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Temptation Island - Season 7 - Episode 06
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00:16You
00:45Yeah, yeah, I can't be on your son. This is my side
00:51Did you think coming into this experience you sitting in a bed with some girl
00:57Like there's a physical attraction, but also like, you know, she won't know herself like
01:02It's hard to act like there's not something there
01:05Looks like our bodies
01:10wanna make some waves
01:12I got the sexy sexy sweet you crave
01:19You're a giant
01:21Oh my god
01:29I want you
01:32I want you to come
01:34With me
01:37Oh my god
01:39Jack
01:40I want you to come with me
01:45I want you to come with me
01:49I want you to come with me
02:19I don't know it just turned into something crazy like overnight
02:21It's so weird like I'm about to be like back in the game
02:23That's crazy
02:25You are back in the game
02:27Yeah, I'm back in the game
02:30I'm gonna have to learn how to like actually talk to guys
02:34Okay, I'll give you practice
02:36You're strengthening your arsenal
02:48You're strengthening your arsenal
02:50What's up
02:50How do you feel?
02:53I feel
02:54I feel shitty
02:55Can you talk about it?
02:57Yeah
03:00Yeah
03:01Let's just cut straight to the point
03:04I'm sorry
03:05Because I feel like
03:06Me going into the tent last night
03:08I was kind of running from my feelings a little bit
03:11And I feel like
03:13I did that
03:14Because I was scared
03:16I just came to the realization that like
03:20I really fucked this up
03:23I just hope that
03:25You end up picking like
03:29Yourself
03:30Not at the end of this
03:31Just in like everything that you do
03:32I think you haven't been the main character of your own life for so long
03:36And it's time for you to like
03:39Make yourself
03:40That
03:41I'm starting to realize that
03:43It's scary
03:44I think I came to terms in like realization last night
03:47Like
03:48Jack you're an idiot
03:49You're not an idiot though
03:50You
03:51Are living the experience the way that you should
03:54You're answering questions
03:56And it's scary
03:57But at some point you gotta answer the questions
04:00Jack is here to live his single life
04:03That's exactly why
04:04I wasn't upset
04:06That he went in the tent with Jessenia
04:08I think he needs to really find himself here first
04:12But it was so refreshing
04:15And like a breath of fresh air
04:16To hear him actually be emotional
04:20Yeah I wanna
04:20I just wanna hug
04:21I feel like you need a hug
04:23Really bad
04:24I deserve better
04:26I'm not gonna settle
04:28I would rather walk away
04:31Cause I know it's never gonna change
04:33Yeah I know
04:35I'm the one to let go
04:37But it's cause I finally know my word
04:45I love it
04:45What are you laughing about?
04:46Are you talking about me?
04:47I told you that
04:50It's not talking about you
04:51I know you were talking about me
04:52It's not talking about you
04:53Yeah, no, I was
04:54No, I was, I was, I was
04:55I like Sidney a lot
04:56And um
04:57I'm just looking forward to seeing uh
05:00More of a romantic or potential like physical situation
05:05I don't know.
05:07Am I in trouble?
05:20You just needed a hug?
05:41I was wondering when it was gonna happen.
05:45Yeah.
05:47It was great.
05:51Real.
05:53Real.
06:01I'm fucking crying.
06:03What are you crying about?
06:07Did you just kiss me?
06:08I did, I did.
06:13I could see myself leaving Temptation Island with Xavier.
06:19I'm crying.
06:21Jesus.
06:22You make me nervous.
06:24You make me nervous.
06:26Hit me.
06:31That water looks so good.
06:33Hit me.
06:36Oh, no.
06:39Hi, everybody.
06:40Hi, Mark.
06:42Oh, here we go.
06:43Mark.
06:45There he is.
06:45What's up?
06:46How are you?
06:46Hi.
06:51Hi.
06:51Hi.
06:52Hi.
06:52Hello.
06:53I snuck up on you.
06:55Hi, everybody.
06:56How are you?
06:57Hi.
06:57How are you?
06:59So the reason I dropped by is to let you know tonight I'm gonna see you at a bonfire.
07:06Should we say it together?
07:08Yeah.
07:08Tonight.
07:09You have another bonfire.
07:11Tonight's another bonfire.
07:15We're getting down to it.
07:17We're getting down to it.
07:17And now, well, the stakes are higher.
07:21Right?
07:23So, you got the rest of the day to kind of get your head around that.
07:26It's not something you should dread.
07:28It's actually, there's a point where you start leaning into it because it's less comfortable
07:34to not know than it is to get the answers that you need.
07:37Right?
07:37Even if it's painful to see it.
07:39The only way out is through it.
07:43I look forward to talking to you guys.
07:45All right, see you.
07:46Thank you, Mark.
07:47You're right.
07:48Perfect.
07:49Thank you, Mark.
07:49Take it easy on us, Mark.
07:51Yeah.
07:52I'll take it as it comes.
07:54I don't know why I'm, like, so anxious for this one.
07:56I know.
07:57I know.
07:57Like, I have, like, a pit in my stomach that I haven't had.
08:00I can just see where what I've seen could escalate, and that's what's freaking me out.
08:05Yeah.
08:06Yeah, it gives you, like, a sick feeling for sure.
08:08Yeah.
08:14I know, dude.
