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Temptation Island - Season 7 - Episode 03
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00:06Do you see who I see?
00:09Do you hear what I hear?
00:15The thought is happening now.
00:23You feel like you can sit down and talk to me about it?
00:27If they hold my hand.
00:29I'll do whatever you need. If you need me to sit with you right here, I'll sit with you right
00:33here.
00:35I'm okay.
00:36You sure?
00:37I'm good. Yeah, they got me.
00:40Is that not insane? Am I crazy?
00:43You're not crazy. You're not crazy.
00:46I think there's some positives here.
00:48Yeah, I can finally move the fuck on with my life.
00:51That's a positive.
00:54So, Syd, let's take a second and see how we can take whatever you're feeling and have it serve you.
01:03Okay.
01:04So, as best you can, tell me what you're feeling and what part hurt you so hard.
01:10He said, I might mess around and fall for someone. I want to shoot my shot in India.
01:14What the fuck?
01:16He's literally showing me the person that I know he is.
01:20So, it's like, why am I even upset? You know?
01:23Like, you know, he's like, I would never do anything to you. I haven't done anything to you.
01:26Fucking bullshit. Bullshit.
01:28I was just in Hilton Head with your family.
01:32And you're like, oh, my God, I can't wait until we have forever together.
01:35I can't wait to marry you. I can't wait to do all this stuff.
01:38I should have knew that was bullshit.
01:41I'm sorry. The word of the night is bullshit.
01:44That'll fucking do it.
01:45Let's hold space that Mikey has a journey to and let's see who he shows up to be.
01:51Well, I wish him the best, but it is not with me. Like, it is not with me.
01:57Spots on a leopard do not fucking change.
02:00You've been the same person that you were.
02:02All you did was, like, try to show me something different.
02:05I get all of what you're saying, but I want you to use this experience selfishly
02:10to create for yourself a possibility in the future that's greater than when you knew existed.
02:16So, what I want you to do is try on things to see what you can create
02:23so that the next relationship, when it's time, is on that next level.
02:29Yeah.
02:29And if that's here, even if you don't leave the island with somebody.
02:32Yeah.
02:33That you get to experience it so you can get that brain pattern of,
02:37this is something that's there for me. I can have it.
02:39Yeah. I appreciate that. I really do.
02:42There's a lot, you guys.
02:44But congratulations, you made it through your first bonfire.
02:49Coming up soon are more dates, and the next dates you'll be having will be double dates.
02:54So, think about which guy you'd like to get to know more.
02:58When you're ready, when you're feeling a vibe, ask the guy out on a date.
03:03This is your moment to explore the connections in front of you so that you can lead this island stronger,
03:09happier,
03:10and more ready to have the love relationship that you deserve.
03:15All right. Good night.
03:17Good night.
03:18Good night.
03:19All right.
03:27That was, like, the last straw for me.
03:29You're saying to girls, like, I could fall in love with you. What?
03:34We've been in a relationship for over a year. Did that mean nothing to you?
03:38It feels like to me that there is no respect for me. And I deserve better than that.
03:43i just did not expect to see literally nothing he's not opening up he's not seeing where work
03:51needs to be done like and now i'm just confused summit isn't taking accountability and like the
03:58only way we can work through our current problems is if he realizes his wrongdoings but not if he
04:04sits around with a bunch of girls that are going to tell him that his girlfriend's insecure because
04:08i'm fucking not i want to leave it just hurts so bad right now because of what jack has done
04:18to me
04:18in the past we've been together way too long to put me through this he wanted to bring me here
04:24so
04:25that way he could prove to me that this isn't that he doesn't want anybody else and he only wants
04:29me
04:29that was his reasoning for wanting to come here like it's not okay to be fucking around with a
04:35relationship like this i don't feel like he's proving himself i don't feel like he's getting
04:40anything across with the way he's acting from what i saw
04:57i feel like anything i see i'm gonna be upset i feel like it's gonna be pretty hard to watch
05:02but whatever we see guys i just want to let y'all know i love you guys and i'll have
05:07your guys's back
05:13oh shit
05:38i'm scared as hell going into this bonfire there is the possibility that we will not leave here
05:42together so my biggest fear is that city moved on
05:48i'm totally in my head and i just don't want to see anything bad i just hope me and cheyenne
05:53come back together i don't want to lose her
06:03gentlemen what's going on how you feeling how are you i feel good i'm glad to see you guys
06:07you're looking good feeling good all right welcome to your first bonfire this is a place where we get
06:18a chance to chop it up a little bit talk about your journey so far it's also the place where
06:24you're
06:24going to watch clips of your girlfriend's experience here on the island these are just glimpses to get a
06:31little bit of an idea of what's going on with them okay all right we're gonna start with you cole
06:37okay let's take a look
