keeps up, we're heading for a divorce.
00:00:21Whatever we have to do for our marriage, we just need to fight for it.
00:00:25Yeah.
00:00:27I didn't get married to just get separated after a couple of years.
00:00:32We owe it to our son and to ourselves to give it the best shot that we can.
00:00:41This is a castle.
00:00:43We're like in a fairy tale.
00:00:47You will be participating in intensive therapies as well as non-traditional exercises
00:00:53to help mend your distressed marriages.
00:00:56Sometimes I love him and sometimes I just wanna strangle him.
00:01:05Welcome to our first sex therapy session.
00:01:09My goal is to help couples live more passionate lives.
00:01:13They really want to push the envelope.
00:01:15What would you like to hear in bed?
00:01:17You feel so good.
00:01:19Me.
00:01:24What would you say is the core issue of your relationship?
00:01:28There's some decisions that you take in life that I disagree with 100%.
00:01:34Like what?
00:01:36You said I will never be naked.
00:01:38In those pictures?
00:01:43I just want Rebecca to be like a real wife.
00:01:47How am I not a real wife?
00:01:48Should I stop working and wait on your ass 24-7?
00:01:57You have a poor man mentality.
00:01:59I'm sorry, but you just do.
00:02:00Stop!
00:02:01Don't move!
00:02:02Go back to your country.
00:02:03You suck.
00:02:04Go back with your country!
00:02:06Stop!
00:02:07Stop!
00:02:07I'm leaving.
00:02:08Bye!
00:02:15Here we are.
00:02:16The recommitment ceremony.
00:02:17Are you ready to recommit to your marriages?
00:02:20I have been there through it all.
00:02:23I hope you choose us.
00:02:25I love you, Smid.
00:02:30I'm sorry.
00:02:31This is a commitment I cannot commit to right now.
00:03:11So much stuff for two people.
00:03:18What makes you happy, lucky, and successful journey?
00:03:27Alright, can I have a big hug?
00:03:33We're gonna go.
00:03:35Don't eat the birds, okay?
00:03:38Alright.
00:03:39Ready.
00:03:40I'm kinda freaking out, Siyad.
00:04:49This is a real castle, girl.
00:04:53Wow. Oh my god.
00:04:57We're like in a fairy tale.
00:04:59Am I the king?
00:05:01We'll see.
00:05:02What?
00:05:04Can you believe that?
00:05:05No, I can't.
00:05:14Hi.
00:05:14Hi, hello. Welcome to Sunbury Castle.
00:05:17Thank you.
00:05:17Hello. Here's your welcome letter.
00:05:19Really? Thank you.
00:05:20Oh my god.
00:05:21Do you have bags or two?
00:05:22A bit of luggage in the car.
00:05:23We have eight.
00:05:26Okay, just for you both?
00:05:27Mostly hers.
00:05:28Okay, anyways.
00:05:30May God protect your brother.
00:05:31Cheers.
00:05:32And receptionist just this way.
00:05:33Thank you.
00:05:33Thank you so much.
00:05:35My name is Shekinah, and I'm 43 years old,
00:05:37and I'm from Los Angeles, California.
00:05:39And this is my husband, Sarper.
00:05:43Are you okay?
00:05:45Did you forget you're a husband?
00:05:46I really still can't get used to it.
00:05:54Hello.
00:05:55Good afternoon.
00:05:55Welcome to Sunbury Castle.
00:05:57Thank you.
00:05:58We're so excited to be here.
00:06:00The vibe is unbelievable.
00:06:03Beautiful, isn't it?
00:06:04Very unique.
00:06:05Magical.
00:06:06Feels like we've been married for like 30 years.
00:06:08And it's just one year.
00:06:11I can't remember the before her.
00:06:14She's like the birth of Jesus.
00:06:16Before it, after it.
00:06:19They are checking in today?
00:06:21Yes.
00:06:22Part of the therapy retreat.
00:06:24Isn't that lovely?
00:06:25Marriage is difficult.
00:06:27We are arguing so much.
00:06:28It is just like swimming against the water flow.
00:06:31of even though we love each other,
00:06:34sometimes I think that we are not compatible anymore.
00:06:37I don't think that we're incompatible.
00:06:39I think that if we learn to communicate better,
00:06:41we could be amazing.
00:06:44There we are.
00:06:46Staying in our Lady Jane Grey room.
00:06:48Famously named after the only woman
00:06:50that King Henry VIII loved.
00:06:52Oh my God.
00:06:52And he actually owned the castle.
00:06:55And then in 1535,
00:06:58he stayed for 10 days
00:06:59with his second wife, Anne Boleyn,
00:07:02who he famously beheaded, unfortunately,
00:07:05on trials of infidelity.
00:07:07I love that.
00:07:08You love that?
00:07:09Mm-hmm.
00:07:10I understand him.
00:07:11I'm sorry about him.
00:07:20I'm sorry about him.
00:07:22We got you out of India.
00:07:25Yeah, it took you so long.
00:07:27And I'm very excited to get into the British lifestyle.
00:07:31Come on, man.
00:07:32Can you give me a plate, huh?
00:07:34Mommy.
00:07:35Mommy.
00:07:37For me, this is a nice break.
00:07:40No mommy, no papa.
00:07:43Actually, I kind of miss him a little bit.
00:07:46We've only been here not even a day.
00:07:54Wow, how cool is this place?
00:07:57A real, actual castle.
00:08:00Beautiful.
00:08:14Hello.
00:08:16Welcome to Sombra Castle.
00:08:17Thank you so much.
00:08:19Cheers.
00:08:21I'm Jenny.
00:08:23I'm 67.
00:08:24This is my husband, Smit.
00:08:27He's 37.
00:08:28And we're living in India.
00:08:3170 years together.
00:08:33Lucky guy.
00:08:35Yeah.
00:08:37Is there any king and queen living here now?
00:08:40Well, not now.
00:08:42Okay.
00:08:43All right.
00:08:44And receptionist just this way.
00:08:45Thank you.
00:08:46Cheers.
00:08:46Enjoy your stay.
00:08:49Our marriage, uh, it's like, like a rollercoaster.
00:08:53A lot of ups and downs.
00:08:55For sure.
00:08:57Like, Smit's family, at first they didn't accept me.
00:09:02Things are a little better now, but that's put a lot of stress on our relationship.
00:09:10Ice face.
00:09:12How cool is this?
00:09:13Good afternoon.
00:09:14Welcome to Sombra Castle.
00:09:16Thank you.
00:09:18My parents finally accepted our relationship, but since then, I lost my job.
00:09:24We couldn't afford to live by ourselves, so we moved with my parents.
00:09:29And then we decided to start a family restaurant together.
00:09:34It's been a nightmare.
00:09:37And there we are.
00:09:39Enjoy your stay.
00:09:39Thank you.
00:09:42Restaurant had a hard time getting up and running, and right now it's closed.
00:09:47Going into business with his family was a bad idea, and now we're still stuck living with
00:09:55his parents.
00:09:57It's not that bad.
00:09:58I want out of there.
00:10:00It's not that simple.
00:10:02It actually is simple.
00:10:04If we don't move out, I'm leaving with or without you.
00:10:22I don't know how you're nervous.
00:10:26Getting warmed up.
00:10:28I appreciate you coming in for this, for the therapy.
00:10:32I really want you to actually commit and focus on that.
00:10:35Excuse me?
00:10:36Yeah?
00:10:36Rose, I'm the one committing all of this.
00:10:46And we are here.
00:10:48Oh my God.
00:10:53Woo, champagne.
00:10:54I love this.
00:10:56This is going to really calm my nerves a lot.
00:11:07Wow, this is gorgeous.
00:11:09Welcome to Thumbury Castle.
00:11:10Oh, thank you.
00:11:11This is a castle.
00:11:11Woo.
00:11:12I have never stayed in a castle.
00:11:14And this is for us too?
00:11:15Yeah.
00:11:15It's a welcome letter.
00:11:16Thank you.
00:11:17This place is unbelievable.
00:11:21Oh, wow.
00:11:23Look at this.
00:11:24Welcome to Thumbury Castle.
00:11:25Thank you so much.
00:11:26Oh, this place is beautiful.
00:11:28I feel like a queen.
00:11:29You should.
00:11:29You look amazing.
00:11:30Yeah, as long as you make me feel like a queen now that we're here.
00:11:34My name is Russ.
00:11:35I'm 39 years old and I'm from Owasso, Oklahoma.
00:11:39And I'm Paola.
00:11:40I'm 38 and I'm from Bucaramanga, Colombia.
00:11:42We have been married for 12 years, almost 12 years.
00:11:46And we have a beautiful son.
00:11:48He's the best part of us.
00:11:49We recently moved to Las Vegas because I'm a pro wrestler and I get to work more in Las
00:11:55Vegas than in Oklahoma.
00:11:57We have been living in an RV.
00:11:59So right now we do not have a home.
00:12:01And I'm not happy at all with the situation.
00:12:06There we are.
00:12:07So staying in one of our castle suites, the Catherine Howard suite.
00:12:11Now, are you interested in ghosts at all?
00:12:13Anything like that?
00:12:13Oh, my God.
00:12:14I love it.
00:12:14I hope I can encounter one.
00:12:16Yeah.
00:12:16Well, that is a room with a bit of flickering.
00:12:18Oh, wonderful.
00:12:20All I need for me today is a card placed on file for any incidentals.
00:12:26Do you use mine?
00:12:28Yeah, this will be yours.
00:12:30Thank you so much.
00:12:33For me, him using my credit card, it triggers me.
00:12:37It just brings me back to why I'm tired of this situation.
00:12:41I've gone through a lot of career changes and issues with work.
00:12:45Pao has now become more of the provider.
00:12:49But I used to put my card down all the time.
00:12:51So what difference does it make if you're putting your card down now?
00:12:53Because you are the man.
00:13:03Can you imagine everything, like, happening here, like, before?
00:13:07Can I get the key?
00:13:08See it?