08:15I can't keep doing shit.
08:17I know.
08:17I agree.
08:18We're ready for this.
08:19Yeah.
08:19We've got this.
08:20And we got each other.
08:21Yeah.
08:22Most importantly.
08:23Yep.
08:23Look it in.
08:25One, two, three.
08:26Bonfire.
08:27Oh, God.
08:28It's the worst cheer I've ever been a part of.
08:30It sucks.
08:31Ah.
08:32Yeah.
08:36Burning the oil, trying, trying to survive.
08:43I'm not worried about what Jack's gonna see.
08:46He's gonna see me making out with Preston.
08:49He's gonna see me going into the Haven with Preston.
08:51He's gonna see me and Preston having a sleepover.
08:53And I can't wait.
08:56Holding on for hope.
08:59But it's a slippery, slippery slope.
09:03The first two bonfires, they haven't been comparable to some of the other guys.
09:08But I think going into every bonfire, you're still kinda shit in your pants.
09:11Since the last bonfire, our light has gone off twice.
09:16It's going to be a very difficult bonfire for everyone.
09:21And especially, I think, one or two individuals.
09:28I feel like it just gets worse and worse every time.
09:30I'm obviously super stressed to what I'm gonna see.
09:33But we're both here to figure out our relationship as a whole.
09:37And I'm just gonna take everything with a grain of salt and keep my head high.
09:53What?
09:57I definitely feel as if what I'm about to see is gonna bring emotions of jealousy.
10:03I feel like the worst case scenario is seeing Sydney do some sexual shit.
10:07It's like, how you moving that fast?
10:09I mean, no sense.
10:16Yon, sup, sup, sup, sup.
10:18Okay.
10:21Don't you let it go.
10:25Welcome back to the bonfire.
10:27By now, you know what this is.
10:30You're gonna see clips of your girlfriend's experience tonight, and then we'll talk about it.
10:37But tonight, we're gonna do things a little different.
10:44Normally, you'd watch a single clip of your girlfriend.
10:47But tonight, I'm gonna give you a choice.
10:51After your first clip, you'll have the option to go deeper.
10:55A second clip.
11:00You can choose to watch it if you think that'll help you.
11:04You can choose not to watch it if you think that's something you'd like to avoid.
11:08It's entirely up to you.
11:14Jack, we'll start with you tonight.
11:16Perfect.
11:17You good?
11:18I'm good.
11:19Okay.
11:20Let's take a look.
11:24All right.
11:25Let me walk.
11:25All right.
11:26Let me get you there.
11:36Straight to it, okay?
11:46All right.
11:47Let me get you there.
11:47Straight to it, okay?
11:48You good?
11:51You just know what to do.
11:55Okay.
12:02What comes up for you?
12:06Finally.
12:07Honestly.
12:13I'm not gonna even sit here and act like that doesn't hurt me, because it does.
12:16But I'm glad she did it.
12:19I mean, this is kind of what we both needed to get out of the toxic cycle we were in.
12:27I find it interesting that your reaction to a pretty heavy clip is relief.
12:33I mean, it sucks.
12:35It hurts.
12:36Like, I don't...
12:37Like, the thought of that is just mind-boggling, but...
12:44And you can understand that she's probably had her mind boggled as well.
12:49Correct.
12:50That says a lot, too.
12:51Yeah.
12:57Let's run the second one.
12:59Okay.
13:00Okay.
13:04Did you think coming into this experience you'd be sleeping in a bed with some...
13:07Nope.
13:07...some girl?
13:14It's a hard watch.
13:16Hmm.
13:18Like, giant?
13:28Fuck this chick, dude.
13:30It's all good.
13:32Honestly.
13:34I'm not gonna even sit here.
13:35Like, it's so hard to watch, but I feel like this is, like, this is just what we needed.
13:40Okay?
13:41Like, truthfully, like, I feel like I can just finally just be me and just focus on myself
13:45and really just do my own thing, and I think I'll get a lot farther in life that way.
13:50Do you think there's any part of you that, when you guys are at a final bonfire,
13:54you'd be able to look across from one another and maybe, as a couple, find each other again?
14:00I think, in a perfect world, uh, yeah, I mean, I'm a very forgiving person.
14:07If she could be forgiving of what I've done and we could move on and talk about it,
14:15um, I mean, I love her to death.
14:17I mean, I would love to be with her, but I just don't know if that's gonna end up happening.
14:25I get it. I get it, and thanks for sharing.
14:28And I'm sorry this was painful to watch.
14:30No, it's okay.
14:33Okay, let's move on.
14:35Cole, you ready?
14:37Yep.
14:38Okay, let's take a look.
14:42I just think, like, energy is just such a big thing.
14:45It is.
14:46When I first started dating Cole, he was like, I've never heard the term energy.
14:50I was like, that's my life.
14:52Yeah, you can only meet someone to the depth like they've met themselves.
14:57That's literally it.
14:58Yeah.
15:00Bradley, I dare you to kiss Scarlett's toe.
15:04You're doing that.
15:05I'm down for that.
15:07I'm down for that.
15:20I mean, yeah, what she brought up, I've heard that story from her before.
15:25She's all about energy, the universe, things like that.
15:29I mean, what she's kind of describing to him, I mean, it's not, it doesn't come off to me as,
15:34like, special though.