06:42do you ever feel like you're like asking for too much and like you'll never feel satisfied and i
06:49don't think we should be made to feel that way by the way like i don't yeah i feel like
06:53asking for
06:55the truth and asking for you know better communication is not asking a lot it's asking
07:00for a foundation yeah lately the relationship has just been draining and it's like been a constant
07:09battle of you know stress and in my head or whatever and i just i don't want to waste any
07:19more energy on
07:20fighting like jesus christ i feel like you know i have been through a lot and i'm just at a
07:30point in
07:31life where i just want to be happy what do you think um she's obviously very emotional about you know
07:42some issues in our relationship you know based around trust there have been you know things in
07:48the past that you know i've lied about and i've apologized for those things and you know i've
07:53shown her accountability and how sorry i am for those things um i give that girl everything you
07:59know humanly possible in my heart and i you know i drew i do treat her really well and seeing
08:05her
08:05reactions here are kind of a little surprising considering i think you know we've had a pretty
08:09stable relationship uh you know coming into this so i hear you and i think what impresses me
08:17is the canyon between your perspective and her perspective what i saw was a woman who's really
08:26struggling and not feeling heard and really wondering if this relationship is working at all
08:33and then i hear you say it's been pretty good i've given her everything she needs
08:38so what do you think that gap's about between your take and her take
08:44you know i don't look at it as like her side versus my side her feelings are validated and i'm
08:48not here to disprove them or say they're not you know they're not real i'm here to i'm here with
08:53open
08:53arms to you know try to draw some conclusions between the two of us but obviously i know in my
09:01mind i
09:01would never hurt her i never have the thought of but but you have well i no no i'm just
09:07saying the clip
09:08is showing that she's hurting right i think what gets in the way is that you know i feel like
09:12it
09:12could be 99 of the time i am overly transparent with her but then that one time you're not everything's
09:19just like thrown out the window you're either transparent and honest and truthful or you're not
09:25okay so now you've seen a little bit of the kind of conversations he's having with the other girls in
09:31the house what have you been up to what have you been doing to grow um i think the key
09:39word is like
09:40figuring out like how to grow i don't know that's fair don't know kind of the steps or procedures or
09:45there is no procedure cole you have to look deeper than you're looking i mean yeah i'm gonna have to
09:53figure it out for sure i just want to see you open up and not for any other reason but
09:59you you're going
10:00to be happier yeah jack here we go take a look you haven't gone on a date in a long
10:09time with your
10:10boyfriend yeah no like the only time we ever go on like a real like planned date by him is
10:15if it's
10:15my birthday so it's got to be a special occasion yeah like even for like our anniversaries like we
10:20don't do anything that's just really sad this pamper you a little bit yeah pampered yeah that
10:26sounds really nice honestly does that's that's not in jack's uh it's pay grade above his pay
10:31grade yeah you got it sounds like he's a bit cheap he's a bit cheap for your standards yes
10:35sounds like what the yes when was the last time you had sex with anybody else i have only hooked
10:40up
10:40with jack in the past five years we've been together so gotcha just been stuck with the same penis five
10:50years oh hell no what do you think you know i really have nothing to say it's kind of what
10:57i
10:57expected you know she doesn't look real highly of me so really hearing that like does not surprise me
11:03nah fuck that bro the pay grade stuff i hear that all the time what what did they mean by
11:08above your pay
11:09grade oh she shits on me for not having money but to be honest like money doesn't really matter to
11:16me
11:17and i feel like where she's at in her life she's looking for a little bit something different than
11:22she was when we were 19. what do you want i mean you kind of let me know what you
11:26think she wants she
11:27wants a guy who's making some money what do you want it to be relationship i mean overall i want
11:32to
11:32like fix her relationship you know there's a lot of things that need to be like worked on and you
11:36mean
11:37i'm not asking what you want to do with her i'm asking what do you want i want someone that's
11:42like
11:42supporting of just me of who i am i feel like you know there's a lot of talking down on
11:49me in the
11:49relationship and i do feel like we love each other because i know i love her but i almost feel
11:54like
11:54being unloyal to her year three ruined that for her so i feel like i'm almost chasing and she's almost
12:05pushing i don't have an answer for that but i think you can find an answer for that thousand
12:12percent i think i can too okay summit you ready i guess so let's go
12:22well one of our issues is that like he doesn't make me always feel like i am like enough
12:29no it hurts when you make comments towards me like making me feel like i'm like my body's not
