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Temptation Island - Season 7 - Episode 03
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00:06Do you see who I see?
00:09Do you hear what I hear?
00:15The thought is happening.
00:23You feel like you can sit down and talk to me about it?
00:27If they hold my hand.
00:29I'll do whatever you need.
00:31If you need me to sit with you right here,
00:32I'll sit with you right here.
00:35I'm OK.
00:36You sure?
00:37Yeah, they got me.
00:40Is that not insane?
00:42Am I crazy?
00:43You're not crazy.
00:44You're not crazy.
00:46I think there's some positives here.
00:48Yeah, I can finally move the fuck on with my life.
00:51That's a positive.
00:54So, Sid.
00:57Let's take a second and see how we can take whatever you're feeling and have it serve you.
01:03OK.
01:04So as best you can, tell me what you're feeling and what part hurt you so hard.
01:10He said, I might mess around and fall for someone.
01:12I want to shoot my shot in India.
01:14What the fuck?
01:16He's literally showing me the person that I know he is.
01:20So it's like, why am I even upset?
01:22You know?
01:23Like, you know, he's like, I would never do anything to you.
01:25I haven't done anything to you.
01:26Fucking bullshit.
01:28Bullshit.
01:28I was just in Hilton Head with your family.
01:32And you're like, oh my God, I can't wait until we have forever together.
01:35I can't wait to marry you.
01:37I can't wait to do all this stuff.
01:38I should have knew that was bullshit.
01:41I'm sorry.
01:41The word of the night is bullshit.
01:44That'll fucking do it.
01:45Let's hold space that Mikey has a journey to and let's see who he shows up to be.
01:51Well, I wish him the best, but it is not with me.
01:55Like, it is not with me.
01:57Spots on a leopard do not fucking change.
02:00You've been the same person that you were.
02:03All you did was, like, try to show me something different.
02:05I get all of what you're saying, but I want you to use this experience selfishly to create for yourself
02:12a possibility in the future
02:13that's greater than when you knew existed.
02:16So what I want you to do is try on things to see what you can create so that the
02:24next relationship, when it's time, is on that next level.
02:29Yeah.
02:29And if that's here, even if you don't leave the island with somebody, that you get to experience it so
02:35you can get that brain pattern of this is something that's there for me.
02:38I can have it.
02:39Yeah.
02:40I appreciate that.
02:41I really do.
02:42There's a lot, you guys.
02:44But congratulations, you made it through your first bonfire.
02:49Coming up soon are more dates.
02:51And the next dates you'll be having will be double dates.
02:54So think about which guy you'd like to get to know more.
02:58When you're ready, when you're feeling a vibe, ask the guy out on a date.
03:03This is your moment to explore the connections in front of you so that you can lead this island stronger,
03:09happier, and more ready to have the love relationship that you deserve.
03:15All right.
03:16Good night.
03:17Good night.
03:18Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:19Good night.
03:26Good night.
03:30See what you think it means?
03:31Yeah.
03:31All right.
03:32I'm sorry.
03:32I promise you around work and the way.
03:32I've got a virgin love at night too.
03:33I know.
03:34I've been in the middleclub before I'm going out of a time.
03:46chilling�니다.
03:47If he's not opening up, he's not seeing where work needs to be done.
03:52Like, and now I'm just confused.
03:55Summit isn't taking accountability.
03:58And, like, the only way we can work through our current problems is if he realizes his wrongdoings.
04:02But not if he sits around with a bunch of girls that are going to tell him that his girlfriend's
04:06insecure.
04:08Because I'm fucking not.
04:10I want to leave.
04:13It just hurts so bad right now because of what Jack has done to me in the past.
04:19We've been together way too long to put me through this.
04:23He wanted to bring me here so that way he could prove to me that this isn't...
04:27That he doesn't want anybody else and he only wants me.
04:30That was his reasoning for wanting to come here.
04:32Like, it's not okay to be fucking around with a relationship like this.
04:36I don't feel like he's proving himself.
04:38I don't feel like he's getting anything across with the way he's acting from what I saw.
04:44I know I could do better, but I better even want me.
04:51All my insecurities are trying hard to stop me.
04:57I feel like anything I see, I'm going to be upset.
05:00I feel like it's going to be pretty hard to watch.
05:02But whatever we see, guys, I just want to let you all know.
05:04I love you guys, and I have your guys' back.
05:13Oh, shit.
05:38I'm scared as hell going into this bonfire.
05:40There is the possibility that we will not leave here together.
05:43So, my biggest fear is that Sydney moved on.
05:48I'm totally in my head, and I just don't want to see anything bad.
05:51I just hope me and Cheyenne come back together.
05:54I don't want to lose her.
06:03Gentlemen.
06:03What's going on?
06:04How you feeling?
06:04How are you?
06:05I feel good.
06:06I'm glad to see you guys.
06:07You're looking good.
06:09Feeling good.
06:11All right.
06:14Welcome to your first bonfire.
06:17This is a place where we get a chance to chop it up a little bit, talk about your journey
06:21so far.
06:23It's also the place where you're going to watch clips of your girlfriend's experience here on the island.
06:28These are just glimpses to get a little bit of an idea of what's going on with them.
06:33Okay?
06:35All right.
06:36We're going to start with you, Cole.
06:37Okay?
06:38Let's take a look.
06:42Do you ever feel like you're, like, asking for too much and, like, you'll never feel satisfied?
06:48And I don't think we should be made to feel that way, by the way.
06:51Like, I don't.
06:52Yeah.
06:52Like, that's not right.
06:52I feel like asking for the truth and asking for, you know, better communication is not asking a lot.
07:00It's asking for a foundation.
07:02Yeah.