15:34She said she wants to, you know, be with me long term, but she doesn't have that fiery connection, you
15:42know, that she's searching for.
15:43And it hurts because she expressed it, she had it in a prior relationship that was not good by any
15:49means.
15:50And so it hurts.
15:51I crossed every box for her except, at times, that, like, just fiery feeling.
15:56Well, the fiery feeling is a big deal.
15:58For sure.
15:59And that it hurts that she had it with somebody else is a good sign.
16:03Yeah.
16:04That it hurts you to think that somebody else lit the fire lets me know that there's an emotional part
16:13of you you've yet to really examine.
16:18Yeah.
16:19Do you want to see the second clip?
16:25Yeah.
16:26Yeah.
16:26Let's rip it.
16:27Rip it.
16:33Does this make me look sick?
16:35Yeah.
16:35Yeah, duh.
16:42Your paint's gonna get all over my bikini.
16:47He's like, I see you.
16:50He gets me.
16:51I see what you're going through.
16:52And I'm like, holy fuck, like, I don't have to settle.
16:56Exactly.
17:04I don't like the term, the word she used, settle, obviously.
17:08You know, I know the kind of man I am and what I, you know, bring to the table in
17:13the relationship and how good I do treat her and it sucks to be kind of hurt as, you know,
17:17something she'd be settling for.
17:18What is the definition of the man you think you need to be?
17:22I mean, Scarlett a lot of times in our relationship uses this term masculine energy and she says...
17:28In a good way or a bad way?
17:29In a bad way.
17:30She expresses that I don't have it.
17:33I think masculinity is the wrong name for it and it's not fair to you.
17:37Mm-hmm.
17:38Because that's gonna send you down, I'm alpha.
17:40I climb mountains and slay dragons, you know, I'm that dude, which you are.
17:45Yeah.
17:46I suggest true masculine energy is the courage to be completely vulnerable.
17:52Yeah.
17:56I'm not really sure what else I can do at this point.
17:59Like, I'm just being, I'm just being cold.
18:01A lot of cold is fantastic.
18:04I appreciate it.
18:05I just want to access another level to save your relationship.
18:09Because I believe you love her.
18:11A lot, yeah.
18:14Okay.
18:15Uh, Summit.
18:17Yeah, let's, let's get into it.
18:18My, my stomachs.
18:19All right, let's take a look.
18:20In knots.
18:25So, you remember how you said you wanted me to write you those affirmations?
18:29Mm-hmm.
18:29So, I wrote you a couple.
18:32I don't need to change a thing to be amazing.
18:35You're so sweet.
18:37You're literally like the sweetest man ever.
18:39These are things that you should believe within yourself?
18:42That I'm made to think that I'm, like, too much or not enough of this and too much of that.
18:48Was that Summit that made you feel the way?
18:50Yeah.
18:51It's just, like, a mind to fuck.
18:54Like, there was a night where I was, like, in his room, beside myself, and his friends were outside with
19:01some random girls.
19:02And he was like, I'm gonna go hang out with them.
19:05Left me crying in his room.
19:08Went outside.
19:09I watched him through the window where he was, like, dancing, having so much fun, while your girlfriend's sitting upstairs
19:16sobbing.
19:17How can you do that to someone you love?
19:20It's, like, sociopathic.
19:30Yeah, I mean, it's right on theme with my last two bonfires.
19:36I'm here to, like, make sure Kaylee's the one, and it sounds like she's here because she's... I'm not fulfilling
19:42her.
19:43And so it's like we're both just super unsure in the relationship, and that sucks, and that's scary.
19:49Feels like pressure, doesn't it?
19:52Yeah, it does.
19:53Do you think you're ready for forever?
19:56Well, that's why I'm here, you know, is to decide if I am ready for forever.
20:00I just don't want to, like, blink and it's all over, and I want to squeeze the juice out of
20:05life as much as humanly possible.
20:08And it's scary thinking that, you know, I'm just, like, not tied down. Tied down is the wrong word.
20:15There's no wrong words. As a matter of fact, whatever comes out of your mouth first is what we work
20:19with, so just don't edit.
20:21Okay, tied down.
20:23It's just, I like Kaylee every second. I love Kaylee every second. That I need is what I'm trying to
20:30figure out.
20:31You can't will commitment. Do you want to see more?
20:41I don't probably want to see it, but...
20:43No.
20:45Okay.
20:46Mikey.
20:47What's up?
20:49What's up?
20:50How are you?
20:51I'm great. Thanks for asking. Let's work on you. Let's take a look.
21:02Goddamn.
21:08Very intimate.
21:11You're buying trouble?
21:16You just needed a hug?
21:23What the fuck?
21:32Oh.
21:44Um...
21:50Wow.
21:53Wow.
22:01My life is...
22:02My life is gonna be different.
22:04And that's okay.
22:06It's okay for my life to be different.
22:08Yeah.
22:11It's okay.
22:12I've heard so much.
22:24I thought she...
22:26I thought this was...
22:27I thought this was it for me.
22:28I thought it was...
22:29I thought it was gonna be me and Sydney running into the sunset.
22:33And sometimes you have to go through certain things to know if she's the one.
22:39I don't want to offer false hope.
22:41Right.