12:37your dream body and like this and that could be better like i'm i tell him like that hurts when
12:44you
12:45tell me that things that were said can never be erased and i'm sure they stick in your head like
12:50yeah
12:50just naturally i need to stand up for myself more oh i think i'm a confident person but if i
12:57was more
12:57confident like i wouldn't allow this stuff to happen what do you want to say yeah i mean there is
13:10validity to what what she's saying and it honestly you know it makes me feel terrible that i make her
13:17feel that way i mean that girl is such a catch and she chose me and the fact that i
13:24would put her down
13:26she doesn't deserve that she deserves better you know i not not that i there's any justification for
13:34what i've said that puts her down but she'll be like i want to grow my butt so i'm like
13:40do heavy
13:40squats and your butt will grow and then she's like you know you're saying i have a small butt i'm
13:46putting
13:46her down and i know i am but i'm in my feeble man brain i'm i'm helping even when you're
13:52a parent you do
13:52this with your kids you think you're supporting them by pushing them in a direction because that's
13:57showing love but in fact that's not being received as love so your version of that interaction is not
14:04the same version that she was saying gosh i mean it sounds terrible hearing it aloud um i've only been
14:12in two serious relationships ever and in my one other serious relationship this was also a problem
14:20so obviously i'm a problem no no it doesn't make you a bad guy it makes you a guy with
14:25a blind spot
14:28you make sure you're a guy who has some work to do yeah because i don't want to be that
14:31guy
14:31right well then that's 90 of the battle buddy you've admitted there's some work to do yeah all right
14:45you okay yeah you know i got you right i know all right let's take a look yeah
14:50i'll be all right buddy and then the three amigos i will say like but even before he did that
14:57so peep
14:58peep before he did that right mark was like um something like do you remember these girls from
15:03last night he's like he was like i think i do i think i do i'm like please stop like
15:09no um that whole
15:11thing just like threw me off like all the way like i mean off rip i guess i just thought
15:16it was immature
15:16like granted tough tough interaction like all the way around but i don't want to keep talking about
15:22him so let's let's talk about you i feel like it's the most satisfying thing when you get something
15:28like sound decent yeah just because i'm in a relationship does not mean that i need to close
15:33myself off from other guys i feel like even just knowing xavier for three days like there's so much
15:40that i feel comfortable sharing with him literally in just talking to xavier i'm like there has to be
15:45something wrong with you like what have you done wrong to a girl in the past like that made you
15:50like so perfect talk to me
16:04uh first and foremost
16:21i'm gonna be real as a man i understand wanting to punch him but you know it's not about him
16:33right
16:33it's not about him right so what do you think it's about
16:42i mean it's about me
16:46like i'm so open with sydney hold on understand are you like i tell her everything so do you think
16:52she said in that clip he doesn't tell me everything no not at all why do you feel attacked on
16:59that level
16:59because it feels like you feel attacked i just don't i'm just trying to figure all this out like
17:03well i'm trying to figure it out with you so let's slow it down and see what we can learn
17:08to make you feel a little bit better because you're struggling right
17:24okay you want some relief
17:28i'm cool no no you're not cool you're feeling something let's just stop trying to make me feel
17:35away all right you're in your feelings right now you're having a heart about her so much you're
17:41having a crisis of your own sometimes i like talking about like i'm immature and stuff like that it's just
17:47like like i feel as if god put me on this earth to make everyone around me feel comfortable and
17:58have fun
17:59fun but do you feel comfortable and are you having fun no okay slow down
18:08the experience you're having internally the emotions those feelings are legit but when we say
18:15it's all good it's all good and we don't acknowledge how we're feeling we do ourselves a disservice
18:22i feel you yeah hey don't panic you're okay it's just really scary when you love somebody for real
18:31that's all real talk
18:35yes sir it's really scary when you love somebody and that's what this experience is is getting in
18:42touch with do you really love somebody and the value of that and you're getting there
18:48all right man you made it through your first bonfire we have a long way to go let's talk about
18:54from this point forward coming up are dates your next date will be double dates so find people that
19:02you want to get to know better or find people that you're already connecting with and let's go on dates
19:07with them when you see somebody you're vibing ask we're out just like real life that's it for tonight
19:14and i will check up with you soon you guys can head back to the villa appreciate you mark all
19:19right
19:19good night guys i feel that she brings up like the pay grade thing and you know just me not
19:30being a very