00:13:10Oh, my God.
00:13:11Was there, like, a short person?
00:13:15Is this side?
00:13:16Lefty Lucy.
00:13:17Well, I don't know.
00:13:18This is England.
00:13:18Everything is the opposite.
00:13:19I don't think so.
00:13:20Maybe Catherine doesn't want us in here.
00:13:26Look at this place.
00:13:28Oh, my God.
00:13:29Oh, my God.
00:13:30This is so cool.
00:13:34This is so fancy.
00:13:38Miss Catherine, if you're here, I'm a good person with ghosts.
00:13:42If I can get to encounter a ghost, dream come true.
00:13:47For me, I'm here to fix our relationship, to repair it, and to figure out what steps we
00:13:53need to take.
00:13:53We do need help in order to actually, like, to say what we have.
00:13:58The last thing I was expecting, it was my 12-year anniversary, being, like, celebrating with
00:14:03a lot of people that I have never met.
00:14:06And nor did I expect a 12-year anniversary to be at a couple's therapy, too, since we're
00:14:11so close to that, the D word.
00:14:15I hate that word.
00:14:16So here's to no divorce and to fixing our marriage.
00:14:30I'm coming to this retreat very confused about our relationship.
00:14:36I want to save the marriage, but Ross is not the man I married.
00:14:41And that's why I went behind his back to see an attorney and to see my options about getting
00:14:46divorced.
00:14:48Now we are in a breaking point, and this is Ross' last chance to actually save this marriage.
00:14:55And if he's not going to show me that he's willing to change, I'm going to leave him.
00:15:12Okay.
00:15:12Stop.
00:15:13Look at the...
00:15:14Wait, they want me to play dress-up, right?
00:15:18Wait, can I...
00:15:19This is my color, no?
00:15:20Is there mirrors in me?
00:15:22Oh, my God.
00:15:24I feel like these were meant to play dress-up.
00:15:26Um, I don't know.
00:15:27It doesn't say don't touch, right?
00:15:30Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:15:32You like that?
00:15:34It's like a curtain that can be also a dress.
00:15:48I'm so glad you approved, Hansa.
00:15:53You look like a pimp.
00:15:55My name is Kara.
00:15:56I am 33, and I'm from Charlottesville, Virginia.
00:15:59And my name is Guillermo.
00:16:00I'm from Venezuela, and I'm 27 years old.
00:16:04Bam, boom, boom, bam, dun, dun.
00:16:05You know, we don't have to keep doing the same rhythm.
00:16:07We could do a different rhythm.
00:16:08Oh, yeah, we can do some reggaeton.
00:16:10Oh, yeah?
00:16:17Guillermo and I, we've known each other for six years, and we've been married for four.
00:16:22We're made in the beautiful island of the Dominican Republic.
00:16:25It was like, hey, I don't want to live without you.
00:16:29So, I proposed to Kara.
00:16:31She said yes.
00:16:33And then life happened.
00:16:36I feel like...
00:16:37Actually, you know, like, probably somebody like you would have won a name.
00:16:41Like, lady of something.
00:16:43Lady of the streets.
00:16:49Now you get on your knees.
00:16:53I now pronounce you lord of the dicks.
00:17:01At first, we were really happy.
00:17:06Yeah.
00:17:08But I think, you know, once I got pregnant and had Nico...
00:17:13Where you're just, like, growing in completely different ways.
00:17:17I didn't always feel super supported, and then allegations of cheating happened, and so it just was a recipe, I
00:17:24think, for downfall.
00:17:26And so, we decided that living apart was probably going to be the best solution for the time being.
00:17:32And now we've lived apart for over a year.
00:17:35I don't know how you're going to do to put...
00:17:37Huh?
00:17:38There you go.
00:17:39Sometimes a little lady needs a little help.
00:17:43The separation has been very hard.
00:17:46But I still love Kara.
00:17:48And I still want to try to save a marriage.
00:17:52I wholeheartedly agree.
00:17:56Ready?
00:17:57I am so ready.
00:17:58Should we go to our room?
00:17:59We owe it to ourselves and our son to make sure that we really try our best and give it
00:18:05our all.
00:18:07And that's why we're here.
00:18:10Wow.
00:18:11Oh, my goodness.
00:18:14Wow.
00:18:15Look at it.
00:18:17This is so cute.
00:18:24I think I'm going to have a shot.
00:18:28To?
00:18:30Nico.
00:18:31Aw.
00:18:32To reconnect and...
00:18:33Growth.
00:18:34And respect.
00:18:35And respect.
00:18:40I want to be hopeful, but it's going to be hard for me.
00:18:43I don't approve the way Kara acted during the marriage.
00:18:47And I don't agree on the way she lived her life after we got separated.
00:18:52There's a lot of that went down and we didn't fix it.
00:18:57But I guess if we want to be together, we need to.
00:19:03Oh.
00:19:04Come on.
00:19:07You've never been to therapy before.
00:19:09I never yet.
00:19:10One thing you better not do is disappear or run off.
00:19:15Everything that Ziet is doing, this sketchy behavior, honestly, that's exactly what cheaters do.
00:19:25You left me in the middle of a moment when I needed you.
00:19:28I hate that your voice when you argue.
00:19:31I hate to fight with any.
00:19:34Always, she wants to be the boss bitch.
00:19:49Look.
00:19:50Oh, wow.
00:19:51Yes, man.
00:19:52Hi.
00:19:52Thank you, guys.
00:19:54Thank you so much.
00:19:55Thank you.
00:19:57Thank you.
00:19:57You're welcome.
00:19:57Look, it's amazing, actually.
00:20:00Is this cake or sandwich?
00:20:01That's a sandwich.
00:20:30That's a sandwich.
00:20:31Mmm.
00:20:31That's a castle in England and not a discotheque downtown.
00:20:39My name's Rebecca.
00:20:41I'm 54 years old.
00:20:42And this is my husband, Ziad.
00:20:45He is 32 years old.
00:20:46He's from Tunis, Tunisia.
00:20:47We've been together for eight years, married for five years.
00:20:52This is my first marriage.
00:20:54This is my fourth marriage.
00:20:57Um, I think if this doesn't work out, I'm not getting married again.
00:21:04Are you glad I talked you into coming here?
00:21:07I am glad, yeah.
00:21:08You've never been to therapy before.
00:21:10I never, yeah.
00:21:11So you don't know what we have in store.
00:21:15You gonna handle it?
00:21:16I've been handling you not talking about it forever.
00:21:21Ziad and I have huge communication issues because anytime something gets hard,
00:21:26he just shuts down and stops talking.
00:21:29That's not true.
00:21:31You're always working and you don't have time for me.
00:21:34I feel like I'm living alone, so we don't have, like, strong relationship right now.
00:21:42What do you hope will change with me in this therapy?
00:21:48Um, the most thing, you mean?
00:21:51I didn't realize you had a list.
00:21:52No.
00:21:53The list is not gonna be coming out now, but, um, I'm just kidding.
00:21:59I feel like you're not.
00:22:01The most thing for you, um, I don't know.
00:22:05We go back close to each other again.
00:22:09What you hope?
00:22:11I would really like to see that I can trust you again and not have to worry about what you're
00:22:19really doing.
00:22:21I mean, for me personally, trust is huge because I've been cheated on before.
00:22:26I've always tried not to bring that into my relationship with Ziad, but he's making it really hard to do
00:22:32that.
00:22:33Especially because I caught him in a parking lot with a blonde.
00:22:42Oh, my God, he's with a woman.
00:22:46Oh, I feel like I'm gonna throw up and pass out.
00:22:50I knew it.
00:22:51I knew it.
00:22:53You know, first you're not supposed to follow me and I don't do anything wrong.
00:22:59I just meet my friend with his wife.
00:23:02She not wanna, um, spend time with me.
00:23:05She need to let me have friends.
00:23:08One thing you better not do is disappear or run off in the middle of therapy.
00:23:14You know, you have a habit of doing that.
00:23:16You have to learn how to sit and figure things out and talk things out.
00:23:21I don't need to learn how I, how I act.
00:23:26Every time lately that I call Ziad out on this sketchy behavior that he's doing, he basically just threatens to
00:23:32leave.
00:23:32He tells me that I'm, that I don't trust him and he's done with it.
00:23:35And honestly, that's exactly what cheaters do.
00:23:38I was a private investigator.
00:23:40I saw how men or women, they started going out with different friends.
00:23:45There's everything that Ziad is doing right now.
00:23:49So, if that's the case, a hundred percent, I'm done.
00:23:55So, we'll see how that goes.
00:23:58Shut up.
00:24:11Look at the houses.
00:24:13Whoa, they're called cottages.
00:24:16I love their English.
00:24:18The accent, it's so pretty.
00:24:20It's so cute.
00:24:23Look, horses everywhere.
00:24:25We're going to ride horses.
00:24:27Well, no, we're going to do therapy first.
00:24:30We got a lot to figure out.
00:24:31Yeah, we have a lot.
00:24:35Oh, my God.
00:24:36We are staying at a castle.
00:24:40Wow.
00:24:45Oh, I thought castle is just for the princess.
00:24:48No, it's for kings and queens like us.
00:24:53I'm ready.
00:24:55I'm ready.
00:25:03Wow.
00:25:05Hello.
00:25:07Welcome.
00:25:07How are you both?
00:25:08Thank you. Great.
00:25:10Amazing.
00:25:11I'm Patrick, I'm 35 years old and I live in Las Vegas.
00:25:14And this is my beautiful wife, Queen Thais.
00:25:20King.
00:25:22I'm 29 years old.
00:25:23I am from Montes Claros, Brazil.
00:25:26And this is my queen.
00:25:28Queen?
00:25:29King.
00:25:30She's still learning English.
00:25:34We have a daughter.
00:25:36She's two.
00:25:37And we've been married for almost three years.
00:25:39Okay, so we have you in the Anne of Cleves room today.
00:25:42What's the history about that?
00:25:44Oh.