22:42Because I don't know how things go.
22:45But I can tell you the only chance you have in life is to keep doing what you're doing to
22:50discover more about you.
22:52And at the end when you get to talk to one another, we'll see if that makes a difference.
22:57Yes, sir.
22:58Do you want to see the other clip?
23:01Let's do it.
23:02You sure?
23:03Positive.
23:05Okay, let's take a look.
23:13I put a big-ass heart on your back.
23:15Hey, that's all I need.
23:16Come on, now.
23:17I don't even know what to say about Xavier anymore.
23:19Like, everything with him feels so natural.
23:22Everything feels so genuine.
23:23He just makes me feel, like, seen and heard.
23:27And I feel like that's all a girl wants in the end.
23:30Fucking hilarious.
23:32Yeah.
23:33Oh.
23:34Oh.
23:35Oh.
23:36Shit.
23:37Oh.
23:37Oh, man.
23:38Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
23:40Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.
23:49Yeah, it's sexual.
23:51Um, it's a very sexual connection there.
23:55And it's just kind of, it hurts.
23:57Like, she's, she's, she's, like, two weeks ago, she sat front row at my sister's wedding.
24:04And she sat right next to my mom.
24:06And she looked my mom in her eyes and said, I love your son.
24:09And that's not a woman that would do that to some, like, somebody that she loves.
24:16I just want you to just be honest with me.
24:18Do you think it, it, do you, do you, do you think it's time for me to shut that door?
24:23I just don't think it's that simple.
24:26Okay.
24:27Yeah.
24:27Do I think she's experiencing a real connection with somebody?
24:31Mikey, I think she is.
24:34But do I think you shut a door?
24:38Hell no.
24:40When we show up at these final bonfires, if you've done the work, you're a different person.
24:48Yeah.
24:49That conversation doesn't resemble the conversations you've had in the past.
24:53They're at another level.
24:55Yeah.
24:55I'm just finally happy to, to know what it is.
24:58Like, she's not thinking about the gaining of the trust within the relationship.
25:03She's gaining, she's gaining something deeper from what I see with somebody else.
25:08The thing about this place, you come here saying these are the problems in my relationship.
25:15I hate to tell you, it's never what brings you here that's the actual problem.
25:19Yeah.
25:20At least I can say I'm growing and learning.
25:22And I wish there was a softer, easier path for you.
25:25Yeah.
25:25Me too.
25:26This is painful.
25:28But it's okay.
25:30Well, it's...
25:30It's gonna be okay.
25:32There you go.
25:34All right, gentlemen, you've made it through another bonfire.
25:37It's a lot to process.
25:40Goddamn.
25:40I'm gonna let you go, but there are some changes I need to let you know about.
25:44When you come back to the villa tonight, the temptation haven will be gone.
25:49So, what's next?
25:52Tomorrow, you'll have the chance to record a 30-second video message for your girlfriend.
25:57Now, you can choose to do it, or you can choose not to do it.
26:00It's entirely up to you.
26:02Okay?
26:04And so you know, I'm giving the women the exact same choice.
26:08Which means some of you could receive a message from your girlfriends and some of you may not.
26:13The decision will be theirs.
26:17All right, that's it, guys.
26:18Good night.
26:19Good night.
26:19I didn't see, I didn't see this coming.
26:26Came here in love, but that's not how we'll leave him.
26:32Ah, damn it.
26:33It looks rough.
26:34I'm hurt.
26:36I came in here, I set my boundaries, and I stuck with them.
26:40And it looks like Sidney fell for temptation.
26:43I'm kind of past the tears point of this, because I'm like, I got the answers I needed.
26:47Like, it's black and white.
26:49You can't fake that.
26:50Words, you can, you feel me, get a little misconstrued, but action?
26:55She stood on business.
26:56If we leave, then there's no turn in the car.
27:01We're really done with what we have.
27:03Yeah, I'm feeling hurt, annoyed, sad, angry.
27:08She was telling me not to hurt her little heart and crying,
27:11and she's obviously doing things to hurt my heart,
27:13and I don't even know if I'm on her fucking mind
27:16when she's going through this process with whatever Bradley.
27:19So it's for sure, it's tough.
27:21My girlfriend called me a sociopath.
27:23Did she say that word?
27:24Yeah.
27:25How is that sociopath?
27:26I wish I had your problems.
27:28How am I a sociopath?
27:29Like, I'm like very endearing and caring,
27:32and I treat her like a princess,
27:34and I do so much to try and make that woman happy,
27:38and it doesn't work.
27:40I don't know what to do.
27:43I can't believe she's calling me a sociopath.
27:49What hit hardest for me was just the fact that when I cheated,
27:56she knows how I felt, and I don't really see that in her.
28:01I feel like she just took everything we've ever done together for granted
28:04and doesn't care.
28:05Go back to the Cree.
28:06I just want to go home.
28:09If it's goodbye for me and you, then it's goodbye for good.
28:24Every bonfire so far, I feel like, has been the exact same.
28:27I have gotten no clarity and no answer,
28:29so I just still really feel like I'm in the dark.
28:32What I've wanted from this is the accountability,
28:37but so far I haven't seen anything along those lines,
28:40so it's really hard.
28:45It's crazy how, like, your perspective changes as...