19:31truthful person because she's not happy in the relationship itself i feel like emotionally we're
19:35both trapped i feel like we love each other but i don't think that it's it's something that can't be
19:40fixed it's tough seeing scarlet you know super emotional we need to kind of come to some
19:45understanding you know because there are wounds of the past that i'm trying to you know get us in
19:49our relationship to like move on from but i mean i'm as open as i can and honest with her
19:54so i kind of
19:55have to think about that one for a little bit and kind of just decompress because i don't have all
19:59the
19:59answers right now oh that didn't go as planned i don't even know what to say i'm seeing the pain
20:07that i caused kaylee and it and it sucks and it's upsetting you know there's this sense of i'm not
20:14making kaylee feel fulfilled it's embarrassing and it makes me feel like i'm not being the best boyfriend
20:23i can be i'm so sick of fucking crying over this fucking bullshit sydney does not give a
20:28fuck about me i'm not here to on girls that's not what i'm here for like i don't i don't
20:33care about
20:34that shit but when you actually love somebody to their core and it's like they let somebody else
20:40speak on your character and that she knows my character it's foul it's foul
20:56i don't like that though i don't like that at all i don't like that
21:03i'm a broken heart and money just wanna go and vanish
21:10it's so sad it won't go last you know love that didn't last
21:20welcome back
21:22welcome back ladies
21:27how are we doing welcome there you are sydney you're welcome
21:35thank you it meant so much like knowing that they genuinely cared and were thinking about us
21:43beautiful ladies you guys deserve this y'all are top tier and it was a great distraction in terms of
21:49everything that was going on um so mikey was talking to a group of girls and he was like you
21:58i'm really worried that i could fall in love with any of you and i'm like what how does that
22:05how
22:05is that supposed to make me feel that's crazy this is exactly who i thought mikey was and it's exactly
22:13what he is so i'm i'm done like literally like i've been preaching about looking for clarity and i feel
22:21like i got that today and that's that so yeah
22:29i know in this experience like you wanted clarity
22:34i guess i just hate that uh that it had to hurt like that yeah and like that that thing
22:41fast but i'm
22:42so glad that i have that clarity and i know how to move forward like it's it's all about sydney
22:48now
22:48i want better for myself and i'm going to get better he did what he did and
22:55i'm going to do what i'm going to do
23:03what's up guys hello how was it hi there we go i mean yeah that was pretty bad
23:11what really wow wow okay you guys yeah right
23:19god playing a sick-ass fucking joke on me no that's right what happened
23:24she letting bro talk down on him talking about i'm childish as
23:27fuck and what's she saying she let him talk she just letting the shit talk she letting people talk
23:33but what is he saying because he doesn't know you like literally at all no no no all he said
23:36was
23:37like yeah so like three musketeer shit was was was fucking childish and immature i mean i mean
23:42but that's not bad i mean that's the most physical he's gonna say whatever he wants to say
23:46yeah he's gonna talk you only think he's gonna go in there talking great about you that's not
23:49happening i've never said sydney's the worst person ever have i ever did she say that about you
23:53pretty much that's how i'm taking it that's how i take it my feelings are hurt and that's my
23:58experience and that's what i have to live with but i mean how you're feeling she could be feeling
24:03the same way because you don't know what she's seeing either she don't care she doesn't care
24:08about me so it's all good mikey definitely has been going through a lot of emotional battles
24:15he's taking everything super personal i don't feel like his girlfriend said anything bad but someone is
24:21talking bad about you like do you want to be with somebody like that but that's the journey of
24:27temptation island to decide if you guys are supposed to be together or not and if you guys aren't then
24:32so be it she's not the person for you and you're just gonna have to accept that is all they
24:38sure
24:38just the three musketeer thing and then bro was playing the guitar she was buying her lip
24:43he played the guitar for her oh yeah jonah's brother she she over here buying her lip
24:59so the first thing i was shown was like jack talking about how like i bet this girl's like
25:05pussy tastes like candy oh and just seeing them like vibing in the pool it's just
25:12yeah it's hard you know yeah
25:18but on the bright side this is the first time i've gotten flowers in like the past year there we
25:22go
25:23it's awesome hey come on we can clap for that and you look amazing with them so
25:32wait come over here because it can't get wet right here yeah sit right there make sure it's dry
25:36and can't mess it up take some time for this oh my god i get a present peel here what
25:41is this stop oh my
25:44god is that a flower too wow
25:58you like it
26:07you're the prize sydney
26:11you are i know it's hard being that like it hasn't like maybe felt like that but but you are
26:17about it you know yeah that's crazy why do you make me feel so right this is the card that
26:25um