00:25:44So Anne of Cleves was one of Henry VIII's wives, one of six.
00:25:48Some were divorced, some were beheaded, and then one of them died.
00:25:51Oh, Jesus.
00:25:53Okay.
00:25:53What's his name, Cleve?
00:25:56Henry VIII.
00:25:57Henry VIII.
00:25:58Henry VIII.
00:25:58That's the king.
00:26:01Henry VIII.
00:26:01Our marriage is like a castle.
00:26:03From outside, it's beautiful.
00:26:06But once you get closer, you can get into it.
00:26:09You'll see problems, you'll...
00:26:12That, yeah.
00:26:12It's life.
00:26:14We need to renovate.
00:26:16All right, let's go check this place out.
00:26:17Okay, thank you so much.
00:26:17Problem, thank you.
00:26:18Oh, look at that.
00:26:19What's that for?
00:26:21Ah.
00:26:21Yeah.
00:26:24I feel like since the time you came to the United States and now, our lives are completely different.
00:26:32Just...
00:26:33Distant?
00:26:35Yeah.
00:26:36The queen's chambers are really cold.
00:26:41There we go.
00:26:42We're in.
00:26:43Oh, wow.
00:26:46Oh, wow.
00:26:51This is a real room for queen.
00:26:54Oh.
00:26:56What's this?
00:26:59What's that?
00:27:00They got some macaroons?
00:27:03So, what are we gonna do?
00:27:05Well, there's a bed.
00:27:06For what?
00:27:07And we don't have a kid.
00:27:11No, not today.
00:27:13Wearing any panties under the skirt or what?
00:27:15I am wearing.
00:27:17I am wearing shorts.
00:27:19Oh.
00:27:19Don't worry about that.
00:27:20No one's gonna look at me.
00:27:22No one's gonna look at you.
00:27:24No one's gonna look at me.
00:27:25Men stare at you.
00:27:27There might be some guys on the rocks that are gonna try to hit on you.
00:27:31Keep my eye out.
00:27:33Oh, my God.
00:27:33Remember this?
00:27:34Remember this?
00:27:35What?
00:27:36Watching.
00:27:39You're gonna work on your insecure, okay?
00:27:41Yeah, you're gonna work on covering your ass, okay?
00:27:45That's not nice.
00:27:47We were definitely having trust issues, and it's...
00:27:51A lot of it comes from just...
00:27:53We haven't been intimate in a long time.
00:27:55People have a lot of sex before marriage, and then they get married.
00:27:59And things go down for everyone.
00:28:01Like, it's not the same one.
00:28:04You know, I've been married before, and when sex starts going away, like, I feel like we're heading for a
00:28:10divorce.
00:28:13I think we both have to agree, like, to have a successful therapy. Like, we have to be open and
00:28:19honest.
00:28:21You know, like, I want to figure out what happened in Brazil.
00:28:26You know that nothing happened in Brazil, but, you know, keeps saying all the time.
00:28:31I get upset with that.
00:28:32Well, I don't know. You just been distant.
00:28:36For the last year, Thais has just been going on a bunch of trips to Brazil, but when she's there,
00:28:42she kind of goes dark sometimes, and, like, I can't get a hold of her.
00:28:46I don't know who she's hanging out with, and she's spending a lot of money on these trips. I just
00:28:51don't know what's going on.
00:28:52I feel like she has one foot out the door, and she's just waiting for her opportunity to take that
00:28:58other step.
00:29:11Look at this beautiful bed.
00:29:13I mean, honestly, I'm going to sleep here.
00:29:19I mean, this is an option.
00:29:21It's a lot to fix before I step in that zone.
00:29:24Well, I just think you're associating the bed with sex, and it's actually just sleep.
00:29:30Hmm.
00:29:32Okay.
00:29:32So get your brain out the gutter.
00:29:35Coming into this retreat, I definitely have so many issues.
00:29:40It's about our marriage, and...
00:29:43I mean, just remember that you said you were going to try, and that maybe us sharing a room is,
00:29:49like, part of trying.
00:29:51Okay.
00:29:52I will share a room.
00:29:54Perfect.
00:29:55But I'm going to sleep on the couch.
00:29:59Why do you have to make something that's so simple, like literally closing your eyes and going to bed? Why
00:30:03does it have to be so emotionally charged?
00:30:05I'm trying to respect also my boundaries.
00:30:08Nobody's trying to have their way with you.
00:30:10One of the last times that I was in the bed with you, you used me.
00:30:17For what?
00:30:18To have sex.
00:30:23You were a willing participant.
00:30:25You literally just wanted to have sex, and the next day, I tried to sleep with you again as a
00:30:30normal couple, and you didn't want it.
00:30:33Oh, my God.
00:30:33So then I don't even want to get close to the same place. That's why.
00:30:37A lot of the time, it feels like Guillermo's blaming me for the problems in our relationship, and I just
00:30:41feel like it's not fair.
00:30:42Because I feel like Guillermo never supported my music, and he didn't come to my shows, and he accused me
00:30:47of cheating when nothing was happening.
00:30:49It takes two people to make it or break it, and I'm not the only one to blame.
00:30:57Honestly, it's just that it's so hard for me to just simply forget about everything that you have done in
00:31:03the past.
00:31:05I thought that I knew you, and with the kind of decisions that you have taken over the past months,
00:31:13definitely make me understand that I didn't know anything about you.
00:31:21I came to this retreat because I want to fix this marriage, but there are things that Cara have done
00:31:28online in her real life that it's not the same kind of Cara that I met in the very beginning.
00:31:38There was a time when we were so happy, and I dream about having that again.
00:31:47But I don't know if we're going to get there.
00:31:54I've been around long enough to know that it just doesn't magically happen.
00:31:58How do you know? Can you prove that?
00:31:59This is your whole answer?
00:32:01Yeah, I don't know. I don't know what happened.
00:32:04You don't know what happened.
00:32:05This whole decision you're making right now to have this be your answer is wild, and I don't understand it
00:32:11at all.
00:32:20This is really spooky looking.
00:32:24Oh, okay.
00:32:26Wow.
00:32:28Oh, my God.
00:32:28Look at how beautiful this is.
00:32:30Oh, my God.
00:32:32How beautiful is this?
00:32:35Well, maybe you always wanted a bed like this where we can have a curtain and...
00:32:41So you're ready to make use of this bed now that your parents aren't around?
00:32:45I am ready, so be ready tonight.
00:32:47All right, come on.
00:32:49Raven?
00:32:52Wow!
00:32:57Since living with Samit's parents, our sex life is expired.
00:33:05But now we have inside a big bed to ourselves.
00:33:09Right.
00:33:09Nobody listening outside.
00:33:14Let's read this letter.
00:33:16Let's see what they want us to do.
00:33:19Dear esteemed guests, this retreat is a safe space for you to explore and address the difficult challenges your relationship
00:33:30is facing. How do they know?
00:33:33Your first group therapy session will take place tomorrow. We encourage you to become, what is this?
00:33:40Acquainted.
00:33:42With the other couples this evening at the historic Swan pub in town at 7 o'clock.
00:33:51Okay, we have to go to the pub at 7 o'clock.
00:33:55Wow.
00:33:56Take it easy over there, okay?
00:33:59Maybe even they want me to go to a pub and enjoy.
00:34:02Yeah, I just don't want you getting drunk.
00:34:04This is the part of the therapy. They even know that you have to get a little drunk in order
00:34:09to...
00:34:10Oh, God!
00:34:10What?
00:34:11Is that all you can ever think about?
00:34:14It's not...
00:34:15Getting drunk?
00:34:18Since the cafe closed, Semen has changed. He likes to party and he likes his drinking.
00:34:27I just enjoy having a few drinks. Like, it's fun.
00:34:34We are not here to fight. Why are we even arguing about anything?
00:34:38We're not arguing. You're the one getting all upset and excited.
00:34:53Who else do you think is going to be there tonight?
00:34:56I don't have any clue.
00:34:57I think that, you know, Cara and...
00:35:00Gil-Ramo? How do you say his name? Geronimo.
00:35:04What?
00:35:04Gil-Ramo?
00:35:06Gil-Armo.
00:35:09I don't know.
00:35:10But I hope that I can bond with, you know? I mean, they can understand me.
00:35:16Yeah, well, I hope that when you're bonding, that it's constructive, like stuff,
00:35:21and that you're not bonding over how much you hate being married, or...
00:35:24No, no, no, no, no, no. Not about that.
00:35:25How difficult your wife is.
00:35:26Shkaina, I'm not... I don't hate being married.
00:35:29Well...
00:35:29First of all, clear that from your mind, okay?
00:35:31You should think of your stand-up routine.
00:35:34One of the issues in this relationship has to do with Sarpur's career choice.
00:35:39He's an amazing comedian, but he has chosen most of his material to be about our marriage,
00:35:44and...
00:35:44it makes a big joke of our relationship.
00:35:47Guys, he never stops talking.
00:35:49Take the diaper gel, something. Take the dog, something.
00:35:52You need to go...
00:35:54This is what he can't tell me to my face, but he's able to express it to an audience for
00:36:00me to hear.
00:36:01It's a comedian thing, and comedians always roast people, whoever the closest to them.
00:36:11It sounds like you hate me.
00:36:12It is not.
00:36:13Well, it sounds like you do.
00:36:14It is... I'm showing that it is difficult to get married. I mean, this is reality.
00:36:18But you never end your routines with, like, I actually love my wife, or I actually...
00:36:23They say that I love you.
00:36:25Who knows?
00:36:25They see that.
00:36:26Who knows?
00:36:27Everyone knows that.
00:36:28Everyone that leaves your show thinks that you hate being married and that I'm hideous about Minga.
00:36:32No, no, no.
00:36:32I can't respect someone that can't have adult conversations.
00:36:35It doesn't say they're sorry when they're wrong.
00:36:37It doesn't tell me that they're joking when they're saying mean things about me.
00:36:40How can I respect that?
00:36:54I wonder who's gonna be here tonight.