28:48That's what scares me.
28:50Yeah.
28:50At least I'm not going into this one blindsided.
28:53Yeah.
28:53Mm-hmm.
28:54At least I'm not going into it like he's gonna cheat.
28:57Mm-hmm.
28:58I know he's gonna cheat.
29:00Like, I know what I'm gonna see.
29:01Yeah.
29:01I'm going into this bonfire prepared.
29:04I know Jack was the one who set those red lights off.
29:06I can't tell y'all what this man's capable of.
29:09He's capable of it all.
29:21Obviously, there's a fear that I'm gonna see something from Summit
29:25that I don't wanna see.
29:26I think I've been just, like, working on myself
29:30to improve our relationship,
29:32and if I'm not seeing that from him,
29:34I'm gonna be really frustrated.
29:41Honestly, I feel like after the first bonfire,
29:44you know, I stated that I was done with Mikey,
29:46and I was...
29:46I said that because I wanted to be able to stand on that.
29:49But it's always hard going back to these bonfires,
29:52you know, hearing him talk, hearing him laugh,
29:54seeing him smile, like...
29:56all those things that would usually bring me joy
29:59don't anymore.
30:03Enjoying!
30:09Good to see you all.
30:11Good to see you.
30:11Good to see you, too.
30:13Welcome back to the bonfire.
30:15You guys have done some amazing work
30:17in the bonfires we've had coming up to today.
30:21Tonight's gonna be a little different.
30:25Here's how it's gonna work.
30:26You're gonna see a clip, just like we've done before,
30:29and we'll talk about it just like we've done before.
30:31And then after that, you're gonna have an option.
30:35You can choose to see more.
30:40A second clip.
30:45Got it?
30:46Got it.
30:48We'll start with Kaylee.
30:53It feels like I'm sacrificing a lot...
30:56Yeah.
30:57...to like be in the relationship with Kaylee.
30:59Like I just don't really know what I can do differently
31:02to be like...
31:05...appreciated.
31:06It's like go out there and find this like perfect boyfriend
31:09that you keep talking about.
31:11Yeah.
31:11Clearly it's not me.
31:13Right.
31:13Instead of putting me through this and trying to change me
31:15and morph me into that.
31:15Like why are you dating me if I'm such a shitty boyfriend?
31:18Yeah.
31:19It's exhausting.
31:24Okay.
31:25Okay.
31:26He's said that to me many times.
31:29It shows me that he is still in denial of where the relationship is lacking.
31:36And he's not learning anything.
31:39What have you defined you want your relationship to be?
31:43Are you ready for that next level of forever?
31:46Is that what you're...
31:47That's what you want?
31:48Yes.
31:49Of course.
31:50I want someone that wants to be with me and wants to put in the effort to make that work.
31:55Not someone that just takes the back seat and wants it to be easy.
32:00It looks like he doesn't want to put in that hard work to make it work.
32:03And it makes me wonder like, do you love me enough?
32:08Hmm.
32:08If that's so hard for you to do the bare minimum.
32:14It's not a lot to ask.
32:16No.
32:17Okay.
32:19Have you seen enough?
32:25I'll see another one.
32:28Okay.
32:29Let's watch the next clip.
32:58She's good.
32:58She's good.
32:59She's great.
32:59Oh my God.
33:05Disrespectful.
33:06That is not showing me him making any effort at all towards the relationship.
33:12And that makes you feel how?
33:15Makes me feel worthless.
33:18Hmm.
33:19You're not worthless.
33:20You're not worthless.
33:23You're not worthless.
33:25You are a prize.
33:27You are somebody's forever.
33:31And you started the process of defining it, recognizing it, making space for it, and demanding it.
33:38Yes.
33:39I will demand that.
33:42I'm going to have a lot of questions for that boy when I see him.
33:46And I did call him a boy for a reason.
33:48Oh my God.
33:53Okay.
33:54Cheyenne.
33:56You ready?
33:57I'm ready.
33:59Let's take a look.
34:00Yeah.
34:04Where'd you go?
34:05In there with me?
34:06Oh my God.
34:08Is anyone going to see us?
34:11That's so messy.
34:13Let's go.
34:14Let's hurry up.
34:15Let's go.
34:16Let's go.
34:19Oh my God.
34:24This is so bad, Jack.
34:26You're crazy.
34:28No.
34:34I'm wrong.
34:36Jack.
34:37You're crazy.
34:47That's Jack.
34:48I mean, he showed me that since the first bonfire.
34:51So, I'm not surprised that I'm continuing to get the same shit from him.
34:56This is what I get with him and I'm glad that he's showing the whole world who he is.
35:01Because this is Jack.
35:03So who's Cheyenne?
35:07I don't know.
35:08Well, what have you learned so far about you?
35:12Um, I've learned...
35:16You're the coolest person I've ever met.
35:18You're not a fucking mess.
35:19Well, the girls make me feel like I'm like the best person ever.
35:23Because you are.
35:24I don't know.
35:26I'm realizing that I am fun and I can have fun without Jack.
35:32And there's way more out there.
35:34Besides these three women supporting you,
35:37anybody else in the house helping you through this?
35:41Mark.
35:45Um, yeah, so I have a BFF of the house.
35:49His name's Preston.
35:50And yeah, he's been helping me get through it.