26:26xavier gave me and it's like a present it has like a cute little bow it's very detailed and it
26:33says peel
26:34here so when i peeled this back i open it and it says you're the prize sydney to have somebody
26:41that i just
26:42met like acknowledge and see that i'm worth more than mikey's making me out to be it puts me in
26:49the
26:49mind frame of knowing that like you're not asking for too much you're just asking the wrong person
26:54that's great that you actually listen to what i said
26:58thank you so much i really appreciate that oh i really appreciate that why does it feel so right
27:12you got to hear his yeah cole and i were like if we had his we'd be like no she
27:18was like disrespecting
27:19you man and that was like she said she basically called me like poor in a way and yeah her
27:26saying
27:27that she's only had one penis truthfully like i've heard all this before this is not new like new
27:35to me you were expecting her to talk you yeah i put up with it because i up in the
27:40relationship so i feel like i'm chasing and she doesn't give a because she's unhappy in the
27:45relationship itself yes jack did cheat but jack's girlfriend treats him like a piece of
27:53shit talks about him poorly and she's not able to like let that go like there's not gonna be there's
27:59not much that can be done jack needs someone in his life to boost him up to make him feel
28:05seen make
28:05him feel heard and i'm that person for jack she's super hard-headed and like scary bro
28:18i thought you would be the one to save me but now all you ever do is break me
28:24you want to put those somewhere what do you want to do like do you guys want to figure out
28:27how to put
28:28them in your face for me so i can put them in my room just make sure you make them
28:31really pretty
28:32that way i can have them in display on my room for jack to see ah i love the energy
28:38girl
28:40after seeing the clips i don't feel good about our relationship
28:43i haven't even seen anything physical it's just i'm just getting in my head
28:49i'm scared that we're just not growing together and we're like growing apart
28:57i just feel like i've wasted so much time if this is what he's on already
29:09so much time if he were to do something like then great that you came on here because that just
29:26shows
29:27you his true fucking colors i know but it's gonna be so hard for him to see it it's more
29:33of just like
29:34i can't live life without him yes you can you don't have to i want you guys to work out
29:41but i want
29:41you to know that yes you can be without him as well i feel like you need to find cheyenne
29:48like who are you what do you want you can't be like codependent forever
29:57maybe that is the reason behind all of this is that you came here and you're going to just
30:04blossom everything happens for a reason like this might be the best thing that ever happened to you
30:20all right good night guys i can't wait to see all your beautiful faces in the morning
30:38i can't wait to see all your beautiful faces in the morning
30:52what's going on
30:56surprises have been like hard for me and just seeing
31:04i don't know i've seen scarlet's emotional
31:11just like seeing her emotion at like the first bonfire
31:26for just what i saw based off first what it is it like comes as a shock because like i
31:30feel like we
31:31left on you know we left each other in such a good light so
31:39leaves a super unsettling feeling and like emotional roller coaster with me and like just kind of like
31:48scared for like the future all right i'm trying to go to bed it's like why the sun's coming up
31:55i never thought it'd end this way
32:04and this way
32:07right here wait throw it to me
32:14there it is honestly like i feel good like i've processed it the bonfire is now in the past there's
32:21nothing i can do about it and now i need to come out of my shell a little bit with
32:25the guys so
32:27i'm excited for the dates i think we should go on a date do you want to go on a
32:30date i like the pink
32:31yeah i'm a fan of pink a little decent contrast yeah i wanted to ask you if you wanted to
32:37go on a date
32:38with me today yeah i'd love to go on a date yeah i was nervous to ask you yeah well
32:43no uh thanks for
32:45asking me i appreciate it hopefully this one won't be as sad it's the last one no it'll be a
32:51good time
32:51meeting a guy like xavier has just like opened my eyes to all of the possibilities of what like love
32:59should look like what a relationship should look like what a man truly looks like
33:06i'm just like so happy working through all of it i don't know it's crazy i'm actually like really
33:12excited yeah i wonder what it's gonna be today we're uh we're doing another day and i was wondering
33:23if you if you wanted to come with me i would love to go with you yeah let's do it
33:27hey hello would you
33:30want to talk for a second sure i don't want to interrupt your breakfast but i already ate or lunch
33:37there was no food there okay sorry he's nervous so he's so nervous he didn't know what he didn't
33:46uh i feel like we haven't like actually talked a lot but i wanted to talk to you for a
33:51bit so yeah
33:54um what what type of latina are you so my mom's from bolivia my dad's cuban well i i go
33:59to
34:00central america every year i have a house in costa rica but i've always wanted to like go farther