00:36:56Do you have any idea?
00:36:58Me?
00:36:59Mm-hmm.
00:36:59No idea.
00:37:00I swear, if Angela's here, I'd rather get divorced.
00:37:03I mean, I wanna make friends.
00:37:05Me too.
00:37:05I love...
00:37:06You know...
00:37:07You know I love people.
00:37:08All right.
00:37:10Come here, let me check your buttons.
00:37:13It looks like I wanna.
00:37:15Okay, no, you're okay.
00:37:16Just don't unbutton that one.
00:37:18Why?
00:37:18Because it doesn't look good.
00:37:20It looks like you're...
00:37:20Okay, okay.
00:37:21Hey, I'm trying to pick up women.
00:37:24Whatever.
00:37:25That's...
00:37:26It's true.
00:37:29Really?
00:37:30Really.
00:37:39Are you excited to see a pub?
00:37:42Yeah, I'm excited.
00:37:42Real pub?
00:37:43I wanna see a real pub.
00:37:44Oh, my God.
00:37:45You wanna drink ale?
00:37:46I need a very strong ale.
00:37:50Oh, my God.
00:37:51Somebody's here.
00:37:56Oh, my God.
00:38:00Hi.
00:38:00Hi.
00:38:01Hey, hey.
00:38:02Hello.
00:38:03Wow.
00:38:03Hey, wow.
00:38:05I know these faces.
00:38:06I know these faces, too.
00:38:08Uh-huh.
00:38:09Sarper.
00:38:09Russ.
00:38:10Russ.
00:38:10Hello, Russ.
00:38:11Nice to meet you.
00:38:12Nice to meet you.
00:38:14Hi, gorgeous.
00:38:15Oh, beautiful.
00:38:16Thank you so much.
00:38:17You look gorgeous, too.
00:38:18Thank you.
00:38:19Wow.
00:38:21Shekina and Sarper.
00:38:23I don't know much about them.
00:38:25The only thing that I know is that they got married in a bed,
00:38:28which is very particular, to be honest.
00:38:31I was surprised at how low his buttons were.
00:38:33Like, he's showing more cleavage than Shekina.
00:38:35So, there's some weird vibe to that.
00:38:38What do you guys think?
00:38:39We're in Ireland.
00:38:40Or, wait.
00:38:41She doesn't know.
00:38:43She will never know.
00:38:44Believe me.
00:38:45Whatever.
00:38:46Isn't it the same?
00:38:47Yes.
00:38:47Similar. Yeah.
00:38:50From what I know of her.
00:38:52Pal could start a lot of drama here.
00:38:54She seems like the type that likes to stir the pot,
00:38:57and she's loud.
00:38:58She's over the top.
00:39:00I saw some things on the original 90-day.
00:39:02She starts talking, she never stops.
00:39:04Like, I mean, semi-automatic assault rifle, you know?
00:39:11Which is bad.
00:39:12It's our car.
00:39:14Yeah.
00:39:14Here we go.
00:39:21Oh.
00:39:21Oh.
00:39:23Oh, it's dark in here.
00:39:25Yeah.
00:39:27Yeah.
00:39:27Cheering.
00:39:31Oh, I love these shoes.
00:39:32Thank you.
00:39:33Are they boots?
00:39:34Yes.
00:39:35Oh.
00:39:35Oh, my God.
00:39:36I love them.
00:39:37Thank you.
00:39:38So, what do you do?
00:39:39I'm an esthetician.
00:39:41I'm a comedian.
00:39:42No one asked you.
00:39:43That's cool.
00:39:44No one asked you what you do.
00:39:46Yes.
00:39:46Yeah, I'm asking what you guys do.
00:39:49Oh, my God.
00:39:50Oh, my God.
00:39:50Skaina.
00:40:05Oh, wow.
00:40:06This is beautiful.
00:40:07Look at the swan.
00:40:09Ooh.
00:40:12Oh.
00:40:13Oh, my God.
00:40:14Oh, there's a dog.
00:40:15Thank you.
00:40:26Can you do taste?
00:40:27Can I taste the cider?
00:40:28Just a small taste?
00:40:29Can you mix them?
00:40:31Can you do half and half in a cup so it's not so sweet?
00:40:34I can.
00:40:35Yeah.
00:40:39Oh, look who's here.
00:40:42Hi.
00:40:44Hi.
00:40:45Hi.
00:40:45Hi.
00:40:45So nice to meet you.
00:40:47Nice to meet you.
00:40:49Paola, my hand is cold.
00:40:50Nice to meet you.
00:40:51Nice to meet you guys.
00:40:53So you're Latina?
00:40:54Yes.
00:40:55I am Latina too.
00:40:55Oh, nice to meet you.
00:40:57Brazil.
00:40:57Brazil?
00:40:58Oh.
00:40:59Did you guys like tequila?
00:41:00Yeah.
00:41:01Yeah?
00:41:02Yeah, I'm like, I'm gonna make everybody drink tequila and do some pasta sauce with me.
00:41:05I know, you guys are legends.
00:41:09I can't believe we're seeing Russ and Pao.
00:41:11Season one OGs.
00:41:13I'm shocked they're still together.
00:41:14And then Shekinish or Shekinish Sarpa.
00:41:17Shekinah rhymes with vagina.
00:41:19So that's how you remember it.
00:41:22We don't really know Shekinah Sarpa at all.
00:41:24I just know like he's banging a lot of girls and like somehow she's into that.
00:41:29Cheers.
00:41:31I'm gonna get my bag here.
00:41:33Uh-oh.
00:41:34Charlie.
00:41:36I think we can sit in here.
00:41:40Oh my god, I need to sit.
00:41:42He's so sweet.
00:41:44I'm gonna stick here.
00:41:47This is much better.
00:41:49I wanna know who else is gonna be.
00:41:50Me too.
00:41:51Yeah, me too.
00:41:52Because I like you guys.
00:41:54I'm having a really good like connection in here.
00:41:57I like it.
00:41:57I feel like it's been very smooth.
00:42:00It's bothering you.
00:42:02Do you need eyelash glue?
00:42:03You have it?
00:42:04Yeah.
00:42:05Oh, I need.
00:42:06No way.
00:42:08I'm a makeup artist, so I will do it.
00:42:10You're a makeup artist?
00:42:11But your makeup is amazing.
00:42:13I love it.
00:42:13Thank you.
00:42:14It's funny.
00:42:15It's like you and I have talked a lot about makeup, right?
00:42:18Oh, you already did.
00:42:19You asked me about makeup.
00:42:21Skincare.
00:42:21We're following each other.
00:42:23Or we were following each other.
00:42:27We were following, what do you mean?
00:42:28We were following each other.
00:42:33I'm really not a fan of Thais.
00:42:35And Sarper has his own issues with Patrick.
00:42:37So this couple is at the bottom of our who do we want here list.
00:42:42Thais and I haven't met in person, but we were friends on social media and it was great.
00:42:47I would share beauty tips with her and then one day, out of nowhere, she just unfollowed me.
00:42:53On Instagram?
00:42:54Yeah.
00:42:54We were following each other, right?
00:42:56Look down.
00:42:58Yeah.
00:42:59Thank you.
00:43:00Did I do anything that upset you?
00:43:03You know, because if I did, I would want to know.
00:43:05And now it's not even about social media anymore.
00:43:07It's about her being really disrespectful.
00:43:10So I just think Thais is fake.
00:43:12And I'm going to definitely get under her skin because I'm real as a .
00:43:19Hey!
00:43:19Oh my God!
00:43:20Hi!
00:43:21I recognize you!
00:43:22Hi!
00:43:23I recognize you!
00:43:25How are you?
00:43:25How are you?
00:43:27How are you?
00:43:28Yeah.
00:43:29Hey, how are you?
00:43:29Good.
00:43:30Thank you.
00:43:31To be honest, I don't know much about Rebecca and Ziet.
00:43:35Only thing that I know, Rebecca is a lot older than him.
00:43:39And I think if there's this age gap, the man has to be older.
00:43:43I mean, man can handle the age better than woman.
00:43:47That's the scientific things.
00:43:49So I wouldn't marry with a woman in the age of my mother.
00:43:54Hi!
00:43:54I remember you.
00:43:56I remember you.
00:43:57My kids are crazy.
00:43:58No, it's okay.
00:43:59We're hot in here.
00:43:59It's to meet you.
00:44:00It's to meet in person.
00:44:01Yeah.
00:44:02You are from Tunisia, right?
00:44:03Yes.
00:44:04Tunisia.
00:44:05Yeah.
00:44:05Where are you from?
00:44:06I'm from Turkey.
00:44:07You speak French, right?
00:44:10Yeah.
00:44:10When your wife doesn't know your language, that's a good advantage.
00:44:14Yeah.
00:44:16Oh, my God.
00:44:19Oh, cool.
00:44:21Oh!
00:44:21Hello!
00:44:22Hello!
00:44:23Hello!
00:44:24Hello!
00:44:24Oh, my God.
00:44:25Hello!
00:44:27Hello!
00:44:27Hello!
00:44:28Hi!
00:44:30Nice to meet you.
00:44:31I'm Patrick.
00:44:32I know you.
00:44:33I saw you on TV.
00:44:34Nice to meet you.
00:44:35Yeah.
00:44:35I watch you all the time.
00:44:37How are you?
00:44:38Time for.
00:44:39When I saw Shaka and Sarpa, my frustration was, they just got married.
00:44:43Like, I didn't thought about that they will be there so quickly.
00:44:47Do you want to drink anything, brother?
00:44:49Yeah, anything.
00:44:50Anything?
00:44:50Anything can make me, like, drunk.
00:44:52Oh, my God!
00:44:54My first thoughts about Sarpa are he's gonna be getting some men in trouble.
00:45:00Uh-oh, here we go.
00:45:03Can we have two same...
00:45:05Of course.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:05Hi!
00:45:07Hi!
00:45:08How are you?
00:45:09Nice to meet you, too.
00:45:11Hi!