35:51I'm maybe 20 feet from you, but I can feel you blushing from here.
35:55I'm not.
35:58Okay.
35:58I'm not. No, yeah, he's just a great guy.
36:00Just your BFF.
36:01He's my BFF.
36:03So I know you've thought about, not, I think I'm falling in love with Preston and I want to be
36:08with him.
36:09I think you've thought about, what would it be like with a guy like that?
36:12So what do you want in a partner?
36:15What have you discovered that you want that you're not getting?
36:19I want respect.
36:20I want my partner to respect me and love me and provide for me and just make me feel like
36:28I'm the most beautiful person in the world.
36:29I want him to scream my name from the mountaintops and make me feel like I'm worth more than what
36:36Jack does.
36:38And I think I'm already starting to know that there's other people out there that are better than him.
36:44So, are you done or you want to see more?
36:52I'm good. I've seen everything that I need to see. Jack has hurt me enough. These clips stick with me
36:57for, like, the next days after. And I don't want to see any more. I don't want to see him,
37:03period. Like, I don't ever. I don't want to see him ever again.
37:07I've seen enough.
37:09Your decision. I honor your decision.
37:12That's my decision.
37:14Sydney, you ready?
37:16I'm ready.
37:18Let's take a look.
37:25What'd they know?
37:26Okay.
37:28Bad news. Bad news.
37:33You got to resist temptation.
37:36And you got to see the temptation in order to resist.
37:39You have to see the temptation in order to resist it. That's real.
37:42That's true. That's real.
37:43And I feel like I saw the temptation and I resisted it.
37:48That's good.
37:49I'm glad that he has, you know, respect in what our values were in terms of not touching.
37:56But at the end of the day, it doesn't change anything.
37:59Could it be that subconsciously you were looking for a reason to say,
38:05I'm done?
38:07Honestly, Mark, not at all.
38:09Because he's not being who I need him to be.
38:12The first thing he said in the first two days was,
38:16I'm, my biggest fear is falling for one of you.
38:18I'm going to shoot my shot with India.
38:20And I'm like, well, that's not what we came here for and that's not what you told me.
38:23How much of your ability to say that has to do with what you found?
38:30So much. Let's just start there.
38:33The night after, I believe it was the first bonfire, the guys made us some cards.
38:38And my card from Xavier, like, you could tell he had took his time designing it and everything.
38:44And it was a little prize.
38:45And I had told him, like, I always, I want to be the prize.
38:48And it was like, peel here.
38:50I peeled it back and it said, you're the prize, Sydney.
38:53Oh.
38:55So, like, seeing that, it's like, thank you for seeing me.
38:59Like, Jesus, it's amazing.
39:01So now, no pressure on you, but could this be a real thing?
39:09Yeah, it definitely could be a real thing.
39:12It could. I would love that.
39:14He's a great guy.
39:15Just exploring our connection, I feel more comfortable.
39:19And it definitely could turn into something real.
39:22All right, let's see where that goes.
39:24Want to see more?
39:32I've seen what I needed to see, what I came to the island to see, and I'm good where I'm
39:38at.
39:39Promise, I'm good where I'm at.
39:41All right, that leaves Scarlett.
39:44Let's see where Cole's at.
39:49I feel like she just hasn't got me, you know?
39:51And she always prides herself on, like, team and, like, getting each other's backs.
39:55And I'm just like, I don't feel like she has my back right now.
39:58I have hers.
39:59Yeah.
40:01It hurts, bro.
40:02I just feel like she doesn't care.
40:05Just fucking rubs me the wrong way, man.
40:10I'm solid with that chick.
40:12I have so much to give, so much to offer.
40:16My girlfriend's like, I don't even know if they fucking even see that.
40:19Yeah.
40:21I'm sick of just every night going to bed, just staring at the fucking ceiling.
40:24And crying.
40:24Can't fall asleep for, like, hours.
40:25And then waking up in the morning, food doesn't even look good.
40:28Like anything, I'm just like, yeah, what are we doing?
40:30So I can just take my, hopefully take my mind off it.
40:32And I just hope the sun goes down and I can fall asleep and wake up next day and just
40:35keep ticking off days now.
40:36Yeah.
40:47I mean, kind of what I've been saying all along, since being here, like, one of the things that has
40:53become so clear when I talk about the missing piece, like, that's it.
40:56Like, I just want to see if he can go deeper and, like, express to him that, like, I have
41:01pinpointed, I think this is the root of everything.
41:05And, like, can you meet me there?
41:07And then, you know, if he can't, then that's the answer I don't think we'll ever align on it.
41:11Where does that leave you?
41:13I'm confused.
41:15Because he has so many amazing qualities that I do love.
41:19What do you do?
41:20Do you give up lack of depth for someone that truly just loves you with their entire being?
41:29Or do you have someone that half-ass loves you but goes deeper?
41:33Are those our only choices?
41:35No.
41:36So what you're saying is there's no one else who's going to love you as deeply as that?
41:40I mean, there probably is, but I don't want to go looking.
41:47Then one might argue that you're playing it as surface as he appears to be.
41:55I think it's just scary.
41:57So before I go any further, do you want to see more?
42:08Okay. I have some thoughts.
42:10The thing I get most worried about in any relationship is acquiescence.