34:05south i i don't i've never been to south america so yeah honestly well i've been to only colombia
34:10but you haven't been to cuba or bolivia oh you gotta go yeah well i i'd love to you know
34:17keep
34:18getting to know you and i know me too honestly yeah well do you want to go on a date
34:23today yeah we
34:24do that all right let's do it
34:42hey guys are we dancing yeah brazilian six a really popular partner dance here in hawaii it is what
34:50became of the forbidden dance the lambada in brazil dancing is just like a part of me so this feels
34:58right at home take her shoulder blade and offer her your hand in marriage easy easy clint has always
35:07just brought the best energy so to spend a day with him i'm really looking forward to it left chick
35:13chick right chick chick like tricking me out try not to move from side to side back with your left
35:19guys forward i'm not gonna lie it started off a little rocky like am i slow i think it's just
35:25like
35:25keeping this cadence once we kept going i think everything like really flowed and it was like really
35:31cute i'm loving the vibes i think this is the perfect way for me and xavier to get closer
35:54i'm loving watching cyd just blossom and she's glowing way too advanced for that right her energy
36:03has shifted xavier is like the perfect person for her to have this connection with coming off of mikey
36:31oh my god this is aerial yoga you look good yeah welcome i've never done aerial yoga i feel like
36:40that's kind of in my wheelhouse my mom's a yoga instructor uh yeah i do yoga a lot in costa
36:47rica
36:47and such so excited to jump in oh and now as one of you starts to breathe in find each
36:54other's breath
36:56as one breathe in the other breathe out so breathe in kind of feel your breath too yeah you're starting
37:03to feel it nice nice that's how we want it feeling somebody else's energy in that type of way i'd
37:10truly just thought that was deep big smiles on both of your faces wow that's the closest me and india
37:16have ever been like connect like touching wise so let's go forward by pushing the fabric down and
37:28make sure that you have spot on the back thigh uh this is
37:34oh
37:36somebody wants to go bad it's been around you ready
37:46oh there we go and let go of the hands and reach for your own foot reach for your own
37:51foot
37:51reach for your own foot reach for your own foot it looks good it looks good guys
38:13oh yeah i've never done it of course i'm super excited because i've grown up with four wheelers all
38:19my life bye bye see you on the other side guys i'm really not into like an intimate vibe
38:26date like i think that going out and doing an activity will just bring my personality out a little
38:31bit more and preston is just super outgoing he's just fun i'm gonna go fast that's what i'm looking for
38:47growl
38:54honestly last night was pretty rough a lot of emotions kind of broke down in the early hours
39:00of the morning but this date going in the water snorkeling was the perfect thing and also sydney
39:04was a great pick to go on the date i needed someone that i could be at peace with and
39:08have some fun
39:11me and carter are together i feel like we're thriving and we're having the time of our life
39:18as long as i got breath in my lungs when the day is done i'm gonna be happy
39:29yeah that was a good time i haven't gone on a date with another guy besides summit in like a
39:35year
39:36i know last night was tough for you yeah i mean the first bonfire like i knew it was going
39:41to be
39:42really hard it's super weird seeing your boyfriend saying like she doesn't like how i'm outgoing and
39:48like she wants to change me and it's like are you even certain about me if you feel like i
39:53want to
39:53change you like because no one wants to feel like their partner wants to change them do you want him
39:58to be something other than i just want him to like be a good boyfriend yeah like you want your
40:04partner to
40:05like love you and accept you for all of you and i don't always feel like that's how he prioritizes
40:10my
40:11needs like if i were to get mad about that and vocalize that to him like he would make me
40:17feel like
40:18i'm being like a baby at some point you have to realize like you are enough though like at what
40:26point
40:27does the breaking point happen because i mean all the disrespect i mean it builds up like no one should
40:33feel like their their partner is like belittling them i i don't understand like why he does it like
40:39i don't know what he gets out of like making me feel bad about myself i know it's it's awkward
40:45i know
40:45it's tough but i mean you're a cool person thank you like obviously i'm glad i got to do this
40:50with you
40:51yeah it's fun oh it all comes back
41:03how's your experience so far are you learning anything like what's the outcome you want from
41:07this i don't know that's a little too deep right okay we don't gotta get no no no it's fair
41:12question
41:12but i want to get to like know other stuff first like why didn't you give me a bracelet
41:17great friend look at my new friend you're gonna be best friends oh um i don't know i think mikey
41:26just kind of looked like just a safe place but that's just like a quick first impression okay what's
41:33your physical type i'm open to everything i don't really go off physical okay yeah yeah i go off vibes
41:39because you can see like the sexiest man on the planet and he's if he's an idiot yeah or a