00:45:14How are you?
00:45:15I'm good.
00:45:16Nice to meet you.
00:45:17Nice to meet you, too.
00:45:19I feel, like, covered up compared to you.
00:45:23Oh!
00:45:24I am super high.
00:45:26Jenny and Samith, you know, it was just crazy how little they are.
00:45:31When I first saw Smith, I was like, Smith, you're so little in person.
00:45:35He's, like, so cute and little.
00:45:36When seeing the guy on TV, I thought he was, like, six feet tall.
00:45:39And all of a sudden, like, I'm towering over him.
00:45:41I was like, what's going on here?
00:45:43I felt so tall next to him.
00:45:46You know me, right?
00:45:48What are you doing?
00:45:49Trying to...
00:45:49Jenny and...
00:45:50Sumit.
00:45:51Sumit.
00:45:52Ah!
00:45:52He was an S.
00:45:54Let's have a talk with you, okay?
00:45:56Yeah, let's go.
00:45:56Okay for you?
00:45:57Yeah.
00:45:58Oh, my God, Jenny!
00:45:59I'm such a fangirl.
00:46:01Very.
00:46:01I'm sorry.
00:46:02I'm, like, having a fangirl moment.
00:46:04Hi, I'm Shekinah.
00:46:05Can I hug you?
00:46:06I know you, Shekinah.
00:46:07Hi!
00:46:08Nice to meet you.
00:46:09Nice to meet you, too.
00:46:10You guys are all so beautiful.
00:46:12Oh, my God.
00:46:12Have a seat.
00:46:15There's a thing that I want to talk about you.
00:46:18All right.
00:46:19What'd you want to talk about?
00:46:22You said something about me.
00:46:24I know that.
00:46:26I watched it once.
00:46:27Oh, yeah, I mean, well, you know, it's...
00:46:30Yeah, it's maybe...
00:46:31Hill talk.
00:46:32Yeah, I mean...
00:46:33And you kind of, like, you know, you banged a lot of girls.
00:46:37It's...
00:46:38It's impressive.
00:46:40It was not about this, bro.
00:46:43There was something that occupying my mind, you know?
00:46:46Because I heard that he was talking about me.
00:46:50And I got offended, to be honest.
00:46:53He has to know that one day Sarkar will come and face up with you.
00:47:01Oh, my God. Thank you.
00:47:03This is one for everyone.
00:47:05No.
00:47:06Jenny.
00:47:07No.
00:47:07No, no, no.
00:47:10The road is going only one way, Jenny's way.
00:47:12That's it.
00:47:14I'm asking you to stop, and you're not stopping.
00:47:17I'm not drunk yet.
00:47:19Didn't you just insult me in front of them?
00:47:21Idiot.
00:47:34You said something about me.
00:47:36I know that.
00:47:38I mean, I watched it once.
00:47:40Oh, yeah.
00:47:40I mean, you know, you banged a lot of girls.
00:47:43This was not about this, bro.
00:47:45You said that you have the biggest...
00:47:47He has the biggest ears I have ever seen.
00:47:51Yeah.
00:47:55Oh, Sarkar.
00:47:55Sarkar and Shekinah.
00:47:56Look at his chest.
00:47:57Shekinah.
00:47:58You think this guy is attractive.
00:48:00No.
00:48:00Exactly.
00:48:01Look at him.
00:48:02I'm not going to, like...
00:48:03I'm not going to break the guy down right now.
00:48:05But you just said he's an attractive guy.
00:48:07He's got a good smile, but...
00:48:10Like, those were the biggest ears I've ever seen in my life.
00:48:12Oh, my God.
00:48:17I mean, all that stuff is very, uh...
00:48:19You know, it's just...
00:48:20I actually really like you.
00:48:22And I'm sorry, like, if my ear comment, like, offended you.
00:48:26Your ears fit the size of your head.
00:48:28Yeah.
00:48:28That's good. Thank you.
00:48:30I have a small head, and so I have small ears.
00:48:34I believe in you, but if you talk once more about my ears...
00:48:38All right.
00:48:39All right, I'm hot.
00:48:40Okay, okay.
00:48:41I have, like, 40 pounds on Sarkar, so...
00:48:45I'm pretty sure I could take him in a fight.
00:48:47But I'm not trying to have any beef with anyone,
00:48:51especially on day one.
00:48:53So, like, I'm not going to tell him.
00:48:55Now that I'm in person, he's really got some big-ass ears.
00:49:07Hi!
00:49:08Hi!
00:49:09Hi!
00:49:10Oh, my God!
00:49:11Hey, you guys, too.
00:49:12Oh, my God.
00:49:14Hi!
00:49:15Well, we're super hot.
00:49:17How you all doing?
00:49:18Hello.
00:49:19Guillermo.
00:49:19What's up, dude?
00:49:20Good to see you again.
00:49:21So good to see you.
00:49:22It's a pleasure.
00:49:23Brother.
00:49:23Zeed.
00:49:26Shekinah and Sharper, it's so interesting to see them here,
00:49:31like this close.
00:49:32Yeah.
00:49:33Because it's clear there's a lot of money going on in their faces.
00:49:40It's a very particular look, and I'm sure that's been procured on purpose.
00:49:46People, people spend their money in their own way.
00:49:49Free will.
00:49:50Not free.
00:49:56Cheers.
00:49:56Cheers.
00:49:57Cheers.
00:49:58Cheers.
00:49:58Cheers.
00:49:59Cheers to you.
00:49:59I wonder if anyone else is coming.
00:50:01I was so excited.
00:50:03I wanted to just come here.
00:50:05Meet someone and just hang out with the boys and Bonnie.
00:50:08I'll be right back.
00:50:11You good?
00:50:11Yeah.
00:50:12Maybe no.
00:50:14Don't get drunk.
00:50:16This is the guy.
00:50:17Did you meet Sapo?
00:50:18Yes.
00:50:18He's a gentleman, isn't he?
00:50:19Yes.
00:50:20If anything goes wrong, he's a responsible, but he keeps giving me drinks.
00:50:24He's my responsible.
00:50:26No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:50:27I love that.
00:50:28You don't do that.
00:50:29Just tonight.
00:50:29No, no, no.
00:50:30We all have to get up in the morning, you know?
00:50:33Of course.
00:50:35I know we have first therapy tomorrow, but he just want to have a good time with us.
00:50:42I think a little bit.
00:50:43Jenny, she tried to control him.
00:50:46She acts like a mother with a child in the leash, like a puppy.
00:50:51Poor cement.
00:50:55I watched a lot of, like, crime documentaries.
00:50:59As a husband, he was kind of weird.
00:51:01Because he was like, my wife watched so many different motor shows.
00:51:06Oh, she could totally make you disappear and nobody would ever...
00:51:08And I'm like, listen, I...
00:51:08She'll be helping everybody look for your body.
00:51:10You already know where to look.
00:51:13Oh, my God.
00:51:14Thank you.
00:51:15Well, I think...
00:51:16I lost one.
00:51:17Like, you don't think...
00:51:18Thank you, Sandra.
00:51:19This is one for everyone.
00:51:20Last one, like...
00:51:22No.
00:51:22No, no.
00:51:24Normally, when he drinks, does he do something that you don't like, or...?
00:51:29He...
00:51:29He'll fall down on the floor and walk into a wall.
00:51:34Okay, so you have experience?
00:51:36Like...
00:51:36How many?
00:51:37A lot.
00:51:38Okay.
00:51:39No.
00:51:41Dave.
00:51:41No.
00:51:42No, no, no.
00:51:43Listen.
00:51:44No.
00:51:45Are you gonna have this one too?
00:51:47No, you're not either.
00:51:50Come on.
00:51:51Let's go.
00:51:53Where?
00:51:53Outside.
00:51:54No, no.
00:51:54We are having a good time.
00:51:56We're going outside.
00:51:59We cannot control someone.
00:52:01Okay.
00:52:02But also, maybe they had some bad experience before about that.
00:52:07Yeah, she said it.
00:52:08It sounds like it.
00:52:09Yeah.
00:52:11But I...
00:52:11I asked you not to do this.
00:52:13I'm not doing anything.
00:52:14I know you're gonna come here...
00:52:16No, no.
00:52:16...and get drunk.
00:52:17I knew it.
00:52:18What?
00:52:19And I'm asking you to stop and you're not stopping.
00:52:23I'm not drunk yet.
00:52:25Yes.
00:52:25You just insulted me in front of them.
00:52:28You said that I'd crawl on the ground and fall down.
00:52:30That's why I don't want you getting drunk.
00:52:33This is the reason we are here.
00:52:34Because I feel like you've been extra controlling.
00:52:37I don't like it.
00:52:38I just...
00:52:38I want to enjoy.
00:52:39Like, we are here too for therapy.
00:52:41I'm here to enjoy.
00:52:42Hey, then go enjoy.
00:52:43Bye.
00:52:46Idiot.
00:53:10Yeah, I'm embarrassed that that just happened.
00:53:15in our first night and we're meeting people.
00:53:18He should respect what I want from him.
00:53:23And he blamed me for everything.
00:53:26He blamed me...
00:53:28What?
00:53:29You decide not to drink?
00:53:32No, I decide to take you back.
00:53:35Like, this is not the way.
00:53:36So you should respect my feelings.
00:53:39If I don't want you to drink, you should not drink.
00:53:43I stop enjoying life.
00:53:45Like, I...
00:53:46Are you okay?
00:53:47I have to listen and I...
00:53:48You stop enjoying life.
00:53:50That's great.
00:53:52This is the problem.
00:53:53The road is going only one way, journey's way.
00:53:56That's it.
00:53:57One side, I have...
00:53:58I get controlled by my mother.
00:54:00And the other side, like, same way by my wife.
00:54:02Sometimes I feel like that I'm living with two mothers.
00:54:05It's...
00:54:06It's not a good thing.
00:54:09I'm done with tonight.
00:54:11You can come with me back to the resort
00:54:14or you can go back in there.