07:03Lately, the relationship has just been draining, and it's, like, been a constant battle of, you know, stress and in
07:12my head or whatever.
07:14And I just, I don't want to waste any more energy on fighting.
07:21Like, Jesus Christ.
07:24I feel like, you know, I have been through a lot, and I'm just at a point in life where
07:31I just want to be happy.
07:37What do you think?
07:39Um, she's obviously very emotional about, you know, some issues in our relationship, you know, based around trust.
07:47There have been, you know, things in the past that, you know, I've lied about, and I've apologized for those
07:52things.
07:52And, you know, I've shown her accountability and how sorry I am for those things.
07:56Um, I give that girl everything, you know, humanly possible in my heart.
08:01And I, you know, I drew, I do treat her really well.
08:04And seeing her reactions here are kind of a little surprising, considering I think, you know, we've had a pretty
08:09stable relationship, uh, you know, coming into this.
08:12So.
08:13I hear you.
08:15And I think what impresses me is the canyon between your perspective and her perspective.
08:24What I saw was a woman who's really struggling and not feeling heard and really wondering if this relationship is
08:31working at all.
08:33And then I hear you say, it's been pretty good.
08:36I've given her everything she needs.
08:38So, what do you think that gap's about between your take and her take?
08:44You know, I don't look at it as, like, her side versus my side.
08:47Her feelings are validated, and I'm not here to disprove them or say they're not, you know, they're not real.
08:52I'm here to, I'm here with open arms to, you know, try to draw some conclusions between the two of
08:58us.
08:58But, obviously, I know in my mind I would never hurt her, and I never have the thought of, don't
09:04be-
09:04But, but you have.
09:05Well, I-
09:06No, no, no, I'm just saying, the clip is showing that she's hurting, right?
09:09I think what gets in the way is that, you know, I feel like it could be 99% of
09:14the time I am overly transparent with her, but then that one time you're not, everything's just, like, thrown out
09:19the window.
09:20You're either transparent and honest and truthful, or you're not, okay?
09:27So, now you've seen a little bit of the kind of conversations she's having with the other girls in the
09:31house.
09:31What have you been up to? What have you been doing to grow?
09:38Um, I think the key word is, like, figuring out, like, how to grow. I don't know.
09:42That's fair.
09:43Don't know, kind of, the steps or procedures or-
09:46There is no procedure, Cole. You have to look deeper than you're looking.
09:51I mean, yeah, I'm gonna have to figure it out for sure.
09:54I just want to see you open up. And not for any other reason but you. You're going to be
10:00happier.
10:02Yeah.
10:05Jack, here we go. Take a look.
10:08You haven't gone on a date in a long time with your boyfriend.
10:11Yeah, no. Like, the only time we ever go on, like, a real, like, planned date by him is if
10:15it's my birthday.
10:16So it's got to be a special occasion.
10:17Yeah, like, even for, like, our anniversaries, like, we don't do anything.
10:21That's just really sad. They just pamper you a little bit.
10:24Yeah, that sounds-
10:24You need to be pampered.
10:25Yeah, that sounds really nice, honestly.
10:27Does it?
10:28That's not in Jack's, uh-
10:30It's pay grade?
10:30Above his pay grade, yeah. You got it.
10:32Sounds like he's a bit cheap.
10:33You got it.
10:33He's a bit cheap for your standards.
10:35Yes.
10:35Sounds like-
10:36What the fuck?
10:37When was the last time you had sex with anybody else?
10:39I have only hooked up with Jack in the past five years we've been together, so.
10:43Gotcha.
10:44Just been stuck with the same penis.
10:46Five years.
10:47Well-
10:50Oh, hell no.
10:54What do you think?
10:55You know, I really have nothing to say. It's kind of what I expected. You know, she doesn't
10:59look real highly of me, so really hearing that, like, does not surprise me.
11:03Nah, fuck that, bro.
11:05The pay grade stuff, I hear that all the time.
11:07What-what did they mean by above your pay grade?
11:09Oh, she shits on me for not having money. But to be honest, like, money doesn't really
11:15matter to me. And I feel like where she's at in her life, she's looking for a little
11:21bit something different than she was when we were 19.
11:23What do you want? I mean, you kind of let me know what you think she wants. She wants
11:27a guy who's making some money. What do you want it to be? Relationship.
11:31I mean, overall, I want to, like, fix her relationship. You know, there's a lot of things
11:34that need to be, like, worked on, and I mean-
11:37I'm not asking what you want to do with her. I'm asking what do you want?
11:41I want someone that's, like, supporting of just me, of who I am. I feel like, you know,
11:47there's a lot of talking down on me in the relationship. And I do feel like we love each
11:51other, because I know I love her. But I almost feel like being unloyal to her, year three ruined
11:57that for her. So I feel like I'm almost chasing, and she's almost pushing.
12:05I don't have an answer for that. But I think you can find an answer for that.
12:12A thousand percent. I think I can, too.
12:13Okay. Summit, you ready?
12:18Guess so.
12:19Let's go.
12:22Well, one of our issues is that, like, he doesn't make me always feel like I am, like, enough.
12:29No.
12:30It hurts when you make comments towards me, like, making me feel like I'm, like, my body's
12:37not your dream body, and, like, this and that could be better. Like, I tell him, like,
12:44that hurts when you tell me that. Things that were said can never be erased.
12:48And I'm sure they stick in your head. Like, just naturally.
12:52I need to stand up for myself more.
12:54Oh.
12:54I think I'm a confident person. But if I was more confident, like, I wouldn't allow this
12:59stuff to happen.
13:06What do you want to say?