42:16He's pretty great.
42:17Yeah.
42:18He leaves me feeling worried every time he leaves the house, and I can't have a deep conversation with him,
42:24and I'm never sure if I can trust him.
42:27But he's pretty great.
42:28And he really, really loves me.
42:32Yeah.
42:33Not what I want.
42:34So what do you want?
42:36I want my soul to be set on fire.
42:40Okay.
42:42I'm down for that.
42:44Is Cole the guy who can set your soul on fire?
42:51It says a lot that you don't have an answer for that yet.
42:54I don't have the answer.
42:57Well, you've got some choices to make.
43:02Okay, you guys. We made it through another one together. Good for you.
43:05When you return to the villa tonight, there's gonna be a little change, okay?
43:11The temptation haven will be gone.
43:14Thank the Lord.
43:16For some of you, it served its purpose, and for others of you, it hasn't served at all.
43:21But nonetheless, it's done.
43:24So, what's next?
43:27It's time to decide if there's something on your heart,
43:32something you want to share with your boyfriend,
43:35because tomorrow, you'll have the chance to record a 30-second video message for your boyfriend.
43:42Now, you can choose to do it, or you can choose not to do it.
43:47That decision is entirely yours.
43:50And just so you know, I'll be giving the same choice to the men.
43:54So, you may receive a video clip, or you may not.
43:58That decision will be theirs.
44:00I appreciate all four of you. That's it.
44:04Thank you, Mark.
44:05Good night, you guys.
44:06Good night.
44:13I'm just, like, really struggling with the thought right now that Cole and I might not be meant for one
44:18another.
44:18I feel like Bradley and I communicate without even speaking, and Cole and I, I mean, we can't even communicate
44:27with words.
44:28I know Cole means well, but some things you can, you just can't force, and that is a soulful connection.
44:42Was it an illusion?
44:47Like, it's just like you're sitting there enjoying yourself, like, running around naked having so much fun.
44:55Like, I'm just glad that...
44:56I feel like I didn't exist.
44:59Whenever I ask for an ounce of more effort, that's what I'm met with, is go find someone else that
45:06can give you that.
45:07And to hear him still saying that is just, like, a slap in the face.
45:12It's like, when are you gonna step up?
45:17You can keep your excuses.
45:22Mikey's a good person.
45:23You know what I'm saying?
45:24Yeah.
45:24In the sense of, like, him, like, resisting that, but it's like, choose me every fucking time.
45:29Yeah.
45:30Seeing the clips is, like, showing me that I'm moving on, and that I don't feel the same way.
45:36I accepted the bare minimum for a very long time from Mikey, and I want more for myself.
45:44Wait, do you guys think he's gonna send me a video?
45:47Oh, yeah.
45:48I think he will.
45:50I am realizing with this experience that Jack was never worth my time.
45:55I've been looking for someone in Jack that he just, he can't get.
46:18I really hope that I can see, like, some sort of proof that he has been putting in the work
46:26and digging a little deeper.
46:29I'm tired of feeling like I'm fighting for this relationship so much more than he is.
46:34I still am holding on to so much hope, and I still think that there is a chance for this
46:41to work.
46:43I'm just at my point of, like, knowing what my line is for when I'm not gonna go forward.
46:49But that doesn't stop me from still loving him and hoping for the best.
46:56Okay.
47:07Baby girl, I love and miss you beyond words.
47:12Not a moment passes by where I don't think of your big, beautiful blue eyes and your little head nestled
47:16up on my chest.
47:18This experience is more emotional than I ever could have imagined.
47:22The clips I've seen during the bonfire make it nearly unbearable.
47:26I'm proud that I've never put you down.
47:28That's why it makes it all the much harder to see the way you speak of me so poorly.
47:34I'm worried that you're not proud of the man I am.
47:37I don't care about our past.
47:39I just care about us and our future.
47:41I just want us to be happy.
47:59I love Summit so much, but if he's saying the past is the past, then I don't know if he
48:05has fully, you know, realized, like, the things that you have said and done to me.
48:13Will leave a scar on me for the rest of my life.
48:17I want him to just admit, like, what I did was in the past was not right and I'm going
48:25to be a better man now.
48:29That's all I want.
48:31Like, tell me you're just going to be better.
48:34Things might not work out the way that I had hoped.
48:39She is beautiful.
48:42Someone tell her that if I were beautiful.
48:48The weight of this video message today, it could make or break our relationship.
48:53I just want to be enough for somebody.
48:55But from what I've been seeing from the bonfires, I don't love the things she's saying about me.
49:00I just don't get how it's constructive.
49:03I don't get what we're working on here.
49:06Sometimes it feels like, as hard as it is, the only way out is out.
49:11When I came to the right, how many feet can I want to be?
49:18Hi, Summit.
49:20Um, I have been seriously taking this opportunity to reflect on myself and learn so much.
49:28and I have such a new outlook on life
49:31and I'm so excited for you to see that side of me.
49:35But I also want you to remember what we came here for.
49:39This isn't just about resisting temptation.
49:43We came here together to dig a little deeper
49:46and realize why things aren't working
49:49and figure out how to make them work.
49:52And so far, I just feel like I haven't seen that from you.
49:57I'm so tired of feeling like I am fighting
49:59so much harder than you are for this relationship to work.