41:44narcissist
41:44like you know what i'm saying you know you do give off this like mysterious yeah vibe you know
41:51i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad no it's a good thing like you know especially
41:55like guys
41:56always want like what they can't have type thing you know like mysterious is fun i am cool i'm cool
42:02yeah you're very cool very cool you're almost like too cool really too cool yeah you're too cool
42:19last night when you got back from bonfire like obviously you were distraught in a way if that's
42:25the best word i was so emotional now that i'm replaying it back in my head i'm just like
42:30i am so dramatic what was it in the bonfire that triggered you in that way well there's an infidelity
42:37in the relationship and so just being physical with anyone like just took me right back to the way i
42:44like crushed whenever i first found out that he went that far with somebody but
42:52i don't want to see him like end up with somebody else and not be me
42:57is that fair to you it's not fair to me at all but how do i fix that thought you
43:02know think about
43:03what's best for shy right like you and jack came here for a reason so do you feel like you
43:10are truly
43:11happy with them i don't know no i don't feel like we are truly happy like i don't think i
43:17trust him
43:19but it's just because we've been together for so long so it's like that comfort
43:25answer this question for me then what are the benefits like besides the comfort i don't know
43:29what the benefits are this relationship's so it is so toxic i can tell that you deserve the world and
43:36like you deserve someone that's going to respect you in that fashion and like when you open up and
43:40confident you're bubbly and stuff everyone's like yeah look at this hey easier said than done
43:44but i'm trying i know no of course i'm ready to like fully take on the experience and like
43:49you've gotten me out of my shell more than anybody else like i definitely think you'll be
43:53like my person here i've never done anything like this like i think the nicest date i've ever been on
44:10was like a picnic you're fucking hilarious do you feel like our connection like scares you at all
44:27i mean yeah i'll be yeah i'll be honest it's just weird how how easy it is to talk to
44:31you
44:32you know things are moving so fast and i feel like we've known each other forever
44:39at the end of the day i think we both know what our connection is and how it's like different
44:46from
44:46anything else no it is i've never done something like that and it was exciting a whole lot you were
45:08good do you feel like it helped you mentally to just get away get out the house after the bonfire
45:16last night and i don't really think that's the the case when it comes to this type of stuff i
45:21feel
45:21like it's more of a like of like of who i'm spending certain moments with it's just easy when you're
45:28talking to somebody who's like cool i think that's why i'll be chopping it up so much with you because
45:35like i see the i see the opposite because you're not me no at all like if i was dating
45:42myself
45:44that would not work you need somebody that balance you out i feel like a lot of people that end
45:48up
45:48being like compatible like are always kind of opposite in ways to be real with you we both know
45:54what we got going on it's just mad easy to chop it up with you me and india so locked
46:00in so it's like
46:01that connection is like strong because i'm falling for you falling for you
46:08appreciate you
46:17okay so i wanted to ask you a couple questions oh yeah yeah i wanted to ask you a little
46:22bit do a
46:23little digging yeah like in this past year can you think of like a time that gave you the most
46:32joy
46:35okay it was valentine's day i had a galentine's party in my apartment yeah it was just good genuine
46:41vibes and like they brought me so much joy and so much happiness because i was surrounded by like
46:46genuine love at the end of the day i'm happy that you had that community there for you you guys
46:51were
46:51able to enjoy it yeah but notice how the most joyful thing didn't involve my king you know like that's
46:58shitty yeah that's shitty i can't believe like i was just sitting in it and like i was content like
47:03that's not me like i literally settled like i was okay with it that's not okay you want city to
47:07be
47:07the prize exactly i want city to be the prize like i don't think i'm asking for too much you
47:12know
47:14you know i don't think that you are i'm really glad we were able to do this today yeah me
47:18too it was
47:19super fun yeah no this being the third date uh but like the other ones were like they weren't even
47:23dates to me you know but like this was like the first real date yeah so it's just like that
47:27easy
47:27yeah like i'm super comfortable i'm not gonna lie you make it so easy no i like it yeah no
47:34you make
47:34it pretty easy too oh i'm glad okay let's make a toast yeah new beginnings fresh and an official
47:41first date cheers check me out check me out hey that actually looks like really good does it really
47:56yeah savior like makes me re-examine what love should feel like
48:06i should never have to give somebody more than one chance they should get it right the first time
48:11is it smooth is it smooth if i love your hand slowly i love how you ask
48:16yeah now i'm big on this we love that