13:08Yeah. I mean, there is validity to what she's saying. And it honestly, you know, it makes
13:15me feel terrible that I make her feel that way. I mean, that girl is such a catch. And
13:21she chose me. And the fact that I would put her down, she doesn't deserve that. She deserves
13:28better. You know, I, not, not that I, there's any justification for what I've said that puts
13:37her down, but she'll be like, I want to grow my butt. So I'm like, do heavy squats and your
13:41butt will grow. And then she's like, you know, you're saying I have a small butt. I'm putting
13:46her down, and I know I am, but I'm, in my feeble man brain, I'm, I'm helping.
13:51Even when you're a parent, you do this with your kids, you think you're supporting them by
13:55pushing them in a direction because that's showing love. But in fact, that's not being
14:00received as love. So your version of that interaction is not the same version that she
14:05was saying. Gosh, I mean, it sounds terrible hearing it aloud. I've only been in two serious
14:12relationships ever. And in my one other serious relationship, this was also a problem. So obviously
14:21I'm a problem. No, no, it doesn't make you a bad guy. It makes you a guy with a blind
14:26spot.
14:28You make sure you're a guy who has some work to do. Yeah, because I don't want to be that
14:31guy. Well, then that's 90% of the battle, buddy. You've admitted there's some work to do.
14:41Yeah. All right.
14:45You okay? Yeah.
14:46Yeah. You know, I got you, right? I know. All right. Let's take a look. Yeah.
14:51It'll be all right, buddy.
14:54And then the three amigos, I will say, like... But even before he did that, so Pete, Pete,
14:58before he did that, right? Mark's was like, um, I'm like, do you remember these girls from
15:03last night? He's like, he was like, I think I do. I think I do. I'm like, please stop. Like,
15:09no. Um, that whole thing just, like, threw me off, like, all the way. Like...
15:15I mean, off RIP, I guess I just thought it was immature. Like, granted, tough, tough interaction,
15:20like, all the way around. But I don't want to keep talking about him. So let's talk about you.
15:26I feel like it's the most satisfying thing when you get something to, like, sound decent.
15:29Yeah. Just because I'm in a relationship does not mean that I need to close myself off from other
15:34guys. I feel like even just knowing Xavier for three days, like, there's so much that I feel
15:40comfortable sharing with him. Literally, in just talking to Xavier, I'm like, there has to be
15:45something wrong with you. Like, what have you done wrong to a girl in the past? Like, that made you,
15:50like, so perfect. Talk to me. Uh, first and foremost,
16:08her biting her lip while he playing the guitar, it's cool. I get it. If Sydney doesn't want to love
16:16me, then what can I say? I mean, it is, it's all good. It just, it doesn't feel good, but...
16:21Then it's not all good. I want to punch the shit out of him. I'm going to be real. I
16:24want to punch
16:25him riding his fucking shit. Right. I'm going to be real. As a man, I understand wanting to punch him,
16:30but you know, it's not about him, right? It's not about him. Right. So, what do you think it's about?
16:43I mean, it's about me. Like, I'm so open with Sydney. Hold on. I don't understand. Are you?
16:50Like, I tell her everything. So, do you think she said in that clip,
16:54he doesn't tell me everything? No, not at all. No, not at all. Why do you feel attacked on that
16:59level? Because it feels like you feel attacked there. I just don't, I'm just trying to figure
17:02all this out. Like, I don't. Well, I'm trying to figure it out with you. So, let's slow it down,
17:06see what we can learn to make you feel a little bit better, because you're struggling. Right?
17:24Okay. You want some relief? I'm cool. No, no, you're not cool. You're feeling something. Let's
17:33just stop trying to make me feel a way. All right? You're in your feelings right now. You're
17:39having a hard time. Because I care about her so much.
17:40You're having a crisis of your own. Sometimes I, like, talking about, like,
17:45I'm immature and stuff like that, it's just like, like, I feel as if God put me on this earth
17:54to
17:54make everyone around me feel comfortable and have fun. But do you feel comfortable and are you
18:02having fun? No. Okay, slow down. The experience you're having internally, the emotions, those
18:12feelings are legit. But when we say, it's all good, it's all good, and we don't acknowledge
18:17how we're feeling. We do ourselves a disservice. I feel you. Yeah. Hey, don't panic. You're okay.
18:28It's just really scary when you love somebody, for real. That's all. Real talk.
18:35Yes, sir. It's really scary when you love somebody. And that's what this experience is,
18:40is getting in touch with, do you really love somebody, and the value of that. And you're
18:46getting there. All right, man. You made it through your first bonfire. We have a long way to go.
18:53Let's talk about from this point forward. Coming up are dates. Your next date will be double dates.
19:01So find people that you want to get to know better, or find people that you're already connecting with,
19:06and let's go on dates with them. When you see somebody you're vibing, ask her out. Just like
19:12real life. That's it for tonight, and I will check up with you soon. You guys can head back to
19:17the
19:17villa. Appreciate you, Mark. All right. Good night, guys. Thank you. Good night.
19:27I feel that she brings up, like, the pay grade thing, and, you know, just me not being a very
19:31truthful
19:31person, because she's not happy in the relationship itself. I feel like emotionally, we're both
19:35trapped. I feel like we love each other, but I don't think that it's something that can't be
19:40fixed. It's tough seeing Scarlett, you know, super emotional. We need to kind of come to some
19:45understanding, you know, because there are wounds of the past that I'm trying to, you know, get us
19:49in our relationship to, like, move on from. But, I mean, I'm as open as I can and honest with
19:53her,
19:54so I kind of have to think about that one for a little bit and kind of just decompress,
19:58because I don't have all the answers right now.
20:00Oh.
20:02That didn't go as planned.
20:04I don't even know what to say.