50:04And I'm tired of feeling like I have to prove myself
50:07over and over again.
50:11I need to see more from you.
50:14I want us to come out of this
50:16as the amazing alien summit that I know we can be.
50:22And that's not going to happen
50:23if we don't start to make some changes.
50:25And I do not want this to all be for nothing.
50:49This is just kind of, you know,
50:51some of the best I've felt.
50:54I have gotten clarity
50:56on what I need to do the rest of this process.
50:59I need to better myself for her and for me.
51:03And if at the end,
51:05we like the people we've become,
51:09then we're going to be perfect and happy
51:11and live together forever
51:12and get a wiener dog and move in together.
51:14If we don't like how we've changed
51:17and who we've become,
51:20we cut ties right there and then we move on.
51:23All I know is what I must have changed.
51:29I mean, I'm pretty anxious.
51:31Obviously, there's a lot on the line.
51:32Like, I love this girl.
51:33And so I hope in the video,
51:34it's nothing like wishy-washy.
51:36It's like definitely get some insight
51:37into where her head's at.
51:38I mean, I've never felt this far from her,
51:41you know, ever.
51:42I think if she really loves me
51:44and she wants to be with me,
51:46yeah, this video message from her
51:48needs to really portray that.
51:59Cole, I want to start this by saying
52:02everything I say, I say with love.
52:05I truly wish coming into this
52:08that we had not set such strict boundaries.
52:12I feel that you've been so hyper-fixated
52:16on the no cheating
52:18that you're actually missing the big picture.
52:21This is a huge opportunity for growth.
52:24You know, I have been expressing for months
52:27that I feel that we are lacking in trust
52:29and transparency and communication
52:32and in depth.
52:33I just feel let down
52:36to see that there has been no inner work.
52:38There's been no accountability.
52:40There's been no depth in your journey here.
52:44I am diving in over here.
52:46I am getting to know people
52:48and through getting to know these people,
52:50I'm getting to know myself.
52:52We can't leave here as a couple
52:54if we leave the same way that we arrived.
52:57So please put in the effort,
53:00know why I'm doing the same
53:01and I love you.
53:06I don't want to look back
53:08and wonder why
53:12And it hurts like hell
53:14to know how hard we try
53:16I was hoping her message
53:17would be a little more heartfelt,
53:18more like, I miss you.
53:20At the end of the day,
53:21it's like, I'm a good guy,
53:22I treat you well,
53:23I love you.
53:24Like, what else am I supposed to do, you know?
53:26Like, I bring a lot to the table.
53:28Let's not stay here
53:30Let's just stay here
53:33And make believe that
53:37We're okay here
53:40Cole and I both deserve to feel fully fulfilled.
53:46The last few days
53:47I have had a lot more clarity.
53:51I would love if we came back together
53:55and, like, there was all of this depth and growth,
53:58but I just don't know
54:01how much could have actually changed.
54:05If it just is what it is
54:08I'm not ready to call it quits
54:13Hi, my most precious angel.
54:15This process has been one of the hardest things
54:17I've ever gone through emotionally
54:19and I just want you to know
54:20there's been so much depth and growth
54:21in this experience
54:22and I can't wait to show you.
54:23I miss you so much.
54:26I want you to know
54:27that my loyalty lies with you
54:28and your most precious heart
54:29has always been top of mind
54:31in all the decisions that I've made.
54:33I've seen some things in the bonfire
54:35that have definitely caused
54:36some pain and suffering
54:37and confusion to me.
54:39But just know how much I love you
54:40and how much I want us.
54:42I just miss your scent.
54:43I miss your smell.
54:44I miss your touch.
54:46I just see us in our kitchen right now
54:47listening to our favorite
54:48Shania Twain song
54:49dancing around
54:50going for a walk
54:51snuggling in bed
54:52with our little ankle wrap.
54:54I love you so much
54:55and I can't wait to see you soon.
54:57Always, Cole.
54:58I'm losing control
55:00You played your role
55:02Didn't take it, you stole
55:04This part of me
55:06We never fit the mold
55:09This love won't grow
55:11Cause we laid it to rest
55:13Where hearts don't beat
55:15Seeing Cole
55:17and just hearing his voice
55:20it actually broke my heart.
55:24He obviously
55:25still really wants this
55:29Meanwhile, like, I've realized
55:30what is truly missing
55:32Oh, God
55:35Are you okay?
55:37Oh, my God
55:38I don't know
55:40I think, like, the reality
55:41of everything is
55:45setting in
55:46and, like, I truly don't know
55:47I don't know what's next
55:48And I think that that just, like
55:50hurts my heart
55:51I'm scared
55:53I'm not getting things right
55:56Of who I really am
55:59On the inside
56:01What if hell would it
56:05Denying myself
56:09If you looked sad
56:16Just makes me feel like
56:19Of this back and forth
56:22There's too many doors
56:24Has anyone found what they're looking for?
56:28Oh, my God
56:29And I
56:32I want to feel free
56:37But the more that I try
56:40A part of me does
56:42A part of me does
56:54Cause being alive
56:56Always feels like
56:57It's killing me
56:59I want to feel free
57:08I want to feel free
57:08I want to feel free
57:09I want to feel free
57:09I want to feel free
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