48:21there's nothing left to do but to keep falling for you
48:39so what do you guys think what like how's it going today it's going good it's good the date was
48:46the dates were good yeah dates were good but i got really set like in my feels last night from
48:51the
48:51bonfire like i was expecting just to see like her like interacting going on a date whatever flirting
48:56and all i saw was just like crying so it was like oh yeah it like kind of shocked me
49:01yeah i didn't
49:02process it till like four in the morning when i was alone in my room and that's when it hit
49:06me
49:08what i'm trying to understand is like when we do end up coming back together it's like
49:12we got to figure out how to clean up these like trust issues and how to clean up i'm trying
49:15to do the
49:15same bro that's real though like she doesn't feel safe in the relationship and it's like how can i
49:21how do i navigate because you feel like you're not doing anything to like let's not have her
49:26mistrust in the past yeah but not now it's like if you can't get over the past like i can't
49:30make
49:30you trust me no matter if i'm honest to you or not right you know right you have to just
49:34let it go
49:34and like like we can't keep going back on it you know it's her that needs to accept that and
49:41also move
49:41on and like i can't i can't force her to do that i mean for me the biggest test that
49:46i've been kind
49:47of experiencing is just like regulating my emotions and just like the ups and downs and like
49:52the emotional roller coasters i just want to figure out how can we move forward in a better light
49:56to ultimately you know leave this island a stronger united couple and go back to san diego
50:02and then the plans after that would be to like you know get engaged or something like that you know
50:12you know i can't explain it exactly thinking like i knew what i was doing
50:25we took a dance class that is so sick you guys want to see our dance
51:08we're dating
51:11like you know we're exploring we're experiencing i'm experiencing new feelings i don't know
51:17i know like i'm on like a high just from like the conversations that we've had um and
51:28it it's a new feeling like everybody keeps telling me i'm glowing i'm just like
51:36i don't know i don't like what are we now like we're like we're still friends
51:42but like friends who like you know could could be something more i don't know i don't know
51:48i agree with everything she just said
51:52ladies tonight is the men of temptation island talent show i need everybody outside please let's go
51:59let's go last night was the bonfire i think morale and vibe was a little down
52:07so tonight we need to get the vibes of our first act of the night ethan come on out ethan
52:42come on
52:49this was probably the best night in the villa honestly everyone was so happy and just like
53:23alive
53:25loser has to kiss somebody
53:31Okay, never have I ever had a threesome.
53:34Come on, come on, come on, come on.
53:36I would, I haven't.
53:38Never have I ever had sex with a married man.
53:42Fuck you!
53:44Never have I ever had sex with multiple people in one day.
53:48I was a whore in college.
53:49That's crazy, I have.
53:50You little freak.
53:51You a big ol' freak.
53:53Never have I ever given a foot job.
53:55Or gotten, or gotten.
53:57Gotten?
53:58Yeah, let's see.
54:00I'm too curious.
54:01No, I wanna know.
54:04Never have I ever wanted to fuck somebody within this house.
54:07Oh, shit.
54:19Guys, Summit has one left.
54:21Never have I ever had sex with a child.
54:23I'm out.
54:24Okay, Summit lost.
54:25Summit lost.
54:26Summit lost.
54:26Summit lost.
54:27I guess losing never have I ever is like a badge of honor, but I don't think it's something
54:33Kaylee or my grandmother would appreciate.
54:36Okay, pick someone, go.
54:37I guess I have to kiss someone.
54:39Baby, the trust is just a man.
54:41Go ahead, kiss, kiss.
54:42Okay.
54:43Let him pick who you want to pick.
54:45Yeah, let's go.
54:46Yeah, let's go.
54:46Yeah, let's go.
54:48Yeah, let's go.
54:52I know you want it.
54:54I kissed Mike.
54:55I got so horny for a second.
54:58Enough conversation, give in to temptation.
55:01We're going in the pool.
55:04I know you want, know you want, know you want it.
55:08You gotta have, gotta have, gotta have it.
55:11It's what you're craving, craving.
55:15Enough conversation, give in to temptation.
55:20I think that Carter might end up in Jack's bed tonight.
55:24It's cold, though.
55:26No, girl.
55:29And then there was two.
55:33Perfect enigma.
55:36Send me a signal.
55:41The connection is all that I crave.
55:45We're going.
55:46Cool.
55:48Heart is screaming, coming close.
55:50Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh.
55:52And I'm dreaming, God knows.
55:54Oh-oh-oh-oh-oh.
55:55I really need ya.
55:57I really want ya.
55:59Everything I've done is talk about you.
56:03Jack can't swim.
56:05He can't swim.
56:06Surprise.
56:08My beautiful temptation.
56:15Is this the bunny juice?
56:17Is this the bunny juice?
56:18Is this the bunny juice?
56:19Yes.
56:19Yes.
56:34You're so dirty.
56:38Erstnening fun.
56:38My beautiful temptation!
56:41My beautifulheart.
56:42You're the jeweilines.
56:48This bunny juice.
56:48Your you're pulling like a curse.
56:51Oh, oh-oo-oh-oh.
56:52Today you're holdingheart.
56:58I've seen
56:59My beautiful temptation
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