20:06I'm seeing the pain that I caused Kaylee, and it sucks, and it's upsetting. You know,
20:11there's this sense of I'm not making Kaylee feel fulfilled. It's embarrassing, and it makes
20:19me feel like I'm not being the best boyfriend I can be.
20:23I'm so sick of fucking crying over this fucking bullshit. Sydney does not give a fuck about
20:28me. I'm not here to fuck on girls. That's not what I'm here for. Like, I don't care about
20:34that shit, but when you actually love somebody to their core, and it's like they let somebody
20:40else speak on your character, and that she knows my character, it's foul. It's foul.
20:57I don't like that, though. It's not like that at all. No, it's not like that.
21:03I'm a broken heart and money. Just wanna go and vanish. So sad and once collapsed in a love that
21:15didn't last.
21:22I got you.
21:26I got you.
21:27I got you.
21:28I got you.
21:28How are you doing? Welcome. There you are, Sydney. You're welcome. These, these, these
21:35do right here.
21:37It meant so much, like, knowing that they genuinely cared and were thinking about us.
21:43beautiful ladies you guys deserve this y'all are top tier and it was a great distraction
21:48in terms of everything that was going on um so mikey was talking to a group of girls and he
21:57was
21:57like you know i'm really worried that i could fall in love with any of you and i'm like what
22:04how does that how is that supposed to make me feel
22:08that's crazy this is exactly who i thought mikey was and it's exactly what he is
22:15so i'm done like literally like i've been preaching about looking for clarity and i feel like i got that
22:21and that's that so yeah
22:29i know in this experience like you wanted clarity
22:34i guess i just hate that uh that it had to it had to hurt like that yeah and like
22:40that
22:40that thing fast but i'm so glad that i have that clarity and i know how to move forward like
22:47it's
22:47it's all about sydney now i want better for myself and i'm going to get better he did what he
22:52did and
22:55i'm going to do what i'm going to do
23:04what's up guys hello how was it hi how did you go i mean yeah i was pretty bad
23:11what really wow wow okay you guys yeah right
23:19god playing a sick ass fucking joke on me no that's right what happened
23:23i should let him bro talk down on him talking about i'm childish as
23:27fuck and what'd she say she let him talk she just letting the shit talk she letting people talk
23:33but what is he saying because he doesn't know you like literally at all
23:35you don't know all he said was like yeah so like three musketeer shit was was was
23:39fucking childish and immature i mean i mean but that's not bad i mean that's the most physical
23:44he's gonna say whatever he wants to say yeah he's gonna talk
23:47you only think he's gonna go in there talking great about you that's not happening i've never
23:50said sydney's the worst person ever have i ever did she say that about you pretty much
23:54that's how i'm taking it that's how i take it my feelings are hurt and that's my experience and
23:59that's what i have to live with but i mean how you're feeling she could be feeling the same way
24:04because you don't know what she's seeing either she don't care she doesn't care about me so it's
24:09all good mikey definitely has been going through a lot of emotional battles he's taking everything
24:16super personal i don't feel like his girlfriend said anything bad but someone is talking bad about
24:21you like do you want to be with somebody like that but that's the journey of temptation island
24:28to decide if you guys are supposed to be together or not and if you guys aren't then so be
24:33it she's not
24:33the person for you and you're just gonna have to accept that is all i showed just the three
24:39musketeer thing and then bro was playing the guitar she was buying her lip he played the guitar
24:44for her oh yeah jonah's brother she she over here biting her lip
24:59so the first thing i was shown was like jack talking about how like i bet this girl's like
25:05tastes like candy oh and just seeing them like vibing in the pool it's just
25:12yeah it's hard you know yeah
25:18but on the bright side this is the first time i've gotten flowers in like the past year
25:22there we go come on we can clap for that and you look amazing with them so
25:32wait come over here because it can't get wet right here yeah sit right there make sure it's dry
25:36i can't mess it up take some time i get a present peel here what is this stop oh my
25:44god flower too
25:51wow
25:58you like it
26:07you're the prize sitting
26:11you are i know it's hard being that like it hasn't like maybe felt like that but but you are
26:17about it you know yeah that's crazy why do you make me feel so right this is the card that
26:25um
26:26xavier gave me and it's like a present it has like a cute little bow it's very detailed and it
26:33says
26:33appeal here so when i peeled this back i open it and it says you're the prize sydney to have
26:41somebody
26:41that i just met like acknowledge and see that i'm worth more than mikey's making me out to be it
26:48puts
26:48me in the mind frame of knowing that like you're not asking for too much you're just asking the wrong
26:53person that's great that you actually listen to what i said
26:58thank you so much i really appreciate that oh i really appreciate that why does it feel so right
27:12you got it to hear his yeah cole and i were like if we had his we'd be like no
27:18she was like
27:18disrespecting you man and i was like she she basically called me like poor in a way and yeah
27:26her saying that she's only had one penis truthfully like i've heard all this before
27:33this is not new like new to me you were expecting her to talk you yeah i put up with
27:39it because i
27:39up in the relationship so i feel like i'm chasing and she doesn't give a because she's unhappy in the
27:45relationship itself yes jack did cheat but jack's girlfriend treats him like a piece of talks about
27:54him poorly and she's not able to like let that go like there's not gonna be there's not much that
28:00can be done jack needs someone in his life to boost him up to make him feel seen make him
28:05feel heard
28:06weird and i'm that person for jack she's super hard-headed and like scary bro
28:25you want to put those somewhere what do you want to do like do you guys want to figure out
28:27how to
28:27put them in your face for me so i can put them in my room just make sure you make
28:31them really pretty
28:32that way i can have them in display on my room for jack to see ah i love the energy
28:38girl after seeing
28:41the clips i don't feel good about our relationship i haven't even seen anything physical it's just
28:45i'm just getting in my head i'm scared that we're just not growing together and we're like growing apart
28:57i just feel like i've wasted so much time if this is what he's on already
29:19i know but it's gonna be so hard for him to see if he were to do something like then
29:24great
29:25that you came on here because that just shows you his true fucking colors i know but it's gonna be
29:29so
29:30hard for him to see it it's more of just like i can't live life without him yes you can
29:38you don't have to i want you guys to work out but i want you to know that yes you
29:42can be without him
29:43as well you feel like you need to find cheyenne i know like who are you what do you want
29:52you can't
29:53be like codependent forever i know maybe that is the reason behind all of this is
30:00that you came here and you're going to just blossom everything happens for a reason like this might
30:06be the best thing that ever happened to you
30:20all right good night guys i can't wait to see all your beautiful faces in the morning
30:51what's going
30:52Yeah.