00:54:16I don't think I can.
00:54:17I don't have any option.
00:54:24We just found out there's a tunnel.
00:54:26And it goes all the way back to the castle.
00:54:30Can I talk to you live?
00:54:31Sure.
00:54:34Maybe...
00:54:35Out in the patio?
00:54:36Yeah.
00:54:37Wait, where did Thais go?
00:54:39She kind of...
00:54:39Where did she take her?
00:54:41You should go find out.
00:54:42I don't want to be in the tea,
00:54:43but I like to be around the tea.
00:54:46So I kind of tried to mention something earlier
00:54:50when I was fixing your lashes.
00:54:52Yeah.
00:54:54And I was scrolling the other day
00:54:56and I got a suggestion to follow you.
00:54:58And I thought,
00:54:59why am I being suggested to follow her?
00:55:01I already follow her.
00:55:03And I went on your account
00:55:04and we don't follow each other.
00:55:06Meaning, you removed me as a follower.
00:55:11How do you know?
00:55:12Can you prove that?
00:55:13Okay.
00:55:14I've been around long enough to know
00:55:16that it just doesn't magically happen.
00:55:18We cannot know from social media,
00:55:20like, someone unfollowed you.
00:55:21Like, might be some unfollowed dilemma.
00:55:24I don't know how...
00:55:25How?
00:55:25We have nothing, like, going on.
00:55:27This is your whole answer?
00:55:28Is you just don't know.
00:55:29No, I don't know what happened.
00:55:31You don't know what happened.
00:55:32You know this is wild, right?
00:55:33This whole decision you're making right now
00:55:35to have this be your answer is wild.
00:55:37This is all I needed to know.
00:55:38Because, like, I don't know how you got mad
00:55:40because I don't follow you.
00:55:41There's a reason, but there's not even a reason.
00:55:44There's just denial.
00:55:45And I don't understand it at all.
00:55:49Me too.
00:55:50I don't understand, like,
00:55:51why someone should be mad.
00:55:52We're both confused then.
00:55:56So annoying.
00:55:59What the ?
00:56:01That was a trip.
00:56:07What happened?
00:56:08What happened?
00:56:08She's so mad with me.
00:56:09She said I don't follow her on social media.
00:56:11She wants me to follow her.
00:56:12Wait, did you follow her?
00:56:14Oh, no.
00:56:15Oh, gosh.
00:56:15I don't know what happened.
00:56:18I feel stupid for even bringing it up,
00:56:20but it means something in the whole world of social media,
00:56:23interacting with people online.
00:56:24I can't respect someone that responds that way.
00:56:27It's very cowardly.
00:56:28I'm trying to work on trust in my relationship,
00:56:31and it's like,
00:56:31I have trust issues outside of my relationship, too.
00:56:35I need a therapist after this.
00:56:38Oh.
00:56:39Yeah, just so you know that Starper and I are friends.
00:56:40Oh, you guys are friends.
00:56:41That's sad because we're not friends anymore.
00:56:44Well, we've talked about stuff.
00:56:44Yeah, we talked about stuff.
00:56:45I mean, we're not friends.
00:56:46We're in Chicago.
00:56:47She said that you unfollowed her.
00:56:49That's the thing.
00:56:50I don't know what happened that I don't follow her.
00:56:54Clara blocked me.
00:56:55And I came from having a drink with her.
00:56:57What's going on?
00:56:57No, I blocked it .
00:56:59I want to ask her the situation.
00:57:04You paid what the man's supposed to pay.
00:57:06They provide for the family.
00:57:07What do you need to?
00:57:08I don't know.
00:57:09What happened with you and Trace?
00:57:12Oh, I confronted her about removing me as a follower,
00:57:15about unfollowing me.
00:57:16I don't know how that happened.
00:57:18I have no idea.
00:57:19What a cowardly response.
00:57:23Sometimes men are better, you know?
00:57:26Because, for example, sometimes.
00:57:29Damn what?
00:57:31I'm sorry.
00:57:32Damn what?
00:57:32I'm sorry.
00:57:32Damn what?
00:57:33Sometimes.
00:57:35Time is just with Thais.
00:57:36I guess I'm just wondering what's happening.
00:57:40I said, why did you unfollow me and remove me as a follower?
00:57:42And I told you that I don't know what happened.
00:57:44That doesn't happen by chance.
00:57:45We both know that.
00:57:48I don't want to witness this.
00:57:51I'm going to chime in.
00:57:52Literally, neither of us care about what you guys are saying.
00:57:56Well, trust me.
00:57:56Whatever.
00:57:57Have fun with your big ears.
00:57:58You don't care.
00:58:00Yeah, the way you were talking about it.
00:58:01You were like, I don't.
00:58:04It's a simple question.
00:58:04She made it feel like you were really upset about it.
00:58:09It's a simple question.
00:58:15Being that the women here would be a good support system for each other.
00:58:18Because we're all going through something similar.
00:58:21Like the issues with all of our husbands.
00:58:25But it's already looking like some of the women here are also going to be having difficult relationships with each
00:58:30other.
00:58:32We're out.
00:58:33Have a good night, you guys.
00:58:34See you tomorrow, guys.
00:58:35In therapy.
00:58:36Me.
00:58:36Yeah.
00:58:38If Patrick and Thais are going to start things out this way, they're getting off on the wrong foot.
00:58:44She sits here and says it's not important, but it was important enough to pull you aside.
00:58:47I'm just saying.
00:58:48To talk about it.
00:58:49I don't like how you got up and left in the middle.
00:58:52I can not handle this.
00:58:52I know you're uncomfortable in the thick of that.
00:58:54I'm .
00:58:54Your wife is literally being attacked.
00:58:56And you're leaving.
00:58:57No, you are not attacking.
00:58:58You were arguing that time.
00:59:02You left me in the middle of a moment when I needed you, not to defend me, to at least
00:59:07just be by my side.
00:59:09And you left.
00:59:10I don't want you to hear fighting with people.
00:59:12I hate that your voice when you argue.
00:59:15I hate to fight with any .
00:59:16And look at you swearing.
00:59:18I hate your disgusting Turkish swearing.
00:59:20It's the most ugly thing I've ever heard in my life.
00:59:22Because I cannot handle myself otherwise.
00:59:24Yeah, you can't handle yourself.
00:59:25You can't handle me.
00:59:26You can't handle anything.
00:59:28Where are you going?
00:59:30This is the fight that we always have, you know?
00:59:33I don't know how therapists will help us, but I'm praying to God.
00:59:39I mean, let them show her that she has problems, too.
00:59:45I mean, if you want me to be the leader, let me be the leader.
00:59:51On paper, she wants me to be the alpha male.
00:59:53Lie.
00:59:55It's a lie.
00:59:57Because always she wants to be the boss bitch.
01:00:02I'm always sorry in this life.
01:00:04I am always sorry.
01:00:05You're not listening to me.
01:00:31You're not happy with that phone?
01:00:33Yeah, actually, I am.
01:00:36You're not happy with that phone?
01:00:36You're not happy with that phone?
01:00:36This is the way all the way with it.
01:00:38Like, all the way.
01:00:39Like, I cannot go out and have fun with my friend.
01:00:44Well, you need to learn how to be friendly without alcohol.
01:00:48I'm not going out for a smoke.
01:00:50Okay.
01:01:05Where's the taxi?
01:01:07This way.
01:01:08I feel like it has been a very interesting night.
01:01:11Yeah.
01:01:12You ready for tomorrow?
01:01:13No.
01:01:16In the simplest, shortest way, no.
01:01:18Oh.
01:01:19Absolutely not.
01:01:20Oh.
01:01:25How did we mess this night?
01:01:29Whatever I do, it's wrong.
01:01:30I mean, it's like, it's so difficult to change.
01:01:33How will I change you, huh?
01:01:35How will I change you?
01:01:36Everything is in that sentence right there.
01:01:38How will I change you?
01:01:40Yes.
01:01:41Instead of how will I change myself?
01:01:42How will we change?
01:01:44That's everything that's wrong with this relationship right there.
01:01:47I'm just going to think about that right now and go get right into it.
01:01:50You think about everything.
01:01:52You f***ing single.
01:01:53You only think.
01:01:55I will tell in therapy, you are my punishment in this world.
01:02:05All right, let me make my bed.
01:02:09So you don't need four pillows.
01:02:12You probably need two.
01:02:13And I need two.
01:02:14Would you agree?
01:02:16Yeah.
01:02:16Yeah.
01:02:16I'm going to get ready for her bed.
01:02:19By myself.
01:02:21All alone.
01:02:22Being in bed.
01:02:36You want to feel like a king?
01:02:39I wish.
01:02:40I think this retreat might be a lot more than we were bargaining for.
01:02:45But, you know, I think we're starting to see why people are here.
01:02:48I think we did a good job.
01:02:49You're welcome.
01:02:50Yeah.
01:02:51Maybe you should be rewarded.
01:02:53I accept.
01:02:55Get ready.
01:02:57All right.
01:03:08You want to trim the light off?
01:03:10I will, yeah.
01:03:25Yeah.
01:03:26Yeah.
01:03:28Yeah.
01:03:28I mean, the toilet paper here, it's like next level.
01:03:31You like it?
01:03:33Yeah.
01:03:33And they got a towel warmer.
01:03:34Wow.
01:03:36I don't know how today's going to be.
01:03:40I'm not ready to see Shekin again.
01:03:42I mean, maybe therapy will, you know, take this whole thing to another subject.
01:03:47And we don't really have to worry about it.
01:03:54Um, it's going to be a good day.
01:04:01How'd you sleep?
01:04:02Okay.
01:04:07You think that I have a boyfriend.
01:04:09He doesn't trust me.
01:04:11Okay, so there's an inference here that you think perhaps she has cheated on you.
01:04:17Yeah.
01:04:32Well, thank you for letting me sleep here.
01:04:35I told you you can sleep here.
01:04:36It's not a big deal.
01:04:37Thank you for respecting me.