30:56Surprises have been, like, hard for me
30:58and just seeing, I don't know, seeing Scarlett's emotional,
31:11just, like, seeing her emotion in, like, the first bonfire.
31:26For just what I saw based off where is what it is,
31:29it, like, comes as a shock because, like,
31:30I feel like we left on, you know, we left each other
31:34in such a good light.
31:39So it leaves a super unsettling feeling
31:41and, like, an emotional roller coaster with me
31:45and, like, just kind of, like, scared for, like, the future.
31:50All right, I'm trying to go to bed.
31:54It's, like, probably the sun's coming up.
31:56I never thought it'd end this way.
32:04End this way.
32:07Right here.
32:09Wait, throw it to me!
32:14There it is.
32:15Honestly, like, I feel good.
32:17Like, I've processed it.
32:19The bonfire's now in the past.
32:21There's nothing I can do about it.
32:22And now I need to come out of my shell
32:24a little bit with the guys.
32:27So I'm excited for the dates.
32:28I think we should go on a date.
32:29Do you want to go on a date?
32:30I want to, too.
32:31I like the pink.
32:32Yeah?
32:32I'm a fan of the pink.
32:33A little decent contrast.
32:34Yeah.
32:35I wanted to ask you if you wanted
32:37to go on a date with me today.
32:39Yeah, I'd love to go on a date with me.
32:40Yeah?
32:40I was nervous to ask you.
32:42Yeah.
32:43Well, no, thanks for asking me.
32:46I appreciate it.
32:47Hopefully this one won't be as sad as the last one.
32:50Nah, it'll be a good time.
32:51Meeting a guy like Xavier has just, like, opened my eyes
32:56to all of the possibilities of what, like, love
32:59should look like, what a relationship should look like,
33:02what a man truly looks like.
33:06I'm just, like, so happy working through all of it.
33:09I don't know.
33:10It's crazy.
33:12I'm actually, like, really excited.
33:14Me, too.
33:14I wonder what it's going to be.
33:20Today, we're doing another date,
33:23and I was wondering if you wanted to come with me.
33:25I would love to go with you.
33:26Yeah.
33:27Let's do it.
33:28Hey.
33:29Hello.
33:30Would you want to talk for a second?
33:32Sure.
33:33I don't want to interrupt your breakfast, but...
33:36I already ate.
33:37Or lunch.
33:37There's no food there.
33:39Okay, sorry.
33:40He's nervous.
33:40He's so nervous.
33:42He didn't know what to say.
33:43He didn't know what to say.
33:45That's so cute.
33:46Uh, I feel like we haven't, like, actually talked a lot,
33:50but I wanted to talk to you for a bit, so...
33:52Yeah.
33:53Um, what type of Latino are you?
33:56So, my mom's from Bolivia, my dad's Cuban.
33:58Well, I go to Central America every year.
34:01I have a house in Costa Rica, but I've always wanted to, like,
34:04go farther south.
34:05Yeah.
34:06I don't...
34:06I've never been to South America, so...
34:08Yeah.
34:08Honestly, well, I've been to only Colombia, but...
34:11You haven't been to Cuba or Bolivia?
34:13I don't know.
34:14Oh, you gotta go?
34:15Yeah.
34:16Well, I'd love to, you know, keep getting to know you and...
34:19I know, me too, honestly.
34:21Um, yeah.
34:21Well, do you want to go on a date today?
34:23Yeah, we could do that.
34:24All right, let's do it.
34:25Let's do it.
34:25Nice.
34:30I won't let you rain on my fiesta.
34:33Oh, oh!
34:34Poros, they're gonna meet Fiesta.
34:36Oh, oh!
34:38Fiesta!
34:39Oh, oh!
34:40Oh, oh!
34:42Oh, wow!
34:43Hey, guys!
34:44Are we dancing?
34:45Yeah, Brazilian Seek is a really popular partner dance here in Hawaii.
34:49It is what became of the forbidden dance,
34:52the lambada in Brazil.
34:54OK, OK.
34:55Dancing is just, like, a part of me.
34:57So this feels right at home.
34:59Take her shoulder blade and offer her your hand.
35:03In marriage.
35:04Easy, easy.
35:06Clint has always just brought the best energy.
35:08So to spend a day with him, I'm really looking forward to it.
35:12Left, chick, chick, right.
35:15Chick, chick.
35:16Try not to move from side to side.
35:18Back with your left, guys.
35:20Forward.
35:21I'm not going to lie, it started off a little rocky.
35:24Like, am I slow?
35:24I think it's just, like, keeping this cadence.
35:27Once we kept going, I think everything, like, really flowed,
35:30and it was, like, really cute.
35:32I'm loving the vibes.
35:33I think this is the perfect way for me and Xavier to get closer.
35:40Two, three.
35:41Oh, shit.
35:50That's looking pretty damn good.
35:52Yeah?
35:52Hey, he said pretty damn good.
35:54Oh, so we're good.
35:55I'm loving watching Sid just blossom, and she's glowing.
36:00Way too advanced for that.
36:02Right?
36:02Her energy has shifted.
36:04Xavier is, like, the perfect person for her to have this connection with coming off of Mikey.
36:20What will you do?
36:25What will you do?
36:26What will you do?
36:29What will you do?
36:31Oh, my God.
36:33This is aerial yoga.
36:35You look good.
36:36Yeah.
36:36Welcome!
36:37I've never done aerial yoga.
36:39I feel like that's kind of in my wheelhouse.
36:41My mom's a yoga instructor.
36:44Yes!
36:45I do yoga a lot in Costa Rica and such,
36:48so I decided to jump in.
36:50And now as one of you starts to breathe in,
36:53find each other's breath.
36:56As one breath in, the other breath out.
36:59So breathe in and out.
37:02Yeah, you're starting to feel it.
37:03Nice, nice. That's how we want it.
37:05Feeling somebody else's energy in that type of way,
37:09I truly just thought that was deep.
37:11Big smiles on both of your faces, wow.
37:14That's the closest me and India have ever been,
37:17like, touching-wise.
37:19So let's go forward by pushing the fabric down,
37:21and we're gonna lean forward.
37:23Permission to help?
37:25Yes, we got one, we got two flying down dogs.
37:29Okay, okay.
37:29Make sure that you have spot on the back thigh.
37:32Why?
37:33Uh, this is...
37:35Oh.
37:36Your stomach wants to go bad.
37:38Spin around.
37:39You ready?
37:40Am I just out?
37:42No, they're not.
37:44I didn't look.
37:46Oh.
37:47There we go.
37:48And let go of the hands,
37:49and reach for your own foot.
37:50Reach for your own foot.
37:52Reach for your own foot.
37:53Reach for your own foot.
37:55Reach for your own foot.
37:56It looks good.
37:57Yeah, it looks good, guys.
38:00Aw.
38:02Good shit.
38:04Wait.
38:05Wait.
38:10Let's go.
38:12Come on, man.
38:12This is gonna be so fun.
38:14You've done this before?
38:14Yeah.
38:15I've never done it.
38:16Yes, of course.
38:16I'm super excited,
38:17because I've grown up with four-wheelers all my life.
38:20Bye-bye.
38:21See you on the other side.
38:22Bye-bye, guys.
38:23I'm really not into, like, an intimate vibe date.
38:26Like, I think that going out and doing an activity
38:29will just bring my personality out a little bit more.
38:33And Preston is just super outgoing.
38:36He's just fun.
38:37I want to go fast.
38:38That's what I'm looking for.
38:39Meow.
38:39Meow.älp.
38:40Hey, darling.
38:54Hey. Honestly,
38:55last night,
38:55it was pretty rough. A lot of emotions kind
38:58of broke down in the early hours of the morning. But
39:00this date, going
39:01in the water, snorkeling, was the perfect thing.
39:03And also Sydney was a
39:04great pick to go on the date.
39:06I needed someone that I could be at peace with and have some fun.
39:11Me and Carter are together.
39:12I feel like we're thriving.
39:14And we're having the time of our life.
39:29Yeah, that was a good time.
39:31I haven't gone on a date with another guy besides Summit in like a year.
39:36I know last night was tough for you.
39:38Yeah, I mean, the first bonfire, like, I knew it was going to be really hard.
39:43It's super weird seeing your boyfriend saying, like, she doesn't like how I'm outgoing and, like, she wants to change
39:49me.
39:50And it's like, are you even certain about me if you feel like I want to change you?
39:54Like, because no one wants to feel like their partner wants to change them.
39:58Do you want him to be something other than anybody else?
40:00I just want him to, like, be a fucking good boyfriend.
40:03Yeah.
40:03Like, you want your partner to, like, love you and accept you for all of you.
40:07And I don't always feel like he prioritizes my needs.
40:12Like, if I were to get mad about that and vocalize that to him, like, he would make me feel
40:18like I'm being, like, a baby.
40:22At some point, you have to realize, like, you are enough, though.
40:26Like, at what point does the breaking point happen?
40:28Because, I mean, all the disrespect, I mean, it builds up.
40:32Like, no one should feel like their partner is, like, belittling them.
40:36I don't understand, like, why he does it.
40:39Like, I don't know what he gets out of, like, making me feel bad about myself.
40:44I know it's awkward.
40:45I know it's tough.
40:47But, I mean, you're a cool person.
40:49Like, obviously, I'm glad I got to do this with you.
40:51Yeah.
40:51It's fun.
40:52Oh, it all comes back to you.
40:56Oh, it all comes back to you.
41:03How's your experience so far?
41:05Are you learning anything?
41:06Like, what's the outcome you want from this?
41:08I don't know.
41:09That's a little too deep, right?
41:10Okay, we don't got to get too deep.
41:11No, no, no.
41:11It's a fair question.
41:12But I want to get to, like, know other stuff first.
41:14Like, why didn't you give me a bracelet?
41:17Great friend.
41:18Look at my new friend.
41:19You're going to be best friend.
41:21Oh.
41:23Um.
41:25I don't know.
41:25I think Mikey just kind of looked like just a safe place.
41:29But that's just, like, a quick first impression.
41:32Okay, what's your physical type?
41:34I'm open to everything.
41:35I don't really go off physical.
41:36Okay, yeah.
41:37Yeah, I go off vibes.