01:04:41It is bizarre that you're in my bed.
01:04:45Um, do you need the bathroom first?
01:04:47No, you can, you can go ahead.
01:04:49You can take it first.
01:04:51My penis is too to get up right now.
01:04:57Why is your penis?
01:04:58Because it's the morning.
01:05:00Do you think it could be because of who you woke up next to?
01:05:04No, Kara.
01:05:06No.
01:05:07It's definitely science.
01:05:10How was your first night in the bed with me?
01:05:12I was going to sleep on the couch, but I didn't have blankets.
01:05:15Right.
01:05:16Right.
01:05:17Nothing happened.
01:05:18In fact, I think you actually put pillows between us.
01:05:21No, but it was nice to sleep next to you, and I hope that our first therapy session goes well.
01:05:44Hi.
01:05:46Hello.
01:05:46Dr. Tara, my pleasure.
01:05:47Nice to meet you.
01:05:47Hi, I'm Persia.
01:05:49Nice to meet you.
01:05:49Hi, I'm Persia.
01:05:50Hi, Dr. Tara.
01:05:53Will you take a seat?
01:06:00Looks like we're walking out to get married.
01:06:04What have we stolen out last?
01:06:07Last but not to be.
01:06:10This is going to be intense.
01:06:12Yes.
01:06:16Welcome, everyone.
01:06:17Hi.
01:06:17Hi.
01:06:19You are here because your marriages are in a place of crisis and dysfunction.
01:06:25And our role as your therapists is to guide you to reach a better place in your relationships.
01:06:31I'm Persia.
01:06:32I'm a dating and relationship coach and author, and I'm trained in cognitive behavioral therapy and somatic healing.
01:06:40I am Dr. Tyrone K. Grandison, a doctor of marriage and family therapy.
01:06:44I specialize in helping individuals reach a better place in their relationships.
01:06:48We truly hope that you're ready for this endeavor.
01:06:51And I'm Dr. Tara.
01:06:53I'm a professor of sexual communication and a certified sexologist.
01:06:57I'm here to help you regain, rebuild, revitalize your sexual connection.
01:07:02Our hope is that by engaging in intensive couples therapy, it's a little bit like going on an exercise boot
01:07:09camp.
01:07:09You will be participating in a range of intensive therapies, as well as non-traditional exercises and homework assignments to
01:07:18help deepen your connections, improve your communication, and help you mend your distressed marriages.
01:07:26We hope that by the end, your love for each other will be much like this castle, impenetrable to outside
01:07:31forces and strong enough to last generations.
01:07:35At the end of this three-week retreat, there will be a recommitment ceremony.
01:07:40Unfortunately, not all relationships are meant to last.
01:07:45True.
01:07:46That's not true.
01:07:47Not true.
01:07:48But as your therapists, we are going to do everything that we can to get you to a place where
01:07:53you are ready to recommit to each other.
01:07:57Let's get started.
01:08:02Let's do it.
01:08:04Yeah.
01:08:06So, Patrick and Thais, what is going on with you guys?
01:08:12Where should we start?
01:08:14A lot of things.
01:08:16Like, we've had a crazy three years of marriage.
01:08:18Like, we've moved around, been in four houses.
01:08:22I've gone through two surgeries with my knees and, like, that's been really brutal for my stress, for my anxiety.
01:08:30A lot of mornings, like, I wake up and I'm stressed.
01:08:33And then she'll add more to my plate.
01:08:38And, you know, on top of that, like, she's just been distant.
01:08:43Add, like, lack of sex, there's no effort, like, from her to make time for us.
01:08:49No matter what, I cannot be sick or, like, he's like, oh, it's been three days already that we don't
01:08:55have sex.
01:08:56I don't like to hear that.
01:08:57And he thinks that I need to be there every single day for him, like, no matter what.
01:09:02But I started, like, prioritizing myself.
01:09:06Like, now I, you know, go to the gym, trying to do things, you know, that I feel better.
01:09:12And he doesn't like it.
01:09:14Like, oh, you're going to the gym? Like, it's too late.
01:09:17Like, who are you saying that your boyfriend?
01:09:19He thinks that I have a boyfriend.
01:09:21He doesn't trust me.
01:09:24She just recently went to Brazil, like, to see her family, but, like, needed to stay in an Airbnb.
01:09:29Like, it does make it easier for someone to stop by.
01:09:33OK, so there's an inference here that you think perhaps she has cheated on you.
01:09:38Or would.
01:09:40I mean...
01:09:41Is that what you're saying without saying it?
01:09:48Yeah.
01:09:52That's upset me so much.
01:09:54Your wife has cheated on you.
01:09:56I don't know if you are.
01:09:58With this Brazil trip, there was, like, this, like, random charge on the credit card for, like, almost $2,000.
01:10:05Like, he keeps tracking the credit card.
01:10:08I don't know why you don't trust me.
01:10:10Because you didn't tell me anything and what you were doing.
01:10:13You're in another country.
01:10:14And then all of a sudden, like, I'm worried where Elise is, and you're not telling me where she is.
01:10:18And then you're out till, like, middle of the night.
01:10:22There's a trust issue.
01:10:24He doesn't have enough self-confidence right now.
01:10:27Because he's dating out of his league, and he knows it.
01:10:29And he can only get a girl like that if he goes to a different country.
01:10:33So he brought this on himself.
01:10:35And also, I've already seen in one night that she's dishonest.
01:10:40So, yeah.
01:10:42You specifically mentioned a $2,000 charge.
01:10:46What was that charge for?
01:10:48I have no idea.
01:10:49Is that something that you're willing to share with him of what it was for?
01:10:56Something down there happened, and I didn't tell him because I thought, um...
01:11:21So, Thais, what was that charge for?
01:11:25Um, yeah.
01:11:26I actually got, um...
01:11:30Something down there.
01:11:31I didn't tell him because I thought he wasn't going to say yes.
01:11:37I got done, like, a lipo in my back.
01:11:44You got liposuction?
01:11:46Yes.
01:11:47It was something that was bothering me.
01:11:49Well, this is the first time I'm hearing this.
01:11:52I've gotten a lot of procedures done, and I think what a woman does with her own body is her
01:11:57business.
01:11:57But she should at least tell her husband.
01:11:59It's shady.
01:12:01But there is a bigger problem than the trust issue.
01:12:04If you don't know the size of your lady, and if you don't understand the change, there is a big
01:12:09problem.
01:12:10For sure.
01:12:12After having a baby, there was some things that I saw on myself that I didn't like.
01:12:16And why didn't she say anything?
01:12:18Because if I tell you, you argue every time. You fight every time.
01:12:22Thais, for you, if somebody omits information, do you think that counts as a lie?
01:12:30No.
01:12:31But can you understand, Thais, how that would be for Patrick?
01:12:37Like, it would create issues of trust by not telling him that.
01:12:42I know. I mean, we were going to fight anyways. I didn't want to fight that time.
01:12:46I just feel like you've taken it too far. She's focusing on herself, and, like, she really means it.
01:12:53Like, it is not, like, our family's not a priority.
01:12:57That's not like that. That's not like that. You're being, oh, Jesus.
01:13:01How can you say that I don't prioritize the family? Like, how? I do a lot for you, for Alicia.
01:13:08I gave up my whole life in Brazil to come here.
01:13:11You've changed. And things are different.
01:13:15You're spending money on plastic surgery that has nothing to do with me or Alicia.
01:13:19That's exactly what I didn't tell you in the first place, because, like, I knew it was going to be
01:13:24a fight, an argument.
01:13:25Look, I'd rather argue with you than think that you're a liar.
01:13:31Okay, so it sounds like there's some real issues around communication.
01:13:35Clearly, there's some issues around trust.
01:13:38These are all things that we can work on. Are you willing to work on them?
01:13:44Yeah, 100%.
01:13:45Thais?
01:13:46I am.
01:13:47Okay.
01:13:49Patrick is concerned about infidelity in his marriage.
01:13:53He's concerned that perhaps Thais has cheated on him.
01:13:56And when this comes up with a couple, usually it's because there is some element of truth.
01:14:02Even if there hasn't been physical sex with someone outside of the marriage,
01:14:07she's pulling away because she's not feeling that connection with him anymore.
01:14:10And we really need to find a way to break this cycle.
01:14:17Okay, so Russ and Pow, how are you doing today?
01:14:21We're here for a reason.
01:14:23What's that reason?
01:14:24For me, I feel like I don't feel like I'm appreciated.
01:14:30You know, I was the financial stability throughout the beginning of the relationship.
01:14:36But that was in Oklahoma, and Pow hated Oklahoma.
01:14:40And so we moved for her.
01:14:43I had to start over within my career as an engineer.
01:14:47Went through three layoffs.
01:14:50I feel like she doesn't recognize the sacrifices that I've gone through.
01:14:53I get it.
01:14:54It's not in his hands to be laid off many times.
01:14:58But it's in his hands to actually step up and, like, find a solution.
01:15:02And I feel like that motivation person, the person who used to love to work
01:15:06and used to have this driven, like, I used to admire him.
01:15:10I feel like he's not longer there.
01:15:12And we just moved to Las Vegas, and I told him not to come with me.
01:15:16Damn.
01:15:21Because I'm done.
01:15:22And, like, I feel like it's a big expense.
01:15:26I see him now as an expense.
01:15:28Because, like, I support everything for my son.
01:15:30I pay for everything.
01:15:31Why do I need someone who is not supporting me economically,
01:15:34but is bringing, dragging me down with him?
01:15:37I'm not going to accept that.
01:15:39I said, no, I'm going.
01:15:40You're not taking my son away from me.
01:15:42He just told me, like, oh, this is going to be a dirty bottle.
01:15:45Like, I'm going to go, like, it's not going to be easy for you.
01:15:49And that's the last thing I want, just to put my son through that.
01:15:53So is that the reason why I'm staying there?
01:15:55So because I don't want my son to go through that?
01:15:57But that's not fair.
01:16:01I feel like I'm very confused about my feelings, what I feel about him.