41:39Because you can see, like, the sexiest man on the planet and he's...
41:42If he's an idiot.
41:43Yeah, or a narcissist.
41:45Like, you know what I'm saying?
41:47You know, you do give off this, like, mysterious vibe, you know?
41:51I don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing.
41:52No, it's a good thing.
41:53Okay.
41:54You know, especially, like, guys always want, like, what they can't have type thing.
41:58Yeah, I know what you mean.
41:59You know, like, mysterious is fun.
42:01I am.
42:01Cool, I'm cool.
42:02Yeah, you're very cool.
42:04Very cool.
42:05You're almost, like, too cool.
42:06Really?
42:07Too cool for school.
42:08Yeah, you're too cool.
42:09Oh, good.
42:10You got what I want.
42:12You got what I need.
42:14You can tell me everything.
42:19Last night when you got back from the bonfire, like, obviously you were distraught in a way, if that's the
42:25best word.
42:25I was so emotional.
42:26Now that I'm replaying it, back in my head, I'm just like, I am so fucking dramatic.
42:32What was it in the bonfire that triggered you in that way?
42:36Well, there's an infidelity in the relationship.
42:38And so just being physical with anyone, like, just took me right back to the way I was, like, crushed
42:44whenever I first found out that he went that far with somebody.
42:52But I don't want to see him, like, end up with somebody else and it not be me.
42:57Is that fair to you?
42:59It's not fair to me at all.
43:00But how do I fix that thought, you know?
43:02Think about what's best for Shy.
43:05Mm-hmm.
43:05Right?
43:06Like, you and Jack came here for a reason.
43:08So do you feel like you are truly happy with him?
43:12I don't know.
43:13No.
43:14I don't feel like we are truly happy.
43:16Like, I don't think I trust him.
43:19But it's just because we've been together for so long.
43:21So it's like that comfort.
43:25Answer this question for me, then.
43:26What are the benefits like besides the comfort?
43:28I don't know what the benefits are.
43:30This relationship's so fucked.
43:31It is so toxic.
43:32Like, I can tell that you deserve the world.
43:36And, like, you deserve someone that's going to respect you in that fashion.
43:39And, like, when you open up and you're confident and you're bubbly and stuff,
43:41everyone's like, look at this.
43:43Hey, easier said than done, but I'm trying.
43:45I know.
43:45No, of course.
43:46All you can do is try.
43:46I'm ready to, like, fully take on the experience.
43:49And, like, you've gotten me out of my shell more than anybody else.
43:52Like, I definitely think you'll be, like, my person here.
43:57I will be there.
43:59I will be there for you.
44:05I've never done anything like this.
44:08Like, I think the nicest date I've ever been on was, like, a picnic.
44:14You're fucking hilarious.
44:22Do you feel like our connection, like, scares you at all?
44:27I mean, yeah, I'll be honest.
44:29It's just weird how easy it is to talk to you.
44:32You know, things are moving so fast, and I feel like we've known each other forever.
44:39At the end of the day, I think we both know what our connection is and how it's, like, different
44:46from anything else.
44:47No, it is.
45:04I've never done something like that, and it was exciting.
45:07That's a whole lot.
45:08You were good.
45:09Do you feel like it helped you mentally to just get away, get out the house after the bonfire last
45:17night?
45:17I don't really think that's the case when it comes to this type of stuff.
45:21I feel like it's more of a, like, of, like, of who I'm spending certain moments with.
45:27It's just easy when you're talking to somebody who's, like, cool.
45:30I think that's why I be chopping it up so much with you, because, like, I see the opposite, because
45:38you're not me.
45:39No.
45:39At all.
45:41Like, if I was dating myself, that would not work.
45:45You need somebody that balance you out.
45:46I feel like a lot of people that end up being, like, compatible, like, are kind of opposite in ways.
45:53To be real with you, we both know what we got going on.
45:56It's just mad easy to chop it up with you.
45:59Me and India are so locked in, so it's like, that connection is, like, strong.
46:02Because I'm falling for you.
46:05Falling for you.
46:07Hope you want you.
46:08I'm good.
46:09Appreciate you.
46:14Seriously.
46:18So, I wanted to ask you a couple questions.
46:20Oh.
46:21Yeah, yeah.
46:21I wanted to ask you a little bit.
46:23Do a little digging.
46:24Yeah.
46:24Like, in this past year, can you think of, like, a time that gave you the most joy?
46:33Okay.
46:35It was Valentine's Day.
46:37Uh-huh.
46:37I had a Galentine's party in my apartment.
46:40Yeah?
46:40It was just good, genuine vibes, and, like, they brought me so much joy and so much happiness
46:44because I was surrounded by, like, genuine love at the end of the day.
46:48I'm happy that you had that community there for you.
46:50Yeah.
46:51You guys were able to enjoy it.
46:52Yeah.
46:53But notice how the most joyful thing didn't involve my king.
46:58You know?
46:58Like, that's shitty.
46:59Yeah.
46:59That's shitty.
47:00I can't believe, like, I was just sitting in it.
47:02And, like, I was content.
47:03Like, that's not me.
47:04Like, I literally settled.
47:05Like, I was okay with it.
47:06That's not okay.
47:06You want Cindy to be the prize.
47:08Right?
47:09Exactly.
47:09I want Cindy to be the prize.
47:11Like, I don't think I'm asking for too much, you know?
47:14You know, I don't think that you are.
47:16I'm really glad we were able to do this today.
47:18Yeah.
47:18Me too.
47:19It was super fun.
47:20Yeah, no, this being the third date, uh...
47:22But, like, the other ones were, like, they weren't even dates to me.
47:24You know?
47:24Mm-hmm.