01:16:05I don't remember was the last time I actually told him I love you back.
01:16:11And it doesn't make me feel good.
01:16:13Because I'm, he doesn't deserve that.
01:16:15I don't deserve that.
01:16:17Like, what am I still doing?
01:16:19Like, it's just, that's not what I want.
01:16:24So when you say you're done, pal, are you here to try and fix this?
01:16:46Are you here to try and fix this?
01:16:52I cannot just snap at it, like, and come out like, oh, yeah, now we're here.
01:16:56Like, let's go and reconnect.
01:16:58Like, it's not that easy.
01:16:59But I'm doing this because of the history that we have.
01:17:02And maybe I'm in the wrong, and I don't see his point of view.
01:17:06I don't know.
01:17:07I want to find out because we haven't even had time to be alone.
01:17:10Because our son has been always in the middle, and I really wouldn't change that for anything in the world.
01:17:14Because I love my son to that.
01:17:16But I feel like there is such a distance between us.
01:17:19As much as it's a joy to have Axel, it's taken an impact deeply.
01:17:25He also shares the bed with us.
01:17:27How old is Axel?
01:17:29Axel's six years old now.
01:17:33How does that affect your sex life?
01:17:36Tremendously.
01:17:38It's not like, oh, let's do it. It's gonna be fun.
01:17:40It's more like, let's get it done with it.
01:17:43Like, I don't know.
01:17:45I feel like Axel's a dead cow in there and like, okay.
01:17:53That makes sense.
01:17:56She feels like a dead cow.
01:18:00It's bored, though.
01:18:01But I'll be honest with you.
01:18:02If you were really bad at it, that's what I would do.
01:18:06I've never heard about that.
01:18:08Similar to like, just starfishing, you know?
01:18:10And like, you just lay there and like, spread out.
01:18:14Ready?
01:18:18And then you have sex with me.
01:18:21I think there's a huge discrepancy between how you guys are feeling.
01:18:26Sex is one of the cornerstones of a healthy marriage.
01:18:30When you're missing that, your relationship suffers.
01:18:33So, I have a recipe for you that I think can revitalize that connection.
01:18:39We've got work to do.
01:18:40A lot.
01:18:41Yeah!
01:18:43It really just felt like Pao was trashing me.
01:18:45She's just throwing it out for the entire group to hear out.
01:18:49I know it takes full honesty in order for therapy to work.
01:18:52I'm really hoping that the therapist can help us in all aspects.
01:18:57Because honestly, I'm starting to have my doubts that this is never going to work.
01:19:02Shekinah and Starper, what challenges are you bringing with you into this couple's retreat?
01:19:08I feel like we have a lot of communication issues, respect issues, and there seems to be like a power
01:19:15struggle.
01:19:16He always says he's an alpha man, alpha male.
01:19:18I'm very attracted to, like, an alpha male, like, strong man.
01:19:23But I feel like an alpha man is going to provide and protect.
01:19:27When we have an issue, I'll shut down and I'll just kind of block him out like he doesn't exist
01:19:33to protect myself.
01:19:34And I'm doing that right now because of something that happened yesterday.
01:19:39So what happened yesterday?
01:19:41I was having words with another woman here.
01:19:45I felt like her husband was behind her.
01:19:48And I felt my husband leave the situation and he just disappeared.
01:19:54Because I went to the bathroom to pee because...
01:19:56And when you said having words, this is an argument, conversation.
01:20:00It was a question that I had for her that turned into an argument, yes.
01:20:06I just would like to know I'm not alone. That's it.
01:20:10I'm doing everything. I left my life an easy life in Turkey and came here.
01:20:13You left your garbage life and have an amazing life now.
01:20:19Amazing life? Are you sure?
01:20:21Um, yes.
01:20:23I mean, I'm... Half of the week we are in a fight.
01:20:27I mean, we don't talk to each other.
01:20:29I mean, because of legal issues for K-1 visa thing, I was a ghost for a while.
01:20:34I didn't have any identity. I couldn't work.
01:20:37Then it's her rules. It's her house. It's her things.
01:20:41And she started to scold me.
01:20:43I mean, I felt myself so weak.
01:20:47Right now, I, again, regain my strength. Financially, everything in America.
01:20:53I just want, again, to be the alpha male.
01:20:56But she doesn't let me to do it.
01:21:01Could you explain that a little bit more?
01:21:03She doesn't respect me anymore.
01:21:05That's my biggest issue.
01:21:06Uh, I was thinking it was because financial thing.
01:21:11But, right now, I am the breadwinner.
01:21:13More than breadwinner. I'm the whole bakery right now.
01:21:16But when I, it comes to the respect, it is gluten free.
01:21:21You know, she doesn't respect me at all.
01:21:23It's not about money. It's about how you treat me.
01:21:27Okay, let's talk about this term alpha male.
01:21:30It's been thrown around quite a lot.
01:21:32What do you think it means, Dr. Tara?
01:21:33I think what we're talking about here, like, as women,
01:21:37we are looking for healthy masculinity, right?
01:21:40Someone who is able to provide, someone who is able to communicate,
01:21:44recognizes his feelings, and make good decisions.
01:21:48I think there's a difference between that and an alpha male
01:21:52who perhaps shows a lot of toxic characteristics.
01:21:56So, alpha males are not typically what you would associate
01:22:00with emotional safety and security.
01:22:03Is that understood? Like, do the women here agree?
01:22:05Yes.
01:22:06Yeah?
01:22:07Okay, so, Shekinah, you are a little bit confused
01:22:10about what it is that you desire.
01:22:12You want to feel that respect from him.
01:22:14You want to feel seen by him. You want to feel safe and supported.
01:22:18Is that correct?
01:22:18Yeah, I just...
01:22:19Men want us to respect them, but you have to earn respect.
01:22:22You have to deserve respect.
01:22:24And if you're telling me when you're angry at me,
01:22:26that you're going to everyone in the city we live in.
01:22:32Okay, that's up.
01:22:33You say all the time.
01:22:35I accept this.
01:22:36So, it's like a threat.
01:22:38Like, she should be grateful that he's with her.
01:22:40Okay, I know that it's not the right thing to do,
01:22:43but then as a man, when you get mad,
01:22:47sometimes you say something.
01:22:48Yeah, that doesn't make it okay.
01:22:51I don't know how Shekinah puts up with him.
01:22:54He is being basically a gross chauvinistic asshole.
01:22:57And if she's not going to stand up for herself,
01:22:59I will stand up for her because that's awful.
01:23:03Listen, the way that you want to control her,
01:23:06it pisses me off.
01:23:07I'm just being honest.
01:23:08Because it is not about control.
01:23:10Because I love for him to be in charge.
01:23:12I'm happy to follow him, but it has to be a respectful way.
01:23:16That's the problem.
01:23:18I'm sure you never let him to take the charge.
01:23:22Well, he knows I do.
01:23:23Wait, wait, wait, wait.
01:23:25Men want to control his relationship.
01:23:28He's the man in the house.
01:23:29If you think I'm not letting you be the man right now,
01:23:32then you definitely need a Tunisian wife.
01:23:35But you, I mean, you control most of the thing.
01:23:38Oh, come on.
01:23:41I'm triggered.
01:23:43You're triggered?
01:23:44Yes, I am triggered.
01:23:45When a woman talks like this with her man, I'm triggered.
01:23:50You are puking hatred to him when you are talking with him.
01:23:54Shut up.
01:23:57Girl, don't talk to my husband like that, first of all.
01:23:59There's no need to, he's not telling you to shut up.
01:24:01Look at you, how you look at me.
01:24:05Jeez Louise.
01:24:09Shut up.
01:24:10Oh, my God.
01:24:16This season on 90 Day, The Last Resort.
01:24:19God, no!
01:24:20No!
01:24:22This retreat is going to be intense for them.
01:24:25We got this, okay?
01:24:26Ah!
01:24:28They are needing to engage all of their senses.
01:24:31I hate heights.
01:24:33You are doing great, baby.
01:24:35And it's to be seen whether they're going to be able to come out the other side or not.
01:24:39What's happening?
01:24:40There's a skeleton.
01:24:44Welcome to Dr. Tara's Sex Dungeon.
01:24:48It's all about being kinky.
01:24:50Wait, what is kinking?
01:24:53Handcuffs, vibrators and stuff.
01:24:56Listen, you will respect me.
01:24:58Understood?
01:24:59Okay, we are not kinky.
01:25:03All right.
01:25:10Excellent.
01:25:11John!
01:25:12What's up?
01:25:13Seems like him and Thais haven't been doing too good lately.
01:25:16All this stuff's going down in Brazil.
01:25:17It just doesn't add up.
01:25:18If we're all going to be in this family together, things need to be cordial.
01:25:22You're just here accusing me, saying that I did this and this and that in Brazil, that you know things.
01:25:27I mean, you did lie to him.
01:25:28I mean, that's a little concerning.
01:25:29Let me talk!
01:25:31Goodbye!
01:25:34I hate to have to worry about where you are and what you're doing.
01:25:38You always think I'm cheating on you.
01:25:40I fell asleep and woke up and he's 400 miles away in a hotel in Virginia.
01:25:50Yo, what happened?
01:25:51No, no, no.
01:25:52We're not having people come out and try to find out what happened.
01:25:54I don't give a , but that's not okay.
01:25:56We are literally-
01:25:56Who are you?
01:25:57Who are you?
01:25:57Who are you to tell us?
01:25:58What is okay?
01:25:59What's up?
01:26:00What's up?
01:26:01What's up?
01:26:03What's up?
01:26:07What's up?
01:26:09Well, here we are.
01:26:11Are you truly ready to rededicate yourselves to your marriages?
01:26:14I came here thinking we were broken, but we're not broken.
01:26:18We're just human.
01:26:20Shikaina.
01:26:21I just want to be happy.
01:26:24But marriage is so hard.
01:26:26It's impossible.
01:26:27Here we go.
01:26:29SHAWN
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