47:25But, like, this was, like, the first real date.
47:26Yeah.
47:26So it's just, like, that easy?
47:27Yeah.
47:28Like, I'm super comfortable.
47:30I'm not gonna lie.
47:31You make it so easy.
47:32No, I like it.
47:33Yeah.
47:34No, you make it pretty easy, too.
47:36Oh, I'm glad.
47:37Okay, let's make a toast.
47:38Yeah?
47:39New beginnings, fresh start, and an official first date.
47:41Cheers.
47:42Cheers, cheers.
47:51Check me out.
47:51Check me out.
47:52Hey.
47:54That actually looks, like, really good.
47:56Is it really?
47:56Yeah.
47:56Xavier, like, makes me re-examine what love should feel like.
48:00There's nothing left to say.
48:03You take my breath away.
48:07I should never have to give somebody more than one chance.
48:09They should get it right the first time.
48:11Is it smooth if I love your hand?
48:14Slowly.
48:15I love how you ask.
48:17Yeah.
48:19Now I'm big on this.
48:20We love that.
48:21There's nothing left to do
48:23but to keep falling for you.
48:36I'm big on this.
48:37I'm big on this.
48:37I'm big on this.
48:39So, what do you guys think?
48:40What?
48:42Like, how's it going today?
48:43It's going good?
48:45It was good.
48:45The dates were good.
48:47Yeah, dates were good.
48:48But I got really set like in my feels last night from the bonfire like I
48:53Was expecting just to see like or like interacting go on a date whatever wording and all I saw was
48:57just like
48:58Crying so it was like oh shit. It kind of shocked me. Yeah, I didn't process it till like
49:03Four in the morning when I was alone in my room, and that's when it hit me
49:08What I'm trying to understand is like when we do end up coming back together
49:11It's like we got to figure out how to clean up these like trust issues and how to clean up
49:15I'm trying to the same bro. That shit's real though like she doesn't feel safe in the relationship and it's
49:19like how can I?
49:21How do I navigate because you didn't feel like you're not doing anything to like it's not having her mistrust
49:26So it's like yeah, but not now it's like you can't get over the past
49:29Like I can't make you trust me no matter if I'm honest to you or not right, you know, right
49:33You have to just let it go and like like we can't keep going back on it, you know
49:39It's her that needs to accept that and also move on and like I can't I can't force her to
49:44do that
49:44I mean for me the biggest test that I've been kind of experiencing is just like
49:48Regulating my emotions and just like the ups and downs and like the emotional roller coasters
49:53I just want to figure out how can we move forward in a better light to ultimately
49:58You know leave this island a stronger united couple and go back to San Diego
50:02And then the plans after that would be to like, you know
50:06Get engaged or something like that, you know
50:18Like I knew what I was doing
50:22What's up, what's up, what's up
50:27What's up, what's up, how you feel
50:28Where'd you go?
50:28We took a dance class
50:30That is so sick
50:31You guys wanted to see our dance?
50:33Have you got to see our dance?
50:34Take it out, come it in
50:34Oh, boo
50:35Hey
50:37Ooh
50:39Ah
50:42Hey
50:42it's really insane because like in like the whole like schema things like we were just like
50:50friends yesterday you know yeah like yeah i lived it i was there i do i do know actually
50:59i'm from charlotte north carolina i'm like on the outskirts of charlotte so oh really yeah
51:03i'm not i'm not from there uh yeah like harrisburg oh my god my my aunt lives in harrisburg yeah
51:09right we're dating like you know we're exploring we're experiencing i'm experiencing new feelings
51:16i don't know like i can't speak for him i know like i'm on like a high just from like
51:23the conversations that we've had um and it it's a new feeling like everybody keeps telling me i'm
51:32glowing i'm just like i don't know i don't like what are we now like we're nice we're still friends
51:42but like if friends who like you know could could be something more i don't know i don't know i
51:49agree
51:49with everything she just said ladies tonight is the men of temptation island talent show i need everybody
51:57outside please let's go let's go last night was the bonfire i think morale and vibe was a little
52:07down so tonight we need to get the vibes of our first act of the night ethan come on out
52:14ethan come on
52:49this was probably the best night in the villa honestly everyone was so happy and just like alive
53:08all right guys we're going to be playing never have i ever sorry i did not mean i'm so sorry
53:14i did
53:15not respecting the boundaries if you've done it put down a finger take a drink the person who gets all
53:22their fingers down loses the game loser has to kiss somebody okay never have i ever had a threesome
53:32oh yeah i wish come on come on come on come on i would i have it never have i
53:39ever had sex with a
53:41married man never have i ever had sex with multiple people in one day i was a whore in college
53:49crazy i have
53:50you little freak you a big old freak never have i ever given a foot job or gotten gotten yeah
53:59we see
54:00i'm too curious i don't know i want to know never have i ever wanted to
54:05fuck somebody within this house guys summit has one left never have i ever had sex with a
54:22work because of this situation okay summit lost summit lost i guess losing never have i ever is like
54:30a badge of honor but i don't think it's something kaylee or my grandmother would appreciate okay pick
54:36someone go i guess i have to kiss someone
54:53i kissed mike i got so horny for a second enough conversation give in to temptation
55:20i think that carter might end up in jack's bed tonight
55:24i just told them oh girl
55:29and then there was two perfect enigma send me a signal
55:41the connection is all that i crave
55:47is
55:54i really need you i really want you
56:00everything i've done is talk about you
56:04jack can't swim he can't swim surprise
56:08my beautiful temptation
56:15is this the button you choose
56:17is this the button you choose
56:18is
56:34you're so dirty
56:51is
56:58is
57:00is
57:00is
57:01You need no temptation
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